You are too big for the life that you are settling for. My spirit is too big for what I'm just choosing to accept. God gave you those gifts. Use them to the fullest ability.
Bring the gift to its full potential. You have all these gifts, all this magic. It is time to use it. We need it more than ever.
2025 is the year that you are going to take up space. We are no longer dimming our light. We are no longer trying to make other people feel comfortable.
we are here to shine yes every single one of us and if you choose not to shine baby that's on you but this is your life and in this lifetime we're doing what we came here to do okay all right hello hello and welcome back to my channel my name is havala if you're new here subscribe and stay a while and if you're returning what's up i hope everyone is doing well i had to take five. There's been a lot going on in Los Angeles, but we are okay. We're going to be okay.
I made a video about two weeks ago talking about there's a lot going on and my sentiments remain the same. Make sure you are right. Mind, body, and spirit. Okay.
We going to be good. Ain't nothing to worry about. Not to fret. So go watch that video. But today we've got a lot to talk about.
We're going to be talking about taking up space and stop playing small. And 2025 is the year where we are actively embodying. Who we know are meant to be.
Taking up space. Stop playing small just so other people can be comfortable. That is not what we came here to do and I'm sick of it. I've had enough in my own life. That's why I'm talking about it because enough is enough.
You gotta draw a line somewhere. And we're just not doing that. A lot of us shrink ourselves down so other people can handle us and digest us. And we're just not, it just doesn't make sense. We shrink ourselves to make other people comfortable.
While you're not comfortable because you are not living in all of your greatness, you are not reaching your full potential because you're too afraid to step on someone else's toes. You're too afraid that your light is going to bother... Let me tell you something, your light is going to bother unhealed people. Newsflash, buddy!
But yeah, people that are unhealed and who are miserable and who decide to not step into their power and their light... They're not going to be happy and that goes for whether you choose to step in your life or you don't. So either way, they're going to be miserable.
But if you know that you have this power and magic inside of you just itching to come out and you're just so tired and you want to just be released from the shackles, come on, you know you have all this magic inside of you. It does nobody any good if you're just holding up all this magic for you. We need what you got and you need to bring it out there. No matter who likes it, we are not here to please other people. You are here to serve your purpose and to serve God's purpose.
He put all this magic inside of you and it's time for you to share it. You are missing out on opportunities. You are missing out on gigs.
Your whole life can change the moment you decide, hey, you know what, I'm going to live my life for me and stop caring about what other people think. I don't care how they feel. And it's really not about people anymore.
We have to move past that and I might do a video on like the fear of being seen or fear of what other people think but it's just it's 2025. The world is burning. Are you going to do what you came here to do or not? You are robbing the world of your gifts.
You are robbing yourself of your gifts. There are people out there wanting to hear and to see the world how you see it. We need your input.
We need your creativity. We need your art. We need your words. We need your love. We need all of it.
Don't need for an empath like me because I could feel. I feel people, but I say enough is enough. It's so freeing. I'm just on a journey to just be completely free.
I'm here to live my life and I don't care whether you like me, whether you hate me, whether you know you mad that I'm stepping into my power and to my gifts and creativity and artistry. I don't, I don't care because I've done a lot in my life. I've done amazing things, glory be to God.
I am so, so blessed, but I've always just played it very small. I never wanted to step on too many people's toes, but I'm like imagine if you step into it more. I am multifaceted. I'm a very talented person and I'm stepping into that more this year.
Everything is getting sent. You need to send everything. Everything that you've already been doing, take it up 10 notches.
It does not matter what people think. It does not matter what your family thinks. It does not matter what your exes think, what past friends. This life isn't for them. Even your artistry and your creativity and what you have to offer to the world.
isn't for your direct bubble. It's not. It's for people out there on the other side of that wall. Do you know what I mean? I am no longer adjusting myself to other people.
I'm going to walk in the room like... God sent me and that's exactly what you need to do. You need to walk in the room like God sent you and it doesn't even need to have these undertones of like, well, I don't care.
I'm like, I know I'm the bomb. None of that. I think that's what I'm trying to say.
Hopefully you guys feel me. I've never been the one to be like, oh, I have haters. I've never said that.
I won't say that to this day. I can feel people and it's more so their uneasiness and the things that they haven't resolved in themselves. And I try to... cater to that like oh you know like it's okay like cater to their issues but maybe I've got a whole bunch of my own baggage I can't cater to you I can't cater to your insecurities anymore I am actively still trying to work on my own insecurities because I'm trying to show up trying to take up space I know this little light of mine is meant to shine and the same thing with you you have a light inside of you and you are so worried we're just constantly so worried about how other people perceive us and how other people can take us and if we are digestible enough Enough. It is exhausting.
Life is already a trip and hard as it is. Let alone worrying about how people perceive you. If we're operating on a certain frequency and you match with people that see you and receive you well, amazing.
But if you don't, I don't have the time. Time is of the essence. I don't have the time to cater to your emotions. I see what you got going on.
That's fine. But I'm no longer dimming my light and bringing myself down to make you feel comfortable. Because I'm not comfortable.
You are not comfortable adjusting your light. Because you know that there's more out there. And the moment you step more into your light, you're going to attract. people who receive your love. There's going to be people that receive it and people that don't.
It's all good. Either way. And as I noticed more and more, as I stepped more and more into my purpose and to myself, some people are going to like it. Some people are not going to like it. It is what it is, but at least I'm living my truth.
At least you are living in your authentic self. When we cage ourselves in, it is suffocating. It is so suffocating and moving forward, the way this world is turning and the world is shifting. It is going to be It's going to be so incredibly painful to keep yourself in a cage. You're going to feel like you're suffocating.
You know how uncomfortable it is when you walk into a room or when you're around certain people and you gauge in all their energy levels and the stairs and you're trying to cater to them. You don't want to step on anybody's toes. You don't want to ruffle any feathers.
It's going to be more uncomfortable for you to not walk in your authenticity, in your purpose and in your path than it is to cater to all these emotions. I promise you that. I promise you, in this new world, where everything's shifting, and everything is literally burning, it's gonna be more uncomfortable for you to not walk in your path and your purpose.
And for those who don't wanna ruffle some feathers, aren't we bored? Aren't we tired? Stop and ruffle some feathers! You know what I mean?
Like, I've always been a little rascal. I've always been a good kid. I was a good kid. I was a hyper kid.
I was a little rambunctious kid. But I've always been kind of mischievous, you know what I mean? It's like it's time to ruffle some feathers.
This world has been going on too long, just like, hmm. Like let's just stay in our little pretty box. Let's just stay in this nice confined box just so we don't ruffle any feathers. I'm trying to ruffle some feathers.
What's up? That's how you should feel. I'm stepping into myself and my purpose.
This is who I've always known myself to be. And most of of us you've been the same person you've always been since you were a child and then slowly but surely the world starts packing on their beliefs everything that you've been conditioned to now we're here just in these nice little confined boxes no man f that go in there and grab her out and bring it to the forefront because that's what we need your inner child what makes you shine and happy and all these good things that's what we need to forefront that's what we need right now and you know she's in there just begging for you to just like can I just is it my time to shine now can I take over now all right bet say less that's what we need we need that razzle dazzle from you I need it I love people watching and I love learning through people like seeing it through their lens anybody anybody so what you have to offer there are people waiting for you me I'm waiting for you if there's anybody if you need anybody it's me I'm pretty cool, you know what I'm saying? Like, I want to see it. What you have inside of you and the way you perceive the world and the way you show up in the world. I don't care what you think about yourself.
I don't care. We need it. So you need to start showing up again like God sent you.
You are meant to be here. You are meant to be at these places. For those of you who are in creative industries, you ever realize how you're just in certain rooms sometimes and you're just like, oh, like, I'm along here.
Like, I'm meant to be here. But then you stop right there. Take it a step further and start pitching. Start showing what you've got.
Even more. Get those opportunities. I know, I've been playing small for a very long time, personally.
I've always had a very big personality. My whole life. If I showed you pictures of me from a child, like I've always been off the chain and I think hearing adults when I was younger telling me that I was a lot and to calm down and to like not be too much I kind of suppressed myself I am neuro spicy I have ADHD I'm spicy and I'm okay um but growing up I had a lot of people telling me to just calm down calm down have oh my gosh I have so much energy oh my god that is my superpower I have so much energy and I I think growing up, adults, they didn't even want to do this.
I think a lot of times when you hear certain things like, oh, you're too much, pipe down. Oh, you're being weird. You're all these things.
It's not even to their fault. It's what they've been conditioned to, too. So that's.
That's why it's like, I can't even trust what you're saying anyways. Like, as you become an adult, it's like, I can't even trust you anyways. Because, like, who the heck told you that?
You know what I mean? And masking is so exhausting. Either you love me or you don't.
And even if you do love me, who cares? It's all one and the same. As long as you love yourself and you are a good person, baby, it don't matter. As long as, like, you and God, that's it.
But if you know that you're a good person and you're showing up authentically, nothing else matters. And also, that's where the most rewards and blessings lie. when you are your most authentic self. But I realized like, I have all this personality and I'm just hiding it because I have a fear of being seen and being judged because I know I'm off the chain and I know I am a little rainbow striking behind like a little lightning bolt. But that's my magic and that's what I have to offer to this world.
I don't want to show up as anything but, like it's never not going to be that. All of these ideas and notions and fears of like what people are going to think about you, it's all in your head girl. There's so many people out there waiting to receive. what you have. I can understand why people are afraid and why people play small.
There's so many levels to it and just being a girl like there's just so many levels and when you are gifted and you have all these talents too you know you're afraid. of showing them because other people haven't figured out how to unlock and share their gifts. But I have to say, because this is what also helped me too, I am gifted and I want to share my gifts. God gifts everybody and you have to find out that gift.
That person has to find out that. That's not your job to help this person unlock their gift, but you being authentically yourself might help this person unlock their gift. The only way you can change and help people is by you authentic- authentically walking in your gifts and what God gave you. There is no reason to be jealous or envious of somebody else, but people can be because, oh, she has all these gifts and talents and she's...
But God gave everybody something and everybody has a different purpose. And if you can't see it, that's on you. That's also what I've realized. So I said, it's not on me to figure that out. But if we really want to break it down, I can break it down because there's some things that people have that I'll never have.
There's some things that I will never have. God gave you those gifts. Use them to the fullest ability bring the gift to its full potential.
You have all this gifts all this magic It is time to use it to show up We need it more than ever. I did write down that your fear is proof that you care and that you're on the edge of growth when you are afraid of sharing to It's like, you know, you're meant to do it. You know, you're meant to bring it out for the world to receive it so that's another sign for you to just Go!
I'm gonna, we jumping off the edge, y'all. We getting kicked off. Like if you are called to do something, baby, he gonna pull you regardless. Use that fear, transmute it, and just start slowly showing up.
And just trying. Just trying to see where it takes you. A lot of us aren't born with a silver spoon in our mouth, okay?
So it's like, use what you got to get what you want. And you don't have to think, I need to get that, I need to do that, I need to do that. You just need to start.
You need to start showing up fully in your entire life. even if it is messy this is me baby this is where I'm at right now no we ain't talking about where we gonna be in five years from now but even the person from you being five years from now the person that you envision that person things all the things that you dream about are never gonna happen if you don't start showing up if you don't start taking up space you deserve to be here You deserve to take up room, okay? Messy, happy, sad, in all of your glory, because that's what it means to be alive.
Take up space, even if you're not where you want to be yet. Even if you feel, I know a lot of people are like, you know, you've got to look the part to get what you want. I'm even off that too, man. There's people out there that are getting it, and they just in a shoebox.
And there's nothing wrong with that because I've been on every level. I've been at every single level. And I always miss, I've got to get out of this situation. Oh, I've got to get out of my little hoopty situation. I can't film in this.
I've got to get that. I've got to. Are you not you since you were born?
Have you not been the same person since you were born? No matter what house you had. No matter what car you had. No matter what level up you had. You don't need any of that.
And even more than ever, none of this matters. Just showing up as you with what you have is even more. respectable than someone showing up and making sure they have the perfect setup and situation maybe if you funny you funny prop the camera you are worthy to take up space say it with me now I am worthy to take up space I deserve to take up space I belong here I have so much in me that the world is just waiting ready to receive yes and we are I'm waiting for you and stop apologizing for who you are who cares who cares if people cannot receive you right now maybe they will maybe they won't but that's not for you to even worry about again it is exhausting worrying about and trying to manage other people's emotions stop apologizing stop watering yourself down to make other people comfortable and go bigger go bigger and if you've been slacking for a minute if you're behind you've been playing small for a very long time you're like okay now's my time it's my time to shine jump those levels where you feel like you need to be at if you're like damn i should have started this business or whatever whatever sometimes i really just like wish that you guys feel me because sometimes my words don't always convey i just be like you know and whatever like you didn't say anything how like you got but i'm like in my head i feel it so i'm just like you know if you are at a certain age right and you're like damn i should have done this when i was like early in my 20s like for me i'm like okay i should have done this earlier but i'm here now so i skipped these levels i can't go back.
I need to jump bigger. All these levels in between, no I gotta go straight to that one. Because you was playing small for so long, I don't even want that anymore.
Because we're dreaming bigger now. I done played around for so long that this is something that I should have had at this stage. And not too much on that because divine timing for everything, but if you are at a certain stage and you're like okay dang, I'm gonna accept any opportunity that I can get. No. where are you at and what do you deserve with all the knowledge and all the wisdom and all everything that you have crafted and everything that you have cultivated in your X amount of years that you've been here, all the data that you have, which is priceless as it is experiences, priceless. What does that value that?
Okay, so it's not like we're accepting anything either. We're not just accepting and taking whatever we can get. Because where are we going?
Where are we going and what does she want? Okay? You are valuable and you are enough as is. What you have inside of you is valuable.
So skip these steps if you've been lacking for a long time and shoot big. Set bigger goals. Go after them knowing that you deserve them.
Lastly, lastly... lastly there's no perfect moment to start showing up just start showing up it's fully as you are there's never going to be a perfect moment okay we're already here we're already whole it's time to just start being this isn't a competition with anybody else either I think when I was talking about earlier where it's like you're showing up in a room and you you know want to be digestible a certain amount of people other people who are whole and have talent recognize that and they're gonna see you you worry about anything but you're not in competition with other people Like I hate to be like I'm not in competition with anybody but myself Like I'm just trying to be the best version of me That's all you're trying to be is the best version of you in its full entirety It has nothing to do with anybody else what other people think oh my goodness And I know some people get off on that and like oh my god These head hairs are like if you got head hairs you're doing something right like no No, because even that energy itself is just like I Don't even care like I don't even care to even consume that either of course You know what it is is but when you can pinpoint it and you know that these people aren't fully happy it's like my heart goes out to you but i still do me you are only in competition with yourself to be the best version of yourself and you send love to everyone else and that's it and let it be done in 2025 We are here to take up space. We are here to shine this little light of mine. I'm gonna let it shine. Yes we are.
So take what resonates, leave the rest, but it's just time to live your life in its fullness. That's what we came here to do. Live your life in its fullness. And the more you live your life in its fullness, and you are authentically who you are, whatever you feel inside of you, like, dang, I know I can do more, or kind of irritable or angry or your mood swings, those will go away.
They will fall away. because you're not living fully in your entirety and all that you know that you were meant to be. So start taking up space and be unapologetic about it and do it 10 times harder for all the times that you've dumbed yourself down.
That's what I need you to do. I need you to ramp this up so hard for every time that you, oh, I just wanna, you know, I don't wanna wear the dress or oh, I don't wanna do my hair or like I don't wanna do my makeup because I don't want people to look at me. Girl, put that.
shit on okay and stop worrying about other people and once you step into it then it's the ripple effect i always love to say that because when you are walking in your fullness it automatically changes other people's lives and if you're worried about your family and you want their mindsets to change the only way it's going to change is if you change that's the only way and you'll see you'll start to see when you are walking your fullness some people just gonna fall away and it's all good because as long as you are living your life it doesn't matter so in 2025 we are taking up space We are being bold. I've stayed tuned for my next video. Please let me know what you guys want me to talk about as well And I was thinking Just playing around with the idea Because I am a certified a yapper and I love just giving you device and guidance so I was thinking potentially doing like a Mentorship program or something like where you can book a time with me to talk or just need an extra push or I'm something you're kind of struggling with let me know what you guys think about that.
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