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Regaining Trust with an Ex-Girlfriend
Aug 6, 2024
How to Get Your Ex-Girlfriend to Trust You Again
Introduction
Presenter
: Alex Camont, relationship coach
Platform
: Love Advice TV
Topic
: Regaining trust from an ex-girlfriend
Initial Thoughts
Regaining trust is difficult, especially if ex-girlfriend is still mad or hurt.
Avoid common mistakes such as apologizing or begging, which can push her away further.
The brain and subconscious mind relive emotions each time past mistakes are revisited, making reconciliation harder.
Key Concepts
Emotion and Attraction
:
Regaining trust is not just about the past; it's about creating new, positive emotions and attraction.
New experiences and positive interactions can make her forget past mistakes.
Avoid Apologizing Constantly
:
Apologizing repeatedly makes her relive the past hurt.
Focus on creating new, positive experiences instead.
Action Plan: The Combo
Distance
:
Temporarily stop communication to allow self-improvement and change.
Understand and correct the root causes of past mistakes (e.g., seeing a psychologist).
Demonstrate change through actions, not just words.
Rebuilding Communication
:
Communicate as if nothing happened, like friends.
Share new positive changes in your life and show genuine interest in her.
Avoid discussing past mistakes; focus on new and exciting topics.
Communicate Effectively
Approach conversations casually and positively.
Ask specific questions about her life and interests.
The goal is to show that you have moved on from past mistakes and are focused on the present and future.
Final Tips
Patience
: Don't rush the process or expect immediate results.
Be Genuine
: Show authentic change and self-improvement without forcing the relationship.
Avoid Emotional Mistakes
: Stay composed and don’t let emotions drive you to make desperate moves.
Additional Resources
Website
: myexagain.com
Contains articles and options to book private coaching sessions.
Coaches Available
: Edwin, Abby, Priyanka, Dani, and Alex.
Special Gift
: Link in the description for additional resources on communication and rebuilding trust.
Closing Remarks
Avoid chasing or begging for forgiveness/trust, as it shows weakness.
Stay strong and focused on self-improvement to naturally regain trust and attraction.
Subscribe to the channel to receive more videos and guidance directly.
Remember, everything is possible with the right approach.
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