what makes a woman feel loved it is very easy to say I love you you are my whatever the sugar in my tea right the pen in my notebook and all the stuffs it's very easy to say but you have to learn how there's a way to love a woman and a man must understand that there's a way to love a woman so I want to teach on that is that okay now guys are you with me there's a way to what love it the issue is that you are loving her your way not the way she wants to be loved when you love a woman your way you think you have done all you should do when you provide and protect but things have changed an average woman that is getting married now already has our own Finance sorted you understand what I'm saying in fact some of them already have their houses paying their rent so you are not the one bringing her shelter she's covered you are not the one bringing her food she ears more than you it's not about the designers you want to buy for her she buys for herself so how can she be loved and don't ever forget this when she feels that love she blossoms she will be many things to you more than what you can imagine regardless of whether she's introverted or extroverted in fact you must learn how to be skillful in bringing the child in her house there is no Dimension you desire to see in your spouse as a woman that is not there you must be skillful in bringing it out create the atmosphere for her to Blossom are you with me here so one of the ways women feel loved is when they get attention this is one word will not leave attention attention attention now let me show you what attention is and what attention is not attention is not the same thing as being present because a woman can know that you are present but yet missing attention is not about being physically there in fact I predicted that in the next 10 years one of the leading cause of divorce will be mobile phones because that's the virtual world many people just escaping to so for the woman the man believes that I mean you said whenever I close from work I should be home on time I close by 4 I'm here 5:00 Lagos traffic or Abuja traffic whatever it is about on traffic I am here for her it is not about being here in the house and you are in your own world it is being here with me not in the house alone it is not being at home it is be with me because sometimes being at home and not being with her is worse than when you are not around you are around but she does not have your attention and she doesn't feel loved and men with many a lot of assumption one of the things you must know women is that they don't like surprises in the sense that don't just pull anything on her I have to quickly get somewhere now 9:30 she doesn't like it she has not planned that in her head she has imagined still seeing you till you go to bed so attention for a woman is not just the physical presence but the emotional Synergy the fact that there is a conversation that is Heart to Heart some of them have their own love language from Act of service those people that have Act of service as they that one is work that one is not really nice they like men that will sit with them in the kitchen as they are carrying this is's carrying that and you you are the kind of guy who never carried T his stick you don't even know what they call it he's not being rude that is who she is she grew up seeing the dad and the mom they be G you you sit that in the paror you are pressing your phone she's confused he doesn't love me see understand her okay women love attention it doesn't matter whether mommy go or Mommy AO they love attention they don't joke with you okay but you must make sure that your lack of attention does not give them a lifestyle where they move on from you it is dangerous when the woman is no longer asking for it it is very bad that home is already dying she has made up her mind this is why I marry something is severed already from the marriage women can move on but they'll be around when they stop asking for the things they are asking they've concluded you don't have the capacity to give me in of frustrating myself I'm okay okay so one of the ways you know your wife's love language is to check what she gives the one who loves give gift will give gifts except the stingy one CU there there are exceptions to these things how do you say you like gift every time he's doing birthdays boxers you buy birthday is coming again plan of buying boxers he's a wrestler