Regaining Trust with an Ex-Girlfriend

Aug 6, 2024

How to Get Your Ex-Girlfriend to Trust You Again

Introduction

  • Presenter: Alex Camont, relationship coach
  • Platform: Love Advice TV
  • Topic: Regaining trust from an ex-girlfriend

Initial Thoughts

  • Regaining trust is difficult, especially if ex-girlfriend is still mad or hurt.
  • Avoid common mistakes such as apologizing or begging, which can push her away further.
  • The brain and subconscious mind relive emotions each time past mistakes are revisited, making reconciliation harder.

Key Concepts

  • Emotion and Attraction:
    • Regaining trust is not just about the past; it's about creating new, positive emotions and attraction.
    • New experiences and positive interactions can make her forget past mistakes.
  • Avoid Apologizing Constantly:
    • Apologizing repeatedly makes her relive the past hurt.
    • Focus on creating new, positive experiences instead.

Action Plan: The Combo

  1. Distance:
    • Temporarily stop communication to allow self-improvement and change.
    • Understand and correct the root causes of past mistakes (e.g., seeing a psychologist).
    • Demonstrate change through actions, not just words.
  2. Rebuilding Communication:
    • Communicate as if nothing happened, like friends.
    • Share new positive changes in your life and show genuine interest in her.
    • Avoid discussing past mistakes; focus on new and exciting topics.

Communicate Effectively

  • Approach conversations casually and positively.
  • Ask specific questions about her life and interests.
  • The goal is to show that you have moved on from past mistakes and are focused on the present and future.

Final Tips

  • Patience: Don't rush the process or expect immediate results.
  • Be Genuine: Show authentic change and self-improvement without forcing the relationship.
  • Avoid Emotional Mistakes: Stay composed and don’t let emotions drive you to make desperate moves.

Additional Resources

  • Website: myexagain.com
    • Contains articles and options to book private coaching sessions.
  • Coaches Available: Edwin, Abby, Priyanka, Dani, and Alex.
  • Special Gift: Link in the description for additional resources on communication and rebuilding trust.

Closing Remarks

  • Avoid chasing or begging for forgiveness/trust, as it shows weakness.
  • Stay strong and focused on self-improvement to naturally regain trust and attraction.
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  • Remember, everything is possible with the right approach.