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Understanding Father-Son Relationships in Poetry

Jan 17, 2025

Lecture Notes: Poem "Father to Son" by Elizabeth Jennings

Introduction

  • Welcome to the lecture on "Father to Son."
  • Part of the Hornbill book for Class 11th.
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About the Poem

  • Author: Elizabeth Jennings
  • Theme: Anguish and generation gap in a father-son relationship.
  • Focus: Father’s feelings of separation and lack of understanding.

Key Points of the Poem

Stanza 1

  • Father expresses his lack of understanding of his son despite living together for years.
  • No knowledge about son’s likes and dislikes.
  • Attempts to connect with his son's childhood self.
  • Frustration over son's changes as he grows up.

Stanza 2

  • Acknowledgment of father's role in the communication gap.
  • Efforts to connect with the son who is distant and inaccessible.
  • Communication like strangers; lack of mutual understanding.
  • Son resembles father, yet his interests remain unknown.

Stanza 3

  • Silence in the relationship.
  • Father desires prodigal son to return home.
  • Prefers son to be at home rather than creating his own world.
  • Willingness to forgive and move on from past sorrows.

Stanza 4

  • Son speaks, revealing shared sadness and confusion.
  • Son’s anger stems from grief over their distance.
  • Both father and son share frustration about their gap.
  • Desire to forgive each other but struggle to resolve issues.

Conclusion

  • Both father and son long for reconciliation but face challenges.
  • The poem highlights mutual frustration and the yearning for understanding and forgiveness.

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