Hello everybody welcome back to my channel it's me Shania Joseph AKA Senpai ex trolls and today we're going in on how to tap into your potential how to stop being ugly how to truly get the better version of yourself physically okay I'm going to be teaching you all the things I did to go from this to that in a Spam of a year and it's not that hard it's really just taking your time going through the ugly phases just like everybody has locks everybody who has locks got a ugly face you're going to have an ugly face when you're slowly learning to blow yourself up and you're getting to know who you are as a person you're getting to dress better and all these other things some people I've seen people who call this a fit and now a year later this is their new fits it's just because we have to get to know each other we have to get to know ourselves find our own sense of self bottom line is do you know yourself that's what we're going to figure out today we're going to figure out and I'm going to give you steps to get to know yourselves and how to elevate your look you know okay bye hello everybody this is our first part of the video which is going to be face card we're going to be focusing how to elevate your face card as you know tapping into your potential is elevating yourself the first thing people see is the face card a lot of you click this video because you think I'm an attractive girl and you're like what the hell she's talking about my potential and that's why we're here you are attracted to my face card just like when you click on fashion Nova models and you're like damn she look good in that shirt the only reason why she looks good in that shirt is cuz her face C looks is good and therefore it trickles down to the rest of her bodyy I seen girls built like a cereal box who are gorgeous and you don't even register the F like I'm telling you a pretty face card beats a baddy any day tell me a Fett face a pretty face cards beat a f bundu any day me if I was a man or than my girl be beautiful didn't care if she got you know Bund or yies me I don't care about none of that if my girl has a beautiful face when she wakes up Y and Bullies that don't mean nothing to me right so work on your face card number one good skincare routine it doesn't matter you need a good skin routine I can leave my skin routine right here and yall want an in-dept video on skincare and acne and oily and D I'll make a video on that that's only if you guys want it but here is my skincare routine and this is my step list right here I'll put it somewhere in the video but y'all need a good skin care routine clear skin is so attractive so is people like a little acne scars but clear skin it's attractive so focus on elevating your skin and turning your skin into a gaess me my skin went from this to that I'm going to show youall some pictures but you have to elevate your skin and you know bring life into two is figuring out your makeup a lot of you girls be wearing makeup and y'all don't need to or you be wearing baddi's makeup when you're truly meant to wear cute girl makeup or you're truly meant to wear Donia makeup or whatever it's called like a lot of you don't know your makeup style and you look over older than what you look I've seen girls look 25 4 16 because they're rocking a makeup style that's not for them and see me I love me a good full Glam but I prefer a natural beat to soft beat that's just my preference and that's I want to tell you that I'm going to show you I used to look like this I used walk at the house looking like this every single day and that's because I thought this looked the best on me and that's because I didn't know what I wanted and I didn't know myself enough to realize I look good like this or I look good with a nice little soft beat a lot of you need to figure out your makeup style and go with that but you got to experiment stop walking at the house looking like you have eyebrow blindness eyebrow blindness because you don't know what makeup style go for you another um you know that's what I'm just saying for example I see girls who look pretty naturally I met a lot of girls who look good without makeup and I hate when they wear makeup like me personally I'm a makeup lover I I force a girl to wear makeup even though she never wear makeup but there's some women who are so beautifully naturally when they wear makeup it dry it's literally drain the life out of their skin I got my one friend her name is Yaya Yaya doesn't wear makeup if Yaya ever wears makeup I'm literally going to yell at her I'm so serious cuz she's so beautiful without she doesn't need it at all me I think I'm beautiful without makeup but I just like wearing it because you see me I'm so cute like I'm going to wear it because I enjoy it but if you do care about makeup if you do enjoy wearing makeup figure out your makeup style for the loveing me figure out your makeup style don't be walking around here looking like Dar Vader and you you don't have to don't do that like okay it's maintenance for all the girls who don't like wearing makeup all the girls who like oh my gosh I'm so busy I don't have time to elevate my look I don't have time to look good you don't have to go to work looking like a bum but you have to spend your money rely you don't have to go to work you don't have to go to work looking like a bum you don't you can invest like those nurses on Tik Tok they be like oh my co-workers always ask me how I look so good all the time how I look so good you know why they look so good all the time is cuz they invest their money into elevating their look to minimize the amount of time they have to put to themselves every day they take one day out of the month to do a full makeover of themselves and then for the rest of the month they look amazing and you know why it's cuz they invest Nails makeup lashes eyebrows they invest in that to get easy to go wigs me when I have somewhere to go I have my designated glueless curly wig and my glueless Straight wig and my glueless water wave and I'll pick between those like do I want to be afro do I want to be water wave but either way they're all glueless and EAS slip on so I don't have to worry about slicking this and this this that like I don't want to do that when I go to work pop plop okay we all should invest in ways in DIYs to make our lives just a little easier such as getting our nails done nails and toes are mandatory don't walk at the house with your feet with no toes on me personally I do it because I don't care but if you know my grandma says don't work at the house with no you know nail polish showing on your feet it's dirty that's why my grandma says hey don't shoot me shoot the messenger right you touch my grandma I'mma hurt you but yeah like just invest in yourself to minimize the amount of time you have to do it in the morning if you take 200 out to just save like an hour of your time each morning you that's like investment right Nails lace up all that get it done or be like me a broie who do DIYs I can give you my list of my DIYs on how to make my do my nails and my toes and my lashes I'll give you a list of my DIYs all right but next on the makeup list is literally it's literally that's it that's what f a one good tip I can give you because you guys can try to look at me and watch my videos like end of the day no matter how much you do your makeup like me you will never look like me so what I suggest if you have different eyes and different noses and different lips for me to find people who match your similarities me how I came to this conclusion is because I I thought I saw something how I came to this conclusion is because I went on her girl's page she had a round face like me she said she doesn't use Contour cuz it's too harsh on her since then I've been using blush another girl she has a big nose like me I've been watching her page she showed me how to nose Contour that's why nose Contour looks so good another chick has a different has a eye shape like me I watch her I'm like okay I see I see you know figure out yourself go find girls who know how to master your energy who knows have the same facial shape as you and go watch them and study them it's not weird you're not copying them you're simply trying to find what works best for you okay number two is hair what we need to focus on is Hair We All Need three or four designated hairstyles that we look good in no matter what and then we need two hairstyles that are quick and easy and does not cause us any time loss because sometimes you got to be like baby get ready at 6:00 and it's 5:30 you need something quick easy fast fast SP you know what I'm saying number two for like ladies me personally there's three hairstyles I look getting box locks or faux locks big hair or curly hair these three things I look amazing in no matter what you say it's my go-to hairstyle and I will always look good now I have straight hair and wavy and D these hair STS also look good on me but these three down here no matter what and then I crtical ice i ice I organiz organ oh my goodness I place these three hairstyles into boxes for example Fox locks Fox locks is a good hairstyle for the summertime so when I don't feel like wearing wigs or lace fronts because they're too hard to maintain I put on Fox locks afro are good fall colors I feel like afro and curly hair just look good in Fall my big hair you know my latia wig that looks good in Winter right and then I organize that so I can have a designated hairstyle for the season for example oh I want to go on the cruise blah blah blah let me do this you know you know cuz a lot of you need to have your three main hairstyles that looks good on you in all that looks good on you in any season and those are my three right and then after that the reason why I pick these is because my face as you see Fox locks makes my face look cute structured big hair makes my face look cute um curly hair makes my face look cute straight hair sometimes look at this picture that that's that's ugly right cuz it's not always going to look good on me and I realize that but these hairstyles looking on me no matter what and that's why they're my top three and you need to have your own top three you know do you look good in the side part do you look good in the middle part have your own top three right next topic is butty butty is a important because body gets tied into dressing well figure out your body shape and also maintain whatever body shape you want right I'm not saying go in the gym work out get a BBL whatever but figure out the body shape you have if you shape like a box like this fine clothes like this for box shapes girls if you're shaped like you have a Coke bottle shape like this coke ptle shape pear shape you know you're built like an airpod you know find things that fit your body typ you have a big of a muffin top you have a overlaying belly oh you have a apple built whatever you are beautiful the way you are your body does not define you but babe don't be wearing [ __ ] that you have no business wearing because it's unflattering like me I have very broad shoulders like my shoulders are big they're big like let me stand up for you guys real quick I have big shoulders you see how big they are compared to my body right I still love them but with my big shoulders what I like to wear more is I like to wear tank tops or very short sleeve shirts I only wear these kind of sometimes but I like wearing tank tops and very short sleeve shirts to give the illusion that my top area is not as fat as it is you know and that's what you need to do find something find an illusion with your body that makes your body looks better like with me I barely have any hips right but this is why I wear black dresses CU black dresses stands out from the background of my pictures giving the illusion that I have hips even though I really don't right it gives the illusion it also gives the Shadows to emphasize my body in ways that makes my body looks good and also deemphasizes areas that I am insecure about as you can see my arms look skinnier while my torso looks smaller you know find things that gives your body a nice illusion find what looks good on your body but do not hate on your body okay you are beautiful I've seen box shaped girls dress better than me it doesn't matter how you built it's matter how you own it and how you dress it to me I don't believe in oh you too big to be wearing something like that girl wear the crop top just just don't have your bottom titties hanging out okay but wear the crop top wear the crop top wear the crop top just don't have your titties like wear the crop top though you know wear the stay away from them okay for example girls who are topheavy for certain occasions you want to accentuate your trust and certain occasions you don't for example see this green dress I had on I didn't wear a bra cuz it made my boobs look smaller giving the illusion that I'm pearshaped and that my boobies are smaller than my hips you see how big my hips look in that picture now this is another picture of me wearing a gray shirt that emphasizes how big my boobs are but it gives the illusion of a coke bottle shape because of the jeans I was wearing right find the illusion of your body and work towards it literally like y'all I'm not as bad as yall think I am I'm just good at Illusions like really number four clothes we already talked about this a little bit but let's get back into it clothes find your effing style and stop dressing like everybody else me I'm a me it's not that deep you don't have to dress like a celebrity you don't have to wear all these exotic colors you don't have to dress good me I can't dress this is a b this is this is a fit this right here is a fit you would catch me wearing this Monday Thursday Friday Saturday this is a fit you don't have to dress in significant elaborate clothes to look good a basic like like I'm telling you you don't have to do that me I can't dress you can look on my Instagram page right now and truly examine my pictures and You' be like damn n can't dress and I can't but you know what I know how to emphasize myself and I know how to do that jewelry jewelry can make any basic outfit look like a 8 out of 10 maybe not a 10 out of 10 but a eight out of 10 okay dress you don't need to know how to dress for example I'm going to give two basic outfits for both genders girls I'm sorry girls blazic dress get get you a little bodyc dress care Flats some furry slides some jewelry nice hairstyle good face card that is a [ __ ] fit you can go to every event except formal in that men basic black tea either a pair of really nice jeans or a pair of some Nike joggers and some either slides or a good pair of g kns chain watch that's a fit you can go to Every occasion except formal in that I don't I can't help you with formal you got to go in pinest with that bro but I just gave you guys two good fits that you don't have you don't have to put no effort in they're too low effort fit and it only going to cost you like around like 100 to 50 bucks or even less than that for the fits I gave you elaborate I can't I don't know how to dress but these are people who can't dress if you want a video on how you can dress without knowing how to dress come I just tell me I make another video on that but you don't have to know how to dress babe it's not that deep I might hold you know how I went viral on Tik Tok cuz of my face and my hair they didn't give a damn what I had on you could ask a person every single day hey what's your shirt what's what's the dress you had on but you can never be them you could never look the way they look in the dress or look the way they look in that shirt because simply it was a face card and a hair card that made the shirt in the the dress what it was that's it like literally this dress is the most basic dress ever and to a lot of you you might think damn sh I you look amazing in this dress you know why cuz of my face and hair card your clothes doesn't matter if your hair and your face look like [ __ ] I'm just saying your clothes does not matter if your hair and your face looks like [ __ ] literally I'm wearing the most basic and all my Instagram posts I'm wearing the most basic [ __ ] ever you know the reason why they got 10K likes and 20 and whatever it's cuz of my hair and my face card is always on point literally that's why they are the first two in the list when your hair looks good and your face looks good what you have on means nothing it means nothing it really doesn't unless you got stains on your shirt then yes girl take that [ __ ] off [ __ ] n but other than that you don't have to worry like you really don't have to worry about dressing well you can dress up but you don't have to dress well like literally these two outfits the only reason why they look good is cuz my hair and my face looks good this orange dress up here I want say a wedding this is a regular old orange dress you can put it on it's basic it cost me like 15 bucks but the reason why it looks expensive on me and it looks good on me is cuz of my face and hair card okay invest in face and hair and let's not be a loser let's invest in face and hair okay number five number five hear me ain't nobody like talking to somebody who stinks or has smelly breath bro like come on I'm not speaking to you if your breath smell like donkey donk this is hygiene we're going to speak about hygiene okay cuz a lot of you I met pretty girls I mean drop dead gorgeous woman but when they open my their mouth it smell a can of tuna fish mixed with two three gold onions like invest in it you see my teeth are white that's why I'm always smiling in my videos cuz I have beautiful teeth cuz I invest in my teeth my toothbrush cost me like $30 I got a tongue scraper I'm working on getting a water pick I want one so bad I have good to myself same with face card face face I want my man to wake up next to me be like oh damn my baby is still beautiful I don't want him to be like what the heck like I don't want that I don't I want that I don't want that right number you speak one more time I'm going to beat you up okay you beeping and like I don't like it you keep beeping but next is like body care smell good you know people tell me every time they hug me they say you you you a nice person to hug I hate that but they say you smell like vanilla you smell like vanilla Shai you smell so good you smell like vanilla and canell you're so smell you smell so good there time people meet up and be like your smell is so soothing I love the way you smell you never give me a headache that's why I picked vanilla cuz I never got a headache when I was around somebody who smell like vanilla so I said I'm going to smell like vanilla and here's I'm going to show you some of the products I use down here to smell like of of vanilla but figure out your smell cuz I'm promise you girl figure out your own smell I got this one girl she wears rose smell stuff I literally like every time I think of her I think about roses figure out your smell and just once you figure out what smell look like me the reason why vanilla looks good on me is cuz I look like a vanilla girl some of you are a strawberry girl some of you are a Shortcake girl some of you are a winter Forest girl figure out the type of girl you are and then just base everything around that and that's what I did I'm a vanilla bean girl every perfume every scented lotion everything I have is based around vanilla and I don't have no shame in it I don't like spicing it up I like smelling the same I want my man to sniff me be like is that my wife that's what I want I want him to smell vanilla I want him to walk past the pastry be like Shia that's what I want that's what I want that's that's what they want so invest in body care here this is my like Also let's go deeper into it um I can go deeper into body care and like face care if you want me to but like bottom line is don't smell like a bag of whags like don't smell like rats okay don't smell like a New York sewer like let's invest in smelling good I promise you I met people I walked past the man who I didn't even find attractive but he walked past me and he's smelling like some some just he just smell like woods and Oak and I just like like I ain't never want to pounce on I'm joking I never I'm not like that okay but to finish the joke I never wanted to pounce on a stranger like that you know but yes the man smelled so good I wasn't even interested in him I don't even like cauas I'm joking I'm I wasn't even interested in him but he had me like you know like I'm tell me like bro like I'm telling you smelling good as a man is like it literally makes you go from a four to a six he I'm we to Smells Like if you smell good you got my attention I promise you like one thing about me if you smell good you got my attention but yeah that's all about hygiene though that's all I got just smell good take care of your skin take care of your body last one and this is surprise attack this is a surprise attack okay self love and self-esteem and confidence you are beautiful okay you are worthy you are loving you were kind you were amazing you were made in God's image you when like you were a face of somebody else you loved in a past life like you are beautiful okay so don't keep comparing yourself to all these Tik Tok girls and these Tik Tok men you are gorgeous in your own way you are beautiful my biggest flaw was I was too busy looking at other people's food this is analogy for example I'm I'm a big back right so I'll go to restaurants and I'll order food but then I'll catch myself keep staring at everybody else's food and not appreciating the food I already have right your food is you stop staring at other people's plates stop looking at other people stop gawking over other people's things and shut that off and just look at what God has presented you with I had to take a step back and admire my Futures I love my chubby face I love my big nose I love my big lips I love my eyes I love my eyebrows I love my hair I love my body I love the way I dress I love the way things look on me I love the way I smell I had to take a step back and appreciate what God has given me and stop looking at other people's foods and stop gocking over other people's things I have to take a step back and be like God has given this to me and a lot of you struggle with looking at other people's things instead of appreciating things the grass is not greener on the other side it's not it's just how it looks because we're so hard in ourselves you have to be able to be less hard in yourself how I stopped my myself from being insecure and feeling sad or I see attractive woman on the for you page is I blocked them [ __ ] I blocked them I blocked every pretty girl who made me question my beauty until I grown in myself until I had enough self-confidence until I have enough sense of self I'm like you know what Shia yeah she's pretty she has blue eyes and good hair but you're gorgeous as well yeah she's skinny but your body looks good as well yeah yeah yeah but you are good gorgeous once you build your once you disconnect from the world isolate from the things that make you feel nervous and anxious isolate yourself from those things and you truly look at what God has presented to you you would be happier I remember with my business before then I used be like I can never make that much money I can never do these things I can never I can never I can I put all these limitations on myself Beauty wise attractive wise I put all these I remember I used to want to be a YouTuber I gave up on it and look at me God has blessed me with 14k on YouTube I'm so thankful but when you place limitations on yourself you can never make anything you can never do anything you're not ugly yeah you might not dress but you look good you know but you are beautiful you have to realize that okay we have to take the time to to accept ourselves to what we are instead of comparing and harshing each other like let's not do that you are gorgeous and there's nothing wrong with you at all but you have to appreciate what God has given you yeah she might has blue eyes but you have beautiful brown eyes and yeah she might has a small nose but God has blessed you with a unique nose so appreciate it yes she has big lips and God has blessed you with small lips but they look good on you so let's not let's not complicate things let's not stress ourselves out take a moment and block anything that makes you feel uncertain with you are and build your sense of self build your sense of self build yourself up I self glaze every day of the week you know why because if no nobody's going to remind me that I'm beautiful but myself every single day I have to remind myself I'm beautiful with or without makeup I'm beautiful whether I have short hair or long hair I'm beautiful whether I have lashes on or not I'm beautiful whether I'm fat or not I'm beautiful whether my feet are done or not I'm beautiful I don't need to do all these things I am gorgeous you are gorgeous you have to remind yourself every day that you are beautiful you are attractive man you are attractive you don't you need a haircut it's suggest but you are attractive your money doesn't make you attractive your body doesn't make you attractive you are attractive because you are you you are attractive because of who you are I met girls who look 10 times worse than me but they have confidence bigger than I can ever imagine and therefore they're more beautiful than I am cuz they confidence their self-respect their self-esteem their sense self they know who they are they know the things they like they know the things they like they know the things they love they know the things they don't love and that's what makes them attractive you are attractive but you have to learn yourself baby girl like you got to learn yourself you got to sit down one day and get to know who you are as an individual what you like in a man what you don't like in a man what you want for yourself in the future what you don't want for yourself in the future what is your fears and regrets and give those things to God right help yourself close your eyes put on your little horse gears and focus on you none of the no no no Sarah whatever no she doesn't matter Haley Bailey no no no no she doesn't matter oh John whatever doesn't matter okay whatever they you know keep L on they don't matter they don't matter stop comparing yourself stop stop looking at other people's plates and being like Oh I want what they have stop comparing yourself you are beautiful stop comparing yourself stop looking Focus what has God placed in front of you that Makes You Different you are different stop trying to find your identity and looking like everybody else and just be yourself and for other girls who comment oh I want to be like you I want to look like you don't look like yourself enjoy yourself be yourself I love you for who you are not for who you pretending to be stop focusing on everybody else's food don't focus on their relationship with God focus on y'all's don't compare your yourself to that person and their boyfriend focus on your relationship don't compare yourself to those girls focus on your stuff I struggle with self-c comparing myself so I have to cut these things out constantly and focus on what God has given me my relationship with him is not going to look like his relationship with whoever my relationship with this guy I'm dating is not going look at my relationship with this person whoever they're dating I am different and I unique and I have my own identity and my own life and I need to respect that and I need to appreciate that you need to appreciate what you have and be thankful that God has given you life and be thankful that you are beautiful the way you look and that you are handsome and that you are attractive and that God Made You in the image and he enjoyed creating you he made you then took a piece if you're a man he made you then took a piece of your rib put it in another woman and it made your wife he made both of you together and he placed you onto Earth you are beautiful you are attractive you are smart you are intelligent so stop comparing yourself and focus on finding your sense of self building up your confidence building up your self-esteem building up every self- Lov self respect L to build all those things up and then come back to reality cuz right now you're not focusing on reality you're focusing on things that does not matter that's why Christians be talking about isolation seasons and those really be helping cuz when we're comparing and hurting ourselves and putting ourselves down we don't realize how much we're discrediting God's we're dis respecting God by saying we're ugly you know that right what you know let's not disrespect him okay 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