[Applause] let me tell you something profound your life is a precious gift a treasure beyond measure but like any treasure it must be protected there are aspects of your life my dear friends that you must guard with unwavering vigilance and today we will explore five things you should never share with anyone these are the keys to preserving your integrity safeguarding your dreams and ensuring your success now leaning close because what I'm about to share with you is not just information is revelation it's not just knowledge it's wisdom and wisdom my friends is the currency of greatness your dreams and Visions this thing you must protect the whole cause C your dreams and Visions your dreams are the blueprint of your destiny they are the seeds of your future plant it deep within the soil of your soul but here's the truth that many people don't understand not everyone deserves to know your dreams why are you asked because your dreams are fragile in their infancy they need nurturing protection and the right environment to grow when you share your dreams prematurely you expose them to the harsh Winds of criticism doubt and negativity now imagine for a moment that you have a seed of the rarest most beautiful flower in the world would you plant that seed in dry rocky soil would you expose it to scorching heat before it has even sprouted of course not you would carefully nurture it provide it with the right conditions and protect it until it's strong enough to withstand the elements dreams without that rare flower they are unique to you a gift from the Creator himself when you share them too soon you risk having them trampled by the feet of those who don't understand or Worse those who are jealous of your potential you remember a young man who came to me eyes bright with ambition he told me of his dream to revolutionize education in his country it was a beautiful Vision one that could change countless lives but he made the mistake of sharing it with everyone he met no his enthusiasm was met with skepticism his ideas ridiculed his passion dimmed by the constant barrage of realistic advice don't make that mistake my friends nurture your dreams in the fertile soil of your own mind water them with your determination let them grow strong roots before you expose them to the world remember the Mighty Oak doesn't announce its presence when it's just an aor grow silently steadily until one day it stands tall unshakable for all to see your personal struggles the second thing you must guard closely is your personal struggles now what some of you are thinking but isn't it good to open up to be vulnerable and yes there is a time and place for vulnerability put me well your personal struggles are not for public consumption in this age of oversharing we've lost the art of discretion we've forgotten the power of privacy your struggles your battles your moments of weakness these are sacred they are the forge in which your character is shaped the fire that refines your spirit when you broadcast your struggles to the world you invite unnecessary opinions judgments and sometimes exploitation not everyone who listens to your problems has your best interests at heart some may use your vulnerabilities against you Others May offer misguided advice and many will simply not understand the depth of your experience moreover constantly talking about your problems can reinforce them in your mind it can make them seem bigger than they are more insurmountable than they need to be instead of finding Solutions you find yourself stuck in a loop of complaint and self-pity once's new woman who was going through a difficult divorce in her pain she shared every detail with anyone who would listen soon her personal life became public gossip people took sides of her unsolicited advice and some even took advantage of her vulnerable state it should have been a private process of healing and growth became a public spectacle that only added to her distress learn from her mistake my friends be selective about whom you share your struggles with Choose Wisely a trusted Mentor a close friend a professional counselor these are the people who can offer genuine support and guidance remember your struggles are part of your journey not your destination they are the chapters of your story that are still being written don't let the world read your unfinished draft wait until you've overcome until you've learned the lesson until you've grown through the experience and only then share your story as a testimony of Triumph as an inspiration to others who may be facing similar challenges fin or financial the third thing you must keep close to your chess is your financial status money my friends is a tool not a trophy it's a means to an end not the end itself but in our world money has taken on a significance far beyond its true value it's become a measure of what a symbol of success a source of envy and judgment when you openly share your financial status you open yourself up to a world of complications if you're doing well financially you may attract the wrong kind of attention people may start to see you differently not for who you are but for what you have you may find your yourself surrounded by fake friends and opportunists people who are interested in your wallet rather than your character on the other hand if you're struggling financially sharing this information can lead to unnecessary stress and judgment people may start to question your abilities your work ethic or your decisions they may offer unsolicited advice or Worse take advantage of your situation I remember a young entrepreneur who had just ured a s significant investment for his startup in his excitement he shared the news with everyone even posting about it online soon he was inundated with requests for loans investment opportunities and can't miss business proposals people who had never given him the time of day suddenly became his best friends the pressure and distraction nearly derailed his business before it had even properly started your financial journey is your own it's a person matter between you your family and your financial advisers it's not for public knowledge or discussion whether you're a millionaire or struggling to make ends meet keep that information private instead of focusing on the numbers in your bank account focus on developing Financial wisdom learn to manage your resources wisely to invest in your future to give generously but discreetly remember true wealth is not a about how much you have but how well you use what you have in the words of Li wealth make many friends Baba PO is separated from his neighbor don't let your financial status Define your relationships or your self-worth keep it private and let your character not your bank balance be the measure of your success your next big move the fourth thing you must protect fiercely is your next big move in The Game of Life strategy is everything and a key part of strategy is the element of surprise when you broadcast your next move to the world you lose that strategic Advantage think about it in ch the grand Masters don't announce their strategies before making a move in business companies don't reveal their expansion plans until they're ready to execute in sports teams don't share their playbook with their opponents why because knowledge is power and premature sharing of that knowledge can weaken your position when you share your next big move before you're ready you give others the opportunity to interfere to compete or to discourage you you also put unnecessary pressure on yourself once you've announced your plans you feel obligated to follow through even if circumstances change or better opportunities arise I once mentored a brilliant young woman who had plans to launch AAL Health app she was so excited about her idea that she couldn't help but share it with everyone she met she talked about it at networking events shared details on her blog even discussed it with potential competitors by the time she was ready to launch she found that someone else had beaten her to Market with a similar product premature sharing had Coster the first move Advantage it make the same mistake keep your plans close to your chest work on them in silence prit them in private let your actions speak louder than your words there's a power and quiet preparation in the hushed moments of planning and strategizing remember yor say love silence it thrives in the quiet determination of a focused mind your next big move should be like a thunder clap sudden powerful and impossible possible to ignore don't let it be a mere whisper lost in the noise of premature announcement this doesn't mean you should never seek advice or input by all means consult with trusted mentors seek guidance from experts in your field but be selective about what you share and with whom choose your confidence wisely and always maintain an element of mystery about your future plans in the words of the ancient proverb even a four who keeps silent is considered wise so be wise my friends keep your next big move a secret until you're ready to unleash it upon the world let your success be your announcement your innermost fears every Fifth and final thing you must guard with all your might is your innermost fears your fears my friends are like a map of your vulnerabilities they Point directly to the areas where you can be most easily manipulated discouraged or defeated and in this world not everyone has your best interests at heart when you openly share your deepest fears you're essentially handing over the keys to your psychological Kingdom you're giving others the power to influence your decisions to shake your confidence to steer you away from your true path now don't misunderstand me I'm not saying you should never acknowledge your fears self-awareness is crucial for personal growth but there's a vast difference between acknowledging your fears to yourself or a trusted Confidant and broadcasting them To The World At Large your fears are deeply personal they are often rooted in your past experiences your upbringing your unique perspective on the world when you share them indiscriminately you invite misunderstanding and misinterpretation people who haven't walk in your shoes May dismiss your fears as irrational or trivial others may use this knowledge to manipulate you consciously or unconsciously I once knew a talented artist who was afraid of public speaking he shared this fear openly thinking it would help him overcome it instead well-meaning friends and family members constantly tried to push him into speaking engagements thinking they were helping him face his fear that constant pressure only intensified his anxiety nearly causing him to abandon his art altogether your fears are not for public consumption or debate there are personal challenges for you to overcome in your own time in your own way when you keep your fears private you maintain control over your growth process we can work on overcoming them without the added pressure of public expectation or judgment however when you refrain from voicing your fears you prevent them from gaining more power than they deserve remember what you focus on expans when you constantly talk about your fears you're giving them center stage in your life you're feeding them with your attention and energy instead F of un C ating courage courage my friends is not the absence of fear but the triumph over it is the quiet resolve to move forward despite the trembling your heart is the silent determination to grow to challenge yourself to become more than you were yesterday in the privacy of your own mind acknowledge your fears face them but stand them but don't let them Define you and certainly don't let them become public knowledge your journey of overcoming fears a sacred one it's a personal battle that when one will become a testimony of your strength and resilience words of the wise the fear of man brings a snare but whoever trusts in the Lord shall be safe put your trust in something bigger than your fears believe in your potential in your ability to grow and overcome let that belief be louder than your fears reference these five thing your dreams and Visions your personal struggles your financial status your next big move and your innermost fears these are the sacred Treasures of your life guard them well protect them fiercely for in doing so you are not just keeping secrets you're preserving your power maintaining your strategic advantage and ensuring your ability to grow and Ed on your own terms now I want to imagine for a moment imagine a life where you're in full control of your narrative where your dreams are nurtured in the fertile soil of your own determination untainted by the doubts of others where your struggles are faced with quiet dignity your growth could hampered by unnecessary opinions where your financial journey is your own free from the judgments and expectations of others where your next move comes as a powerful surprise catching the world of God with your Brilliance where your fears are faced in private overcome through your own courage and resolve that life my friends is within your grasp it starts with understanding the power privacy the strength in Silence the wisdom in discretion it begins with recognizing that not everything needs to be shared that there is immense power in what you choose to keep to yourself this isn't a about isolation it's not about building walls or shutting yourself off from the world no this about boundaries it's about understanding that you have the right indeed the responsibility to protect the most valuable aspects of your life think of yourself as the curator of your own life's Museum you decide what goes on display and what remains in the vault you choose what to share with the general public and what to reserve for for special exhibitions you have the power to control The Narrative of your life in this age of constant connectivity and oversharing practicing discretion is a revolutionary act it's a declaration of self-respect a statement that you value yourself and your journey enough to keep certain things secret oh my friends I challenge you today I challenge you to become the guardian of your own potential to be the protector of your dreams the keeper of your struggles the steward of your resources the master of your moves and the Conqueror of your fears R This Day Forward make a commitment to yourself a commitment to honor the sacredness of your personal Journey a commitment to Value privacy to practice discretion to understand that not everything needs to be shared remember the most powerful Transformations often happen inight Ence the seed breaks open underground hidden from view before the plant pushes through the soil the butterfly under goes this miraculous metamorphisis within the privacy of its cocoon your own growth your own transformation deserves the same respect the same protection you leave here today carry with you this wisdom let it guide your interactions your decisions your way of moving through the world let it Empower you to take control of your narrative to shape your life on your own terms you are the author of your life story you decide what goes on each page what remains in the draft and what never makes it to print exercise that power wisely use it to craft a life of purpose of Integrity of true success El you go for remember your life is your message to the world make sure it's inspiring make sure it's authentic make sure it's yours the world is waiting for you my friends is waiting for the unique gift that only you can give so guard your Treasures well nurture them in private and when the time is right unleash them upon the world with all the force of your conviction and the power of your purpose let let me tell you something profound the journey doesn't end here oh no my friends this is just the beginning the beginning of a life lived with intention with purpose with the kind of wisdom that transforms not just your own life but the lives of those around you you see when you guard these five Treasures your dreams your struggles your finances your next move and your fears you're not just protecting yourself you're preserving your power to impact the world in ways you can't even imagine yet think about it every great achievement in history every world changing event mention every revolutionary idea they all started as a carefully guarded seed in someone's mind they were nurtured in private protected from the harsh Winds of criticism and doubt until they were strong enough to withstand any storm the K not enough to Simply guard these Treasures you must also cultivate them you must turn to them with the care of a master Gardner nurturing them with your time your energy your unwavering belief your dreams we fed them with constant learning every day seek out knowledge that brings you closer to your vision read books attend seminars surround yourself with people who inspire you to reach higher your dreams are living things my friends they need nourishment the struggles face them with courage but also with wisdom seek Solutions not sympathy when you encounter an obstacle don't broadcast it to the world instead see it as an opportunity to grow stronger to become more resilient remember diamonds are formed Under Pressure your struggles are shaping you into something magnificent your finances manage them with disciplin and foresight don't be swayed by the flashy Lifestyles you see around you true wealth is built quietly steadily through wise decisions and delay gratification learn about investing about creating multip streams of income your financial future is in your hands and it's too important to be left to chance your next move plan it meticulously research strategize consider all angles but do it in silence let your actions speak louder than your words when you move move move with such precision and power that the world has no choice but to take notice your fears ah my friends your fears are perhaps your greatest teachers don't run from them but don't parade them either face them in The Quiet Moments of your day challenge them question them are they based on reality or are they merely Shadows casted by your doubts remember courage is not the absence of fear by the triumph over it sh I want you to understand something crucial this wisdom I'm sharing with you it's not just about personal success it's about becoming a person of influence of Force for good in this world you see when you guard these five Treasures when you cultivate them with care and intention you're not just changing your own life you're positioning yourself to change the world around you you're becoming the kind of person who leads by example who inspires others not through words alone but through the power of a life well-lived imagine for a moment the impact you could have if you mastered this wisdom imagine the respect you would command not because you demand it but because you've earned it through your integrity your discretion your quiet strength you will become a safe haven for others a person of trust in a world that often lacks it people will be drawn to you not for what you could give them materially but for the wisdom you embody the strength you exude your success would speak for itself without you having to say a word and when you do speak people would listen because they know your words are backed by a life of purpose and intention this my friends is true influence this is true leadership not about titles or positions it's about becoming the kind of person others naturally want to follow to emulate let me warn you this path is not an easy one in a world that celebrates oversharing that glorifies instant gratification that constantly pushes you to reveal everything about yourself choosing discretion can feel like swimming against the tide there will be times when you'll be tempted to share your dreams prematurely to broadcast your struggles for sympathy to fra your finances for validation to announce your moves for attention to voice your fears for comfort those moments remember your power lies then your ability to choose to choose wisdom over impulse to choose long-term growth over short-term gratification to choose Integrity over popularity every time you make that choice you're not just guarding your Treasures you're building your character you're strengthening your resolve you're becoming more of Who You Were Meant To Be H's the beautiful Paradox the more you guard these five Treasures the more you'll have to give to the world because you're not depleting your resources through careless sharing you're amplifying them through careful cultivation your dreams not private will become so compelling that they Inspire others to dream bigger your way of handling struggles with quiet dignity will give others the courage to face their own challenges your financial wisdom applied consistently over time we'll position you to be a blessing to others your strategic moves executed with Precision with open doors not just for you but for those around you your conquered fears will become a testament to what's possible encouraging others to push past their own limitations this my friends is the power of strategic silence wise discretion it's not about hiding or being secretive it's about understanding the value of what you possess and treating it with the respect it deserves it's about recognizing that not everything needs to be shared that there's strength in holding back in keeping something sacred in this age of constant noise of incessant chatter silence becomes a superpower the ability to keep your own counsel to move with purpose rather than Fan Fair to grow without needing constant validation these are the Hallmarks of a truly empowered individual I challenge you today challenge you to become the master of your own narrative to be the guardian of your potential to be the wise Steward of your life's most precious Treasures from this day forward make a commitment to yourself a commitment to honor the sacredness of your personal Journey a commitment to Value privacy to practice discretion to understand that your power often lies in what you choose not to share remember the most profound Transformations often happen in Silence the sea breaks open underground hidden from view before the plant pushes through the soil the butterfly under goes Its miraculous metamorphosis within the pr of its cocon your own growth your own transformation deserves the same respect the same protection As you move forward from this moment carry this wisdom with you let it guide your interactions your decisions your way of moving through the world let it Empower you to take control of your narrative to shape your life on your own terms if you are the author of your life story you decide what goes on each page what remains in the draft and what never makes it to print exercise that power wisely use it to craft a life of purpose of Integrity of true success dra them as you go for remember your life is your message to the world make sure it's authentic make sure it's yours the world is waiting for you my friends it's waiting for the unique gift that only you can give so guard your Treasures well nurture them in private and when the time is right unleash them upon the world with all the force of your conviction and the power of your purpose new future is bright your potential is Limitless and your greatest chapters are yet to be written go for and write them well the pen is in your hand the story is yours to tell remember the story you're writing isn't just for you it's for every life you'll touch every heart you inspire every mind you open to new possibilities by guarding your Treasures by cultivating them with care you're not just building your owner you're creating a legacy think about the great men and women throughout history have changed the world they didn't do it by sharing every thought every plan every fear they did it by focusing intensely on their purpose by guarding their Vision until it was ready to be unveiled to the world you have that same potential within you you have the power to be a force for good to leave an indelible mark on this world but it starts with understanding the value of what you possess and treating it with the reverence it deserves also go forth from here with A New Perspective see your dreams your struggles your resources your strategies and even your fears as the raw materials from which you will craft a life of significance guard them nurture them and use them wisely are you patient with yourself Rome wasn't built in a day and neither is a life of purpose and impact every day with every choice you make you're either moving closer to your potential or further away from it Choose Wisely choose with intention don't remember my friends success leaves Clues look at the lives of those who have made a real difference in the world you'll find that they all share this common trait they understood the power of discretion the strength in Silence the wisdom in waiting for the right moment you are not just anyone you are a unique Creation with a specific Purpose with gifts that only you can give to the world honor that uniqueness by guarding it fiercely by nurturing it consistently by unleashing it strategically know doesn't need another copy another Echo the world needs your voice your vision your values but it needs them in their fullest most developed form and that development happens in The Quiet Moments in the Unseen hours in the private victories that no one else Witnesses so Embrace this wisdom let it sip into your bones let it become a part of who you are let it guide you in the small decisions and the big ones let it be the foundation upon which you build a life of true significance as you do watch an amazement as your life begins to take on New Dimensions of meaning and purpose watch as your influence grows not through self-promotion but through the undeniable power of a life well- lived without standing at the threshold of greatness my friends the path before you is clear guard your Treasures nurture your potential and when the time is right step into your destiny with confidence with purpose with the unshakable knowledge that you are prepared for this moment road is waiting your time is now go forth and Shine for in your light others will find their way your journey of impact and influence begins today with this commitment to wisdom to discretion to purposeful living remember you are not just living for today you are building for tomorrow every choice you make every secret you keep every struggle you overcome in private it's all part of a greater story a story of Triumph of purpose of a life write that story well my friends write it with courage with wisdom with the kind of intentionality that changes not just your life but the lives of generations to come meazy awaits your impact is imminent Your Time Is Now forth and make your mark on the world not with noise but with substance not with haste but with purpose not with fear but with unwavering faith in the unique gift that only only you can give