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Understanding Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)

Apr 29, 2025

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Overview

Introduction

  • Presenter: Gloria Scott, Nurse at Johns Hopkins Hospital, Child and Adolescent Psychiatric Unit.
  • Aim: To understand DBT concepts and skills for self-care and child support.

What is DBT?

  • Purpose: Designed for those with intense emotions and difficulty managing them; applicable for everyone.
  • Goal: Replace problematic behaviors (e.g., substance abuse, cutting) with skillful behaviors.
  • Outcome: Experience emotions without acting on them, improve relationships and communication, and create a life worth living.

Core Concepts

  • Dialectical: Two opposite ideas can be true at the same time.
  • Focus Areas:
    • Mindfulness
    • Emotion Regulation
    • Distress Tolerance
    • Interpersonal Effectiveness
    • Walking the Middle Path

Basic Assumptions

  • People are doing the best they can.
  • People want to improve and need motivation to change.
  • Problems may not be self-caused, but need solving.
  • No absolute truth or single solution.
  • Failure is not possible.

Three States of Mind

  • Reasonable Mind: Facts, logic, research, statistics.
  • Emotional Mind: Feelings, urges.
  • Wise Mind: Combination of reasonable and emotional mind; ideal for decision-making.

Mindfulness

  • Definition: Full attention to the present moment without judgment.
  • Practice: Can be applied to any activity (e.g., walking, breathing).
  • Benefits: Clears the mind, creates new brain pathways, aids decision-making.

Emotion Understanding

  • Purpose of Emotions: Provide information, motivation to act.
  • Emotions vs. Facts: Emotions are not facts; check facts in situations.
  • Example: Daughter's traumatic event and subsequent anxiety; use of factual checks (e.g., video camera).

Emotion Regulation

ABC PLEASE

  • ABC: Increase positive emotions
    • A: Accumulate positive experiences.
    • B: Build mastery by taking small steps.
    • C: Cope ahead by planning for stressful events.
  • PLEASE: Reduce vulnerability
    • Physical Illness: Treat illnesses.
    • Balanced Eating: Maintain steady energy.
    • Avoid Drugs: Mood-altering substances.
    • Sleep: Stick to routines.
    • Exercise: Regular activity.

Distress Tolerance

  • Analogy: Distress is like waves; they come intensely but recede.
  • Soothe with Senses: Use sight, hearing, smell, taste, touch to relax.
  • Wise Mind ACCEPTS: Distract yourself with activities, contribute, compare, create, and push away thoughts.

Acceptance

  • Reality: Some things can't change; learn to accept without additional stress.
  • Response Options: Solve the problem, change feelings, accept, remain miserable, or make things worse.

Dialectical Thinking

  • Definition: Recognize multiple truths.
  • Benefits: Enhances understanding, flexibility, and perspective.

Validation

  • Importance: Shows understanding and acknowledgment without judgment.
  • Impact: Reduces stress and improves communication and relationships.

Resources

  • Apps: Calm, Headspace.
  • Books:
    • "Parenting a Teen/Child Who Has Intense Emotions" by Pat Harvey.
    • "How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk."
  • Websites: Behavioral Tech.
  • Social Media: Trauma-Informed Parent, Big Little Feelings.

Conclusion

  • Encouragement to use DBT skills for personal and family support.
  • Reminder of the importance of validation and dialectical thinking.