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Understanding Temperament and Parenting Styles

Apr 26, 2025

Thomas and Chess School of Thought on Temperament

Overview

  • Focus on environmental influences on temperament, known as Goodness of Fit.
  • Originally identified nine dimensions of temperament.

Nine Dimensions of Temperament

  1. Activity (Surgency)

    • Spectrum from hyperactive (bouncing around) to sedentary (still and content).
    • Most children fall in the middle; extremes can be maladaptive.
  2. Rhythmicity

    • Regularity of biological functions like eating and sleeping.
    • Extremes: random schedules vs. overly rigid schedules.
  3. Affect

    • Emotional disposition: positive (sunny) vs. negative (gloomy).
    • Considered in a single dimension here, unlike Rothbert's positive and negative affect dimensions.
  4. Reactivity

    • Intensity of emotional responses.
    • Spectrums from mild to intense emotional reactions.
  5. Attention

    • Ability to maintain focus on tasks.
    • Pros and cons: too focused vs. easily distractible.
  6. Persistence

    • Willingness to persevere in the face of challenges.
    • Related but distinct from attention.
  7. Approach

    • Overlaps with sociability.
    • Spectrum from extroverted (approach people) to introverted (withdrawn).
  8. Adaptability

    • Response to novelty and change.
    • Overlaps with rhythmicity and influences flexibility in new situations.
  9. Sensitivity

    • Sensory thresholds and biological sensitivity.
    • Overlaps with adaptability and approach.

Personality Clusters

  • Easy/Resilient Temperament

    • Moderate activity, positive affect, adaptable, soothable.
    • Often referred to as 'sucker kids' or resilient.
  • Difficult/Under-Controlled Temperament

    • More negative affect, less adaptable, more sensitive.
    • Often impulsive, may face behavioral challenges.
  • Slow to Warm Up/Over-Controlled Temperament

    • Low adaptability and high sensitivity.
    • More withdrawn and anxious in new or novel situations.

Goodness of Fit

  • Importance of the fit between a child's temperament and their environment.
  • Sensitive and Responsive Parenting:
    • Parents should be attentive to their child's temperament and respond accordingly.
    • Avoids stereotypes and assumptions about what children 'should' be like.
  • Examples:
    • Outgoing child with outgoing parents = good fit.
    • Shy child with shy parents = good fit.
    • Adaptability in parenting style can enhance fit.

Conclusion

  • Thomas and Chess model is descriptive rather than evaluative.
  • Emphasizes adapting environments to suit temperamental needs rather than changing the child.