[Music] welcome to deep thought sexually frustrated men and sex transmutation and this is Purdy request of the esteem legend Don Calypso he of the organ but he was asking about you know how does a sexually frustrated man approach sex transmutation let me tell the story you know I'd save from my personal view right in high school in college a brother were winning high school I stayed on a Dean's List or you know honor oh right and in college I was on a partial academic scholarship now when I went beyond college postgraduate it wasn't as much now it was like it's decent grades right now here's the thing what was the difference post post college got way more sex and thus more distracted high school in high school in college didn't get as much got enough to keep from going stir-crazy but you know the focus was more on academics so it wasn't so much I was sexually frustrated but I was more just focused on the degree and stuff that was just that was just it now with the sexually frustrated man right the key for him is regardless of whether he's doing it by choice or he's doing it just because for whatever reason and women aren't filling him he has to focus his mind on a project he has to have a goal he has to have a goal beyond sex see the biggest problem with a lot of men on sex loop or the whole sexual frustration thing is that they to focus on the reward of [ __ ] they are too they're too focused and that's what makes them frustrated you know they doing that working they think they'll had get that reward but if they're not getting sex like that one it's not a bad thing it's not a bad thing at all because the reality is most women anko and satisfy them anyway almost women is only like for any man I don't care who it is even a play even a womanizer who can say they've been with a couple hundred women all those women didn't probably didn't satisfy that man and it probably distracted him if anything but if a dude out there you know it's normal dude wants to have sex it's like take that energy no even the frustration and figure out some project see they actually in a good position a man that's why if you really think about it right some of the most successful men they might you know they may end up getting a woman or something like that but they don't have a bunch of women that's just a reality you get a ladies who I call mr. Goodbar types they make him money but I'm not ain't making money I was thinking about something else I'm actually gonna do a video on my main channel about good bars who actually make money because it's actually rare if you really look at a lot of those guys yet it getting plenty of sex but then they don't have anything to show for it many of them don't have any material goes to show for it or anything and I know some people say well what about these rich men they have like a mistress or something that's totally different because that rich man is dealing with maybe a wife and other kid I mean a mistress right you know or they maybe one or two or some of them don't even do that they'll deal with the wife and escort and some would just say look I'm just gonna get me a sugar baby but if you look at it one of the reasons they were able to make it to that level because they weren't too distracted by a bunch of women see the thing is with women the thing is with women they take your time I don't care how alpha you are or how much you running things you still gotta give them time and even a woman you can you can tell a woman like this is just sex and she's still gonna be like well how come we don't spend time together especially if you have sex with her more than 3 times so that that's a distraction and that's why a lot of dudes who get a lot of sex are distracted now then you get some dudes name getting as much that's because they have no choice but to focus on one other aspects of their life well now they still want sex but you know there just ain't getting it like that but that's not a bad thing see the first thing a man has to do is get off that frustration get off of it figure out projects you know what sit down if you were sexually frustrated man listening to it to this sit down and think about everything you want to do in every place you want to travel everything you like to do and then just do it if you want to write a book go ahead and write that book the key is don't write it to think you won't get us some woman after this write it because you want to write it check that energy even at even an energy of frustration that's that's that's the motive power that that's energy right there you know and sometimes you know you get some men and rightfully so it's a normal reaction you get mad transferred energy you know transfer that energy into you can transfer it into working out but you don't work out for the woman you working out for yourself transfer that energy into working on a book transfer the energy into studying some type of knowledge in fact that's a deep thing especially forth of men every man should master some form of knowledge in fact I've said that in a video before you know what that's gonna be my next well that's gonna come this week that's gonna come this week I'm gonna do that this week right but just you want to take that energy now one of the things you don't want to do you don't want to transfer that energy into two things porn and masturbation let me say that again the key to that energy is to make sure you don't expend it and you transmute it because if you masturbate and you know to relieve the pressure and everything you paws that's just as well as just having a woman the way you bust a nut so you stop that because that's counterproductive you've got people out there they haven't do really I'm gonna tell you what with masturbation it's really along the same lines as being a womanizer because both ways you bust a nut both ways you are busting nut and that energy isn't available for a few few hours or something at least but in a few hours you could shoot you could write a chapter you know you could do something seriously you gay you could you could you could do whatever also porn you know that's the same thing you still using your imagination and still firing you up and actually that's that's actually porn is actually a part of thing that makes a man distracted because he's looking at these naked women he's looking at some other man having sex with these naked women and stuff and he's realizing he ain't getting many women you know isn't even a case of him not getting women but lotta dudes ain't gonna get women who look like that so that's more frustrates you more you go under in the deep down subconsciously go and be like well why is this person getting this and I'm not that's going to frustrate you so the sexual frustrated man Hey first of all deal with the frustrations don't do anything that's going as a so baited you know stay leave no fapping lead of masturbation alone and for those who indulge a little bit too much this is what you do if you that type who indulges every day get it down to every other day then over every three days every four days just gradual gradual I say maybe after a month or two you're not doing it anymore alright stop watching for all those porn channels you got and I know some of y'all hit up some of those amateur sites delete them out your favorite place or try to remember just like the same way you stop masturbating don't do that either you know just gradually cut it out now you still got data and you gonna find an energy increase figure out every project I've said this I'm gonna say this throughout a price say this again figure out any project you can work on now a basic thing you can do is just work out and I don't care what your shape is you could be already for whatever reason you can ingratiate while I work out already well you know what doing extra set do something else get involved in something should take some of those classes that some of these places have me some women that way really so take care of that right you know figure out what you want to do there's a lot of many men many men out there are very talented many men are very talented they have a talent beyond whatever they do for vocation or whatever they do for a living I should say it like that someone's vocation might not necessarily be their living so I say whatever they do to make money is I've met a lot of dudes who you know they're writers or they like poets or you know they're artists like I say something with me I may see I was a decent artist very focused doing that skill I'll probably be able to sell stuff if I focus knowing that when I was young I mean I could probably still do something decent now and you know what if I if I get some free time maybe I'll jump back into it you know it's never too late but thankfully my oldest son got that talent so I mean like his teachers rave about his talent so in art and right now is just some abstract stuff but no I don't want to spend this time bragging about the oldest but you know focus on our focus on music you know there's a lot of dudes out there I mean a lot of talent like focus on put that energy into talent like working on your talent put that energy and work on that creativity because I'm gonna tell you what with if you put that energy there you not even you you ain't even gonna notice any frustration because see that sexual energy sexual energy can be used in several different ways that's the thing having sex is probably the lowest form of use for that energy like you have some like people on some deep metaphysics like doing rituals doing magic stuff like that they get it through them sexual energy they put their energy into something else you know they put it into you know you can put it into saying you know what I'm gonna read this book I'm gonna write this book I'm gonna put it into this hobby I'm gonna put it into mountain climbing you know what I'm gonna go get this little beat-up car and instead of like chasing some woman who's gonna put me through hell to give me about 10 15 minutes of faking let me go put this car together find something get that hobby or something but transmute it into something positive with your time trust me trust me on that because if you once you get busy and I know you guys trust me I've been there like I said it was a period I can't get much done in my life because I was messing with too many women it really is and you know one day I'll tell those stories but seriously yeah I was far from sexually frustrated but then I wasn't getting anything done then when I start cutting back that's when stuff start happening yeah I can even track it I was like wait a minute you know instead of like messing with a different woman every week like if you know and you know what let me address this too because then you get some men who even in relationships who are sexually frustrated right because all of a sudden their wives or something or girlfriends was more wives because if it's your girlfriend you just break up with it but more like wives because you get some women they do that bait-and-switch or for whatever reason then name feeling a man sexually anymore and that's real frustrating put it into some projects until you can deal with your situation so anyway right transmutations and just look fine you gotta fight you got to find stuff to do outside of dealing with a woman this is just that simple anything really rocket science find the projects leave the masturbation alone leave the porn alone don't even pick up the magazines shoot don't even watch TV shows that's gonna get you fired up because they focus on some other stuff so anyway right keep rising and transforming peace and blessings [Music]