Overview
The speaker, a love strategist, discusses the importance of being intentional in choosing a marriage partner and outlines seven key habits in men that should be avoided to ensure a healthy, lasting relationship.
Intentionality in Relationships
- People are typically encouraged to be deliberate in life choices except in love, where they are told to follow their feelings.
- Media and cultural narratives often encourage impulsive relationship decisions rather than thoughtful evaluation.
- The speaker’s experience as a dating coach and son of a divorce attorney informs his advice.
Seven Habits to Avoid in a Partner
- Unresolved addiction issues such as alcoholism, drug, sex, or pornography addiction are major causes of relationship breakdowns.
- Habitual lying, including both major and minor lies, undermines trust and stability.
- Putting a partner down to boost one’s ego indicates potential emotional harm and dissatisfaction.
- Frivolous spending and flaunting wealth can signal deeper issues and financial irresponsibility.
- Inappropriate and frequent flirting with others demonstrates a lack of respect and boundaries.
- Inability to receive feedback prevents growth and healthy communication in a relationship.
- Any physical or emotional abuse is a critical red flag and should not be tolerated.
Advice and Next Steps
- Set a standard for what behavior is acceptable in a relationship and do not settle for less.
- Walking away from a toxic relationship is a sign of strength and self-worth.
- For guidance on attracting a healthy relationship, the speaker offers a free step-by-step training resource.
Recommendations / Advice
- Avoid partners who exhibit any of the outlined negative habits.
- Prioritize honest communication, emotional safety, and mutual respect in relationship choices.
- Seek support and resources to build intentional and lasting love.