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Manifesting Your Authentic Self

there are certain circumstances that come into your life that you're like I didn't like I didn't do this 2020 happened to all of us did you bring that on to your no I didn't either but how are you responding to that like what are your thoughts now in this circumstance that you're in and what are your beliefs and what are your feelings so that's what he's saying is like e it's not to say that every circumstance is a direct result of your entire character but every circumstance will in some way be intimately linked to a thought that you are having and all of that is just putting the agency back into you to create your reality to make any circumstance that you are moving through something that in some way shape or form will serve you this is the rock sand show get ready it's time to rise quick question are you playing it safe or are you playing it true true to your authentic self true to what you really desire for your life true to your actual potential this is no dress rehearsal you guys this is your life you are here to live from your most extraordinary self your whole self and I'm so excited to share with you that my very first authored book first ad many to come is finally coming out this year the truth in you knows this is more than a collection of essays stories and Pros it's a real Manifesto that helps you shift what you believe is actually possible for you and your life it's a lighthouse it's an anchor it's that sign that you craved right when you needed it most this book will help you get into the most profound relationship with your most authentic self this relationship that's forged from absolute self-love and Trust where you are going to bet on yourself where you are going to live courageously so that you can experience the life that you really want to experience and nobody else's idea of what that needs to be or should be I'm inviting you to join my book launch weit list today so that you can access an exclusive live virtual Workshop that I'm hosting to celebrate my book launch this is going to be such a fun event we're going to have an intimate conversation with where I'm going to present the principles of the book we're going to have a Q&A segment and there's going to be other surprises at this event I don't want you to miss this opportunity in addition to that being on this list is also going to give you access to other special bonuses that I'll be announcing closer to the book launch to join this list head over to rockans ofy.org I can't wait to spend this time with you I cannot wait for you to have this book back to the episode welcome back today's episode is going to be a full breakdown on manifesting not just how to manifest why I manifest but it's going to be an actual resource for you I'm going to share some of my favorite books and other uh resources that help you on your manifestation Journey so wherever you are in your manifestation Journey if you're you not a full believer if you just started kind of playing with this in your life or maybe you were what I call a manifesting badass which is my goal for all of you to become if not already um this episode will serve real value because I consider myself a manifesting badass to be honest at this point I have so much [ __ ] proof of it and yet I still love love and go to resources that help me to stay very Anchored In my highest creative power I mean ultimately just diving into this wasting no time here to manifest is to be a conscious creator of your reality now look you could be manifesting things that you're not aware of um and things that don't feel good because manifesting is ultimately where your thoughts and your beliefs your dominant thoughts and beliefs are creating a feeling within you and that Trifecta is shaping your reality so when you manifest there's a visualization process that is integrated that is a big piece of it um but even if you don't pull on that thread if you're not you know spending time visualizing if you are walking around with certain beliefs certain thoughts that are creating certain feelings in your world you are ma you're manifesting you know aspects of your reality from that that um you know thought belief and feeling so when you become a conscious Creator which is ultimately where you become a real manifesting badass is when you are aware of the power of your thoughts the power of your beliefs the power of your feeling such to that you are leveraging intentionally creating and leveraging your thoughts your beliefs and your feelings to bring something that you cherish that you desire that you want to experience in your life into form right so one of the greatest questions is do you believe in manifesting is manifesting real Absol [ __ ] lutely I know this so deeply so truly at this point in my life because like I said I I have so much proof you get to a point where you're like it's it's funny um I really love Abraham Hicks if you don't know who Abraham Hicks is already side note you definitely want to take notes because again this is going to be resources so I'm already dropping them on you Abraham Hicks um you know is is this woman Esther who channels Abraham and she is such a gangster when it comes to all things manifesting and I love listening to her just go on tangents on if you if you Google her go to YouTube and pull her up I mean there there's talks for the rest of your life I swear that you can listen to Abraham Hicks because she's done so many already and on so many different subjects she first came into my life um I at least I think it was like at least 15 years ago and definitely look into Abraham Hick's books because I would say if you were just getting started on the manifestation Journey dropping into Abraham is going to take you Into The Sweet Spot of what it actually means to manifest in your life and how to truly become a conscious creator of your reality um but yeah I remember when Abraham came into to my experience you know it was everything is such perfectly timed right I I mean there's like this whole aligned timing idea which is really true but what was so cool for me when Abraham came in is that listening to her started to really wake up the conscious Creator in me right we're always creating the question is are you conscious of what you're creating and it's really easy to sort of sleepwalk through your life and not be aware of what you're creating in your life but when you start to become aware and more aware and more aware this is where you can start to become more intentional about what you're creating and this is also where you know when things aren't feeling great when fears come in when doubts come in that awareness will become so strong that you catch those fears and those doubts and you're able to gently start to redirect it into P empowered thinking more confident beliefs and you know get you back on track so that you can actually manifest the things that you would like to manifest in your life but Abraham again such a powerful resource for manifesting and there's so many there's there's other great resources that I'm going to drop you into I think it's important to say this manifesting is not some new aged concept or you know it's it's it wasn't born from the movie The Secret you know the secret did a great job of commercializing the uh idea around manifesting and and really bringing it out on on to a larger audience but manifesting has been around forever truly uh one of my favorite books by James Allen as a man thinketh I have it here I'll probably open to a page and just read you a passage that was written in the 1800s was another one of the very first books that came into my world gifted to me from my dear friend Gina Brooke and came in again at perfect timing that really rooted me into my creative power reminding me of how capable I am to create the life that I truly want to experience in my life but again this book was written in the 1800s and he's not talking directly about manifesting but what he does poetically elaborate on is the power of your thoughts the power of your beliefs the power of your feelings because ultimately that's what it comes down to to what are your dominant thoughts what are your dominant beliefs and what are the dominant feelings that you were moving through your day your day with that is creating your reality that's why waking up and becoming conscious of what you're thinking what you're feeling and what you're believing is so huge if you want to become a manifesting badass right so I want to tell you it's funny story let me just drop you into a fun story so when I when I really started to connect with this you know being a conscious Creator so it was like I like the the the switch inside of me was turned on I've always been a very um Mystic deep thinking deep feeling introspective Connected To Source I mean my lexicon was busting out things like Oneness when I was [ __ ] 20 years old I look back in my journalis I'm like back then really you were I was like yeah wow um so it's always just been within me however some of the resources some which I've already shared but there's more coming have really helped me to connect with the conscious part of my self that has that agency to create my world right so I want to tell you a story about a purple Porsche because this is a fun one for me so when especially when I was like on a rooll with Abraham and just listening to so many of her um Rampages if you go on to YouTube You'll see she has Rampages I started playing this game called that I created for myself called manifest that [ __ ] and there were two things that one thing that I was really focused on creating which was a series of numbers that I'll keep to myself um and it was so [ __ ] fun because I would see these numbers just pop up pop up Peri and every time they would especially when I felt it coming like oh I'm going to see one now and then boom it would come it for me it was like a kiss from the universe so wanting to take it deeper I was like all right that's cool you know um but let me make this a little harder on myself right so I decided that I was going to manifest a purple Porsche a grape purple Porsche it was very specific and that's an important part of manifesting I'll talk about that but it was specific it was it was grape purple um why because how often do you see a grape purple Porsche not often at all so I got clear on what I wanted to experience that's very important that's like step number one you have to have Clarity on what you want now look I know there's a lot of talk around like be so specific and I am actually inviting you to be specific one thing that I do want to mention is that sometimes we can become overly specific to where we start to control and we want to be aware of that right um I'm going to get back to the purple Porche but since I'm going to roll right here you want to leave some room if you can it depends on what you're trying to manifest for something that you couldn't imagine to come in so like if it's your partner like you want to manifest your soulmate your partner but you're so specific like you know he has to have this color beard and you know you know like wear his shoes this way or you know she has to to have this kind of haircut and you know like to eat this very specific food look I'm not saying you can't have this I'm just saying sometimes when we get so deeply specific we start to kind of limit ourselves to what's actually possible so I think it's important to have Clarity around what is most important to you with what you're aiming for but don't go too far to where Now you kind of block and limit you know something that you can maybe you couldn't even imagine that could blow away you know your ultimate Vision right because that is a reality that has happened for sure in my life so back to the purple Porsche the purple Porsche I was pretty specific I wasn't like oh it has to be a 911 or it needs to be a boxer okay I just said great purple so there was some clarity there but there was also room for it to be whatever kind of Porsche didn't matter what [ __ ] year what model just had to be great purple driving home the point here's another thing that I did not do and this is actually very important and this is probably one of the hardest parts of manifesting is I didn't put a timeline on it some people would argue that like there are a lot of creators out there who their whole business on manifesting and you know they'll say like by this date and maybe that works in some situations but sometimes I feel like it actually produces resistance because now you again it's like this over contr controlling thing and I get it sometimes there's like a deadline and I've had that in my own life where it's like no I have to hit it by that this has to come through for me by that time you know um and again I'm going to leave room here to say that nothing that I'm sharing by the way is like a hard rule it's like kind of make it your own but there are some core principles that I think do you know that are Universal when we're talking about manifesting and I do believe that in most most situations when we constrict the manifestation under a like when we put a time constraint on it I think it produces fear it produces resistance it produces this urgency and haste that literally works against US unless unless you can literally be like you know what by you know that two week Mark I'm going to this is get this is going to happen for me if you can truly if you can truly truly truly emphasis on [ __ ] truly do that and throw it away meaning you're not looking at the clock you're not looking at the calendar like any day now any minute now if you can totally remove all of that like you order it from Amazon and you're not questioning what time like you just know it's it said Prime delivery by 2 o'clock like you're not checking every hour wait did it come yet if you can do that then by all means then [ __ ] yeah drop in and create that time constraint because then you're not fueling the process with resistance you're not you know operating with this lowkey insecurity that's going to going to completely disrupt the whole process but if you aren't able to do that then you might be literally working against yourself in this manifestation that you want so I didn't create a timeline um but you know the sooner the better would have been fun because it's kind of like how fast can I you know Manifest this [ __ ] great purple porch it's so wild so okay so what what ends up happening is this so I start seeing some Porsches of course and I I kept seeing these deep violet almost could be blue almost Violet and sometimes I oh my this is so funny to play back in my mind sometimes the sun would hit it a certain way and I'm like oh my gosh there it is you know oh my gosh and I'd be like roxan no don't [ __ ] lie to yourself like th this is really important I'm gonna I'm GNA expand on this don't don't try and settle here you said grape you you said grape you know it doesn't matter if the sun's making it more purple like that's not grape okay it's purple but is it grape purple and so the idea there the thread that I want to pull on there is that you don't have to settle right don't convince yourself out like to settle outside of what you truly want or believe is possible because that's the thing it's like usually when you're doing that it's cuz you you actually don't believe what you truly want is possible so you will sort of negotiate with yourself and you'll settle outside of it and ultimately what you'll be doing is you'll be in infusing this disbelief this doubt into the process and right there it's like forget it you know what I mean so I would call myself out and that was just funny with me because it probably happened over the span of I think this whole process um took about a month can't remember exactly but I don't believe it was more than a month and so in a few in those first couple of weeks you know I would see this or I would almost see it I was like oh oh my God you know and you know so when that would happen I'd be like you know what okay that wasn't it but I'm getting closer and that's also another pull uh thread to pull on there sometimes when it seems like something that you really want um it looks like it's going to happen it's so close to being the thing but it's not ultimately it you know it looks like the opportunity that you wanted but it ends up not being that like it falls through just making an example a really empowered thought and frequency to hold yourself in those moments is I'm getting closer because the opposite of that would be like oh man it's not going to happen right like you start to again Infuse a sense of disbelief lack of confidence doubt into the unfolding into the process and right there you're like kicking yourself out of out of the experience you're you're kicking the experience out of your experience you're you're creating that resistance and you're keeping it away from you okay so I'm it's one day I'm I'm I'm doing a photo shoot and um I'm you know with the the videographer and we go we pull over we park we're by the beach and um um really like when we were parking I said to him I said oh wait a second hold on he goes what's up I go Oh I thought I saw purple Porsche that's well cuz I was driving I thought I saw purple Porsche who goes why what's up with a purple Porsche I said oh I'm just playing this game with myself called manifest that [ __ ] and I just have this great purple Porsche that I just you know really believe that I can manifest and I want to see he goes huh pulls out his phone and he shows me a grape purple 911 and he goes see that house right there the owner of that house owns this car I have it I'd have to dig I probably should have I had to dig through my images um to to bring it and and share it in the video but whatever we don't have time for that right now but but trust me when I tell you he pulled out this video cuz he was in the car he friends with the owner and I'm looking at this great purple [ __ ] 911 and I'm like and it was just so funny cuz we were just parked next to the owner's house I was like are you [ __ ] kidding me no way so here we go stage one I'm actually seeing the great purple Porsche but that wasn't good enough for me don't settle right like cool we're getting closer um and this is so trippy you know that we're right next to the home I have to be getting closer so that was super exciting and it definitely reinforced confidence that I am going to see this Porsche I mean it was in you know a neighborhood close to mine so like for sure I'm going to see this Porche at some point and sure enough I think it was within that next week driving down the street and behind the stoplight is that purple great purple 911 911 I manifested the purple Porsche you guys now that can sound funny oh what a coincidence oh all those things will start to come into a lot of you know people's minds or I'm not saying it's you but I'm saying it could or in the case of your own life maybe you manifested something but then you're like oh yeah that was luck that was coincidence maybe maybe for me though at that point I was like oh hell no this was not luck this was not coincidence this was absolutely [ __ ] intentional and by the way I would end up seeing that Porsche um you know after that a couple more times which was so cool um the piece that I think is just so important to share is that I had a Clear Vision I didn't constrain the vision I I had Clarity and there were some details but I didn't overdo it with the details to where I couldn't leave room for it to just kind of reveal itself as it wanted to I didn't put this time constraint on it um I didn't think about how it was going to happen I just knew that it would when it started to when certain other Porsches would come into the picture and almost want to hijack me for my ultimate Vision I did not allow it to I did not settle I reinforced my confidence I did not invest um in doubt or disbelief that ultimately what I wanted to experience was possible and I just settled in that energy that it's bound to happen it has to happen and it did so I really just gave you the formula for manifesting by using my purple Porsche story and again in my life you guys uh especially because I live so intuitively that is where I lead from I lead from my intuitive mind and I let my reasoning and my rational mind support my journey into you know creating my reality because that's important too but ultimately I'm leading for my heart space and then my mind executes and creates the plan and helps me get into action right but the directive is coming from my heart and this is where your intuitive self speaks to you because of that you know I'm always on the edge of uncertainty we all live with uncertainty but I really I don't just I I'm like I dance on the edge of uncertainty it's so radical actually how I've been able to do this my whole life and I guess I'm just you know I'm one of those people who's really good at risk taking you know I'm more comfortable with risks than maybe a lot of other people are and one of the things about manifesting that I think is really important to share here is that it's it's that quote you know dare to believe you have to dare to believe that what you truly want to experience in any domain of your life your life as a whole is actually possible for you because again your thoughts your feelings your beliefs are what create your life and are certainly the core elements to manifesting so many of the books around manifesting even if they're not books that are focused specifically on manifesting touch on those three core elements why because it really just does come down to that you know and then so let me actually say this so if you the more confidence the more I I don't even want to say trust that you have that certain things that you desire will unfold for you trust is cool trust is important it's more of this knowing energy right knowing energy knowing feels deeper than trusting right because trust is still like I don't know it's like one notch up it and it's again it's so important so I'm not at all you know cutting that down it's so important and I find like when you are on this manifesting journey that you and let's just say you're in a really great place with it sometimes you're in a strong place of knowing but then you'll move into a place of trusting and that's actually that's a perfect way to explain what I'm trying to say because in the trust it's it's almost like you are combating whether it's subtly or maybe it's it's not so subtle it's like a big moment of having to combat this doubt or this insecurity um some kind of belief or worry around it not happening for you it not being possible for you so you have to reinforce that trust but when trust is so locked in you're in a state of just knowing we use Amazon again as the example when you order from Amazon you're not trusting that Amazon you know your package is going to show up you just know because you've already developed trust with Amazon at this point I'm not saying they can't [ __ ] up at times because they certainly can but for the most part they're pretty on point right they say they're going to get you that box by 2: p.m. on a Sunday and it's showing up by 2 p.m. on a Sunday so over time that consistency that trust consistency puts you in a place where you just know you're going to get what you ordered right and there are so many people who actually talk about manifesting in that way too and it's it's cool to to put in because this is again it's like a resource episode for you what's your order put in your order be clear about what you truly want which is actually hard for a lot of people but it is a very important pie here put the order in and then you have to do the work of just knowing that like Amazon it's going to come through I want to share a couple of books that I brought that I really love not just around manifesting but the power of thought the power of your beliefs the power of thoughts beliefs and feelings and these books specifically I think do an excellent job of touching the power of thoughts beliefs and feelings also specifically around manifesting and I you know again as a man thinketh and I'll open that one up and just read a paragraph at it and then just tease it out that one is like it's so it's it's there's a there's a Melody to his writing that I feel so it's it it's one part it's one part teaching but it doesn't feel feel like teaching whereas like the book by Roxy how you say roxxy's last name sorry Roxy nefi um manifest her book which is you know an international bestseller you know she's got like this clear seven-step process I think she did an excellent job of that book as a man thinketh doesn't talk about manifesting but as a man thinketh it's this poetic flow this melody that is taking you through the Journey of the power of thought belief and feeling and how that shapes your reality so manifest like I just mentioned seven steps to living your best life by Roxy nefzi again she did a great job because I know you know especially the subject of manifesting it's so there's just so much out there right so so smart of her to take the core foundational principles on manifesting and putting this in a seven-step process for you okay I think it is really smart and I think it's really supportive because it you know people need that at times it's like what am I what is the blueprint you know what's the focus here and she definitely does that I there's a lot of what she speaks or what she's written about in this book that lives in so much of what I share it comes down to your authentic self selflove being a huge piece to manifesting so I love how she integrated those elements in to the manifesting process another piece that she did which is it feels like an advertisement for my course and I am going to shamelessly plug my course here because if you have not read this book yet and you're going to there's you're going to you're going to experience what I'm going to share with you or maybe you already did did read her book and you came across her conversation and even the meditation around your future self and how [ __ ] important your future self is when it comes to manifesting anything that you desire in your life so plugging it here there's a link in the show notes I created the sexiest femininely Fierce easy to digest and to you know get your hands in uh digital course on your future self okay so it if you show up and you do the work with the course you absolutely do develop not only a Clear Vision of your vision self your future self but you actually my my whole big big piece around the future self is you don't just visualize this Vision self but you actually create a relationship with this highest expression of yourself right so I love that she brings the future self into the manifestation process because it's true you know I this my podcast didn't make me me I made my podcast everything that you create in your life is not creating you it's you creating it so if you want to think about what the next iteration of your life is what's the next feeling the next chapter the next season what does it look like what does it feel like all of that well you have to think about who that version of you is that's living that experience because that's what's going to bring the experience into form so future self sometimes I feel like my conversation around the future self even though I'm not the only one I mean there's psychologists who' have done TED Talks around this but my take on it is unique to me right um sometimes I feel like it's too far far ahead of its time but it's fine because the time will come where it really [ __ ] clicks oh I really need to get clear on this expression myself and I really need to develop a relationship with this highest Vision expression of myself because that is ultimately my n store that's your n star that's how you get to everywhere you want to go it's whoever that version of you is which is already within you which is not to say that you don't have to make adjustments in your life sure we always do but knowing who that vision is which is always going to evolve too but the one just right in front of you right in front of you that gives you the material that you need to work on yourself in ways that create the reality that and the experiences in your reality that you want to to have so love the book love my course definitely check it out both because it will support you wherever you are in your process okay so let me actually bring up make it happen manifest the life of your dream so this is by my friend Jordana 11 and I remember reading this book I think it was 2020 it just came out and I was like [ __ ] yeah and by the way at that point I had already I'm super super dialed in and deep with manifesting but again it doesn't matter I'm a manifesting badass and the next great manifesting book that comes out or you know anything related if I feel drawn to it I'm not too good to drop into the resource it's not like oh I already know because again the way that we play with life especially when you're living on the edge of uncertainty the way that I am you can't get enough reminders in reinforcement and the minute you think you're too good for that I mean that's just you're that's not a great place to be it's very egoic you know you're operating from a place that's not helping you in your life for me you know even if I read this book and everything in it is something that I already know I believe that there's always a new take a new feeling a new something that can move into your experience and up regulate your belief U regulate your process U regulate your knowing right it doesn't hurt you right what hurts is actually just like oh I know already I already know too much it's like this the real master is like the one that knows nothing kind of thing so Jordana first of all she's such a fun excellent writer and I remember this was the first book and I'm I read every day that I actually gave a review because it was so good she has a very clear formula in here and she's her her stories are so fun so it was this combination of her creating this very clear formula to help you manifest also integrating storytelling into her book and I do really really love that there's a big focus on self-awareness because if you back up to the beginning of this episode you know I talk about how being a conscious Creator like it's a switch on on so without self-awareness which is something that I'm always talking about and try to do my best to sell like for you to in invest in the work that helps you strengthen your and expand your self-awareness without that though I mean it's really going to be hard to create anything that you truly desire in your life because if you conscious Creator you're consciously creating you're being intentional your selfawareness is supporting that process so she does an incredible job um on on on all things manifesting in this book it is such a fun read if you have not already checked it out you definitely want to check it out make it happen Okay next one so this is called a happy a haa this is called a happy pocket full of money infinite wealth and abundance in the here and now I I just love this book um the author you know what I feel I feel like I feel like it's my duty to share this book because what this off author David Cameron geeka I don't know how to say his last name sorry g i k i wait g i k a n d i what he wrote is so powerful beautiful again there were so many epic you know reminders for me and just reinforcement um that came in that was just so epic and there's so many pieces in here that really validate a lot of my work which I made me feel [ __ ] good because I'm like that's what I'm talking about that kind of feeling you know um I mean chapter 18 the self architect of the Universe I mean I love how he talks he brings it back to self I mean ultimately it's all about self like everything is about [ __ ] self right what's the relationship that you have with yourself what's the relationship that you have with your thoughts with your beliefs with your feelings all of that is affecting your reality so this book definitely you know let's just say if you're someone right now who's going through a financial hard time read this [ __ ] book read this book and by the way inserting this if you don't have an open mind about what I'm sharing I mean you're probably not even watching this episode I probably don't even need to say it you probably would have checked out a long time ago but let's just say you're like there's a little like H in you I really want to invite you to give yourself permission even even for like a time period to just get that [ __ ] out of the way that's not going to help you you got to be open mind it takes guts it takes courage because in that constriction and that doubt you feel like you're kind of protecting yourself because what if it doesn't work out right what if you don't what if you don't manifest the thing that you really wanted to manifest or and all that [ __ ] right so it's like a protective mechanism but it's not it's actually stopping you from what's actually possible for you in your life and that actually is something that can spill over in other areas of your life but I definitely want to encourage you to always have an open mind and certainly when it comes to all things manifesting and you know when you go into these books and or if you're listening to Abraham Hicks or you know any any resources like that you know just allow yourself to just receive just to be open and and and let what unfolds for you unfold like let the synchronicities come through and happen like be open you know if I was trying to manifest a great purple porish but the whole time I'm like I don't think it's going to happen I don't think it's going to happen it's like well yeah of course it's not going to happen you know because again my thoughts and my beliefs are supporting that to happen so you know either manifest what you want or manifest what you don't want but either way you're [ __ ] manifesting so that's important to realize okay my final book for today cuz I'll just tell you right now that the manifestation conversation will continue continue to unfold um you know with the podcast because there's just so many angles to talk about it but I do want to bring in to the picture because I've spoke about it already as a man thinketh and this version of the book you can't even get anymore it's so it's so old and I'm just so grateful it's it's really this this book has become a Melody for me when I first got it it was such a big gift in my life and you know came in line time and I read it every day and it's one of those books that you read front to back but you could also just open to any page and you can uh you know take a paragraph or even a sentence and just carry that with you in your day and it will it will support your mindset it will it will shift your frequency it really does because it's that powerful so I'm just going to read you a paragraph that I just opened to and it's so beautiful so this is in the section effective thought on circumstances thought and character are one and as character can only manifest and discover itself through environment and Circumstance the outer conditions of a person's life will always be found to be harmoniously related to its inner State it's like my quote the inner shapes the outer this does not mean that a man's circumstances at any given time or an indication of his entire character that's so important but that those circumstances are so intimately connected with some vital thought element within himself that for the time being they are indispensable to his development that is so [ __ ] powerful what a great par paragraph I open to you know that's ultimately saying like there are certain circumstances that come into your life that you're like I didn't like I didn't do this you know 2020 happened to all of us did did you bring that on to your no I didn't either but how are you responding to that like what are your thoughts now in this circumstance that you're in and what are your beliefs and what are your feelings so that's what he's saying is like e it's not to say that every circumstance is a direct result of your entire character but every circumstance will in some way be intimately linked to a thought that you are having right to a feeling that you're having and all of that is just putting the agency back into you to create your reality to make any circumstance that you were moving through something that in some way shape or form will serve you so even a shitty situation could be leveraged as you know an opportunity for growth right but it's all about your thoughts around it your perspectives your filters how are you looking at it and that's my favorite part about manifesting it's fun to be in a position where you really want something to come through for you in your life and it does like when it does it's like oh [ __ ] this is incredible or maybe it's like better than you could have even imagined but I think the part for me that feels the best the the most powerful and really why I truly res resonate so deeply with the whole notion idea and actuality of manifesting is because it puts agency it it it shows you your agency that you are here to create your reality that circumstances actually don't [ __ ] matter that you at every single moment of your life have the ability to create experiences that are going to serve you it's not easy for so many [ __ ] reasons we don't just operate from our conscious mind we operate mostly from our subconscious mind and that's where [ __ ] gets really tricky because you can sit here and consciously be like yeah I believe in myself but in your subconscious because of your childhood experience because of a relationship that [ __ ] you up or all of it whatever the case is you actually don't really believe in your yourself but you're not aware that in the trunk we'll just call the subconscious a trunk but that's actually [ __ ] with your reality right so it what again you know what's cool about when you start really getting into manifesting is that you start diving in like if it's really important to you and you really want to get into the science of manifesting then you're going to start to become aware of your subconscious thinking your subconscious mind and you know limiting beliefs and all of these things that maybe you're not even aware of you're not thinking of right so it opens the door to many doors that all bring you back to your most authentic self to your heart connecting with your heart to selflove to empowerment like you being an empowered individual someone who is on your own team like you're here to give yourself what you truly believe you are deserving and worthy of in your life right that's ultimately what I love about manifesting manifesting is not just oh I want this to happen so you know if I just think about it and do nothing no that's not how it works you know it's not just this passive experience there is absolutely a a multitude of ways that you have to be active with the manifestation process but again just kind of wrapping this out here my favorite [ __ ] part of it is that you are your own magic wand in this you know manifesting process the agency is within you to create your reality and I love that [ __ ] you know whether it's something that you don't love experiencing or you do love experiencing there's always this invitation for you to check in with yourself if it's something that you're experiencing that doesn't feel great it's not to say that you are ultimately manifesting that but it does invite you when manifesting is a big part of your life you're always going to be checking in like am I contributing to this could I be is there some under cover limiting belief is there a lowkey you know ambient uh self-doubt situation Happening Here the point is is that you're going to ask yourself questions and those [ __ ] questions are huge those questions will ultimately give you very important material for your growth and for you know your entire life experience so I hope that what I shared in some way supported you wherever you are in your life manifesting not manifesting manifesting like a badass ultimately the ultimate idea here is that you do have the power to shape your reality to you certainly have the power to create what you truly want to experience in your life you just have to be brave enough to not settle for less to believe that it's possible you know don't cut yourself short on the vision because uh that's not realistic [ __ ] realistic [ __ ] realistic that word will tear you down every time when it comes to manifesting and I know some people may want to be like oh but you have to be realistic like you know what the word is kind of it is there a place where you could Implement some aspects of being more practical I prefer the word sure but the word realistic like what does that mean your realistic and my realistic are going to be [ __ ] different because everyone's functioning with we're our own filter right and in that from that filter is our own life experience so whenever someone's like be realistic I'm like you mean adjust to your reality adjust to what you think is realistic I'm not here for that I'm here for my [ __ ] reality right see the passion comes out of me the Fuego starts to come so [ __ ] realistic you know but it takes courage because you're limiting beliefs fears and all of the [ __ ] that we've been told you know about what is realistic and you know well start to come in and try and convince you that that navy blue Porsche under a certain sunlight is the Porsche but it's not stick to what you want believe in it don't overcontrol it have faith in yourself listen to [ __ ] the resources uh you know get in touch with your future self I have a free future self meditation and guided Journal if you want to start there before diving into my course which you could also dive into which is so incredibly epic and you know trust me I didn't create this course this wasn't like let me create a course so I'm making the money it's because so many of you want answers so many of you want support how do I ultimately create this relationship with myself where there's more self-love more self-confidence more self trust so that I can really experience the [ __ ] life that I want to experience your future self that's how I've done it that's how I'm doing it and I'm not the only one but this course is my unique take and you know guidance to help you get into this relationship with your future self but if you want to start with the future self self-meditation and guided Journal there's a link in the show notes you can go to rock sanify docomond the idea the concept of manifesting I'll bring on more guests as well that you know where their whole business is focused on manifesting because I love this subject so the power is within you thank you for sticking around taking in this whole episode if you loved it let me know you can actually comment now on Spotify which is so rad I love that so comment there hit me up in the DMS on Instagram Roxy look you know how to find me I'm all over the place I'll see you on the next one to all my tender Savages to all you self- lovers to all you magnetic badasses who are showing up every day authentically courageously refuse to play small I'm so excited to introduce our new Lifestyle brand la ro and paaw because we designed it just for you who's we we is my work wife SL wingwoman SL badass graphic artist Pina store every design is a culmination of deep intention love Fire magic heart and soul brought to life through my writing and paulina's 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