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Reconnecting with Fukue: A Journey of Friendship and Discovery

Jul 21, 2024

Jess' Experience in Japan and Search for Fukue

Early Experience in Japan

  • Age 9: Jess moved to Japan with family for a year (parents got English teaching jobs).
  • Blonde Hair Curiosity: Japanese people were fascinated by Jess' blonde hair.
  • School Experience: Faced challenges fitting in; only one person, Fukue, showed genuine interest in Jess.

Friendship with Fukue

  • Bonding Activities:
    • Explored dirt roads and little shrines.
    • Caught frogs in rice paddies.
  • Close Friendship: Fukue became Jess' best friend and surrogate family at school.
  • Returning to Vancouver: Maintained pen pal communication initially, but it eventually stopped.

Worries About Fukue

  • Jess' Concerns:
    • Wondered why the letters stopped.
    • Worried about potential bullying.
    • Scared something bad might have happened to Fukue.

Reconnecting with the Past

  • Professional Musician: Jess' career led to thoughts of Japan and Fukue.
  • Search Efforts:
    • Looked online but found no information.
    • Decided to return to Japan to find Fukue.

Revisiting Saku

  • Changes in Saku:
    • From a small rural village to a regular city with 100,000 people.
  • First Step: Visited the old school, meeting arranged with the principal.

Discoveries and Clues

  • Living Situations:
    • Jess learned about Fukue's poverty and felt regret for leaving her.
  • Yearbook Investigation: Found the name of Fukue's father and an address from 2000.

Intense Search

  • Detective Work:
    • Went to the listed address, found the area changed.
    • Engaged with local press and city hall in hopes of finding leads.

The Reunion

  • Finding Fukue:
    • Found a contact through a call.
    • Emotional return to Saku and reunion with Fukue was natural and heartwarming.
  • Current Life:
    • Fukue has a steady job, a loving husband, and two kids.
    • Despite hardships, she has a wonderful life.

Lessons and Reflections

  • Renewed Belief: Jess feels renewed faith in positive outcomes despite hardships.
  • Ongoing Connection: Plans to stay in touch regularly as they did during childhood.