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Marital Trends in U.S. Cities

Jul 4, 2025

Overview

The study analyzes marital and singlehood trends in 119 large U.S. cities, highlighting variations in marriage, singlehood, divorce rates, and gender ratios among singles. Findings reveal strong city-level differences, influencing both demographics and financial considerations.

National and City-Level Trends

  • Nationally, married and never-married adults each make up about 41% of the population.
  • City marriage rates range from 22.4% to 55.9%, and singlehood rates from 28.3% to 58.5%.
  • Median divorce rate across surveyed cities is 11.0%.
  • Gender ratios among singles vary, with more single men than women in most cities.

Cities With the Most Single Men Compared to Women

  • Oceanside, CA has the highest ratio at 152.7 single men per 100 single women; 33.4% are single.
  • Fayetteville, NC and Paradise, NV also have high single male ratios (141.5 and 137.1, respectively).
  • Other notable cities: Spring Valley, NV; Chula Vista, CA; Pueblo, CO; Garland, TX; San Jose, CA; Anchorage, AK; and Austin, TX.

Cities With the Most Single Women Compared to Men

  • New Orleans, LA has the lowest male-to-female ratio (85.3 single men per 100 single women).
  • Washington, D.C.; Baltimore, MD; and Mobile, AL also have significantly more single women than men.
  • Other cities in this group include Greensboro, NC; Glendale, AZ; Boston, MA; Philadelphia, PA; Memphis, TN; and Pittsburgh, PA.

Cities With the Highest Percentage of Single People

  • Rochester, NY leads with 58.5% never married.
  • Boston, MA and Detroit, MI follow with 57.4% and 57.2% never married, respectively.
  • Other cities with high never-married rates: Newark, NJ; Cleveland, OH; Milwaukee, WI; Washington, D.C.; Pittsburgh, PA; Atlanta, GA; and Cincinnati, OH.

Cities With the Highest Percentage of Married People

  • Plano, TX has the highest marriage rate at 55.9%.
  • Other leading cities: Colorado Springs, CO; Chesapeake, VA; Chula Vista, CA; Garland, TX; Henderson, NV; Irvine, CA; Virginia Beach, VA; Anchorage, AK; and San Jose, CA.

Cities With the Highest Divorce Rates

  • Columbus, GA has the highest divorce rate at 15.7%.
  • Spokane, WA and Toledo, OH also show high divorce rates (15.3% and 15.2%, respectively).
  • Other cities among the top for divorce: Henderson, NV; Vancouver, WA; Augusta, GA; St. Petersburg, FL; Pueblo, CO; Albuquerque, NM; and Paradise, NV.

Methodology

  • Data sourced from the U.S. Census Bureau 2023 American Community Survey.
  • Analysis covers individuals aged 15+ in 119 U.S. cities with populations over 100,000.
  • Variables include marital status categories and gender ratios among unmarried individuals aged 15–44.