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Understanding Relationships and Personal Growth

he you know who it is Gang Guy goie the one and only on another episode a live episode of don't hate to player Lear a game you know in here with McQueen you already know we about to go through some questions and give y'all some game right I got my live going on right here we about to answer some questions so let's get to it how does a square get the same Co operation out of a square broad as a p does out of his woman see first off you got to understand there's no difference the only difference possibly in that situation is that last woman was already trained by another man to behave in that manner but at the end of the day it's a man and a woman relationship don't ever forget that you know I've had Square women who have done more for me than another type of woman why because I trained her to be that way and any woman who's in the game guess what she had to be trained to be that way yeah it might be a little bit easier to conform to that lifestyle when you're in that lifestyle and you see other women already behaving in that fashion but you have to create your own sphere rule number one a woman has to like you a lot y'all want to skip that step y'all think I just be talking y'all want to skip the most important step the woman got to like you a whole hell of a lot players get chose you have to be chose if you chasing that's not going to be the woman that's going to do that for you cuz she doesn't see you of value right if you wait and position yourself to be chosen the woman who chooses you sees you of value and when you see something of value you're willing to take and accept more from it I'm going to give you an analogy in a regular World in a regular square relationship a woman thinks she's more valuable than a man right if you ask a woman would you let your man sleep with uh another woman she say hell no I wouldn't if you ask that same woman if she was being honest if you ask her would you sleep with your favorite celebrity your favorite actor your favorite movie star even though he has a wife or a girlfriend if she's being honest with her friend she say girl hell yeah why is it that she would accept being with that man who has another woman but wouldn't allow her man to have another woman because of value she sees that man as more valuable which means you can only deal with a woman who sees you in that fashion if you want the cooperation out of it that you're asking and how do you do that stop chasing grow up mentally understand what it looks like on the outside accounts for almost nothing you're not a pimp so why does it matter what she looks like her looks are not going to pay you her looks are not going to pay you so why does it matter so much what she looks like instead of what she's doing for you and how she treats you you have to First Rise mentally as Elementary High School thinking right then number two when you understand that you start looking for the quality and women you'll start to open your eyes the reason you can't see the woman choosing you is cuz you too busy doing a choosing you too busy doing a choosing so you can't even you you your eyes aren't even open for the woman choosing you they do this exercise all the time in Tony Robins he says all right look around right now look at everything in the room that you see red look everything that's red take account of it 10 seconds look at everything in your room right now do it right now everything that's red look at it what's red look at it look at it look at it all right now come back to me now tell me everything that's green it's going to be real hard for you to find what's green because you were paying attention to what was red it's going to be real hard for you to find a [ __ ] that's choosing you cuz you looking for the [ __ ] you choosing you got to start looking for the woman who's choosing you and I guarantee you going to find her and then when you understand I'm going give you my glasses in the game I can take a woman off the street put a wig on a pig I can turn her into a [ __ ] Superstar [ __ ] with multi-millionaires basketballs rappers all of that because the baddest broad that you see it's just makeup hair eyelashes eyeliner uh uh face fillers lip fillers maybe some breast maybe a BBL maybe some ass fillers that's all Beauty really is it's Skin Deep so if I can turn a a woman from the gutter into that then you can take a woman who's choosing you who's producing for you who's doing everything you like and nothing you don't and if you really can't get over her looks then you can just do that to her so that's how you do it man it just goes back to number one man you have to choose the woman choose I can't even like a broad man I bad broads be [ __ ] with me cold ones cold ones ones that man y'all probably go Raw on these bras the first night and try to get them pregnant the type of bras to be on me but guess what I'm not even attracted to the broad if she can't bow down to me if I got to tell her to call me daddy more than once and she got a problem with it if I got to tell her to do this or stop doing this and it takes too long I'm not even attracted I'm not even texting her back because I don't care what she look like you're not going to treat me less than I see myself and because I have a certain standard I can't go that it's women who do treat me like that so what the [ __ ] I look like letting her treat me any less than that no it's a standard around here and once you get your first bra that see you like a god you will never take the disrespect of dealing with a woman who doesn't see you like that and it's no it's no knock to her I'm just not your type and if I'm not your type you're not my type it's that simple so y'all just got to elevate mentally and choose who choosing you recognize your value this is what I a woman comes into my household right you know the first thing that I teach her I teach her about her value that's what y'all need to understand is your value you can't see your value and that's why you allow the woman to deal with you and not in the fashion that you believe you should because you don't recognize your value just like the braad I tell a woman like this she come into the household and I'm prepping her right cuz the foundation must be laid she has to believe that she's super valuable so I tell her like this so she doesn't get discouraged when she's going out you know trying to get the most I tell her like this there's an art gallery and in this Art Gallery there's paintings for $50 million $100 million if you take the average guy from the ghetto off the streets and he walks into this art gallery and you show him this $50 million painting and you tell him it's $50 million you know what he's going to say he's going to say I wouldn't pay $50 for that thing the people in the art gallery they're not upset they're not offended by this why because he doesn't belong here this Art Gallery wasn't set up for an individual like that just because he doesn't see the value in the painting does not make the painting any less more valuable so I tell the woman the same thing when you're out there doing what you're supposed to be doing you should be always asking for the most yeah I know what I'm telling you to ask for is astronomical but you have that value and once you understand you have that value value you won't get discouraged when somebody turns you down why won't you get discouraged because he doesn't belong here it's not you your value Remains the Same he can't see it cuz he doesn't belong here he can't recognize the value that you are because you are not for him so I'll tell you the same thing that woman doesn't belong here she doesn't see the value that you are and just cuz she doesn't see it doesn't mean the value isn't there just cuz I have a $100 bill in somebody from another country doesn't recognize what it is does not make this $100 bill not spendable at the store it's her loss and that's how you got to see yourself first you got to recognize your value you got to look at all your good attributes man it's I'm hard pressed to find a broad around this [ __ ] that I think more valuable than me and you should feel like that too unless this [ __ ] uh Jasmine Arabian Prince from Dubai you know what I'm saying princess from Dubai going to come through and sweep me off my feet and change my [ __ ] life and marry me I ain't met that [ __ ] yet so since I ain't met her none of these these [ __ ] living got [ __ ] roommates man last [ __ ] I met was talking about moving in with her mama how the [ __ ] could she ever be more valuable than me I don't care what she look like you understand what I'm saying so just take inventory and understand you're you're just as valuable if not more than that bro yeah yeah we're here yeah man see hey this is why you got to collaborate and do things with people on the same page cuz ain't no way I to came up in here today but I know it it's necessary we got to we got to keep working you said ain't no way you was going to come up in here there's no way I would have just came up here by myself if you wasn't like y oh no we on it [ __ ] you got to collaborate with people on the same type of time as you yeah no we got to stay working working come on now not just stay working but pick up the pace pick up the pace even harder step on that gas pedal even harder you be talking about this all the time go it's like when you see your window of opportunity when you start getting that momentum when you see that iron is hot you need to strike that hard a lot of and I've been a victim of this too A lot of times they start to get hot and they be like now they they feel like they can start coasting and slowing down because finally after all the hard work that they put in they start getting some some momentum now now they feel like okay cool I got my momentum I got my blessings I can slow down now that is the that is the worst you could do because like you said before you don't know when that next opportunity is going to come if it ever is going to come what I'm saying so you need to take advantage of that instead of sitting there being like Oh I could slow down now no you need to remind yourself to go three times quadruple qu times right take advantage of this [ __ ] and and and squeeze all the juice out of this orange that I cuz I don't know when my next come is going to be I don't know when you know what I'm saying and and guess what I'm so glad that me and Goldie are two of the Blessed people that get the chance to even get another chance because like I said I've been a victim of like you said you've been a victim of it too and I'm so glad that I'm the type of person I'm one of the chosen ones that actually continue to continue to keep putting the work to even get another window of opportunity because now I learned from my past experience I will never yeah never let another I don't care if it's a [ __ ] I don't care if it's my family I don't care what the [ __ ] it is [ __ ] if I can still move and I can still [ __ ] put in work and I can still function my eyes are my my eyes work my ears work my arms work my legs work I am not going to get comfortable ever [ __ ] again ever [ __ ] take her to church take her to church come he I'm trying to tell you man see and that's the energy I need to be around and that's why you got to be around people moving like that with that high energy right there cuz that's what it's going to take man cuz I listen I've been sick to my stomach times that plays was hitting then you get that phone call like it's over with and you be like damn I was on [ __ ] vacation with a broad you know what I'm saying cuz I thought that [ __ ] was Everlasting and I say it all the time I just think about like artists you think of some of the biggest artists in the world at the time they was hot and right now man I ain't going to say too much but man I be around a lot of these dudes man and they broke man and they but they had a time when they was on and they down comfort and what to I just like I'm always in fear if I don't take of this iin going get it exactly trying to pick up the T Pace go go 10 times 20 times 100 and then when you get around these high level individuals you realize that's how they live they live doing 20 times what we doing right now so if we want to be on that level man success leaves Clues we just got to do what they doing exactly and it's it's a lot of people's problems too is that y'all don't live with a sense of urgency the moment I started to realize that and I've seen you post this before Goldie is that when you start to realize a lot of people would tell you oh you got time no you [ __ ] don't you don't no you don't how do you know you going to wake up tomorrow how okay how do you know a God forbid a family member ain't going ain't gonna go tomorrow how do you know what the [ __ ] is how do you know what's going how can someone tell you that you have time you do not have [ __ ] time and guess what that even even thinking that you have time is a [ __ ] disease mindset because 10 years going to go by and you still going to be think oh I got some time and then 10 more years going to go by and you going to realize you too old to even [ __ ] function anymore you know what I'm saying so don't ever even think that you have time cuz you [ __ ] don't you don't have time [ __ ] you need to take action now you need to take action now there has to be a sense of urgency and I don't care how much success you already think you have [ __ ] the things that you want inside your heart and your dreams the things the visions that you have [ __ ] there is someone else out there that wants the same [ __ ] and they're willing to work 10 times harder than you [ __ ] they working right now they working right so when you think you have time I can slow down that [ __ ] is working 10 times harder and he going to get that [ __ ] and you going to see that [ __ ] somewhere on social media you going to be like damn [ __ ] you going to start hating because guess what that [ __ ] put in the work and you did it because your ass thought you had some [ __ ] time you don't have time [ __ ] hey hey B take that hey man I'm on a different type of energy right now [ __ ] take take to church now man listen I'm on a different type of energy [ __ ] you know what I'm saying I don't know what it is about me viral hey man listen to me it I don't know what it is about me right now hey maybe cuz I came out and I seen you go see I'm like [ __ ] let me match that energy but now you know what that's what we got to do that's what we got to do around this [ __ ] man hey you know look man Goldie you know what the deal is man we talked about some [ __ ] that just happened recently you know what hey jump into that not not specific yeah not specifically but I'll tell you this I'll tell you this about that though right man when some [ __ ] happened to you no matter how much [ __ ] you've been through honestly it gets to a point now where it's like I'm I'm kind of glad that some [ __ ] be cuz [ __ ] now you gave me another [ __ ] source of energy now you gave me a whole another tank of [ __ ] energy you know what I'm saying now you gave me a whole another drop and that's exactly where the energy coming from right now cuz I'm [ __ ] mad [ __ ] I'm madit make you see exactly [ __ ] I'm [ __ ] and guess what I'm happy because look a lot of people think that being angry is a bad thing a lot of people think that being angry that energy I don't think being angry is a bad thing I used to think anger is being a bad thing but that was because I was propagated to think so but I tell you like this like told you just said if you can channel that energy anger is one of those powerful [ __ ] energies you could [ __ ] have [ __ ] cuz if I can challenge if I can channel that and go to the gym and take that anger out some [ __ ] ways [ __ ] I'm going to get the craziest workout I've ever had in my [ __ ] life [ __ ] if I take that energy and I put it into this [ __ ] videos [ __ ] I'm going to come in just like right now and have the greatest energy and speak with [ __ ] conviction like I am right now you know what saying that's the problem a lot of you [ __ ] know how to channel that [ __ ] anger I like anger [ __ ] you know what I'm saying I like that [ __ ] you feel me even if I'm learning how to [ __ ] fight [ __ ] I'm going to whoop your [ __ ] ass if I can channel that [ __ ] you know what I'm saying if I can channel that [ __ ] and calm myself down and channel that [ __ ] energy you know I'm saying to hit you with these right combos [ __ ] I'm going to whoop your [ __ ] ass and that's just how it is with everything if you can learn to channel these energy cuz that's all emotions are it's energy you know say it's better to be it's better to be angry than to be depressed if you look at a frequency chart you know anger is above depression depression you can't move at least with you got some motion you know what I'm saying you know most people a lot of people man it take them to get mad or in a real [ __ ] up position where they say oh this is it I ain't standing for it no more before they get to moving so yeah you know you got to embrace it if you got to see I'mma use whatever I got man hey man it's a lot of [ __ ] you know I be telling you all the time hey man it's a lot of [ __ ] that did some things man you might have thought I let that [ __ ] slide I didn't I let that [ __ ] fuel me you know and just waiting until I get in position man I'm coming back for everything that you [ __ ] took and better better watch it I ain't forget about [ __ ] I forget about that [ __ ] I forget about that [ __ ] and [ __ ] I got to give you some credit my [ __ ] you you put me onto that onto that game recently oh yeah man we playing chess out here we playing too long term we playing too long term to be playing checkers yeah you know hey that's what the bra do she play checkers she will [ __ ] herself out of position because she had to get it off her chest knowing that getting it off her chest wasn't going to move her any closer to what she wanted matter of fact it was going to take her away shortterm thinking a liability I'm too sharp for that I'm not going to let my emotions play me out my situation I'll wait on it I'll simmer on it I ain't forget but I'm just not going to push my my my cars back it's too many people counting on me it's too many things I want to do too many people I want to help to push my cars back just so I could explode and get my feelings out there [ __ ] going to feel me one day you know yeah yeah and hey and I know that as we continue to clim the ladder it be some of them [ __ ] already coming up out the world hey man you know what I'm saying trying to get a hold of you hey man answer your call and [ __ ] I ain't talked to you in a [ __ ] year [ __ ] I ain't talked to you in two three but [ __ ] where the [ __ ] you been [ __ ] you know what I'm saying I bet you was wonder how for all I know you was one of the [ __ ] waiting for me to [ __ ] fall off you know for all I know you was one of the [ __ ] that was waiting in the corner watching me you know what I'm saying like a weirdo [ __ ] just waiting for me to [ __ ] up and fall off [ __ ] cuz I'm you see me out here taking risks that your ass would never [ __ ] take and you was thinking in your mind since your ass gave up and since you fell off and since you stopped working hard and since you stopped believing that the same [ __ ] going to happen to me get the [ __ ] out of here [ __ ] you and when [ __ ] try to get in my [ __ ] hey bro I answer your call like as if we still [ __ ] cool like we was 3 years ago [ __ ] I haven't talked to you in for [ __ ] ever [ __ ] what makes you think after all the [ __ ] time pain suffering Blood Sweat tears [ __ ] every single [ __ ] thing I went through from the time I last talked to you to the point where I'm at now that got me to this these levels these this level of success the intangibles and the tangibles okay what makes you think that when you stopped working and I kept going and I kept suffering to get where I'm at now that you still deserve to [ __ ] talk to me and soak up my energy and suckle my game that's all they want now they want hand out yeah but I got people like that too and it's like man I love you but check this out man you can't every time you call me you asking for something not one time have you called me and say hey [ __ ] do you need something can I do something for you you didn't even call a check on me every time you call me you asking for something so guess what I can't answer the phone for you no more you know and I got to let you know this is why I ain't answering the phone because clearly you're just trying to take take take and you don't even have the cogn cognition to be like well let me at least act like I'm trying to give something exactly you know yeah it's facts but that's that's that's that's what they do listen you know it's funny you was talking about haters and [ __ ] like that [ __ ] I'll make up haters in my [ __ ] head to to get me feel I know all these [ __ ] talking oh I know the these [ __ ] oh yeah what you [ __ ] ain't said nothing to me you just taking anything personal on purpose no I'm already know yeah I ain't going to lie I do the same [ __ ] some [ __ ] might say some [ __ ] that reality it probably wasn't that it it probably it probably wasn't that deep but I took it deep you know what I'm saying no ddy I took that [ __ ] as personal [ __ ] whatever to feel you whatever to feel you some [ __ ] might be like hey man I don't know what an example is but you know I've been there even specifically recently because I've been looking for anything to to to piss me off later you know what I'm saying and so you know you might be talking to a certain [ __ ] like I was talking to you know what I'm saying some [ __ ] the other day you know what I'm saying and you know I feel like I still feel like this was some indirect hater [ __ ] but she she she was like oh yeah you be getting on Instagram talking all that [ __ ] you know and this this and you don't even really be saying nothing even though she was joking might have been a little truth in there she thought I still feel like [ __ ] it the reason why you say that is because you know that what I'm saying on Instagram is a reflection of your ass and you trying to downplay what the [ __ ] I'm saying to you you know saying and you also see that I'm acting in congruency with what the [ __ ] I'm talking about so you trying to get me to slow down and not [ __ ] act that way you was trying to you was hoping that I was just the [ __ ] that was online talking you know what I'm saying so even though you said it in the Joker when you trying to laugh and smirk [ __ ] I took that [ __ ] as [ __ ] disrespectful you know what I'm saying and and and now that the [ __ ] is over with [ __ ] I [ __ ] I I I trace everything back you know what I'm saying you when you exactly even if it wasn't that deep to you I took it [ __ ] I took a personal you know what I'm saying I'll be on my MJ Kobe [ __ ] [ __ ] I'm you know what I'm saying I'll be taking hey give me give me any reason to be mad [ __ ] give me any reason you know so n that's that's real listen I I got some questions for you okay I got some questions for you I was thinking yeah cuz I had put up on Instagram too and told these [ __ ] to ask me questions but I don't know if they was even going to ask you some some solid questions let me see they got some questions but I got a couple questions for you okay you know and people was getting uhuh up and Roar about that video why I had the broad opening my door you know what I'm saying so I got a question for you I got a question for you would you open your woman's door yeah I have okay yeah that was it that was it that was it oh okay I mean look I've opened my woman's door right but I'm going be 100 would you allow your woman to open your door 100 allow yeah I almost expect okay okay see all right you know I almost expect it now and you know what I was just that was what I was F to get to right now right was even though I've opened women's door before and there might still be cases there man look man if the [ __ ] if if she being a good [ __ ] I'll still open the door for the [ __ ] right that don't mean that's going to go away go away but listen at the same time [ __ ] the way I'm seeing myself now the way I'm moving now the way I'm continuing to elevate now the way I'm building this inner selfconfidence that I've never on a level that I've never had before the way I keep sh sh up for myself and proving that I am who I say I am I mean you know when you think about what a [ __ ] deserves how do you deserve that if I how do you deserve princess treatment you know the whole chivalry treatment how do you deserve that for just existing how do you deserve that [ __ ] I am the one who is changing your life in every single [ __ ] way mentally spiritually physically financially you're getting certain leadership that you've never gotten before you're getting my life you're getting my time my energy that I should be using on [ __ ] making more money and guess what that same time and energy is the per is the exact reason why I'm the person that you're even attracted to in the [ __ ] first place so you should be [ __ ] adding to me in any way you possibly can so honestly like you just said going back to your question [ __ ] I almost expected now [ __ ] open my door [ __ ] you know what I'm saying you want these mother you want to get in my car you saying you want to ride in this ni ass car you want to be around a fly [ __ ] you want to have access to my [ __ ] leadership my mental my mental my spiritual my physical my financial you want to have access to my network you want to have access to this this just a high level individual [ __ ] the least you could do was open my [ __ ] door yeah see and this is how I feel about it see to me it's not that deep because the lifestyle that I come from you know BR just going to run to try to open the door you know I I've had bars like some real ones that I I got to be like just just just don't do it cuz it now we can't even enjoy this meal cuz everybody's talking about the fact that you opened my door to get in this restaurant so just just don't do it wait what you mean like you go to a restaurant like it's certain BRS I have and it's like Daddy let me open the door and I'll be like I appreciate the gesture but it's going to be it's going to cause commotion cuz now that [ __ ] want to say something that [ __ ] want to say something I'll be in person not to me but just like you know little behind the scenes like why you you know like I'll be places in my BR she grab my bag like Daddy let me get let me get it for you yeah dude will come and grab her bags grab grab the bags from her and I'm like all right well you could grab you could hold my [ __ ] you know it's just it's just weird like that so what yes yeah man I'll be places and my brother grab the bags and you know she's she could get her bag I got my bag D will come out work you're just going to let her carry her own back sure the [ __ ] am but if you want to carry you can carry for us both to the Carter Uber right there who are these [ __ ] random white Knights that even have the balls to even come up to a random [ __ ] they don't don't even know and try to speak for his girl that's crazy oh women do it too women do it too like of course I can expect [ __ ] a grown man is crazy but but but I say that to say this right talking about opening up a woman's door man to me it's not even that big a deal you know it's like if I felt like opening my woman's door I would do it she's not going to ask me to do it is what she's not going to do but if it's something I want to do then I'mma do it and I I got most women who going to really [ __ ] with me who's really my Main Chick like that oh no she deserve Queen treatment cuz she treat me like a king to the utmost so to me it's nothing she deserve that if that's what she want my woman ain't even that petty like that most people want that for what it looks like to everybody else me and my women are suching our own Bub's not doing for what it looks like to these SES cuz we don't respect these [ __ ] anyway so she's not even probably going to ask me that but if if it was a gesture I wanted to do man it's nothing I'll do it if that's what I felt like doing it go back to what you saying [ __ ] the least you could do is open my [ __ ] door yeah you know what I'm saying it's like this right I would last summer I took my son and um a Brad I was with we went to Italy we went to Europe for for for the summer went to this place that place Capri you know Fly Guy [ __ ] hey man I went to Dubai with some bras man Cabo a few times uh you know in the Caribbean doing doing a lot of Fly Guy stuff you know what I'm saying different events different people different celebrities all this y guess what what's that I could swap out that woman I took with any other woman right she can't swap me out with any other man you're replaceable in this situ I'm not it's going to be hard pressed for you to find a man doing the things I'm doing to invite you on the things that he's doing and if you could find another rare individual like me why the [ __ ] would he even want you I'm barely [ __ ] with you so this is what I'm saying don't you ever forget it cuz this is what these BRS like to do you came to this amusement park you got on this ride and you've been riding it so long you forgot it was here before you got here and it's going to be here long before you gone this [ __ ] been running before you got here and you being on it doesn't make it run you understand what I'm saying but sometimes they get comfortable and sometimes you got to you got to call up that other chick you got to tell your bro hey I'm out and I'm in so and so with who uh little chick I met the other day what yeah I just had to remind you if you forgot I wasn't him that these [ __ ] out here they think I am you know what I'm saying so yeah go do what you want hey and if you don't want to be here when I get back go ahead you know just lock up the place man feel me that should be the most disrespectful [ __ ] ever when a [ __ ] start to [ __ ] for get what the [ __ ] she has in front of her I swear to God that should be the most disrespectful it's almost it's almost like to me you're playing a game and dud do it too you're trying to make me forget the value I have because if I remember my value I'll always remember that you're easily replaceable so you want to go out your way to try to not acknowledge my greatness dudes do that to women too but that's fine you can do that but I going to remind you hey just cuz you may be acting like you forgot I want to let you know that I didn't for forgetting I remember who I am yeah yeah exactly you know what man the problem with me go is I feel like I'm too smart for my own good in the sense that it doesn't make any [ __ ] and we've talked about that I already know what you f to say you f to say you're not supposed to even be trying to think from a logical perspective when a with a illogical creature I already know that but my thing is like bro I I it's it's a hard thing to do because I mean it's like I got to turn my brain off no no no it's it's this is a better framework to help you with that because I do it too sometimes you get into an argument and you realize we're not even arguing anything she's in her emotions it don't matter what I say it's not going to change you just think of it like a child I'm dealing with a child how do you deal with a child you don't try to logically reason with it you just okay all right a calm down all right you need you know Pat his back I'm not saying necessarily do that to the woman but you just see it in that fashion you're not going to move me with this these theatrics you're doing matter of fact I'm going to remove myself from the situation that's why I'm I'm I'm not texting back I'm not no I see where this is going I'm good I'm just going to withdraw there's nothing I can say [ __ ] figure it out figure it out get over it call me later when you're done getting over it and if you don't get over it just don't call me then yeah that's all that's the only thing you can do otherwise you get I was just saying the other day otherwise you're playing her game now you playing her game and you can't win a game that you didn't that you don't know the rules of yeah she can switch them any times she want that's how she going to do y I'm not the moment it becomes her game brought hit me the other day and she say I'm like uh I I'm just wondering what you actually want I don't think what we want is aign I put a thumbs up turn my phone off I mean not turn my phone off put it on too not disturb and I was done not that's a game you're plan that's a gang you you want me to convince you why what we want is a line I'm not going to do that cuz that's a game obviously you don't want to deal with me enough to come correct and let me know you want to deal with me I'm not going to convince you to deal with me you're trying to play a game I opt out of playing the only way I can win your game or the only way I can not lose her game is to just not play she shot me a text it was a game she started to play I decided I'm not going to play it thumbs up that's it only way you can win there's no way that conversation could have went without me devaluing myself by trying to convince her that no our our values are line uh uh the things we want are the same [ __ ] I look like now now the Power Balance go like this it it was here now I'm explaining myself here she go now it's like this Power Balance right here guess what she sent me that text I hit that little button on there it actually dropped like this cuz I didn't even respond she was the last one to say something all I hit was a thumbs up it's kind of like this oh he and he just disappeared I won and I'm going leave it like that cuz she come back correct and if she don't never come back correct I don't care you don't want that [ __ ] anyway I don't care yeah you know why cuz I'm dealing with a [ __ ] who don't like me enough to not play games a woman who really like you enough ain't playing games do you think women and I always use this example Chris Brown Drake whatever biggest start do you think these [ __ ] gonna play that game I don't no they're not gonna play the game and if they do play the game and get no response they're immediately going to text back and be like you know what so [ __ ] you didn't do that for me you don't like me enough that's cool I'm glad I know now because only thing you're going to do is you're going to continue to deal with that woman and just like you said it was a sign I saw this [ __ ] is on [ __ ] she like to play games she don't really like me that much and later down the line it's going to be a whole bunch more problems that could have been avoided I'm cool don't care how fine you are don't care how cool the was you don't like me enough and that's a non-negotiable for me yeah y yep o that's some cold game right there [ __ ] it's a non-negotiable for me man and I'm not going to say it's hard I'm not going to say it's hard but I could understand some dudes where it's like damn she fine we got a good connection we like the same movies we like the same books she's into personal development but she don't like me enough and so I got to say [ __ ] [ __ ] you this what it is and and I have to for and and and I don't be mad about it well [ __ ] the [ __ ] no no no yeah she fine yeah we got a lot of same things in common yeah that [ __ ] smell good yeah we have some pretty babies together but she don't like me enough and I can't [ __ ] with it yeah and it is what it is yeah it's just it's that simple yeah because if she don't like you enough everything else falls apart it's always going to be a problem it's always going to be a problem and and and more than that it's not that she don't like me enough it's if I were to continue to deal with her it will erode at my self-image and selfworth because I'm dealing with somebody who doesn't really like me that much and what you don't understand is your self-image drives everything in your life and that's the reason a lot of people aren't successful cuz they're self-image so I'm letting her erode my self-image it's going to affect every other area of my life and my subconscious if I let her treat me less than I feel like I am I'm going to start to think that I'm less than that because I'm accepting it and then every other area of my life is going to be reflecting that area [ __ ] it's too big of a thing for me to let that [ __ ] slide every in my life has to remind me I'm a [ __ ] King for me to be able to produce and act like a king cuz I've been in I've had a household before where I let a [ __ ] you roll that she talking to me crazy and I'm putting up with the [ __ ] and everything else in my life seemed to deteriorate a little bit and I realize it's because she's talking to me crazy she's she's lowering my morale she's lowering how I really see myself so it's hard for me to go out there and and and poke my chest out in life because I'm I'm I'm dealing with this all day I don't really feel like I'm that dude no more so I vowed I'm never going to deal with a woman who don't make me feel like that yeah yeah yeah so I love myself too much it's not even about her liking me I like myself too much that you got to treat me the way I already treat myself and if you coming in under that or you coming in under the way I've had some women treat me well [ __ ] I'm spoiled now and it is what it is I can't go back yeah I had a roseo can't ride a Toyota no more nothing against Toyota I when I had one it was cool to ride once I got a Rolls-Royce I can't stand to being a [ __ ] Toyota so I can't stand I can't [ __ ] with you yeah yep yep you hey like I said bro as always is you in your [ __ ] bag you you are 1,00% right I just want to really emphasize how much it irritates me when you go when you're dealing with a [ __ ] and she knows your value Straight Out The Gate she treats you the way you're supposed to be treated she shows that she likes you the way she's supposed to yeah and then like you just said she gets too used to the amusement park now she start to act and forget even though you have shown in every aspect every facet of your mind your spirit your being your character that you are not the [ __ ] one to be [ __ ] played with you are not the same as all these other Mark ass [ __ ] where the [ __ ] did you even think that that would be a [ __ ] good idea to even do that she's going to try it that's what a woman's going to do though please believe she she oh she going she going to try it but that's why I say all the time man you got to check everything every single day I don't care if you're tired I don't care if it's the middle of the night I don't care if you have somebody w I don't care if you at a funeral you got to check that [ __ ] don't ever s just let it slide if she don't say bless you when you sneeze if you got to ask her twice to go get you something if uh something happened the other day man I'm was like uh I want I want a case of deal bro I came out to the car I was like oh where's my case we got back oh where's the casad de oh it was uh what she say she said some [ __ ] like Oh by the time you said you wanted a case a deal I was going to have to reorder it it would have took another 25 minutes I said oh is that what we're doing now oh oh is that where we're at cuz to me this is this is this is a a violation how did you pay for the no I didn't pay that's not the point the point is I asked you to do something you heard it and you didn't even run it past me yeah you decided somebody else might think that's some small [ __ ] oh no and and we had to deal with it like it was as big as it was so I let her know like I don't know what the [ __ ] is going on around here like I don't know what's going on I don't know if you got some little [ __ ] you got on the side that got you acting crazy but but you're on notice I don't appreciate it you know better than that and you know what's going to come after this so I'm not letting it slide I'm putting you on notice if this Behavior continues just watch I'm not going cuz I'm not what I'm not going to do is we're not going to get into a game where I'm checking [ __ ] every day cuz a game game I'm going to tell you what the issue is and the next time you do it okay that's what you wanted to do now I'm going have to do what I want to do hey hey [ __ ] I don't want to see them tears I don't want to see you crying when I do what I'm telling you I'm going to do if this Behavior continues cuz to me I I I no cuz that was some out of pocket at she don't never do no [ __ ] like I tell you I want something and you take executive decision to be like I'm just not going to get it no what you're supposed to say is either you just go get it or you say it's going to be a 30 minute wait do you want to wait in the car for 30 minutes or you just want me to grab this food that's what she should have did the fact she didn't chose [ __ ] this [ __ ] yeah I don't feel like waiting y i i don't feel like waiting I don't care how much he want yeah man it's a slippery slope but most dudes want to caught that and little [ __ ] turn into big [ __ ] and they going to act they going they going to act like when you call [ __ ] out like that that you're doing too much oh [ __ ] yeah hey call me Mr do [ __ ] much around this [ __ ] because look man that's another thing bro that's another thing that is very insulting to me because I a very very very very very energetically in tune person I know when something is happening probably before even you [ __ ] know it you know what I'm saying the energy shift is way too easily noticeable for me every single [ __ ] time where something went wrong with an ex in the past or a girl I was messing with I knew energetically was I the person that had enough self-respect to stop it and tracks at the time no but I always [ __ ] knew I always knew and every single time I knew it was the exact reason the [ __ ] didn't end up [ __ ] working so now that I have the self-respect now that I have the self-esteem now that I have the character that is able to stop that [ __ ] in its tracks not even stop it more so just be the person and the moment I see that that person is being disrespected then I like you just said I remov myself right so what the thing is is like I said when you get involved with a [ __ ] and she knows that you're that type of person what is so insulting to me is that you thought that I wasn't that [ __ ] person for whatever reason in that moment that you did that dumbass [ __ ] and you thought I wasn't going to [ __ ] notice like trying to act like you didn't just do some [ __ ] and then when I call you out on it you're trying to play this manipulation game like what are you talking about what do you mean like why you acting like that [ __ ] do don't knock it off [ __ ] bro do not try and act like I'm just some [ __ ] stupid ass [ __ ] but that's but that's another game they do that's why listen back in the day right in my household my women knew if I think you're lying you lied no no no listen listen legit legit ask him right if I think you're lying you lied there's no discussion about it there's no cuz guess what a liar's not going to tell me they're going to they're lying right so why would I ask you about it say that one more time a liar a liar is not going to admit that they're lying are they no so we're not going to go through this back and forth game if I think you're lying about something you lied and I'm going to deal with it as you lied that's it because and guess what that negates a whole lot of [ __ ] you want to know why because women are very careful about what they do because they know even if he just thinks it and I don't care I will live and die by me being wrong but what I'm not going to do is second guess myself to ask you if you're lying because if you were lying you're a liar you already lied before why wouldn't you why would you lie why would you admit it so so but but just by having that in my household it keeps women honest yeah because they're going to try to if it's like talking to the police there's nothing good that you can get from talking to police that's why they say you have the right to remain silent why because that is your best defense your best defense with a woman is to State your terms we're not going to talk about it that's why I'm not going to talk to you about why this isn't working I'm not going to talk to you about why I think you're lying you lied I'm not going to talk to you about why I think this isn't working okay you don't think it's working pack your bags get the [ __ ] I'm here all going ulate there's we can't win there so I'm not even going to get involved in that situation all you're going to do is go to prison trying to talk your way out of the crime that that police is asking you about the best thing you can do is just not talk to them y yep so that's how I feel with wom we're not talking about I've made up in my mind what what happened and it needs to be fixed I made up in my mind you're lying and we're going to deal with it as if you lied and the punishment is going to come yep you said that that you don't think this thing is going to work out okay well the next step is to go get your [ __ ] and let's figure out how we're going to move out and move from each other but what we're not going to do is get into this game that you want to play that's not my game that's yours and I don't play games that I I I'm not responsible swear to God I don't play [ __ ] games bro and that's what irritates my soul so much bro is that it's just like why anyways like I don't want to be the type of [ __ ] that's going back and forth is just like I said I feel like sometimes I'm too intelligent for my own good that it's like like I get into this Whirlwind after you just did some [ __ ] and I seen it and I remove myself cuz like you just said I'm not playing this [ __ ] game with you not G but what makes me is like [ __ ] where did you where did you even think that that was a good ass [ __ ] I like women women don't respect [ __ ] but what they're forced to respect that's all it is you can't take it person a woman don't respect [ __ ] but what she's forced to respect so she's going to she's going to try you so she's going to try you you could be the most upstanding man you could be the most righteous man you could be the most fair man she's going to try you and if you take it personal you know it's going to be you're going to give her exactly what you want a whole bunch of emotion man women are like vampires you I was saying it the other day what's what's those things on Harry Potter ment Yeah man they feed off your fear women feed off your energy man I promise you they do that's why the worst thing I can do to abroad is get cold as the icy Himalayas and just not say nothing she she get to texting some [ __ ] the best thing you can do is say nothing she get to talk about you want to leave the best thing you can do is Deuces that's the best thing you can do because once they have nothing to feed off of The Game Stop but as long as you got that fear like like like in Harry Potter man they going they going feed off that [ __ ] yep yep yep now you right man you right it's it's just like you know it's it's as a logical person as a you know I mean logical being We're Men right it's just like you got to consciously remind yourself of that and I'm glad like you said going back to what you was talking about earlier this why you got to get around highle individuals to remind yourself because you know you might just man I know me you know what I'm saying I'm just like B like it's a it's a mixture of [ __ ] where the [ __ ] why did you even think that was a good [ __ ] idea how did you even think that well that was going to play out well for you knowing what type of individual I am and and and it just it just gets into this Whirlwind but you're right you gotta you can't even play that game and you know you can't even play that game you know you know they're always going to try you but that's why you got to show up but if if she's always going to be trying you but it's going to be very small subtle trying and if you check those small subtle trying moments it'll never turn into something big but what most dudes fail to realize is they didn't even recognize when she tried you and you let it slide the thing I was talking about about the casad de most dudes would have let that slide then it would have got bigger and bigger and bigger and once she push the line it's hard the only way you can push it back is now it's got to be an argument now it's got to be a big old deal but if every time she do a little something you check it she do something else you check it you do something else you check it guess what that's all it's going be it's going to be little [ __ ] but you let something slide o we all right it's just going to be bigger next time so I check everything B Call Me Crazy yep you think you f to manipulate me with those mind games and reverse psych oh you're crazy [ __ ] sure am all right and what see you can't even use that against me you can't even say oh you crazy all right I'm crazy [ __ ] leave then leave how about that then that don't offend me you're not going to use those mind games on me no you right you right man and you know I I want to get into the little story that we was talking about but I don't really want to because this this some [ __ ] I just want to talk to you homie to homie after after the after the show but it's also just like you know it's just it's such a it it it's such a [ __ ] relatable thing that I know a lot of [ __ ] happens all the time you know what I'm saying and and really and and that part that you just said right now is the part that really kind of answered my question it's more so they're going to try you no matter what you could be the most upstanding man the most the man that has the best habits the most the most the best leadership they've ever seen in their life [ __ ] they don't drink you don't drink you don't smoke you don't party you going to bed at [ __ ] at a certain time every it's in her nature to try you cuz she just got to see cuz so many dudes is faking a f it's only natural he he could only keep this up for so long every dude I've ever met he can only keep it up for so long so she's just going based off of her you know her past experience and eventually you be with a woman long enough she still going to try you but it'll get less and less when she realize okay it really cuz [ __ ] get to tested me too many times all right it's now it's disrespect because you know this I'm not even going to tell you about it I tell women like this like listen at this point you know what I like you know what I don't like so anything you do that I don't like either you're incompetent and I can't [ __ ] with a slow broad or you're intentionally trying to aggravate me and I'm going to just leave you and I'm not even going to tell you you've already been put on notice but you got to be willing to walk away and most of these dudes aren't they not willing to walk away and about that situation we not even going to go into it but we will go into the part of the fact that we were talking about how could I put it without saying what was going on what what what what did I do wrong what could I have done better and that's the wrong that's the wrong thought process okay right all right because to say what you could have done better is to say you missed out on something when missed out on you y like I said earlier man unless Princess Jasmine from Dubai with a palace and billions of dollars was in my life and it was a possible opportunity for me to get married to her and change my generational wealth for the next 200 years but we we ain't met that [ __ ] I ain't met that [ __ ] up until this day ain't a [ __ ] I've met that I missed out on she missed out on me the [ __ ] that I need I've never had and I've never had a [ __ ] worth keeping that left and that's how I feel don't care how fine she is so you just got to have the right mindset man I don't care what the [ __ ] I did I don't care if I did some off-the-wall [ __ ] that blew the situation [ __ ] you blew me like I said hey I'm I'm going be in I'm going be in uh Europe this summer you know what I'm saying boting off the island of Capri [ __ ] you're going to be at home at your mama's house with your [ __ ] roommate how the [ __ ] did I blow anything [ __ ] out of here [ __ ] it's your loss [ __ ] you should have overlooked it ho is what you should have did give a [ __ ] what I did Overlook it then Overlook what the [ __ ] I did like you overlooked all those poor decisions you made in life to get to where the [ __ ] you at right now godamn but you can't Overlook little [ __ ] that I did all right no I'm not to convince you to say if you can't convince yourself of this good situation like you convinced yourself all those poor decisions you made to put you in the space in life where you at right now then [ __ ] I can't [ __ ] with you you're not going to have a double standard you going to hold me to the fire but don't hold yourself to [ __ ] [ __ ] out of here man oh my God bro God damn that was some [ __ ] game [ __ ] but but but see I really feel like that I'm talking to I don't care how she is I'm looking at her for what she is [ __ ] you failed in life up until this point and them looks just going to be G in a little bit right y it's a thousand of you it may be a th no it's more than a thousand of you right and it's a thousand of me but honestly if you really get another [ __ ] like me the chances of him wanting you are slim to none because you're not even that that you're not even that high of a caliber I just got the type of mind to where I could build a woman but most dudes can't so most dudes you find on this level are not even going to [ __ ] with do you so I don't know if it's a that you're with me to make think or you're actually delusional and think you have option or you're just [ __ ] [ __ ] and don't recognize what you about to blow right now which is most of the most of the time they just don't recognize just just she been making poor decision all that's why she got a [ __ ] roommate right now that's why she's [ __ ] dancing at 30 years old she been making poor decisions she doesn't have the logical compass and [ __ ] that's really why you need me that's really cuz you keep making poor decisions you got a lottery ticket in front of you and you going to blow it over what over over over something small or you're going to blow it over playing games yeah [ __ ] you playing games and look at where your life is at look where that [ __ ] has got you that's how I feel I can't lose [ __ ] my cuz cuz cuz the destiny of my life is predicated on me yeah the great my life is going to be great because of me not cuz of you not cuz of him not cuz of her your life [ __ ] is predicated on the man that you're going to [ __ ] with so therefore you got to be careful I don't I don't have to have no [ __ ] my life could be great I'll do what I have the money do the things have a great grand life right we're not on the same page because you and I both know the quality of your life is going to be predicated on the man that you get so you have to be dependent on somebody I'm not dependent so I don't have to put up [ __ ] godamn it say it again I don't got to put up with [ __ ] and that's why I like being in a position where I don't need no [ __ ] right I don't want nothing from you now everything you give me is on top of it but I don't need it I'm self-sufficient and when I'm never dependent [ __ ] you can walk any day anytime and that's a position you always want to be in cuz it was a time in life when I I I was living like that and I never trade for it that's why I go so hard right now yeah yeah no hey man you justo you said some crazy [ __ ] right now fool no that's facts though fool I mean you know at the end of the day I mean for you know for [ __ ] like you and me we understand I can't really speak for a lot of men out there cuz y'all be thinking y'all need these [ __ ] you know what I'm saying but you know a [ __ ] definitely has not got me where I'm at you know what I'm saying a [ __ ] matter of fact every time I elevated is when a [ __ ] wasn't in the [ __ ] [ __ ] picture you know what I'm trying to say so no that's real that's why I say man you if if a woman ain't coming to the table adding something then she's taken away she's taken away there is no in between I mean [ __ ] I'll be I'll be so real like I don't think it's ever been a [ __ ] I I I think got to stop saying that word on these on these Lives why I don't cuz they going to B me oh I feel you yeah I don't think it's ever been a woman that I've ever been with that I've ever not stopped and thought like this [ __ ] is holding me back my life would probably no I swear to God I swear to God listen legit I've never got to a point with a woman where I didn't stop and think this this this brought us holding me back and if she wasn't in my life I would have more time for this more energy for this I wouldn't have to take the time and help her with this every woman I've ever had at some level is a dependent even if she's producing for me I have to take time energy and facilitate to pour into her so she could even produce for me exactly and see that's why when I made my transition of things I said man all the time I wasted had I had took all that time and energy and effort and poured it all into myself who the [ __ ] could I have been sooner in life so now it's like every woman that really come around I got to help you in some way I got to help you here I got to tell you about this I got to tell you don't do that I got to tell you get out your feelings about this it's like I have to pour into you just for you to be able to stand just for you to be able to stand to be around you and that en I can use for myself so any time I'm with a woman I'm like it's actually better for me not to have a woman because you're really just taken away unless you're going to be one of those Miracle [ __ ] where I pour into you and you hit the [ __ ] Lotto or you really do some [ __ ] with the game and it changed my life but I'm tired of chasing that I rather bet on myself exactly cuz cuz that's a that you know that that's a far bet it might work it might not and if it don't how much time and energy did you waste you could have just put it yourself and you could have been further so I mean really think about it you got to tell a [ __ ] everything yeah [ __ ] can't listen these women are like children [ __ ] can't even go get her [ __ ] car worked on at a mechanic shop without you having to be there so she don't get got over on like there's nothing like things that children do you can't do simple adult tasks without me man hey that part you know what I'm saying that that part right there [ __ ] cuz look like you said we was talking about with the [ __ ] that I just told you about [ __ ] like your that part you just said right now they can't even do simple [ __ ] [ __ ] without a true leader a man a man to actually take on the leadership role like I'm saying simple [ __ ] and I'll give you an example it's like the [ __ ] I was just telling you about you know what I'm saying [ __ ] the [ __ ] live live with her [ __ ] roommate okay or her roommate that we got little scanner uh locks on our doors you know what I'm saying and you got to type in the code and there's like a battery that you got to you know what I'm saying replace the or the building has to replace and I'm sending every time we go up she scanning oh we don't knock our we can't we can't open the door because you know the our scanner don't work I'm like why the [ __ ] cuz look when my [ __ ] go out I hit up H the the [ __ ] building and they come and fix that [ __ ] immediately so why the [ __ ] haven't you done that oh we did they just won't come what are you talking about they won't come so so I so so I go across the street [ __ ] she walking the dog I walk inside the building I said we F to fix this [ __ ] right now cuz it's pissing me off when we going up to your [ __ ] crib and you can't get inside because you don't [ __ ] have the [ __ ] battery [ __ ] working so I told the [ __ ] girl I said hey she on the seventh floor can you fix this [ __ ] with the this this immediately she went and came up and fixed it I said why the [ __ ] didn't you do that this entire time you say they hated me they like what you talking about bro and and do you know how many thousands of things I do like that every day with a woman and it's just like how I say it all the time like how did you make it this far in life how did you make it bro what the [ __ ] do y'all be doing y'all just be floating around doing stupid [ __ ] and hoping you end up somewhere like that [ __ ] be crazy to me but but that's why I say too it's like [ __ ] how did I miss out on you how did I [ __ ] this up no [ __ ] you [ __ ] this up listen like I said stupid [ __ ] I don't care if I was with another broad and and you was like oh you [ __ ] with that broad if you were smart which you're not if you were thinking with logic not emotion you would say am I going to throw away the best thing that ever happened in my life this man who cares for me takes care of me helps me in this area helps my mental has built me up in so many ways am I going to give that away because he's so valuable he wanted another woman yes I am cuz I'm cuz I'm cuz I'm stupid I'mma [ __ ] off the best thing I ever had in my life that I'm going to regret later because I am so it's like a it's like a lose lose for her it ain't lose loose for me yeah yep just d man it's just that's the part that be throwing me off it's just hold on hold on I got I got I got I got a good one for you I got a good one for you I wanted to do a little experiment but my my my Ig ain't up you know I came I had a broad in here I was talking to the other day and I was just like you know she was really blinded by her flaws and I felt like man if somebody were to just really keep it real with her about some of her flaws that she had it would probably sting enough for her to change and a lot of people a lot of people aren't where they want to be because everybody's lying to him if you told that dude hey man you're fat it's disgusting your wife is not attracted to you and she has to think about other men when she has sex with you your kids are embarrassed when you come pick them up from school that's why they tell you to go around back if somebody told that man that I guarantee you that would be enough for him to change his life and get his [ __ ] together but because everybody plates him and doesn't say anything he doesn't even realize how bad it is and you can ask anybody who's ever got in shape they look back at their old pictures and they be like damn I can't believe I was able to stand looking like that because nobody even would look around like nobody told me you know and so I wanted to do like a thing where we bring people in cuz I don't want to tell people about their they don't ask me but I wanted to like have a thing where we get somebody on camera and they ask us like y we going to really critique you yeah it's going to be painful but it's going to it would change your life the reason that I grew so much when I was younger is cuz I had uncles around me constantly nitpicking everything I did you know what I'm saying and even at an older age like this like I have you know I got older uncles that I still call that still call and say Hey you slipping on this hey I saw this you slipping on this and that helps me but I don't even it as much as I used to have it and and that's why people's growth slows down because from the age of what Z to probably 21 you have your aunts your uncles your brothers your sisters you have all these people around you that still critique you after that you go out the house you have very few people giving you constructive criticism therefore people get stagnant in life and I feel like we should get back to a place where you know you could have people around you that could critique what you're doing cuz that's the fastest way to grow that's why most people need a coach yeah fact hey you right though you right you right [ __ ] and thank God for that position nigg cuz you know what I'm saying we making money but you know not in the selfish way I genuinely do love giving back to the people that actually need the coach and and need the [ __ ] cuz you know I didn't have the game you know Goldie was lucky enough to have the people around him I didn't have that I had to figure out every single thing by myself you know what I'm saying so to be able to Fast Track that to somebody yeah exactly so you know uh but n i mean [ __ ] [ __ ] was the girl that you brought on like did you know her or uh yeah yeah kind of kind of yeah yeah you know so like you was just like come on the Pod and no she was actually coming to bring some uh some smoothies oh okay here like oh you might well just get up on here yeah you know we just winging it no cuz that idea you just said I I would love to do that that would be like I feel I ain't seen that before that and it would have to take a strong [ __ ] but I guarantee you it would change somebody's life cuz it's things that we all have one small thing that everybody see that is ailing to our potential right now and if we just eradicated that one thing that we can't see that everybody sees everybody judges us off of off of it every look it's it's some rooms that you're not getting in something that you doing yep it's some things that some people are doing that you say it's a [ __ ] right now who ain't got that back tooth uh root canal and they breath stink like a [ __ ] he wonder why listen he wonder why [ __ ] just not working out if somebody had the guts to tell him hey man I'm being real that one thing could change his life that one annoying thing that broad does that you tell her hey you need to stop doing that around people now you going to get invited to those different it's one thing it would change people lives just to hear that [ __ ] it would hurt but it would change that's what it it need to it need to St a [ __ ] like that too I tell and I a tell fake I'm a fake ass [ __ ] for that no no I feel you bro that's why I'm laughing because that's the reason why [ __ ] just ain't working but no for real and listen I think it she thinks it everybody's thinking it but nobody's telling you it it's [ __ ] up but that's the world we live oh listen listen listen I had I had something I had wanted to say right this is serious too this some game right here for every young man in this in this day and times right now I'm no ass women I'm notorious for ruining the mood and ruining the moment by because I'm taking my phone out and recording to ask the broad hey you consent to this right are you legit wait wait wait I'm confused about what about what though give me an example drinking or I meet her at the club she's looks intoxicated she might have been popping some pills who knows I'm notorious before we get to doing too much hey hey you good right just want to make sure you good I'm notorious for doing that because in this day and age tell them I and I coach a lot of dudes you know how many dudes I know and have coached have talked about they going through court cases or they went through a court case and they got dismissed because a woman woke up the next day and either their boyfriend found out their dad found out or they just wasn't feeling right you know what I'm saying so never underestimate being sure that you covering all your bases sometimes man I'll be at at the bar with abroad and she'll tell me hey let's uh let's go to your room let's go to the hotel and I will literally text her and say you said you wanted to go to my hotel right and she be like why you texting me that just text back yeah if you if that's what cuz I need a paper trail it's really that serious cuz right now all they got it's it's a bro that you was with 3 4 weeks ago she could wake up on the wrong side of her bed today you kicked her to the curb she see you living your best life she's going through some [ __ ] up [ __ ] right now and she like you know what that niggaer did s to me one night right if you don't got no evidence hey I don't even want to walk out the bar with the broad holding on to me no no no walk on your own two feet so the camera see that you were fully capable of walking by yourself and I wasn't just helping and holding you up and dragging you to the car this is a serious situation it is the Jonathan major situ and I'll be I'll be terrified I'll be terrified sometimes cuz I'll be like I flash I know how this situ go tomorrow you wait not even just tomorrow because you know how hard it cuts a woman deep when you just stop talking to her this is go into that go into that go into that right there this is why like I legit was some women going to see this they like oh that's what that [ __ ] did to me y I will always make the woman feel like she stopped [ __ ] with me even if I stop [ __ ] with her I'll check on like hey like we cool I don't know what I did wrong but I I feel like we cool I'm always going to make her feel like she got the upper hand later just because I'll think of things like uh if didn't nobody know she could technically probably make something up about that or I just don't even want the woman to cuz everybody talk about when a woman uh accuse you of something nobody talk about when they get exonerated right so I always just try to I used to just be cut throat but I realized man this thingle women very much when you just cut her off when you just stop talking to her and she realizes oh he really doesn't care and it infuriates some women so you know be careful that's all I'm going to say cuz you get to be out here being cut through with these BRS man I'm telling you I've seen it happen so somebody like oh you doing too much all right all right hey you're not wrong and you know what like you said that's some good game because I need to start implementing that bro listen like sometimes I iisten it was this time right bro we you know we was cool for a second [ __ ] didn't work out but I know it was it was real heavy emotions yeah and me I'm like I'm done like [ __ ] the [ __ ] whatever and then I saw some on TV and I'm like ooh end up texting hey what's going on smiley face you good you know just just cuz I'm like got to check her temperature you what I'm saying I don't know what's cooking in her mind right now cuz you I could drop a situation you know I could be with a [ __ ] four five years stop talking to her tomorrow all right we had a good time yeah she might be soaking about it she might [ __ ] around have a drug addiction about it later and attribute everything wrong in her life to you you know that's just how I move I'm paranoid like that hey look hey it's better to be sa than sorry yeah no for real it's better to be safe than sorry bro because look like you said [ __ ] bro we are only going to get more Rich we're only going to get more and the more Fame you get the more it it just hurts them more when they see if you was just a [ __ ] who stopped talking to them they might be mad but now they got to see you having success to see see you online with more women see you online you know woman I'm I'm trying like so it's like and and it's and it's not even it's I mean look it's not even just like that with women it is for sure 100% it's just like that with women but it's also just like that with like The more I've noticed every single time I've gone up another level with in Fame somebody tried to come from the past try to put something now on the internet try to say that you did something to them at some point try to say oh why y'all still listen to this [ __ ] he did this back in [ __ ] 200 [ __ ] uh 17 like it's just but you was nowhere to be found that's a part of it if I stayed at the level before I I jumped up another one you know what I'm saying so you know that's just another thing I wanted to add to that but now going back to what you was saying about the [ __ ] man you right you are right [ __ ] you are [ __ ] right I'm going tell you a story too man when I first got out here to Miami bad little I don't know Cuban whatever whatever she was cold little thing right we out we she drinking everything that was it where where at out here in Miami when I first got out here we had the bar she she supposed to take me to my car right around the corner she just keep driving I'm not from Miami yet so I ain't got my directions on I thought she knew we end up on the freeway yeah she swerving I'm like she tripping just pull over just pull over I got to keep on going like this to the steering wheel pull me listen okay she ends up looking at me and saying Goldie I need you to help me find my car I said huh she said it's not funny I need you to help me find my car I said we're in your car right now that's why I'm like I'm confused oh listen okay she was tripping and I said okay pulled out my phone cuz if she if she's that out her mind ain't no telling what she might say in the morning so I take my phone out and I asked her again I said so tell me what you said again Goldie I need you to take me to my car I said where in your car yeah yeah yeah I know but I need you to take me to my anyway I said oh uh the car is right here at this gas station she pulls up to the gas station I get out I call myself Uber yeah she calls me later she going to see this too she calls me later she got into a car accident the next day you know I she was like what happened I was like oh you left me at the gas station look look look look look I text she like oh I'm so oh I'm so sorry I text her and I text her the video yeah she gets IAP why would you record me when I'm like that I would never record you when you was like that I said I'm not going to show it to nobody it was just for my own safety and she blocked me this that the third but had I not had that video say if she wanted to say anything she was way too out her mind you know for whatever reason that could have put me in a situation so what I'm saying is you dudes the camera phone is your friend even when a woman trying to put her hands on you even when she start to get crazy man I've had women do wild stuff and try to act like I did something hit them or something like that get the screaming I'll be like all right I got this video you just started screaming for no reason man these women is Devious I'm just saying maybe I'm traumatized cuz I've dealt with a certain type of woman in my life but I'm just saying look it ain't nothing wrong with being traumatized for the right reasons you know what I'm saying like what what really is traumatized [ __ ] if I'm learning how to ride a bike [ __ ] and I [ __ ] and I hit a certain crack and I bust my ass am I going to aren't am I considered traumatized because I don't want to hit that same again no that's for sure like you what I'm trying to say so it's like really I look at it more so like [ __ ] I just learned from the [ __ ] past I learn from the past mistakes I see certain patterns that is about to happen for you because of the past mistakes I [ __ ] made so why the [ __ ] would I go down that same Rabbit Hole again knowing what's going to happen you know saying so a lot of people love to try call you traumatized for that to downplay you and make you seem like you're less than and you know the same in the same fashion where [ __ ] call you sassy for having standard for yourself right people try to demean you and say it in a bad context but look [ __ ] like you just said [ __ ] [ __ ] when people call you sassy or people call you like you doing too much like you just said yeah you damn R I'm doing too much look now what I'm starting to do cuz the traumatized [ __ ] used to piss me off too [ __ ] you goddamn R I'm traumatized and what and what [ __ ] you know what I'm saying I think you should be a little bit more traumatized maybe you wouldn't stop making maybe you would stop making some [ __ ] mistakes Hey cuz those painful those painful mistakes is the reason you don't make them again let me ask you this this a whole just off-the-wall question when it comes to kids what do you think about having kids you going to have some kids man it's hard to it's hard to I want some I want a man I want a boy but do I want one now [ __ ] no do I want one in the future yeah but it's like in reality with who man with who hey that's exactly what the [ __ ] I be saying I used to want a bunch of kids till I till I realized oh to have a kid he has to have a mother that you have to deal with and if you don't pick that one right and you'll never know who she really is until she has some leverage on you so it's like damn I don't even know how this situation going to go exactly you know I'm I'm traumatized from that [ __ ] I was like man I might get a v sectomy or something because you will never know a woman and I know a lot of dudes out there could have tested this you will I knew this woman for a decent amount of time I never saw this be behavior from her until she was pregnant and she felt like she had something on me until she had some leverage on me and that [ __ ] is scary so it's like man how can you ever test a woman how can you ever test a woman before that happens to know what her character is like you can gauge it but you really never know yeah I mean look cuz cuz what do they say absolute power corrupts absolutely you when somebody has power they out on me for real you know what I'm saying so you never know somebody until they got some power you man and that's just a scary situation and it is a scary situation and I'll put and and you know that's I I'm I'm grateful that I never had to go through that and I hope I don't however you know on a smaller scale like you said when someone has leverage over you when they have power over you that's a terrible position to be in because with my ex the power leverage that she had was she realized how much she had impact on my emotional state yep Y and once she figured that out once knew that she could say something she could start an argument that she knew was going to P me off throw me off track it's like she kept exploding it for no [ __ ] reason you know and it that was a bad state to be in for me because it was just like damn [ __ ] it started off like you was chasing me whenever she feel like it she could bring your world down exactly and that is not cuz it's like it gets to point it's like [ __ ] you're doing this on purpose now you're doing it you just you know I didn't do nothing you're just doing it on purpose now and women do that all the time even in settler ways that's why she get to tripping when you out she know you out with your friends having a good time and she going to send you a certain text that so just so you can't enjoy what you doing women do that sh and they know exactly they know oh he this [ __ ] thing he have a good time it's like they play they s a landmine or some [ __ ] [ __ ] no they do that [ __ ] and that's why I will never allow a [ __ ] to ever have that [ __ ] leverage on me again [ __ ] cuz who like you going back to what we was talking about who the [ __ ] do you even think you are to even have that type of authority with a [ __ ] like me maybe you can try that with that Mor ass [ __ ] that you used to down the street all these buster ass [ __ ] that's in your DMs they just want to send you money because you have a [ __ ] [ __ ] you know what I'm saying but you don't even respect them [ __ ] anyway maybe that [ __ ] will work with them but that the fact that you even think that you could do that with a [ __ ] like me is just beyond disrespectful you know what I'm saying and anyways I don't want to keep going in C that's that's why I said like uh dudes got to become emotional sufficient too no no sufficient because the reason that is this can I ask you something real quick is this in alignment with what you were saying about how [ __ ] got to become cold or is that a totally different thing say I I I I you know I've never thought about it like that but I'll say this right being cold and being emotional sufficient is almost the same way because I can be cold because I don't need you and the relationship is always better when I don't need you when I need you because I'm emotionally depleted so I need some companionship I need that emotional support to get by in my day-to-day life I become dependent on you when I become dependent on you you can manipulate me when I become dependent on you I become like a dope fiend right I need something you don't want to be a needy person see cuz now the relationship's not real I'm only dealing with you cuz I need you and I'll accept and take abuse and with that power you can abuse me so now my my well-being is predicated on if you're a morally good person and will or will not abuse that but if I come from a place of strength I'm emotionally full I don't need you I'm Happy by myself I can live the next year of my life with myself and enjoy my life then when I come to you as a position of strength and we can build on that but if I'm ever coming to a place where I need something from you it can always be abused and nine times out of 10 a woman is always going to abuse that that's why a man has to build himself up and maybe just because of the lifestyle that I lived I went so long with you know being by myself they say it's a lonely game you know what I'm saying you know of course I had women and things like that but I coveted my alone time so much that I literally have a good time by myself yeah I can literally a smile on my face I come to home ain't nobody there man I could read what I want to rewatch what I want to watch chill with go down a rabbit hole on YouTube or I could literally enjoy myself I could go on vacation if I wanted to by myself and iJoy myself and the funny thing about that is I need people so little that I always have people around me for some reason and I feel like that's what it is with everything whatever you need run from you whatever you don't need is attracted to you so dudes just got to get to a place where they can be cool by their self and stop needing a [ __ ] These [ __ ] be like I need a [ __ ] I need a [ __ ] I need you don't need a [ __ ] man and when you don't need a [ __ ] then you going to get the right [ __ ] because soon as a woman knows that you need her hey man I said it the other day man as soon as you go to that car lot and that that uh car salesman knows you need a car oh man he's going to jump the price on it you know soon as somebody knows you need something they can play with you and if if if I don't need it and I can walk away you're going to be very careful about how you deal with me because he's ready to walk away and that's what every woman I'm with and I don't care I can have great feelings for her she could be fine she could be perfect she could be perfect for me she could be the perfect size she could say the perfect things she could listen to all the perfect music and it could be a great time when I'm with her but I'm ready to walk away today the moment that you do something out of pocket with no without without [ __ ] you [ __ ] with a [ __ ] you [ __ ] you know what I'm saying just with like it's nothing and that's really how I feel I'll be with a [ __ ] 10 years our our families are intertwined uh uh our our friends are intertwined uh we got so many memories together my son loves you I will walk away today and feel good about it yeah if you get out of pocket yeah and that's the only reason you don't because you know I will okay so I'm glad you said that cuz my my next question was going to be have you ever been in a situation with a girl where she knew cuz like you said the [ __ ] is always going to try you right no matter what even if they know you a stand up guy so like if she have you ever been in a situation with a girl where she knew you was willing to walk away right but she tried you anyways and because she might have thought that you needed her for whatever reason in that moment have you ever had that where a woman tried me and I had to walk away where where like you've been in a relationship or not a relationship you've been talking with the girl you've been involved with a [ __ ] right and you know she knew based off of who you are are what you've shown her the type of character you are the habits that you have the things that just the way you move as a man that you are not the type of [ __ ] that wouldn't be afraid to walk away right she knows that right have you ever been in a situation with a girl like that and she knows that but then one day she might have you might have one day for whatever reason she might have thought and got the wrong idea that you did need her she played on that did something stupid and then you walked what have you ever had that happen to you yeah but I'll tell you what happened in that case she was ready to go she knew I was she she knew me she knew how I stand on [ __ ] she did something out of pocket she was ready to go she was ready to go she was ready to go can can you go can you elaborate on that a little bit more she knows me enough a woman who's been with me a decent amount of time she understands where my line is and she knows I'm not playing so if she crosses that line unless it's because of some alcohol and that's why I don't let the women around me drink like that because alcohol will have them overstep boundaries and be a different person but if she's in her right mind and she oversteps a boundary and she's been with me long enough it's because she wanted she wanted to leave and she just needed a reason [ __ ] I give it to you you know what I'm saying that's all you had to say but it's also been times where a woman didn't know but the only reason she didn't know is cuz we've just only been talking for maybe a couple weeks or or a month or two okay so what happens in that situation the [ __ ] lost out cuz B I'm G so when she gets that [ __ ] up now what's the move from gold I just withdraw yeah okay okay you're not respecting what I told you I need you to respect so I respect myself enough to withdraw myself from the situation no harm no foul yeah because the only thing that's going to happen later down the line is things going to get disrespectful see I know myself for real see I've had to do a lot of changes I know you said you've been to therapy I haven't gone to therapy per se but with myself I've had to I've had to learn things about myself and in learning some things about myself I have to be very careful the type of people I put myself around and the type of things I let slide because when it gets to a certain point I know myself so because I know myself I got to be really careful that we don't ever get to that point so when you do something little we're going to stop it there because if it cuz if I let that slide we going to get into the danger you don't want to see that and I don't want to see that you want to that and I don't want to see that cuz it's not going to be good for you it's not going to be good for me so I'm going to negate that by the first time you took that little step little [ __ ] turned into big [ __ ] see I'm smarter now though oh my God I'm smarter now though because before okay I'mma let it slide all right I'mma show you all right keep I'mma show you n no no that never got me where I wanted to be I used to be that [ __ ] I don't want to be that person I used to be that [ __ ] I don't want to be that person I don't even want to take it there so because I know myself I need a real doal Cooperative softspoken well-mannered woman that's the only woman that can deal with me any type of there's some people they like an aggressive I don't I don't know why you [ __ ] like that whatever reason they do whatever reason they they do but for me that don't mix right with my spirit because that could go too far for sure defitely so yeah so that's that's really what it is yeah uh man that part you just said about how you know yourself because look like you said or like we was talking about a lot of women going to act like you doing too much or you do it look okay I know I am not [ __ ] stupid I am not [ __ ] [ __ ] I know when you did some weird [ __ ] do not try to act like you didn't do no weird [ __ ] I know that if you keep acting like I I don't know that you did some weird [ __ ] like you just say it's going to go somewhere that it doesn't need to [ __ ] go and I'm going just remove myself because I know myself and [ __ ] like you make me [ __ ] exctly exactly [ __ ] you're going to [ __ ] my life that's what you're going to do I'm going to let you get it too far you're going to piss me off and I'm going to [ __ ] you're going to I'm going to you're going to trick me out my position that's what going to happen I talking about put my hands on you but when I get mad and I get into thate my entire day is [ __ ] up I can't focus I can't do nothing else can't nobody talk to me and listen when I was younger I started like you know I was going to jail and stuff like that and I started to like have a realization I end up in jail every time I get blackout red mad so I make poor decisions so I have to negate if there's a certain individual or individuals or places I go that put me in that state that push me to that I that's being a responsible human being your I don't there I don't deal withen like that I don't let things like that I don't stay around talking to people cuz I know where it's going to go it's easier like somebody say oh well you should just change well guess what it's going to be hard to change who I've been for 30 years but you know it's easier to do that to negate the situation stop going around this person and stop talking to that person so I would rather I tell a broad all the time like I think maybe you should take some um some anger this that and thir I tell like this listen it's going to take a long time to work out whatever the [ __ ] try my I have in my life that made me this way but you know what's easier than that having you removed from this situation cuz when you're not here I'm not upset so which one do you want which one do you want me to do you know what I'm saying it's easier for me to do that so either you can stop pissing me off or you could just not be here cuz I'm not going to therapy yeah facts yeah yeah yeah no and I I feel you bro cuz this I mean look I'll tell you like this as someone who has gone to therapy okay [ __ ] it don't even [ __ ] like well I just told you a situation that happened the other day [ __ ] even as someone who has gone to therapy and you H I think if anything it makes it worse because you when you learn to have boundaries for yourself and you learn to really respect yourself on a whole another [ __ ] level I mean you already do because you said you've done the inner work on your own yeah but you know but it's like you know with me right I needed that help so like when when I got that and I and I enforced that now it's like it almost makes it it almost makes them want to try you even more so it's like when they try you when they try it even though I've done the inner work I know the I know what's going to happen even if I still go down that rabbit hole like you said you know yourself that's why I don't even do it and and so so really whether you go to therapy or not I don't think it [ __ ] matters this is who I am because if anything therapy just made me realize who the [ __ ] I am and and how to accept that yeah I you know what I'm saying that's listen that's exactly what I was just saying because I understand who I am I understand not to ever get to that point and I don't even think it's a problem I feel like it just is what it is and I surround myself with the type of individuals the type of people and the type of women who where I never get to that point so am I the problem or is everybody else that's not the type of people like me I just got to deal with my kind my kind of women my kind of friends so and I don't have those problems like I used to have them so I feel like man everybody else was the problem I'm not the problem cuz I feel like anybody could get to that point maybe it was just a little bit easier for me everybody could get to that point so why would you not just surround yourself with people who don't ever take you to that point yeah exactly cuz like I said like that's all therapy really did for me was make me understand that I was allowing myself around people that weren't respecting who I was and I didn't have the self-esteem and self-awareness enough to know who I was to not allow that [ __ ] Behavior around me you know what I'm saying so once I figure that out and like you just said I stopped being around [ __ ] who didn't accept me for me I stopped being around [ __ ] who didn't who didn't respect my wishes were who I was what my boundaries were and like you said it automatically just deleted all the [ __ ] out of my life tell and and another thing man I realized it ain't player man you know I used to be getting hot red hot man hooting and hollering [ __ ] [ __ ] [ __ ] and then and now and now I'm looking like a clown cuz now the broad know how to push my button Boop that's all she had to do watch him go watch him watching you know so I you not going you're not going to control me like that anymore exactly that's what I was trying to tell you like on smaller level it it you know there's the baby mama thing and then it's like when a [ __ ] knows she can [ __ ] with you emotionally that's not bro that's a terrible place to be bro you know what I'm saying when they know that they can hit a button and they know how to just trick oh my God that I would never allow a [ __ ] to ever have that again Hey listen cuz you you sound just like me like when a bra get to like it will like set me from one not to 100 but like 1 to 75 when a [ __ ] try to just try to play me like I'm stupid like I know you like just when it's like when it's like don't you're you're going to piss me off cuz you're talking to me like I'm stupid so it's little things like that little things like that I don't know what what it is my ego but because I could get set off by such little things I can't deal with a woman who plays games at all at all cuz it's giss cuz I I feel insulted I'm an intelligent man you talking to me like I'm stupid you kind of spitting in my face right now you see what I'm saying that's what the [ __ ] I be [ __ ] say I'm s here spitting [ __ ] cuz I that's what the [ __ ] I be saying I be feeling so insulted cuz [ __ ] you know I'm not [ __ ] [ __ ] bro that's me to a te what made you think that was going to slide past me so I'll be like okay so listen you see where I'm getting I'm going to allow you to rethink what you said because we're not going to go that way as if I didn't see as if I don't know what you're doing like I don't know you you feel what I'm saying I'm saying so in the beginning when she suits me a text it says I don't know if we want the same things uh out of each other that's why I got to put the thumbs up because you're playing games and that's going to piss me off later down line I already see what type of broad you are I ain't dealing with it you play games yeah it's not even no going down that road cuz you know what's going to yeah you know what's coming think we out of time we out of time y you got one more one more topic what's that what's that 9 Minutes what's that no 9:00 oh 9:00 okay seven to n oh for sure [ __ ] n man I Ain going to lie [ __ ] I feel like we got we covered a lot and not only did we cover we need to have a [ __ ] podcast studio is stream some [ __ ] every night for yeah cuz look man I ain't going to lie not only did we cover a lot but that [ __ ] came from some serious soul on God on God that [ __ ] came from some serious hey man look I'm looking forward to clipping all that [ __ ] you you was going yeah you was going in in the beginning they was saying in my comments like that [ __ ] that [ __ ] that [ __ ] was there that was on his [ __ ] n [ __ ] cuz it's just man listen to me bro I feel like we we listen we be talking [ __ ] [ __ ] [ __ ] be thinking but if they ain't got nobody to talk it out with they just going to be going through it you know what I'm saying so we we be saying some [ __ ] you know this another live episode of don't hate to player learn the game with McQueen chopping game man it was a whole bunch of good game we didn't spit in here y'all gota y'all got to check it out