Mastering Communication and Confidence

Aug 22, 2024

Communication and Confidence

Key Concepts

  • Communication Competency:

    • Defined as how confident you feel in a particular communication setting, context, and situation.
    • It's the impression that communicative behavior is both appropriate and effective in a given situation.
    • Often translates to confidence in communication scenarios.
  • Communication Apprehension:

    • Refers to anxiety surrounding communication.
    • Fear or anxiety associated with real or anticipated communication with others.

Types of Communication Competency

  1. Trait-like Communication Competency:

    • Feeling anxious in all kinds of speaking situations.
  2. Audience-based Communication Competency:

    • Anxiety around specific people or audiences (e.g., having a crush on someone).
  3. Situational Communication Competency:

    • Short-lived anxiety during a particular situation (e.g., job interviews).
  4. Context-based Communication Competency:

    • Anxiety in specific settings or contexts (e.g., public speaking in general).

Developing a Communication Improvement Plan

  • Identify the Problem: Understand why you get nervous or feel less competent in certain communication situations.

  • State Specific Goals:

    • Aim for precise objectives rather than vague goals.
    • Example: "I want to be more confident in job interviews."
  • Outline Specific Procedures:

    • Detail strategies to achieve the specified goals.
  • Devise a Method for Measuring Progress:

    • Regularly check progress and adjust strategies as needed.

Additional Insights

  • Communication is a learned behavior; skills can be improved with practice.
  • Having clear goals and understanding the steps needed is essential for improvement.
  • Regular measurement of progress helps in continued improvement.
  • Feeling competent in communication situations generally increases confidence.