Five Things to Say to Your Crush

Introduction

• Talking to your crush can be nerve-wracking.
• Common worry: saying something wrong.
• Certain things you say can increase their attraction.

1. Crack a Joke

• Example: "Wendy you think we can go on a date?"
• Even simple jokes can work as icebreakers.
• Research: 2015 study in Evolutionary Psychology
  • Humor indicates sociable and agreeable personality.
  • Laughter increases interest between people.
  • Laughing releases endorphins, making you feel good.
  • Liking people who laugh at their jokes.
• Shows fun-loving and brave side.

2. Say Thank You

• Sign of good manners and appreciation.
• Expert Opinion: Antonio Damasia
  • Gratitude rewards generosity and maintains healthy social behavior.
• Makes people feel respected and happy.
• Examples:
  • "Thank you for such a good time."
  • "Thank you for always being there for me."
• Could create a long-lasting bond.

3. Share a Little Secret

• Everyone has secrets, small or big.
• Sharing secrets can make the bond more special and intimate.
• Research: Studies since 1994
  • Intimate disclosure creates a meaningful bond.
• Telling a little secret can get the ball rolling.

4. Give Compliments

• Saying: Compliments are verbal sunshine.
• Examples: "You look lovely today," "You have an awesome style."
• Boosts self-esteem and makes people feel special.
• Research: 2017 study in Frontiers in Psychology
  • Women prefer metaphorical language in compliments, shows creativity.
• Compliment unique things (e.g., artistic skills).
• Can be a great conversation starter.

5. Ask Questions

• Shows interest in their life.
• Examples:
  • Ask about hobbies, bucket list, favorite music.
• Research: 2017 Harvard study
  • Connection between asking questions and being liked.
• Let them talk and observe their smiles.

Conclusion

• Relax, be honest and genuine.
• They will feel positive vibes.
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