There is a first obstacle that we're going to have to resolve. And that we're going to have to pivot around it. Everyone, unless they've done work with coaches, with Conscious Business or something like that, rely on the natural human attitude of victimhood. Why? Because it's an automatic attitude that generates a resolution of the discomfort. It's a symptomatic resolution that doesn't help to truly solve the problem. But it's a pleasant solution. So, what does the victim's perspective mean? And I want to explain this very well because most people who talk about it don't get it right. There is a fundamental confusion. I'm interested that you don't repeat it. In fact, I had a conversation with a person at the table and we were talking about a case, about the victims of terrorism in Spain. Where is he? What's your name? José Manuel. Later I will ask you to talk about it. The 'victim-player' perspective is much more subtle than it seems. The point is this: any result depends on the challenge, I will call it 'external', based on forces or causes that are out of my control. And the response, we can call it 'internal', are forces under my control. This is the definition. We can make a division between that which doesn't depend on me, and that which does. Now, 99.999% of everything that happens is not up to me. And 0.001% depends on me. It's perfectly reasonable to say that we're victims of forces beyond our control. It's true! For example in the Middle East, the price of oil. Of course, it's true. How can I say that the price of oil doesn't matter? Of course it matters but has nothing to do with them. Nor can we control what happens with the political situation. The election between Trump and Clinton will affect the lives of billions of people. And that doesn't depend on anyone. Well, we could say it depends on voters. It's not up to me, but it will affect me nonetheless. Part of my life is in the United States. So to deny this part is crazy. It's crazy, it's offensive, and disrespectful. To say that being a victim means acknowledging this, it's an attack, a very negative aggression. I ask you not to do it. We're all victims of forces beyond our control. The word 'victim' in this sense is not problematic. It's like saying we're affected by things we have no control over. That's life. The problem is when someone says, "That's all there is!" And doesn't pay attention to this small space of possibility. Because change comes from here. Power comes from here. The problem with the victim explanation is not that it's false. The problem with the victim explanation is that it doesn't go far enough to help a person resolve their situation. Because everything a person sees on their radar are things they can't do anything about. Naturally it brings a sense of resignation and resentment because life cheated me and I couldn't do anything about it. And it ends up causing great suffering because one is stuck. But the problem is not about it being untrue, the problem is that this is not the whole truth. What is missing here is the question, "What are you going to do about it? And what would you like to do about it to live better even though this happened?"