all right let's get real we can't change our genes or physical traits but we can definitely make the most out of what we've got and bring out our full potential being attractive isn't just about looks although let's be honest appearance does play a role but there are other factors that can have a Major Impact too you can easily impress people with just a few simple tricks and changes that will make you incredibly attractive stop chasing butterflies build a beautiful garden and they will come to you you've probably heard this before if you clicked on this video chances are you haven't fully grasped or applied this concept yet well my friend we're going to dive into this and learn how to make our Gardens Bloom like never before let's get started personally the first thing that catches my eye and makes me impressed with someone is their personality and I don't just mean the type of person they are but their Core Essence confidence is a key factor in making someone attractive when you see someone with high self-confidence be sure that this confidence came from taking risks facing failures learning practicing repeating growing testing reality and persisting this blend of experiences Builds an unshakable confidence there's no other way to gain true self-confidence anything else would be fake so you need to really live life truly engage with it to gain self-confidence that people can feel when you walk by or join a [Music] crowd second thing is how you speak and communicate with others I've posted a video before on how to get better at talking to people which I'll link at the end of this one if you want to check it out but generally the main idea is practice the more you interact with people the better you become at communicating and talking with them being a better listener than talking too much and giving others space to express themselves really helps and makes people feel warm around you be as honest and straightforward as possible this is crucial and makes you likable and trustworthy stop trying to be someone you're not and avoid lying as much as possible this won't only make people dislike you but it's also mentally exhausting for you the third element is body language people are incredibly observant and smart so pay attention to your body language stand straight make eye contact keep your head up avoid fidgeting and lean forward when sitting and talking to someone this shows you're really interested in what they're saying and they'll subconsciously appreciate it besides personality the activities you engage in play a big role let's start with your life goals a person with big Ambitions who fights for their goals every day is way more attractive than someone who's empty and repeating the same days learn how to attract money there are many skills today that can make you wealthy like content creation programming publishing ebooks designing Etc all these skills can provide a high income and as you know money is important in making you attractive and solving your daily problems therefore guys I want you to be active always and try to take a step forward every day besides your work having a standout skill or excelling in something makes you unique in my friend Circle for instance each one is outstanding at something drawing bodybuilding studying martial arts Chess music they're all fascinating in their own way and that's what makes them awesome so find a hobby and Excel at it personally even though I do many things in my life I love learning new things like cooking which I find interesting it impresses me when someone my age is good at cooking because most guys my age suck at it this makes someone who cooks well very attractive to me cooking is like an art requiring Precision patience there are many other skills to learn like writing or learning a new language what matters is to be different in an interesting way from your surroundings next is appearance it's just as important as everything else when it comes comes to First Impressions sure a bad personality can't be saved by good looks but the reverse is also true a sloppy appearance can diminish your value even if you have great inequalities so give your appearance the attention it deserves let's talk about your body first your body is a mirror of you show me your body and I'll tell you what kind of person you are a strong muscular body gives the impression of discipline and a strong character and earns you respect a well-built body can't be bought or borrowed it's earned through hard work discipline and healthy eating so when I see someone with a great body I respect and admire their efforts and perseverance plus a fit body makes any outfit look good so focus on this start working out try bodybuilding or calisthenics both will make you look amazing I also recommend learning martial arts it builds character patience and resilience [Music] now let's talk about style when it comes to clothing find a style that suits you look up different styles online and you'll find a lot the key is to focus on colors and make sure they match if you're fair skinned black will look great on you personally I find black the best choice because it gives you a unique presence Elegance strength and simplicity all at once you can try other colors too if you have a darker skin tone tan is a great choice along with brown and white avoid buying the same clothes and try to collect pieces you're missing we can't talk about appearance without mentioning hair hair is very important and greatly affects your facial appearance so take care of it don't overwash with shampoo as it removes healthy oils from your scalp shampooing once a week is enough the haircut you choose depends on your face shape there are many good haircuts but I personally find the buzz cut suits me best it's simple masculine and fits my face and Sport better than any other style lastly let's talk about hygiene I see hygiene as a powerful factor in determining attractiveness it signals activity Vitality respect for others and consideration make sure your nails are clean brush your teeth for a good smile or when talking and make sure to keep your breath smelling good this includes the type of food you eat and taking care of your dental health visit the dentist regularly as I do I also gargle with salt water once once a day to remove bacteria and freshen my breath avoid smoking if you do it harms your teeth and gums and makes your breath awful drink enough water as a dry mouth can also cause bad breath shower daily wear clean clothes and use deodorant these ensure you stay fresh for extra appeal try different fragrances until you find your signature scent ask a knowledgeable friend for advice like I did another sign of being attractive is being well organized not just in your appearance but in your living space as well it signals that you're active and meticulous to wrap up let's talk about wisdom and intelligence intelligence is one of the most desirable traits smart people are witty great conversationalists and emotionally sensitive they read a lot enhance their vocabulary and knowledge study foreign languages listen well and are mindful of what they say a wise person is never boring they can talk talk about any topic and have knowledge about various aspects of life so I encourage you to read reading is the essence of awareness and wisdom dedicate time for reading each day buy books or listen to them online try reading some novels and philosophical and scientific books you'll gain invaluable insights and it's incredibly attractive that's it for today's video I hope you enjoyed many of you asked for my Instagram page so I'll leave it in the description below take care until next time