there's a big push today to not get married the problem is there's a lot of benefits to getting married so my goal today is to convince you with 30 big important reasons you might want to get married especially to the right person support during challenging times life can get difficult and you never know when it can throw a curveball this study shows that people remain happier during life's problems than unmarried people helper in life so often people want to be financially set before marriage but a marital companion can help you achieve those goals better increased happiness this study shows statistically married couples are more happy even when adjusted for other factors like education race and income they are just more happy no matter the circumstance companionship and shared experiences a lot of people find it more fulfilling to experience life with someone else increased sense of fulfillment while single life can be fun and adventure interest people normally find more fulfillment in life once they're married Financial stability through shared resources you can be more financially set once you share your resources example people that are married and live together and are committed together only have to pay one rent instead of two separate rents and they're committed so it has to happen efficient time management through shared roles marriage offers more efficient time management through shared roles an example example one person goes shopping for both instead of two Shoppers that saves time marriage offers joint decision-making on important life matters as the saying goes two heads are better than one and when two heads are together you can more often make better decisions I know I have made better decisions time and time again because of what my wife had to input marriage gives support in achieving personal and professional goals two people working towards a goal can really lighten the load when I was in dental school it was a lot easier for married couples to share the load and help the husband achieve better grades in school enhanced physical health a major survey of over 127,000 American adults found that married men are healthier than men who were never married or whose marriages ended in divorce or widowhood people in marriages are more likely to thrive Gallop well-being data from 2009 to 2023 find that married people are much more likely to be thriving in their well-being than adults who have never married or who are divorced or who are living with a domestic partner married people are less stressed this study used stressed hormones to find out that married people were actually less stressed than singles in stressful situations improved relationship commitment according to many studies people in married relationships last longer than cohabitation relationships access to healthare benefits this is a little bit of shared resources but normally one spouse is likely to have health care through an employer that they can share between a married couple successful children children are almost better in every category when they are children of a married couple this study States compared to children who are raised by their married parents children in other family types are more likely to achieve lower levels of Education to become teen parents and to experience health behavior and mental health problems before I get to the best part make sure you watch all my videos on how to plan the perfect proposal I have thousands of ideas and tips on things like how to plan and photograph The Proposal also if you want more money to spend on the engagement I show you how to save hundreds to thousands on the ring jewelers know that this is a one-time purchase you know nothing about so take all my tips so you don't get ripped off and use the links below this video cuz they will help help you out and those are the best places to buy rings and also help you save tons of money division of household chores and responsibilities if you are married you're less likely to do a chore you don't want to do because you have a spouse that will like it of course that only happens if you're sharing and you're doing stuff that they don't want to do as much increased sense of security and safety married individuals are generally safer as they are less likely to be victims of crime than never married divorce and and separated individuals married individuals experience less pain in their life married individuals with arthritis in this study actually show that they have less pain than those not married less likely to feel lonely you may think this goes without saying but married people are much less likely to feel lonely even less lonely than single parents with children Financial tax benefits in homes that have an earn with substantially less income than than the main earner your tax rates are substantially less than other Tech development of effective communication skills marry people develop much more effective communication skills that they can take into their business life their schooling or whatever social situation that they're in marry people live longer while it goes somewhat hand inhand with a healthier life married individuals live longer than not married individuals more intelligent many people today will tell you that it is smarter to not get married what those most people may want to know is that it smarter people are more likely to be married early retirement married individuals according to a few studies retire earlier than those not married feeling loved and cared for I don't have studies for this one but from my personal experience if you marry someone awesome you will feel loved and cared for it's very comforting and fulfilling that someone cares about me each day and about what I did and that makes me feel like my life has more worth when someone actually cares about it laugh with one of my favorite things about being married is I always have someone to laugh with at anything of course you have to make sure you marry someone with kind of the same sense of humor and that goes into marrying the right person getting things off my chest if I have issues in my life it's great cuz I just have a soundboard that I can just tell the person I'm with those issues and then I can just talk and just get those things off my chest and I don't have to internalize everything maybe that's why people are less stressed I don't know someone to celebrate with when you have achievements in life it makes it that much sweeter with a person to celebrate and be happy with someone that understands you deeply when I was single I would explain things to people who didn't completely understand my issues or stories when married you have someone that can almost fully understand everything that you're saying and going through my last point is in rebuttal to some of the things that studies have showed that are bad about Mar and are positive about saying single many studies will show that you have less fun and may be less sexually satisfied once you're married all I can say is that is bogus in my life I have just as much fun but then again what does it even matter if you're having fun if the point of having fun is to be happy and married people are happier and I am definitely happier than when I was single and also I am 100% sexually satisfied too and even the perceive downsides of marriages just make sure you marry the right person and that you are an awesome person yourself and then even the downsides that other people experience in marriage can be benefits for you I know they are for me watch my videos on finding the right person if you want to know more about that I actually made a video about Disney princesses and their marriage materials I think it's actually a fun way to learn how to analyze partners and relationships so you should watch that one now on my channel I have tons of proposal tips and idea videos on how to plan and photograph and deliver the perfect proposal and more also 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