No, thank you. We don't play with the remote. Okay, here.
You can play with the remote then. Alright, what just happened was an example of positive and negative reinforcement. Kyan really wanted the remote. I really wanted him to stop crying. So by giving him the remote, he was positively reinforced, and he's more likely to start crying the next time he wants the remote control.
In this situation, I was negatively reinforced because by giving him the remote control, I got to stop his crying.