Understanding Aging and Ageism

Jul 16, 2024

Understanding Aging and Ageism

Key Concepts

Aging Population

  • Everyone is part of the aging population; aging is universal.
  • Aging ≠ old. Aging happens to all of us regardless of age.

Chronological Age vs Subjective Age

  • Subjective age: feeling younger or older than one's actual age.
  • The sentiment "you're only as old as you feel" is common but misguided.

Misconceptions About Aging

  • Age Expectations: Our expectations for aging come from misconceptions.
  • Horny Teenager Comparison: Learning about aging is like a teenager learning about sex; full of half-truths and misconceptions.

Factors Influencing Aging

  • Aging is personal: geographic location, habits, race, gender, education are factors.
  • People age uniquely, even if aging has common aspects.

Understanding and Combatting Ageism

  • Definition: Stereotyping/discriminating based on age.
    • Directed at both older and younger individuals.
  • Self-directed Ageism: Fear or shame of aging.
  • Importance of Growth: Aging involves both decline and growth.
  • Aging doesn’t stop growth; people develop new skills and grow comfortable in their own skin.

Aging and Self-perception

  • Old and young have simple definitions:
    • Old: Existed for a long time.
    • Young: Existed for a short time.
  • Stereotypes about youth and old age are problematic and conflicting.

Changing Mindsets

  • *Actions we can take:
    • Don't project current self onto future self: Interests and happiness change over time.
    • Be a role model for aging: Accept your age proudly, challenge stereotypes, avoid patronizing language.
    • Reject stereotypes about age-related political, social views.

Final Thoughts

  • Little actions towards accepting and reframing our views on aging can lead to societal change.
  • Acknowledging and embracing true age helps foster a healthier perspective on aging.

Group Activity/Takeaway

  • Embrace your age by saying it out loud. (Example: "1, 2, 3... 53!")