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Mastering Anger and Finding Inner Peace

imagine this someone insults you embarrasses you in front of others or spreads lies about you you feel your blood boiling your heart racing but what if I told you none of it actually matters what if you could become so untouchable that no one not even the most toxic people could ever shake your peace the truth is anger is a weapon that people use against you the moment you react they win but today that changes in this video I'll show you nine powerful ways to never get angry or bothered by anyone ever again stay till the end because the last one will completely change how you see the world before we begin make sure to smash that like button and subscribe if you're ready to become unshakable let's dive in one realize that no one controls you unless you allow them let's get one thing straight nobody has the power to make you angry unless you hand them that power think about it the moment someone insults you provokes you or tries to tear you down they are throwing a hook into your emotions the real question is are you going to bite anger isn't something people give you it's something you generate inside yourself no one reaches into your brain and flips a switch that says get mad you do that you take their words their actions and turn them into a personal attack but here's the reality most of the time their words are meaningless noise their insults are just Airwaves bouncing around and their negativity is a reflection of their own misery not yours picture this you're walking down the street and a stranger shouts an insult at you you have two choices one you take it personally get angry let it ruin your day and keep replaying it in your mind letting a total stranger own your emotions or two you laugh shake your head and move on because you know that random person has no power over you unless you allow it here's the truth the moment you react you lose that's exactly what they want they want to see you explode to see you break to feel like they've controlled your emotions but imagine if instead of reacting you stayed completely calm maybe even smirked and walked away they'd be the ones left frustrated not you you must train your mind to recognize when someone is trying to manipulate your emotions the next time someone tries to get under your skin pause for a moment and ask yourself why am I letting them control me why am I giving them the satisfaction of seeing me upset when you shift your mindset from reacting to observing you regain your power anger is an illusion of control but in reality the more you get angry the less control you actually have true strength comes from staying unshaken unaffected and unbothered the moment you master this you become Untouchable and that's when people stop trying to push your butt buttons two people's words are just noises in the air think about this if someone were to walk up to you and start screaming insults in a language you don't understand would it make you angry would you feel hurt no you might be confused maybe even amused but their words wouldn't affect you at all why because those words hold no meaning to you they are nothing more than sounds empty noises is floating in the air now ask yourself why is it any different when someone insults you in a language you do understand the answer because you choose to give those words power you attach meaning to them let them crawl into your mind and allow them to shape your emotions but the truth is no words have power over you unless you allow them to imagine this you're sitting in your room and the TV is is on in the background playing a show you don't like the characters are arguing shouting throwing insults at each other do you sit there and get personally offended do you let their words ruin your mood of course not you simply mute the TV or change the channel that's exactly how you should treat negativity in real life mentally hit the mute button someone is trying to provoke you mute someone is spreading lies about you mute someone is screaming at you desperate for a reaction mute people's insults criticism and negativity are just verbal pollution meaningless noise that only affects you if you let it the next time someone throws words at you instead of reacting take a deep breath and remind yourself this is just air passing through their vocal cords it has nothing to do with me and here's the most powerful part when you stop reacting you strip away their power completely they expect you to get angry to argue to break but when you remain unfazed it confuses them frustrates them they lose and you win the moment you stop taking words personally you become truly free no one can hurt you with their voice unless you hand them the knife so don't instead smile ignore and keep moving forward three the 5-year rule does it even matter let me ask you something what were you angry about 5 years ago can you even remember maybe it was a rude comment someone made an argument with a friend or an embarrassing moment in public at the time it felt huge right but now it's nothing it doesn't affect your life in any way you don't even think about it that's exactly the point when something upsets you stop and ask yourself will this matter in 5 years if the answer is no then why are you letting it steal your peace today think about how much mental energy time and happiness people waste on things that are completely meaningless in the long run a stranger Cuts you off in traffic you spend the next 20 minutes replaying it in your head getting angrier by the second someone disrespects you you carry that resentment for days maybe even weeks but if you zoom out and look at the bigger picture will you even remember these moments years from now here's the brutal truth most things that make you angry today are temporary distractions that have zero impact on your future yet people destroy their peace over them they let a single moment of frustration ruin an entire day or even worse an entire life now imagine if you started applying the 5-year rule every time you felt triggered the moment someone annoys you you pause and ask is this moment worth my peace will it still matter in 5 years if the answer is no you instantly Let It Go you refuse to give your energy to something so small so irrelevant in the grand scheme of Life here's what separates powerful unshakable people from the rest they understand that anger is a trap every second you spend being mad at something insignificant is a second you'll never get back that's time stolen from your happiness your goals your future so the next time something irritates you remember this your emotions are too valuable to be wasted on nonsense save your energy for what truly matters 5 years from now you'll be glad you did for master the art of indifference what if I told you that the most powerful reaction is no reaction at all that the best way to deal with negativity insults and attempts to provoke you is not to fight back not to defend yourself not to explain but to be completely indifferent think about it when someone insults you what do they really want a reaction they want you to get angry argue or defend yourself they feed off your emotional response but what happens if you do nothing if you simply don't care let's take an example imagine a troll on social media furiously typing an insult at you waiting for your reply they want attention validation and most importantly they want to see you break but if you ignore them if you scroll past their comment as if they don't even exist they lose they sit there frustrated realizing that their words had no effect your indifference destroys them this is the secret of truly unshakable people they don't waste time on meaningless battles they refuse to acknowledge negativity because they understand one thing what you ignore loses power if someone is trying to upset you and you act as if they're invisible they no longer have control over you indifference is the Ultimate Weapon because it flips the script completely instead of you being affected the other person is left feeling powerless they wanted you to react but instead they're left questioning themselves they expected a war but you refused to show up to the battlefield that's true dominance here's a challenge for you the next time someone tries to provoke you don't respond don't explain don't argue just look at them like they don't matter and move on watch how it destroys them watch how powerful you feel when you realize that nothing can touch you unless you allow it to this is what true strength looks like calm composed and completely indifferent to negativity when you master this you become Untouchable five control your breathing control your emotions have you ever noticed what happens to your body when you get angry your breath becomes shallow your heart rate spikes your muscles tighten it's as if your body is gearing up for battle but here's something most people don't realize anger isn't just an emotion it's a physical reaction and if you can control what's happening in your body you can control what's happening in your mind think about the last time you got really mad your breathing became rapid and uneven right that's because anger triggers your fight ORF flight response flooding your body with stress hormones but here's the secret if you take control of your breathing you take control of your emotions the next time someone tries to push your buttons before you react do this inhale deeply through your nose for 4 seconds hold that breath for another 4 seconds exhale slowly through your mouth for at least 6 seconds repeat this process three times what happens instantly your body begins to relax your heartbeat slows down your mind clears the anger that was surging through you just moments ago begins to fade why because your breathing tells your brain we are safe there's no real danger here and once your brain believes that it stops flooding your system with stress chemicals this simple breathing technique is one of the most powerful tools you will ever use it's what Elite athletes do before big moments it's what Navy Seals practice in high pressure situations it's what monks have mastered to achieve deep states of calm and you can use it anytime anywhere to instantly shift from Rage to composure imagine if instead of snapping in Anger you paused took a deep breath and regained control instead of reacting emotionally you respond intelligently that's real power that's the difference between someone who is easily manipulated and someone who is unshakable so remember this the next time anger Rises don't let it take over instead breathe deep slow and controlled because when you control your breath you control everything six laugh at the situation make it a joke imagine this you're walking down the street and someone suddenly yells an insult at you most people would feel their blood pressure rise instantly their mind would race with comebacks their fists might even clench but what if instead of getting mad you just laughed what if you looked at them smirked and said that's the best you got boom just like that their power over you is gone see anger thrives on seriousness when you take an insult personally when you see an annoying situation as a real threat you feed the fire but the moment you step back and laugh you completely destroy its control over you you flip the script think about comedians their entire job is to take painful frustrating and even tragic situations and turn them into something funny why because humor is one of the strongest weapons against negativity it disarms it it turns something that could hurt you you into something you can brush off effortlessly picture this you're in an argument and someone is trying their hardest to push your buttons they're insulting you making wild accusations waiting for you to explode but instead of getting mad you just smile maybe you chuckle maybe you shake your head and say wow that's creative now who looks weak who looks like they lost not you when you turn turn anger into humor you break its grip on you you remind yourself that most of the things people say or do don't actually matter you refuse to give them the satisfaction of seeing you react and in the process you make yourself Untouchable so the next time someone tries to drag you into negativity don't take the bait laugh smirk make a joke out of it watch how quickly the situation loses its power watch how much lighter and Freer you feel because the truth is when you don't take things seriously nothing can control you seven see people as emotionally unstable not as enemies what if I told you that most of the people who try to make you angry aren't actually against you they're just emotionally unstable that the person who insults you disrespects you or tries to bring you down isn't powerful at all they're just a walking storm of insecurity frustration and misery think about it happy successful and emotionally strong people don't go around trying to make others feel bad when was the last time a truly fulfilled person wasted their energy on tearing someone down it never happens the only people who try to hurt others are the ones who are already suffering inside their negativity is a reflection of their own internal chaos now let let's put this into perspective imagine a baby throwing a tantrum they're screaming crying kicking and losing control over something completely trivial do you get angry do you scream back number because you understand that they don't know any better their emotions are out of control and they don't have the mental strength to handle them now what if I told you that's exactly how you should see negative people not as threats but as emotional children their insults just desperate cries for attention their rudess a reflection of their inner turmoil their attempt to upset you just proof that they lack emotional control would you let a crying baby ruin your day of course not so why let an emotionally unstable person do it the moment you stop taking their behavior personally and start seeing them as mentally unbalanced rather than powerful you completely strip them of their control over you here's what I want you to do the next time someone tries to provoke you instead of getting angry look at them as if they're a child having a meltdown pity them feel sorry for them recognize that their attack on you is really just a reflection of their own suffering and then walk away stay calm let them drown in their own negativity while you remain untouchable when you master this mindset you will never be truly bothered by anyone again because you'll understand one of life's greatest secrets people don't hurt you because they're strong they try to hurt you because they're weak eight train yourself to be unshakable Like a Warrior Imagine stepping onto a battlefield where your enemy isn't another person it's your own emotions every time you lose your temper every time you react in Anger it's like losing a fight and the more you lose the weaker you become but what if instead you trained yourself to be Untouchable what if you developed such Ironclad mental discipline that no insult no provocation and no negativity could shake you this is how Warriors are made True strength isn't about attacking others it's about mastering yourself a warrior doesn't react to every little challenge a warrior doesn't Flinch when provoked a warrior stands firm calm and controlled no matter what chaos surrounds them now let's turn this into a challenge a test of your mental strength starting today go one full day without reacting emotionally to anything no matter what happens someone cuts you off in traffic a coworker annoys you a friend says something irritating stay silent stay calm and let it pass just one day once you complete that push it further try two days then three then a full week each day that you hold your ground your emotional strength will grow you'll start to notice something incredible things that used to trigger you no longer have an effect people who once had the power to make you angry suddenly seems small weak and unimportant you become the one in control this is how the strongest Minds in history operated think of the greatest warriors leaders and thinkers Marcus aelius Bruce Lee Sun Sue they didn't waste their energy on Petty emotions they trained themselves to rise above the noise to remain calm While others lost control and because of that they dominated every battle field both external and internal so I challenge you start start today train your mind like a warrior test your discipline see how long you can go without breaking without reacting without letting anyone control you the stronger your self-control becomes the more Unstoppable you will be because in the end the person who stays calm in the storm is always the most powerful one in the room nine accept this one truth nothing matters unless you you decide it does there is one ultimate truth that once you fully accept it will make you unshakable nothing in life has power over you unless you give it permission think about it people will talk they will gossip insult criticize and try to provoke you it's just what they do the world is full of negativity and no matter how hard you try you can't stop people from being who they are but here's the real question are you going to let them steal your peace imagine you're holding a $100 bill someone comes up and says that's just a worthless piece of paper do you throw it away of course not because you know its value it doesn't matter what they say it's still worth $100 now apply that to yourself someone insults you someone tries to bring you down so what does their opinion change your value no just like that $100 bill you are worth exactly what you were before they opened their mouth unless you decide to believe them unless you give them the power to control how you feel most people live their entire lives reacting to the world they get angry over things that don't matter they let meaningless opinions shape their emotions but here's the truth life is too short for that think about this If today was your your last day on Earth would you waste it being angry would you waste it worrying about what someone else thinks of you or would you spend it enjoying every second protecting your peace and living fully you cannot control what others say or do but you can control what you give importance to and the secret to never being bothered again is simple stop making small things matter if someone wants to waste their energy on negativity let them that's their problem not yours your peace your happiness your life it's all in your hands so the next time someone tries to pull you into their drama pause ask yourself does this really matter will this affect my life in a meaningful way will I even remember this in a month a year 5 years if the answer is no Let It Go Walk Away smile and keep living on your own terms because in the end the most powerful person in the world is the one who chooses peace over anger every single time now that you know the secret to becoming Untouchable it's time to put it into action you've just unlocked the blueprint to unshakable mental strength you now know how to rise above negativity ignore the noise and protect your peace like never before but here's the real test knowledge is useless without action which of these nine lessons hit you the hardest which one made you stop and think I need to apply this in my life right now I want to hear from you drop a comment below and tell me which one resonated with you the most and if this video gave you even a fraction of value smash that like button so more people can find this message and of course subscribe because I have even more powerful content coming your way lessons that will push you challenge you and transform the way you think remember this your peace is your power the moment you stop letting others control your emotions you become Unstoppable stay strong stay unshakable and I'll see you in the next video