Techniques for Talking to Girls

Introduction

• Men often overcomplicate talking to girls due to nervousness.
• 7 techniques to simplify conversations and make girls think about you.

1. Ask Questions That Get a Response

• Women process meaningful info through central route and simple info through peripheral route.
• Engage her central route for more active conversations:
  • Start with small talk to lighten the mood.
  • Casually bring up world events (e.g., Israel-Palestine conflict) to provoke curiosity and ensure engagement.
  • Ask for her opinion to ignite an emotional response and learn about her morals.
  • Avoid making the conversation feel like a game of 20 Questions.
• Aim to ignite curiosity in her.

2. Give Her a Unique Compliment

• Avoid complimenting her physical appearance.
• Focus on non-physical traits to stand out:
  • Example: Acknowledge her opinion in a meaningful way.
• This makes her feel more comfortable and interested.

3. Make Her Talk More and Stay Mysterious

• Shift attention back to her by keeping your answers short:
  • Example: If asked about your job, answer briefly and direct the question back to her.
  • Use phrases like “That sounds fun, do you enjoy it?” to keep her talking.
• Remaining mysterious increases attractiveness.

4. Enhance Bio Communicators

• Communication is more than words – body language and scent matter.
• Enhance natural scent to create a comfortable environment:
  • Consider genetics as women prefer a different genetic code.
  • Use fragrances that adapt to your skin’s pH level.
  • Choose scents aligning with her interests (Woody for nature lovers, Rose for city dwellers).
  • Ensure cologne has long-lasting base notes (spicy and peppery).
  • Example: Limited edition fragrance by Santa Lucia (launch details provided).

5. Practice with the Podcast Method

• Men feel insecure due to lack of interesting topics.
• Use the podcast method to practice:
  • Ask yourself top podcast questions and answer out loud to improve conversation skills.

6. Be Genuinely Interested

• Study shows men recall only 50% of a girl’s conversation because they focus on looking cool.
• Show genuine interest:
  • Check phone, apologize, and put it away to give her full attention.
  • Nod during conversations to increase likability.
  • Use the 3-second rule before speaking to show you're processing what she said.

7. Use Subtext to Make Her Laugh

• Humor produces bonding hormones (endorphins and oxytocin).
• Use subtext (saying one thing but meaning another) for humor:
  • Example: Congratulating her sarcastically if she spills something.
  • Example: Joking about an empty restaurant being fully booked.
• Subvert expectations to make her laugh and increase bonding.

Conclusion

• Combine these 7 techniques for easy and engaging conversations with girls.