Seduction is not the same as manipulation. If you don't like yourself, no one else will like you. It doesn't matter how many people watch you or what they think about you. It matters what you think about yourself and what you do when you are with yourself. Whatever you need to do to feel more confident, do it. Ah, yes, that's a small disclaimer. It just means that if you're listening to this podcast, you 're already hot. I mean, it doesn't matter if you're a baby, a masculine baby, a non- binary baby. You look delicious. You look delicious. You look delicious. Hello beautiful, wonderful, surprising little thing from Curinea. I tell you the most magnificent, radiant, incredible thing that there is in the whole day today. How are you my love? Good wonderful, surprising, curvy, eloquent, bad. I'm not interested, I'm not interested because right now we're listening to this wonderful podcast, your favorite podcast in the history of podcasts. And we're just here to reinforce this mystical connection between you and me, my love, my life, my everything, my divine treasure. Today's episode I want to be a girl boss move, you know what I mean? Because this rich podcast has long talked about spirituality, growing up, habits, your potential, and not comparing yourself in a very seductive and mama-like way. And all the time they ask me, "Hey, Dani, how do you manage to be so hot? How do you manage to seduce me like that in front of the camera?" How can that be, Daniela? As? Today I'm going to teach you how to seduce, my love, but seduce in a real way, you know? We're not going to manipulate anyone, we're not going to use your little tricks, we're going to use psychology, real psychology, my love, because there's a reason I won the race. And if you're here wondering, "Okay, who the [ __ ] is this [ __ ], why would I listen to her?" I mean, it's okay that you know how to seduce me in front of the camera and that you're very pretty, but dude, who are you? It's perfectly fine to know where you're getting your information from, especially in an age as digitalized as today's internet. That being said, I graduated with honors from my psychology degree in 2023 at just 21 years old. I have certifications in coaching and neurolinguistic programming. I am getting certified in spirituality. Oh my god, it's law. And I'm an artist, I make music. I'm a mommy. Yes, but aside from being pretty, I have a brain, and that's what I love to do with this podcast: show you all my knowledge and pass it on to you in the most delicious, mama-like, powerful way possible, because you, my love, are delicious. Oh, how epic. It's just that I'm more surprised every day. I'm Leo, it shows. Not even [ __ ]. I am very happy. I am a Leo with a Scorpio moon and ascendant. I'm going to start by saying something that I feel is obvious at this point if you listen to the podcast regularly, okay? But for new people, Hello, my love. Thank you for being here. Step number one, confidence and seduction and the art of being able to seduce people starts with you. Start with your internal state. Seduction begins with you, not with them. Seduction begins with you, not with the person you want to seduce. Seduction starts with you, not with whatever or whoever you're trying to attract into your life , you know what I mean? If you don't like yourself, no one else will like you. Let's do a practical exercise. If you want, make a list of things you like about yourself. Make a list of things you like about yourself, things you admire about yourself, things you would say, "Wow, what an amazing mama, Carolina tells it." Exactly, exactly. Second point, your verbal language speaks more than 1000 words. Most people don't seduce with what they say, but rather with how they feel while they say it, such as how the other person is understanding your state of mind while you are saying something. Posture is important, shoulders back, chest out, keep saying I'm a hottie. Back straight, shoulders relaxed, eye contact, but not eye contact like that, you know? As firm, but eye contact. Maintain eye contact with the person. Don't break eye contact because that lets the other person know you're giving them your attention. The voice has to be slow and calm. If we are rushing to say everything we have to say, that is not seductive. That's giving off like a hurry up, hurry up, hurry up, I have to get this energy. You understand me? It is vibrating from lack, my love. You have to speak relaxed, like a calm person, confident in their state of mind, calm and confident in the person they are. Obviously this applies to everything except him. Hello beautiful thing, wonderful, amazing, do you understand me? Exact. Marvelous. Another of my powerful tips is silence with presence. What do I mean by this? Pause when you speak. I don't know when the art of the word, the art of oratory, was lost. Above all, I feel that now with social media, oh my god, surprise, Dani is talking [ __ ] about social media again. For example, everyone has DH now, right? Yeah. because they are overstimulated, they see new information every 2 seconds on their cell phone, whatever. I'm not going to get into that right now because I'm on a different wavelength, but we've gotten used to the fact that one word has to come after the other. If there's no break in that word, it's making me anxious, you, make pauses. Pause because you are a person who is sure of what you are saying. And if you're confident in what you're saying, with the confidence with which you want to say it, you know you have people's attention. And if you know you have people's attention, you wouldn't delay taking a break, you wouldn't have to rush to take a break, you know? You wouldn't be worried about being late. There it is. I was losing my mind, but I still looked amazing doing it. It's in the pauses, it's in the tone of voice, it's in the eye contact, it's in the fact that I feel really good about how I look. That brings me to my next point. Please be careful, please be careful with everything that has to do with your nonverbal language. Take care of your smile, take care of your appearance, take care of your hair, take care of your beautiful, wonderful eyes, Dani, I mean, if I don't fully meet all the standards that society has imposed on us, I'm not telling you to meet a real standard, I'm telling you to feel good about how you look. I'm telling you to feel very hot about how you look. If that means you have to put on eyeliner, if that means you put on your favorite lipstick, if that means you just moisturized your face that day or moisturized your hair that day, or put on perfume that day, then you know that people feel that presence. Whatever you need to do to feel more confident, do it. Okay, no problem, it's okay because you deserve it. The third point here is that seduction is not the same as manipulation. Please, let's get tattoos. That in the skull. Thank you so much. Seduction is emotional coherence. When what you say, do, and think are aligned, you become an irresistible person. Irresistible. Why am I telling you this? Because inconsistency smells of insecurity and coherence smells of security, magnetism, confidence. What do I mean by this? If you say it all the time, and this happens more often than you'd expect among the drinks that are part of the community of this rich podcast, but I don't judge you, I accept my love, because I love you. If you say all the time, I don't chase, I attract. I'm like a magnet that attracts everything that's good, but you check every 8 seconds and they've already seen your story. There is no coherence there, my love. And that's what it feels like. That's what it feels like. All those things you do behind closed doors are felt. So you, it's not that I'm a super confident person in front of people, but when I'm alone I really talk to myself super in front of my own eyes, I constantly check if people have given me validation. All of that is felt. Take care of your actions. Just like you would with 1000 people in the same room as you watching you. Observe yourself. Realize that it doesn't matter how many people look at you or what they think about you, what matters is what you think about yourself and what you do when you're with yourself, because that is transmitted in an energy, my love. Which brings me to my next point, which I think is a bit obvious: take care of your energy. Take care of your energy. Start meditating, do the internal work of building your traumas. Why is this so important, Daniela, to seduce someone? No, if you are not a person who feels confident in your being, and here I want to put a lot of emphasis on your being. You are a being who has limiting beliefs and one of those limiting beliefs may be, I am not pretty enough, I am not interesting enough. If you continue to believe that and you are only trying to manipulate him in the public eye with tricks like, yes, I'm going to do the effect of looking at the person in the eyes and then the mouth and then the eyes, that's what it feels like, my love. A person who is confident in their being, their soul, their essence, has no reason to pretend, they simply are, they simply exist. Take care of your energy, take care of who you associate with, because possibly when you're about to transcend and you're about to say, "You know what? I love who I am, I'm going to go to therapy, I'm going to do everything." Just then comes the person who says, "Oh, but come down to earth. Oh, that does n't look so good on you. Oh, you know what? It's just that you're too rich to tolerate [ __ ]. You're too rich to tolerate people who don't support your new version. You're too rich to tolerate [ __ ]. Basically, the point is, take care of your energy, take care of your rich energy, take care of your mindset, take care of your rich mindset, take care of yourself on an energetic level because all of that is transmitted to people, even then, whether you believe me or not. The last point is that mystery isn't silent, it's just selective presence. Yes. It's not about hiding absolutely all the parts of TIC that you haven't worked on yet. It's about giving them to people who earn it. It's about taking those vulnerabilities you have, those insecurities, those parts of you that maybe don't give you that much of an ego boost, which in the end is what we 're not trying to do, my love. It's about grabbing all those parts and learning how to take back the power of them. How? By telling them. You can tell them, you can talk openly about your insecurities. What is it that makes a person seem so confident when they know what their weaknesses are and aren't ashamed of them? They share them because they know they're working on them. Dani, I mean, my crush, whom I've been seeing for two days, I have to... No, no, no, my love. The mystery that lies in those insecurities and vulnerabilities holds a beauty, a beauty that you have to share with people who earn it. Those moments of vulnerability, when you know you can be vulnerable like that with someone, is when you've truly destroyed all those layers, that external mask that people sometimes show. And that's when you become a completely magnetic person, completely attractive, seductive. Wow, people can't get enough of me. No, because you're super lazy. And that will happen when you realize it. Always respond with intention, not on impulse. Show layers, not everything at once. And always remember that what you give... It's easy to value it less. And this isn't a game, it 's a principle. If I tell you, "I have these glasses, I have these awesome glasses, hey, I'll give them to you, here, here, here the glasses. You might say, "Wow, that's cool, Dani gave me his glasses." But there's not going to be any kind of, you know? No, you didn't have to make any effort for me to give you these glasses. Oh, oh, how easy, Dani probably gives glasses to everyone. Okay. If I tell you, "Hey, I'm going to have a contest for the podcast babies, and the podcast babies are going to have to submit an essay with all their journaling pages and their entire experience with the podcast, their awakening, and their, and when they do, we're going to narrow it down from a selection panel of 3,000 babies to 200 babies. We're going to have interviews with each of them, and we're going to choose a winner so that I can give them these lenses. That's when you put in the work, you're going to appreciate what I give you more. And I'm not referring to anything specific, I'm referring to different layers of your being, different moments of vulnerability, different moments of sharing physical moments, for example. And this, in the end, uh, so as not to make it controversial, because I know that there are many people who think differently and nobody is right, they 're just different perspectives on life. I just want you to start valuing your lenses. I just want you to say, "Okay, you know what? And if you want to give someone your glasses just like that, just give them your glasses , then nothing will happen. But remember that there is beauty in the mystery of seduction. I always love talking about these topics because my perspective on them has changed a lot over the years. I feel like because now I've finally come around, I've understood myself, I've healed my issues with my father and my mother and all the But I really appreciate the beauty that there is in people who learn to see themselves as they are. You are a beautiful being who needs absolutely nothing, just your peace of mind, just your tranquility and anything that doesn't give you peace of mind, isn't worth it. Why am I telling you this in a chapter on seduction? Because you also have to learn to discern why you're watching this type of content or for whom. If it's for you, I congratulate you, my love. Empowered, magnificent baby, I love you. If it's because you want to like that disgusting jerk who takes 3 months to answer your messages. I love you, my love, I don't judge you, but I invite you to listen to all the episodes of this rich podcast. Many, many. Well, we'll do an episode talking about that topic later. I wanted to thank you from the bottom of my heart for all the love you give me, honestly, all the love you send me. There are so many beautiful messages coming to my Instagram, to the podcast's Instagram, and I wanted to take this opportunity to thank you all for the love you've given me. Believe me, it didn't go unnoticed. It's like a hug to my little heart and I send you a hug to your little heart too. Oh, Daniela Simp. I love Daniela sentimental. Out of nowhere I'm still a Rockstar. By the way, if you want to follow me to learn more about my music, my creative and artistic projects, @danisayan, or if you want to follow the podcast on Instagram, @starricapodcast. And nothing, my love, you deserve today always. I'm the best of the best of the best, of the best, of the best, of the best, of the best, of the best. I love you. You look delicious. Wow.