Mastering Toasts for Every Occasion

Aug 18, 2024

Notes on Toastmasters Presentation by Ramona J. Smith

Introduction

  • Ramona J. Smith, Toastmasters International 2018 World Champion of Public Speaking.
  • Importance of speaking in front of an audience; can be demanding yet rewarding.
  • Toastmasters help build confidence in communication.

Tips for Giving a Toast

1. Keep it Short and Sweet

  • Importance of getting to the point.
  • Aim for a brief and engaging message that brings a smile.
  • Consider the occasion when preparing your toast:
    • Memorial Services:
      • Focus on celebrating positive aspects of the honoree's life.
      • Highlight a few remarkable accomplishments.
      • Avoid clichés and long stories that may bore listeners.
    • Weddings:
      • Speak from the heart and wish the couple well.
      • Mention one admirable aspect of their relationship (ensure appropriateness).

2. Be Careful with Humor

  • Humor should be empathetic and suitable for the occasion.
  • In weddings, avoid embarrassing stories and risqué jokes.
  • Focus on the person being honored, not stories that could make guests uncomfortable.

3. Practice

  • Rehearse your toast at least once or twice before the event.
  • Plan an effective opening: "I’d like to propose a toast."
  • Allow time for guests to raise their glasses before you start speaking.
  • Practice projecting your voice, especially in large gatherings:
    • Breath deeply and let your voice radiate from your center.

Conclusion

  • With preparation and practice, you can master toasting.
  • Aim to make every celebration memorable. Cheers!