Life Lessons from Three Personal Stories

Sep 11, 2024

Lecture Notes: Three Stories from Life

Introduction

  • The speaker intends to share three stories from their life.
  • Emphasis: no big deal, just three stories.

Story 1: Connecting the Dots

  • Background:
    • Dropped out of Reed College after six months, stayed as a drop-in for another 18 months.
    • Biological mother was a young unwed graduate student.
    • Adoption story: initially set to be adopted by a lawyer and his wife; they wanted a girl.
    • Eventually adopted by parents who promised biological mother the child would go to college.
  • College Experience:
    • Chose an expensive college, draining parents' savings.
    • Dropped out as couldn’t see the value of education in his life goals.
    • Freed from mandatory classes, attended classes based on interest.
  • Key Example:
    • Took a calligraphy class at Reed College, which was renowned for this.
    • Learned about typography which later influenced Macintosh design.
    • Important insight: connecting dots is only possible looking back.
  • Takeaway: Trust in your future path, even if unclear now.

Story 2: Love and Loss

  • Professional Journey:
    • Co-founded Apple in parent's garage at age 20.
    • Apple grew into a $2 billion company over 10 years.
    • Released Macintosh, turned 30, and then got fired.
  • Post-Firing:
    • Initially devastating, felt like a public failure.
    • Realized still loved his work; decided to start over.
    • Founded NeXT and Pixar, remarried, and started a family.
    • Apple's acquisition of NeXT brought him back to Apple.
  • Key Insight:
    • Love for work is crucial; don’t settle.
    • Being fired was ultimately beneficial; led to a creative period.
    • Message: Find what you love, don’t settle.

Story 3: Death

  • Personal Reflection:
    • At 17, read a quote about living each day as your last.
    • Regularly questioned if daily actions aligned with life goals.
  • Importance of Death:
    • Death as a tool for prioritizing life’s choices.
    • Removes fears and external expectations, focusing on what matters.
    • Recognizes death as a life-changing agent.
  • Philosophical Insight:
    • Urges: Don’t waste life living someone else’s life.
    • Encourages following heart and intuition.
  • Closing Message: "Stay hungry, stay foolish."