The Black Legacy Model: A New Approach to Dating and Relationships for Black People

Introduction

Traditional dating models were not built with Black people in mind.
Traditional systems rely on white wealth and government aid that historically excluded Black communities.
Black people face higher rates of economic theft, unpaid labor, and social instability.
Need for a system prioritizing fairness, stability, and collective power.
Introduction of the "Black Legacy Model" designed to counteract systemic barriers and build generational wealth.

Income-Based Contributions: Whoever earns more contributes more financially, eliminating resentment.
Economic Flexibility: One partner provides stability if the other is career-building; aim for long-term balance.
Asset Accumulation: Focus on homeownership, investments, and life insurance over consumption.
Financial Transparency: Open discussions about money to eliminate financial secrets and struggles.

Fairness Over Gender Roles: Labor is shared regardless of gender.
- Household chores and childcare shared equally.
- Emotional labor is recognized and reciprocated.
Child Care as Partnership: Fathers are equal parents, not babysitters.
Accountability: Encourages accountability and partnership throughout the relationship.

Family and Community Support: Involvement from grandparents, aunties, and friends in raising children.
Group Economies: Pooling resources for investments and business ventures.
In-home Support Systems: Elder and child care managed within the community.

Wealth Over Wages: Encourages building businesses and assets over traditional 9-to-5 jobs.
Skill-Based Labor Sharing: Partners contribute based on their strengths (e.g., managing money, networking).
Choosing the Right Environment: Select cities with opportunities for Black wealth and lower costs (e.g., Atlanta, Charlotte, Houston).

Economic Partnership First: Financial alignment is crucial to reduce stress in relationships.
Fair Labor Distribution: Household and emotional labor should be balanced.
Creating Financial Safety Nets: Important to avoid survival mode (emergency savings, multiple income streams).
Focus on Ownership and Entrepreneurship: Prioritize long-term wealth over short-term struggles.
Building Supportive Communities: Find like-minded couples and nurture Black love.

The Black Legacy Model is about creating a sustainable, fair, and empowering relationship framework.
Black love is an investment in the survival and growth of the community.
The model ensures both partners benefit and thrive, making Black relationships a "power move," not just a love story.