hi everybody and welcome to the quantum alignment show you know I feel like I should introduce myself for a change because I feel like I just get started talking and then I never like members let people know who I am so kiss you don't know I'm Karen Carrie Parker I am the author of the book understanding human design and lots of other human design books and more to come this year just actually submitted a part of a big part of my manuscript this morning to my publisher anyway writing is never an easy process for me I mean it is and it isn't anyway I'm excited to be here with you guys I want to start before we get rolling on our content today I want to just start with giving you a couple of updates if you don't know about this I'm gonna give you more information about this at the end of our presentation today but if you love human design and you are exploring how to really live your human design in the regular areas of your life so here trying to figure out well how does living my design benefit my health or my money or my relationships or my connection to spirit how do people spiritually connect when there are generators or manchester's if you want to be part of a community of people who speak human design language and can support you in living more true to yourself I want to invite you to join our understanding human design online community membership group this is a group it's it's a membership group that's a subscription it's twenty seven dollars a month what I did at the beginning of last year's I looked at all the human design courses that we've taught I put them all into this membership group instead of selling them offline from our website so in this membership group you get access to a ton of courses like thousands of dollars worth of courses for twenty seven dollars a month right now this month we're doing something kind of fun we're reading my book inside the body of God and Cindy's just posting for where you can register for the membership for reading this book inside the body of God we're going through a chapter by chapter on Facebook so basic I've been reading bedtime stories to my members but this is a book that I wrote that is a book that helps you really ground deliberate creation and we're talking about it we're talking about this book in the membership we're going through we're kind of human designer fighting it so we're talking about how do you do conscious creation through the lens of human design so join us because it's super fun and I just want to bring tyrannous that this summer every summer I teach a summer camp and it's kind of weird this year because I can't teach it live but but so I sat with this for a while I figure out how am I gonna do this but this summer we're gonna do summer camp a little bit differently we're just gonna have summer camp and we're going to do summer camp in the membership so you have to be a member to be a part of summer camp that means you join if you want to for just a month for twenty seven dollars but I think once you join you'll want to stay cuz it's pretty beautiful in the membership the summer for summer camp we're gonna do a class that I taught called the mystical circuit there are and we let your chart all those lines and shapes and things that connect to each other in the chart are actually part of circuits these are specific themes that flow together in the chart the mystical circuit is a circuit is that kind of a mysterious circuit it's a circuit we don't talk about a lot in traditional human design but there is a circuitry of awakening the process of waking up to spirit source consciousness and we're going to be going through the mystical circuit piece by piece by piece and really looking at your own definition in the mystical circuit and we're gonna look at what does that mean for you feeling openness in the mystical circuit and how does your unique hardwiring impact the way in which you are designed to a weekend because we're all designed to awaken nobody's designed to stay asleep for the rest of your life but we all do it in our own unique way so there's a lot of interesting insights in that mystical circuitry so we're going to talk about that and the member so stay tuned because I'm gonna give you guys more information about that in the next couple of weeks the next thing I just want to remind you is that all of our Human Design professional courses and Cindy is gonna post a link to that - they're all 35% off and they're gonna stay 35% off for the duration until we get a core classes if the core classes just the core classes okay so they will stay 35% off until we figure out what's up on this planet so I have to just say I've been doing something really weird but I got the intuitive hit to go back and read The Celestine Prophecy which I you know I think I read and lengthened when it came out in 1980 1990s have you read that recently Cindy not recently but there he also vote it's so really bizarre I mean I don't know it was it's really relevant and so one of the things they talked about I think in the one of the insights and I don't remember which number is that in this evolving world people who serve each other will be on the leading edge of the evolving economy and I've always taught that that as we shift and we move into a new way of being in the world that those of you who are involved in creating and amplifying quality of life and well-being for others will be the leaders in a quantum economy I know that's many of you listening right now and and if you're interested in learning to use human design as part of that those courses are all on sale for 35 percent off and we'll we'll make a payment plan we'll work with you if you need support with the payment plan last thing I want to update you with before we start talking about unentangled the conditioning that you might be carrying and holding from your inner child experiences your conditioning this summer starting in June I will be taking every other week off from the quantum alignment show which totally delights me because what that means for you is that you will have the privilege and the joy of being able to attend quantum alignment shows that are being taught by I don't like to call my students students because they're not students anymore they're experts so the experts that I have had the privilege of training over the years they will be coming in the summer and they will be sharing their unique brilliance and their unique insights about different aspects of human design here on the quantum alignment show so stay tuned this summer you're going to shake it up a little bit it's gonna be really awesome and just also informing you stay tuned because and just sort of pay attention and I'll post some more information about this too the other thing we're gonna be doing is we're gonna be hosting chart readathons for the next I don't know six eight weeks again I'm we're not going to start next week we'll probably start the week after but a chart read-a-thon is basically where we'll invite you to submit questions about your charts and our human design professionals and you can find our professionals if you're looking for a reading go find our professionals on the quantum alignment system web page though our professionals are going to come and do little quick off mini readings and just kind of answer your questions about your chart so you can get some more insights into your chart and who you are and what you're here to do okay and done with announcements I don't normally start with announcements but we're starting announcements so I know that the generators are sitting here now getting frustrated because they wanted to hear about generators so we are going to shift gears and talk about healing your inner child by design specifically talking about the generators so Cindy are the slides showing and moving they are okay good so I will start this presentation like I'm planning on starting every presentation about each one of the types and that is sometimes when I teach this information people get triggered and they get triggered because sometimes it stimulates all of us I gotta have to get out of here for a sec sometimes it stimulates sadness and grief that maybe you didn't get the experience growing up that you were hoping for and I just want you to be aware of that that sometimes thinking about this can trigger some of that grief when we talk about parenting and healing the inner child and the ways in which we see our children as parents or the ways in which we behave when we're children when we're looking at how we perceive children I like to look at children through a window and if you can imagine this window has four panes these are the four things we take into context when we're looking at why a child is doing what they're doing who a child is and how you can best support a child the first lens that you're going to look at your child if you're a parent that you're gonna see your child through the first pane is the human design pane when I mean you're looking at your child or if you are a child or if you've got old old panes that maybe you are carrying different kind pane not a window pane pane pane your human design had a big impact on who you were you are how you behaved what you needed energetically and when we are parents understanding our child's tight gives us really deep and important insights into who they are and why perhaps they behave and do the things that they do the second thing that we want to pay attention to when we are parenting children or if we are a child and maybe you didn't get to these means that every child goes through a series of developmental cycles and when you go through those developmental cycles you have a task it's a growth task which is kind of interesting because we continue to have growth tasks even when we grow up right but every child goes through predictable cycles of development and as you go through these cycles if you don't get the opportunity because your parents didn't understand or maybe they themselves never got an opportunity to really deal with this in a healthy way or maybe there were circumstances going on in your parents lives I don't really want to get into parent blaming I'm just saying many of our parents were because Salem's in a way that reflected their own wounding right though children go through these developmental cycles if they don't get to master the challenge of that particular cycle what happens a lot of times is they get stuck in the theme of that cycle and then will carry those behaviors with them obviously a more adult expressions usually but they'll carry those behaviors with them into adulthood and that sometimes creates a source of our struggles in our relationships as adults when we look at children and we look at children through the lens of being a parent or we look at our own childhood through the lens of being parented we know that our parents or we as parents bring our own conditioning into the parenting relationship you have your own stuff you bring into your parenting relationship or your parents brought into their relationship and that impacts deeply how we see our child if you came into a family that has really authoritarian parenting styles and you are let us say we talked about in our last session manifest errs and you're designed to be really powerful and follow your own initiative and your parents are how the parenting style is very repressive and restrictive and rigid you know that conditioning around their parenting style and you're pushing back against that may have created a conditioning that caused you to be a very relaxed very laid-back sort of hands-off parent and that might not work very well for some of your other kinds of kids maybe that might be a quasi okay not necessarily a great way to raise a manifester child but maybe not a man a generator or a mountain generator or a projector or a reflector last but not least our energy type our human design type gives us unique energy needs there are things we each need because of the configuration of our chart and those energy needs play out in the dynamics of our behaviors and if we don't learn while over the course of growing up how to appropriately get our unique energy needs met in a healthy way then we will resort sometimes to misbehavior or inappropriate unhealthy behaviors as a way of trying to manipulate the energy to get what you need so that you can feel loved seen recognized powerful etc interesting to note just by the way they talked about that in the Celestine Prophecy about fell out of my chair when I hit that chapter when we look at why children misbehave we tend to believe or we are trained to believe that children misbehave because they're spoiled because they're bad because your kid is just like your mud his mother or just like his father that they are jealous needy whiny clingy etc or that they have attention deficit disorder or some other issue that's causing them to act out if you'd adopt this belief system then your role as a parent becomes to control the child right if you can control the child and you can manage their behavior and if the child misbehaves it means you're a bad parent and so we go out into the world and if our child misbehaves we either completely shrink up and die because we think we're being bad parents and others were afraid other people are judging us or we sometimes if we're feeling like really good about ourselves or we need to make ourselves feel better about or somebody judge other people for being bad parents the real reason why children us behave is because they have unmet energy needs and they're not grown-ups so they can't share with you in a healthy way in fact many of us as grown-ups can't do this either what they need to get their energy needs met so a two-year-old can't say to you hey I'm feeling a little disenfranchised in this household and I'd really like to have some appropriate power like maybe you can give me a plant to water or something right or maybe you can give me a stool so I can turn the light switch on and off in the bedroom because wow that makes me feel powerful two girls can't say that right when we parent with the awareness of the idea that misbehavior is a form of communication and it's the way in which this child is trying to tell us they need something and we then as parents look at those unmet energy means and facilitate for our children ways that they can learn to get those needs met appropriately then we create healthy dynamics and strong resilient adults children need a couple of core things and by the way adults need this too okay whether you're whether you have inner child issues or not we all need this they need to feel lovable they need to feel powerful and capable they need to experiment and explore especially a third Center blind profiles or if they have a six-lane profile they need attention especially if they are generators projectors and reflectors and as you'll see in our conversation today generators need attention because it activates their energy it gives them something to respond to so that they can tap into the full life force of who they are every child is going to get these needs met in a different way depending on their human design and as I said in this particular class we're going to talk about the generators I have to keep my clock here so you don't lose track of time so let's talk first about what makes a generator and when you look at a generator chart pull out your charts if you got em handy the first thing that you're gonna see if you are a generator by design is that you have a defined sacral that's gonna be the red square in your chart you will also not have a defined motor to the throat so let's talk about what that looks like so here is the sacral only generator types and there are two generator types there's no generator type the pure generator and the manifesting generator we're going to talk about manifesting generators next week but if you are a manifesting generator listen up because you're gonna learn a lot today that's going to apply to you as well this sacral Center is the most powerful motor in the body and part of what makes it the most powerful is that it's sustainable meaning this is the only energy center in the chart then hat when it's turned on and working well when it's functioning at its highest level is like a never ready bunny battery it just keeps going and going and going and going and going so sustainability is a key theme here generators have the ability to have access to sustainable energy now that doesn't mean they don't need rest okay but it does mean they have a tremendous amount of energy that they can access for the most part on a daily basis in a regular consistent sustained way that's important because this energy center is the Center for workforce and life force energy this is the place where we have the energy to work to work to create resources to work to build things to work to take care of children to take care of aging parents to take care of the people we love all of this energy is contained in the sacral and if you've ever raised children you know that especially when they're little and they come in because they have a nightmare my 11 year old came in because she had a nightmare the other day still okay that when they have when they come in because and they wake you up because they're hungry or they're scared or something's going on you can't say oh no no no I'm just not gonna do that right you have to wake up and take care of that kid and it requires of you then you are sustainable that you have the ability to show up 24/7 especially if they're home because of social isolation and you're homeschooling them and then you're taking care of them on top of that they're here you're here you have to be here for it all the time right so this energy center gives us that energy that we use for parenting and caring as well as for working this is also the energy that is for sex and sexuality and it's fixed any thing that's colored in has a very fixed way of operating and so it doesn't have a lot of variability and it last time when we talked about the infestors we talked about how manifest your energy because the sacral center is open has variability in its sexuality it can use sexual energy in a lot of different ways the generator can't it's defined and it's fixed and it's fairly consistent it doesn't mean you can't learn new things it doesn't mean you don't like to experiment and explore but for the most part the quality of your sexual energy is fixed and consistent the coolest part about this Center is that it is it's not a magnet it's not like a magnet but it is a powerful source of information for the generator types that can stick them or align them into their right place in the world so a lot of times people say oh why am I not a manifester I wish I was a manifester and I say to them be happy you're a generator because it's pretty easy to be a generator even though generators think it's not basically this motor it is like a heat-seeking missile only it's not a visit necessary look for heat it looks for a right work so if it's completely constantly always program and searching on a quest to find to the the information to put you in the right place your right path as a generator this motor doesn't have words associated with it noted how far down away it is from the throat Center and how far away it is from the mind okay this is a very primal gut level awareness energy that operates with sound it's like if you think about a car you know I need to use your key to turn that well you used to use a key to turn the car I don't think you do that so much anymore now you push buttons right but in the olden days when we use a car the key to start your car a this motor the key to this motor in the human design chart is sound it uses two sounds and if you start following these two sounds making these sounds and people always say what can I do this in my head you can eventually if you practice doing it in your head but I encourage you all if you're just waking up to being a generator make the generator sounds because those sounds are a frequency of energy and they get that motor humming and once it starts to hum it starts sending you impulses and signals and sounds and that gut-level hmm this feels right hmm this doesn't feel right it gives you these deep core visceral very kind of primal insights into what you should be doing where you should be going and whether something is a good choice for you to make or not the two sounds that the sacrum makes are aha and uh uh and there's a beauty in these sounds the first thing that's important about these sounds is as I said it's a frequency of energy and when you start to go AHA in you're a generator type if you keep the answering people's questions or answering the things that show up in your life with those sounds which are for many of us their sounds we were told to not make us children because they're rude right I was raised in the South you know you don't say uh-huh because that's rude right so you you we learn sometimes to disconnect from the sound zone you can reconnect with these sounds you will feel it in your body and any of you who are generator types who feel lost or lacking in clarity or like you don't know what to do connecting with those sounds is going to get that whole situation turned around for you pretty darn quick the second thing that's really brilliant and beautiful and elegant about this Center is because it uses no words it bypasses the mind and when we understand human design we know that most of us have monkey mind going on because we're designed to look at ideas from multiple perspectives and that's really what's going on with monkey mind we're just looking at ideas from multiple perspectives we're curious and exploratory inquisitive and full of curiosity so we have questions write those questions oftentimes create false answers that are only possibilities to be explored not true and we often will make the mistake of following the things in our head and trying to make them happen and not using the wisdom of the responsive nature of the sacral which we're going to talk about in just a minute and then we get all tangled up and trying to figure out where do we need to be and what do we need to do and what's the next right step for us to take this sacral bypasses all of that figuring out how all of that panic and pressure about I don't know what to do or all of that frustration that comes from thinking that you thought you knew what you were doing and having a fixed idea and visualizing and visualizing and visualizing it and trying to force it into form when the timing wasn't right or if it wasn't the right idea and then feeling really discouraged because you put all your energy into trying to build something that came out of your mind and not from your sacral so I want to give you an example for my own life of something of the way this happened for me in the very very beginning when I first learned my human design I am a manifesting generator by type so I'm not a pure generator but I do have a sacral response when I first learned human design I got really excited I know you probably can't imagine that right but I got really excited and so like within the first few weeks of learning it I was like I'm gonna teach a workshop so I staged the workshop I know how to do this right I rented a room I made fliers in those days we didn't have the internet we had fliers right I made a flyer I wrote a press release and distributed it to the local newspaper I put fliers up all over town I did everything right to make this workshop happen one person came and lost a ton of money okay and I didn't have a lot of money to waste in those days all is gutted so I was like okay well I sure as heck didn't respond to that I can have made that whole thing about on my head right so I waited about a month and a half and I was still sharing human design shirts with people and one day somebody said to me Karen you should teach a workshop about this now when she said that to me it's like bomb a gong went off right this resonant force in my girls like uh-huh and so I thought okay I'm gonna do an experiment I went and I booked the exact same room I redid the flier change the date used the same flier I redid the press release change the day use the same press release and literally did everything exactly the same as I had done the first time around second time around had 36 people in the room and the only difference other than the date what is that I responded I used my sacral instead of my mind to create the experiments of the workshop right so the sacral knows the truth and the key to really turning it on is to use yes or no questions yes or no questions now here's the thing when you look at parenting and type there literally isn't a single type in the entire human design system that is designed to be told what to do none of this is told is designed to be told what to do we are designed as generators to be asked we are designed to be asked would you prefer to clean your room this morning mm-hmm this afternoon mm-hmm okay do you want some peace on your plate mm-hmm do you want a three-piece on your plate mm-hmm do you want more peace mm-hmm would you like eight Peas mm-hmm do you want five peas mm-hmm these are little things you can do if you have generator children to lead them down the path of cooperation by learning to ask them yes-or-no questions if you tell a generator what to do and they're sacral replies with mm-hmm which you've probably seen that expression on a kid's face if you raise children before and you force them to override that's sacral response if you overpower that response and you don't work with it and explore how you can create a response that works for your child and for you this isn't about not setting your boundaries is about co-creating a direction with your child if you override that child's sacral Authority enough and you don't ask them you disconnect child from their own inner compass and they can't know their truth because they get disconnected from the source of truth for themselves so as parents one of our jobs if we're raising generator children's is to keep them connected to that inner truth that sacral motor you know when I was raising my other kids my older kids I have older kids and then I have an eleven year old you know this was in the time when Nancy Reagan came out with this whole just say no thing in high school right just say no to drugs and we were telling kids just say no just say no if you don't have the opportunity to say no growing up and generators need to have that opportunity to find appropriate times and places and ways to say no it's a skill set if you never learned how to say no appropriately and you get disconnected from your inner compass and then you become a teenager and now you're out in the world and your natural inclination developmentally is to experiment and explore as well as to learn to break away from your parents and you've got this backlog of needing to say no appropriately because you never got to say no at home you're a gonna have a teen or a young adult it's gonna be disconnected from what's truth for me and consequently instead of being conscious and deliberate and moving themselves along their path and then a line way they're gonna be rebellious and potentially making really life threatening decisions and it's gonna make it very difficult for them over time to be able to even do something as simple as set a good boundary because they won't know the power of their know or their yes because they'll be disconnected from this inner compass that is the compass of the generation here now as I said they'll have a red spliff generator type will have a red square colored in and they will also potentially have a connection between the ozma and the throat or you can have an undefined throat so you may have any of these connections here any of these connections here or any of these connections here plus the red square colored in or you can have an undefined throat no connection at all to the throat and still be a generator each energy type if you're going to put on a play each energy type plays a specific role the generator if you're going to put on a show plays the role of the workforce energy that puts on the show they build this up they make this seg they're the ones that are potentially acting out the drama they're running the lights they're printing up the brochures and handing out the brochures as people come into the audience they're the worker bees the people who do the work to make it happen not the initiators remember the manifest errs the initiators were the ones that got the idea started its the generators that come in afterwards and provide the sustainable energy the ability to take a project from the beginning to its end now as I'm saying that please know the generators are people who need people you personally as a generator might not be well designed to be bringing a project from start to finish that might not be your greatest gift you might be somebody that's really really good at project startup you may be really really good at somebody who is a good consultant who comes in in the middle of chaos and cleans it up okay but together because generators are people who need people together a group of generators bring the energy to bring something from start to finish generators are here to work and build and your purpose as a generator is to do the work of the world and to become masterful at that work now I want to talk about generators and mastery and work for just a second because I want to bust a myth for you guys somewhere at some point I'm not sure when or where or why somebody came up with the expression do what you love and the money will follow and instead of saying hmm does that mean we all somehow bought into this story that that means the only work that's relevant and truly aligned is the work that we love that brings us money and we somehow warped this generators story of do what you love and the money will follow - if you're a generator and you respond to the right work the money will follow I want to take that apart just a little bit because the right work for the generator isn't necessarily going to be a Jo be a job it's your passion project it's what you long to bring forth in your life that's aligned with the story of who you are it might be a place of service it might be going away in the summer time to teach children in an underprivileged school it might mean doing some other kind of project on the side that isn't your job but your job creates the support for you to be able to do that project please don't get yourself so twisted up that you think you don't have a great that you're out of alignment because you have a passion project and a job but your jobs not your passion project sometimes it's not and the right work isn't necessarily going to be the job the right work is going to be you have a place where you are inspired and fulfilled that your passion that energy of that turned on several which is a kind of passion is allowing you to fulfill itself through your work that could be something like staying home and raising your kids that might be your passion project for a while that might mean having an amazing garden in your backyard that feeds your community that might mean having an art project or an art studio and you do art on the side and your job provides the funding for you to be able to do that for fun and to fulfill that passion of your creativity don't get caught up if you have a job that isn't your passion project and think it's not right okay that you're not living true to your you follow that sacral it'll take you where you need to be and sometimes it takes you to a job that makes you the money so that you can do your passion somewhere else and that when we lose connection to our passion as generators that's when we dead and our connection to the sacral especially if we think we can't do what we love to do because of the money or we think we can't that we have to make money doing our passion and if we can't figure out how we put the passion aside what if you can have the passion and the job and sometimes the passion and the job coincide and sometimes it doesn't and it's not about the job it's about making sure you have that sacral fire somewhere coming out in your life and that you're not avoiding your life because you haven't found it yet or it hasn't found you yet or you've talked yourself out of it or you've told yourself it's impossible or you denied it for yourself because you think you can't make money at it and now instead of following your passion in the evenings or on the weekends you watch Netflix because it's too painful to try to figure out how to do this in the way that society tells you you have to do it because you think oh my god I have to make money on it wait don't what if it's about becoming masterful over yourself and the fulfillment of who you are because that's really the mastery of the generator type every type in human design has a particular decision-making strategy for the generators it is not to initiate as it is for our manifester types generators have to wait and when you tell a generator when you do and I do readings for generators and you tell them you're here to wait they're like what you are here to wait but it's beautiful because that waiting allows you to be in alignment with what shows up you are your to wait to respond so let's talk through this for a minute because is always a big question for people what does that mean let's say for example you're here at work and you're on your computer at work and you're thinking Cheers oh my gosh I need a vacation I'm just so burned out right we don't have that I'm nothing if you have that experience anymore because many of us are not going to work but you know let's say in the olden days pre covered days but when you were burned out you'd say I need a vacation now typical generator non non aware generator you might open up your computer and start searching on kayak or Southwest or frontier or whatever and start booking yourself flights right oh I think I'll go to Mariko and you start booking yourself a flight that's not responding that's creating out of your head ok that afternoon you go to the doctor for your annual physical and the doctor says oh my gosh you need a vacation you need to take some time off you're like on the verge of an adrenal collapse you need to take some time off and get some rest and take care of yourself on the way home driving home from the doctor's office you see this billboard on this billboard this is beautiful scene with the sunset and the palm trees and the beach and you think hmmm I need to go to the beach that's responding responding means something shows up in your outer reality a sign a signal a clue a cue that you respond to that's the peace that you respond to and from that place you can start building the next part of the dream so if you went home after seeing this billboard and then booked a vacation to the beach you'd be responding which is different than when you were sitting here your office desk going ah I need to get away right now you have something to respond to and just to make things more clear because the universe is pretty sneaky that way when you get home in your mailbox there's a postcard from your friend who's just moved to the Cayman Islands and she sends you this postcard and she says why don't you come down and visit me I missed you let's hang out boom sacral says uh-huh right and now you go booked your ticket the struggle for the generator sometimes because generators are a doing tight is to wait for that signal for right timing she's really what the sack was about it's the signal that tells you right time right place right opportunity when we don't wait for that signal or if we give ourselves permission to wait for that signal usually what happens first as we freaked out right we get afraid oh my god if I don't do something nothing's gonna happen I can lay money on the fact that if you are a generator and you stop initiating and doing and wait and you start waiting instead something's probably going to show up for you before the end of the day things show up pretty quickly for the generator types you are designed to do the cosmic cha-cha-cha with the physical world and you are as a generator pretty much always responding you're responding to what do I want to eat you're responding to when you open up your closet in the morning go oh I'll show you where besides yoga pants right you're responding to everything in the world all the time and those opportunities for you to grow in the mastery of who you are and express yourself show up pretty regularly especially when you start tuning into them every type has an emotional theme the emotional theme for the generator is frustration and it can sometimes be a challenge now remember that frustrate the emotional themes the way that I teach it is an emotional theme goes both ways you either express it or other people around you get express it towards you so if you're a generator you're either frustrated or people are frustrated with you okay everything about the generator process of frustration or the generator emotional theme of frustration is related to momentum or lack thereof the problem or the challenge is this generators have a stair-step learning curve or a stair-step life process it is built into the way that a generator learns that they have surges in mastery when they start something new or you get a new job or you're learning a new skill in the beginning Loup you have a nice certain mastery you get the hang of it relatively quickly but at a certain point and this is a natural inevitable part of the generator process you're going to hit a plateau you're gonna sit in that new skill and no matter how much you practice and work at it you're not going to make improvement or if you're in a job that you really loved and you've gotten really really good at it at a certain point you're gonna sit on that plateau and be like oh I hate my job I'm so bored I know everything what is the net what am I gonna get promoted when does something else gonna happen I'm making it a better project that flat hoe is an opportunity for the generator to take care of themselves to nurture themselves to explore and think about other opportunities or other place places and ways to grow but most importantly that plateau is a cycle when the generator is building up energy building up momentum for the next breakthrough so that they can have another surge in mastery and that breakthrough will either be literally your skill set will improve and how many of you is generator types you know this right you your training training training really hard for an event let's say for you're an athlete and then all of a sudden you get the flu and you go to bed for a week and then you get up and you're like man I haven't trained and forever and and you know and I was so like not having the breakthrough now I'm really gonna be behind in my you know in my mastery and you get it on the bike or you start running and all of a sudden that plateau cycle has ended and now you're suddenly way better than you were before you got sick even though you were laying on your butt for a whole week right those plateaus are dangerous for the generator process because the symptom of momentum building is frustration it's not a really frustration it's just the energies is starting to vibrate and you have a sense that there's more that there's more available that there's more coming and you think because of your conditioning that you have to figure out what that next rate thing is but you don't it shows up for you and if you can be at peace with the awareness at oh this is momentum building instead of doing what many many generally do witches quit generators tends to quit before the breakthrough and they go from surgeon mastery Plateau who quit surgeon mastery Plato quit surgeon Master Plato quit and they never get to go up to the next level because they keep quitting leaving behind trails of beginnings and quitting's beginnings and quitting's beginnings and quitting's it doesn't mean that as a generator you can't quit but it means you have to quit correctly you have to respond to quitting this if you don't respond to quitting you just bail then you have to start over from the beginning you can respond to quitting and then that might be the right opportunity for you to quit you learned what you needed to learn now it's time to go on to the next thing when we look at this from a parenting perspective as parents we have a role of peplum or parenting generators to do two things number one is to recognize that frustration is an important part of the generator process and we have to support the generators in learning how to manage frustration so that they don't start engaging from the very start in cycles of quitting that don't allow them to become masterful over themselves most importantly and the story of who they are and their self-expression so it becomes a little bit of an interesting journey for a parent of a generator because you really have to check in with your generator and ask them sacral questions are you feeling like you should quit piano guitar football science fair whatever is this is it important for you to stay with this and figure it out is there anything I can do to support you while you manage this frustration these are really great parenting questions to ask the frustrated generator and to start giving them the vocabulary for frustration and instead of calling and frustration save room seems like you're having a lot of energy right now that's telling me that you're about to figure things out do you feel it do you feel it and to help generators work with that frustration rather than causing them to sit there with it and or throw a fit recognize that energy that momentum that's building sometimes needs support and dissipating take the generator kid for a run around the block like you would your dog right or go play with them or wrestle with them or do something physical to help them discharge that energy as they build that frustration when you are frustrated generator you need help moving that energy sometimes as a child and certainly need support analyzing and processing that energy so it doesn't cause you to quit and miss the opportunity for mastery how many of us as generators have disappointments in our past because we didn't stick with something long enough and in hindsight we wish we had right the other part of it is especially if you have a very intense child or you were a very intense child in some family structures when children get frustrated it's not allowed it's a negative emotion right and we don't like it we don't like it when our kids are frustrated we want them to not be frustrated we want them to just get it done right and so many generators oftentimes learn over time to really shut down that frustration piece and to internalize it instead of allowing themselves to express it in a healthy way and if you don't learn how to work with that energy in a healthy way it sets you up to potentially bailing on opportunities that support you and fulfilling that your story of who you are I like to call the generator types of The Alchemist this is the quantum human design name for the generator the spiritual job of the generator is to turn inspiration into form through building through doing through working the generator when we look at the the quantum purpose of the generator or the quantum purpose of the Alchemist the role of the alchemist is to physically manifest creativity and let's be really clear what we're talking about creativity here we're not just talking about art in that little narrow way that we define creativity we're talking about the ability to manifest the ability to explore the ability to make into form through devotion because the generator process has built into it cycles of mastery or rather cycles of surge in masteries and plateau surge in masteries and plateaus and if you are not devoted and devotion is the experience of the process of tending to the expression of the self over and over again cultivating the self recognizing that who you are is the canvas of your life purpose that through that process of devoting to sticking with it and exploring it and investigating it and being curious about what's the frustration about what's the breakthrough about where is this headed that that devotion piece allows you ultimately to physically manifest through the story of your life thus the spark of divine creativity as I said the challenge for the generator type is to quit before mastery some important things to contemplate for you as you are healing perhaps your own disconnection from your sacral and your generator nature first question is are you expressing your mastery or have you allowed have you let frustration cause you to settle for Less are you compromised in expressing who you are and number two which is very similar is frustration keeping you from your masterful destiny is your frustration this frustration keeping you from waiting it out until you have the next breakthrough parenting challenges when you parent a generator Danka huh your goal when you raise a generator child is to raise children with a strong sense of capability and the awareness of the potential for frustration and to teach them how to use frustration with awareness to know that oh I'm frustrated and building momentum what do I need to do to prepare for the next breakthrough okay and to make sure they have a strong sense of capability generators habitually settle for less than what they're capable of because of the frustration because of the intolerance or the misunderstanding of the experience of frustration because we think frustration equals wrong because somewhere along the way we were told that if it's right it's gonna be easy and if it's wrong it's gonna be hard and frustrating not true for the generator if you are going to raise healthy generator children they need to burn healthy and they need to burn energy in a healthy way for generators to sleep well and stay healthy they have to take empty the tank every day that sacral motor has to go down to the zero mark on the gas tank every day which means generator children generally need a lot of physical activity now every kid is different and there are other elements sometimes in the chart that can cause some people by design to be a little bit more sedentary but generators as a rule need to burn out their cycle everyday and if you are an adult generator and you're struggling with sleeping it probably needs unique means you need more exercise it also might mean that because you might be disconnected from your passion project you are avoiding going to work you're avoiding your daily life at night and instead of going to bed and resting so you can wake up excited and exuberant about going into the next day tomorrow okay do the next thing in your day you're dragging yourself out of bed going to work hmm Sutton that settled compromised energy so at night when you come home from work instead of resting and regenerating you're avoiding you're watching Netflix you're maybe doing something else on the Internet cruising social media etc right and then you get tired and instead of going to bed when you're tired you wait to get your second one else and you get your cell and now you're staying up till 1:00 2:00 o'clock in the morning and you're not getting enough sleep and you're chronically sleep-deprived and you're not moving you're sedentary and so you're not burning out your energy and you're not sleeping well and you're not going to sleep when you're tired and listening to those inter signals that make good healthy sleep possible when I used to coach parents of children with a DD and and and I'm not in any way saying that a DD isn't a real diagnosis but I do think it's a diagnosis that probably is used a little bit too frequently I actually found that with the exception is that over the course of two years of doing this all the time is a full-time job with the exception of one child every child I ran charts for during that time for generators which I personally would have expected them to be open sack of beans manifestos projectors or reflectors who were amplifying life-force energy but in reality it was generators and what I found was that many of the children I was working with and the parents I was working with they were all chronically super private the families were chronically sleep-deprived now if you are chronically sleep-deprived your serotonin levels will be low and you will have similar symptoms to that of a DD and it was very interesting to me that when I could get all the kids and all the parents in a family unit to go like say for a walk in the evenings or go do something physical and burn off extra energy and not have a sedentary lifestyle and start to increase the quality of their sleep when the whole family slept better interestingly enough a lot of the AGD symptoms went away and all the parenting challenges went away cuz everybody did better when everybody was well-rested the second thing generator parent the parents of generators need to know is how to teach children to in frustration generator children as I said need to know how to work with frustration they also need to learn how to wait and they need to be taught the power of waiting to teach children to say I know you want it right now I can feel how excited you are about it and the universe is so abundant and so aware of what you need that it's going to show up in exactly the right time for you so let's think of something to do while we're waiting let's go find some creative ways to use our energy while works practicing waiting for the right time teach them of course the power of the sacral response if you have it four year old generator or even younger or a little bit older the best thing you can do is play what I like to call the AHA a game if you get down with a young generator and you start asking them a series of yes-or-no questions and let them answer the questions with AHA and make it really silly and fun like are you a unicorn do you have pink hair do you have glitter on your head when you walk and you shuffle your feet does it make lightning on the carpet when you ask them yes-or-no questions and they respond with their sacral cells you can see their energy pick up it's like an energy bomb and they begin to escalate their energy frequency and they laugh and they giggle and it just feels so good and for those of you who are generator types if you've never been responding and you start responding you will see that it awakens this lifeforce energy in you that is just delicious and delightful that is a quality of life force you've probably been longing for for a very long time because most of us grow up without access to it generators do not have a motorised throat Manifest errs do manifesting generators do all of the types projectors generators and reflectors who have non-motorized throats need recognition to be heard so it's very important to when you raise your generator child did you create that recognition for them make sure you notice them and talk to them and draw them out at the dinner table ask them questions they come home they need to respond to feel seen and to feel heard if you love a generator don't take their frustration personally learn to ask them yes-or-no questions that's the bread crumbs down which you can lead them it's very easy generators are easy to move in a certain direction recognize where they are fixed in their energy and don't try to change them generators their sexuality is fixed don't change it work with it understand if you love a generator the importance of work if they love their work whatever their passion project is they're gonna want to do it because it brings them so much joy help them get out of their head help them learn to trust their sacral and like I said if they start to build the frustration take them for a run okay they need to move physically especially when they get frustrated and if for whatever reason whether it's illness or something happens in their life if they can't be moving if they become sedentary it can really cause a decrease in life force energy and increase in frustration as I said if you want to become part of our understanding human design community and learn more about being a generator and learn how to get people to work with you and correctly according to your type and get your generator questions answered join me in our 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bit trickier which is why the sounds are so powerful practice feeling how you feel in your gut as you encounter things in life and here's the tricky thing and I forgot to talk about this but this is so fascinating to me and when I coach people probably the biggest thing that I coach them around is giving them permission to follow what feels good the sacral is supposed to show you through feeling what feels good and then you go do it and it's interesting to know how many of us have either shame or guilt or like it was not really allowed like weren't we have a hesitancy to allow ourselves to follow our good and so I really want to encourage you if you are in generator tight to follow what feels good and here's the other piece that means that sometimes it's gonna take you in a place where your brain is gonna freak out your mind is gonna be like what I can't do that that's so unreasonable but your SAP was gonna be like not do it do it go for it and you're gonna have to really work with yourself to give yourself permission to override your reasoning and follow the sacral and that's scary but try it anyway because it's really cool so called stay Siri on Facebook says how does our responding strategy work with sacral sounds and decisions we know for those of us with emotional Authority it's our ultimate but how does that work with the second response so Authority doesn't change strategy authority influences strategies so here's how that works for the generator your emotional authority and half of you if you have a Brown triangle colored in on the right-hand side of your chart you have emotional Authority the other emotional thority it means you have internal moods or internal emotional waves what that basically means is first of all you're not here to be spontaneous you need time to make decisions as a generator what that means is that your initial Sako response to something has to stay consistent over time so if you get an opportunity to respond to something and you're like hmm and you're emotionally defined you have emotional authority that hmm needs to stay the same over the course of a couple of days you can't account vacillate or change if it vacillates or changes so if you're like and then you're like and you're like all over the place while you're waiting for clarity don't do it because what that means is that your entire relationship with whatever it is that you are choosing to do is gonna have that same this way that way this way that way feeling with it and you're always gonna feel unsettled and you may even have difficulty bringing energy all of your energy to the table of course if your sacral response is no uh-huh make sure that no stays consistent over time if it's something that you have to take action on but your response has to stay the bottom line is this your sacral response has to stay consistent over time well how's this quitting play out if someone has the gate 53 defined you have to respond to quitting start get it started cuz the gate 53 is the gate of starting you're here to begin things you make a great and project startup person you're not necessarily so good at finishing things but if you need to quit you have to respond to quitting that's the piece that's important to understand Mary Kate asks are you going to be using the quantum alignment vocabulary and I in the group in which group understanding human design totally totally it's available in the centers close right now is that a fact yeah it's up there Nicole asks what do you do when you're waiting and waiting and nothing is showing up some time it's not always sometimes nothing shows up and that's true for all the waiting types and here are two things I want you to explore while you're waiting number one actually three things I want you to explore is there anything any loose threads any past business anything you need to clear off your plate that might be keeping you from being okay with moving forward okay so is there some financial things you need to handle or that sort of stuff closet you need to clean is there something you need to do to that's to keep you liberated from past patterns number two take care of your self-worth because the more we value ourselves the faster we speed up opportunities in every area of our lives and number three make sure you're not burned out because sometimes what happens is you're burned out and the universe knows you're burned out and so it doesn't send you anything so responding to quitting looks like this Gavin you need to quit your job oh okay that's responding to quitting or you respond to somebody saying you know what why don't we take the summer off let's go buy an Airstream and go travel around the country and you go uh-huh now you respond to quitting okay if something shows up outside of yourself that gives you the cue that you're supposed to respond so you don't have a sapper response Gavin all right okay so answering some of Chris's what was in the membership that would help adult generators and yeah obviously the generator of course the center's course I'm like I mean based on channel like transform your relationship really gives you information when you're doing that and also actually inside the body at goddess Karen's going through that really gives it's kind of I'm finding it during story time there you get insights that aren't necessarily you don't any type can use it because as you're learning to live in your body and bring it in that's yeah that's you that's you so it but it it's great having story time and how it can relate to the human design chart I'm okay Carolyn on Facebook says that's probably the last question since we've gone over how do you tap into the genius freak line in a genius way okay so that is a line that connects the eyes met to the throat actually is still transiting I think it's been transiting all week so this is deep inner knowing it's like I like to call it I like to call the circuitry that this channel shows up in the gnostic circuit so it's like deep knowingness and that knowingness is a knowingness that is kind of like um it's a sacred knowingness that you are allowing yourself to indulgent to contemplate to think about to explore journal meditate on it's a projected energy which means that for you you have to wait for something to respond to before you share it so before you share what you know give to wait for somebody to ask for it because here's the fake badge same channel we're all playing we've all been playing with this energy all week that same channel is a channel that is sometimes called the Freak - genius channel I'm not a big fan of that name but the the story or the reason why it's called the Freak - genius channel is this the difference between a freak and a genius is timing and really it's not even timing it's waiting for someone to ask you what you're thinking because when they ask then they're ready their vibrational frequency is aligned hopefully and they're ready to hear what you have to say and they're valuing you enough to listen and that's what makes you a genius and if you are not waiting if you're sharing what you know you're in an innovative and unique transformative insights and you're out in the world going boom on the loo and cheering them everywhere people will back away very quickly because they won't be ready for it so just leave 23:20 interests so yes and we've gone over by almost 10 minutes so yes did you have something else you wanted to say it's nice to have questions but this is an hour and like Aaron was mentoring in the membership that we do last karynda's q and A's both a morning and an evening session a newbie session and then just asking the questions in the Facebook group um you'll get other people so it's it's a great place if you want to get design questions answered or meet with other people that might have that forty through twenty three channel and yes exactly so yeah so J is because we do a lot of this videos for hours in the membership a couple times a month so you'll all be well take good care of yourselves stay well rest if you our generator keep responding turn on the life-force that is your right and Sydney as always thank you and talk to you guys next week we'll talk about manifesting generators by