What's up guys? In today's video, I am showing you some of the best approaches I've ever done on camera. Now, to recap my story really quick, in February, I decided to go crazy and mass approach.
And because of that, I got 15 dates in 30 days and I thought, you know what, maybe I can teach this. And in June, one video went fucking viral and I quit my job and I said, this is it, let's go. And then in July, where we're at right now in this video, I decided I would mass approach again. And I decided to do... Many challenges and this is not a fucking understatement I promise you I did at least a thousand approaches in 30 days to sharpen my skill set and in this video I want to tell you about everything I learned so I hope you guys enjoy We are in downtown Fayetteville, Arkansas Here on a beautiful night out People in the background.
Thank you guys, and we are talking about what I learned approaching 500 women Five days in Nashville, so if you've seen that video, this is just me breaking it down, autistically. Today I'm talking about what I learned, talking to five, I talked to 500 people last week, and I counted. Okay, wow.
And I learned, one thing, what did I learn? Okay, I have it written down. Okay, hold on, hold on.
Ah, I froze. I'm freezing, I'm freezing, y'all are making me nervous. Uh, okay. It's not about what you say, but the energy and the frame.
Yeah, hey, you work out. I see you, brother. It's not about what you say, but the frame that you're coming from.
So, the energy that you have. Even when you just say, oh, you work out. My tone and my energy is, we're friends. So it's a collaborative positive frame.
What's up, my man? Are you making a YouTube? I'm making a YouTube video, how are you? Oh shit, so I'm your man.
Give me one tip to be confident. Are you confident? Yes, sir. Don't give a shit.
Don't give a shit. You gotta have it. Pretty much. That's real. Were you always a guy who didn't give a shit?
Don't give a crap. No, no. I gave too many craps back then, but you know. At that point, I was...
Step on it. Oh. What?
Wait, what? I gotta go, man. So random.
Hey, peace, guys. They're good energy. See, the frame I'm coming from, the energy that I have, right now, I'm viewing them as positive. So them in turn are going to give me that energy.
So it's not about what you say, but the frame you're coming from. That is number two. That's what I learned.
That's awesome. I love that for you. Thank you. Thank you for being in my little self-improvement video. Yeah, of course.
I appreciate it. When you're not feeling flirty, don't flirt. And this is this might be a little advanced But when I what I say and when you're not feeling confident don't act confident when you're feeling like nervous And you're not feeling flirty even even if you want to flirt sometimes. It's not as congruent to be flirty That's just a little something I learned I'm trying to fucking hard sometimes And I just need to relax and have good social interactions like to have positive feedback And when the time comes when you walk into a girl and you guys just have that chemistry you have that spark It's going to happen It's gonna happen naturally.
At least for me. That's where I'm at right now. I love your vibe.
What's your name? What's up? What's your name? Maddie. Maddie, nice to meet you.
I'm a YouTuber. I'm talking about... What is Fayetteville like? What is dating in Fayetteville like?
There is none! Awful. That's not a thing.
What's a red flag? Give me some red flags. Some what?
Red flags. Um, gay. God, because I didn't know.
That light though, that light though. You're very tan. It looks like you've been out tanning.
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You're getting all the courses that I got and built from Approach Mastery, my mentorship program. These are the best courses you'll ever get to help you rip the bandaid off and start approaching and start making this routine. get the ball rolling for you bro check out the course i know you won't regret it um i think i got if i had to like break that down i think i got a little bit needy towards the end there like i really wanted to flirt but i i couldn't do it you have to attach value to your attention when you're in flow at a certain point you have to just say if they don't like me i'm not going to chase Do not chase people and try to talk to people what I learned this last week was I'm no longer trying to talk to people Who are not invested? So what I noticed was there were so many conversations where I would walk up and I would talk and talk And I would ask questions and I would talk and I would try to get them to talk and they're kind of just Observing and spectating and they're kind of like huh he's entertaining and then after I was done And maybe I would try to flirt or get a number.
They'd be like no sorry. Thank you like I'm wasting my Why don't I walk up, talk, flirt, eye contact, ask a question, and then I pull back. That's a major key.
You pull back a little bit. Let them invest. Hold on. Wait a minute.
Okay. I've said enough. I'm a cool guy. I've conveyed my personality. Who are you?
Number four. I talked to 400... No, 500. I talked to 500 girls in five days. Wait a minute, wait a minute. Where are you from?
Puerto Rico. Puerto Rico. I love South American culture.
You're very beautiful. There's a 75% chance that it's not me. Is it? Okay. Good to know.
Thank you for the question. that I appreciate that my weather forecaster there so out of the 500 girls I talked to it's hard to say how many were into me there's a lot into me but how many logistically could I see that weekend and have a good time with very very few and this is the number one thing i learned you gotta screen for logistics when you're dating otherwise you're gonna waste a lot of time so what i learned at the last day me and my friend i was like dude i wanna i wanna meet a girl you know it's my last day in nashville i'm trying to meet a girl so what we said was this in the interaction within the first five to ten minutes while we're vibing and sharing good energy we're gonna screen for logistics so where are you from how long are you guys in town for what are you doing tomorrow where are you guys staying at basically you want to see Am I gonna be able to hang out with her later tonight now if it's not just for the night you want a screen for? Logistics as far as dating like where you from how long you in the city for what do you like to do?
Would you be down for coffee? If you want sure thing How are you doing? You're a little finger point bang bang bang Chitty Chitty bang bang you better watch out That's right.
That's okay. What was I saying? I don't remember anymore. God dang it.
Oh, yeah screen for logistics Another thing I want to add to that is Okay, number four is this just talk to the girls that are super invested You might have a girl on a scale of one to ten one to ten She might be attracted but she's not really in the mood She might be really attracted in the mood, but she doesn't really have the time and she's leaving tomorrow She might be attracted in the mood and she has the time but her friends are pulling her away She might be in the mood has the time you guys have chemistry Maggie! Hey! What's up Maggie?
How are you? Welcome Arkansas is the best perfect for this man how's it going how we doing we're just chilling with you man okay how you doing what you doing pretty good man just making a quick youtube video just hit up the ones that are really into you i am all about not wasting time anymore and not wasting money and going on dates with girls who are like semi-interested so that oh excuse me Y'all look cool. I would love to get you in my interview. Come on. Come on.
Oh, okay. One girl was down, but one wasn't. Ah, I almost had it. That was a good, that was a good like opener.
That was a very confident, self-assured opener. So take a note there. Why?
Because she was really hot and I actually really wanted her to stop. So when you really want it, at least for me, when I really want it, I tend to do a lot better when I actually want the girl and the result. So when I'm not able to stop a group and I know they're walking off, I always...
Always, always, always say, have an amazing day. Y'all have a great night. I want to build the vibe.
I want to build my energy. Hello. Come join the fun. So we have a huge group. This is my job.
Are you a YouTuber? Are you a YouTuber? I used to be. What's your most viewed video?
You have some veterans right here. What's my most viewed? Veterans.
Camera veterans. I can tell y'all. Camera veterans.
It's 1.5. Damn. That's more than my most viewed video.
That's really good. Yeah, 1.5 is great. Send this to your crush with no context. Okay, I can see that working. Do you remember those?
It would be cool if I got someone to call their crush on camera. Like, hey, call your crush right now. Tell them you like her. I'll do it. Ask her on it.
You do it. You'll do it? Yeah. We can instigate anything. Okay, here we go.
No, we're instigating. All right, do it. Ask her. Oh, this is the mic.
Okay. I wanted, like, some content for you. Yeah. I know.
I love that you guys try so hard. Ask us about the threesome that we had. Okay. You trying to be the next hot two girl, huh?
Huh? Next hot two girl. Hey. Nico. Anna.
Tell me. Tell me about it. Hey, we're looking for a third tonight.
Stop. My God. Will you send that to me?
I want it. Sure. I'll send it to you.
Send it. Send it to me. Oh man, that caught me off guard, I'm not gonna lie. That caught me off guard. I want this video.
I'll give it to you. I'll send it to you. When? Give me on Instagram.
Anna, I can't. What's your biggest red flag on a girl? Biggest red flag?
She watches Love Island. I fucking hate Love Island. Hey, good thing we don't. There we go.
There we go. You know what's a red flag though? Wait, why is that a red flag? It's the dumbest show. Kaylee!
Blondes are brunettes. I like blondes. Why do you look at me? Fuck me, I got it.
I'm just kidding. I love feminine energy. I like a girl, okay. Build your perfect girl. This is real.
Okay, so honestly blonde, brunette, all that stuff doesn't matter to me. Right, it's if you're attractive or not. It's if you're attractive or not. A big red flag for me, this is me personally. And this isn't for every guy, so don't get offended when I say this.
I don't like a girl that's very career oriented. That's very what? Career oriented.
I don't want a girl who's like obsessed with her career. You're gonna fucking hate me. Because, and not because I don't respect it, but because I'm a workaholic and I need a girl to balance me the fuck out. Like I need to go to a home to a girl who's like shit. You need to say a whole mom, I got you.
Exactly. Exactly. Single?
What's up? What's going on? Hey, do you have my Instagram? She's single. Let's go.
How old are you? I'm 26. That's perfect for her. He was thinking about it. He said, what should I say? You hesitated a little.
Hey, I'll be above. Any answer you want me to be? Yeah.
Whatever you are, I want it. Oh, okay. Sounds good. I want comfortable. Time to go get some cab.
Y'all say the most out-of-pocket things. I love it. You have to stop saying that. Yeah. So, come here, Nico.
What's up? Are we going to make out on camera or what? Are you being real?
Don't do that to me. Don't tell me you're having a good time. I will. Wait, wait, wait. Let me record it.
Yeah. that ass can I go to eat it no sure why not oh my oh all right guys I don't know what's going on anymore and they're gone so Arkansas is pretty cool. Yeah, how do you like Arkansas? That's pretty good. It's pretty good man.
What's their favorite thing about Arkansas right now? Nixon Street honestly, that's the best thing Arkansas has yeah, that's a yellow cool. Y'all are good vibes man Thank you my man.
Have a good one Goddamn, what is going on? Why yo wild I can't believe she uh I guess friendly game-friendly awkward game works when you have a camera. Oh bro, let me just like finish this video on a high note here.
And then the last one and I already mentioned this and you already saw me do this is you don't re-you don't take rejections personally. Listen. I think the number one thing after approaching 500 people I don't like dude when you just don't care anymore, and you just doesn't matter.
Hello Thank you, and you just just don't give a fuck and she rejects you just like whatever it doesn't matter That's when life just starts to open up like life gets a lot easier Yeah, hi Can I get a high five? Boom. You guys are cool. Alright guys, thank you so much for tuning in to today's video. Five things I learned approaching that many women last week.