hi everyone welcome back to my channel if you're new here I'm Courtney Ryan and today I'm going to be going over five masculine body language secrets that women find irresistible so I know that sounds a little bit silly body language is incredibly powerful we all know that and I've talked about it multiple times on my channel it can be a really important factor to consider when we're dating especially for building that initial attraction so what you might not know is that there are some things you can do when it comes to body language that women are subconsciously attracted to so these are things that you might not even even consider considered maybe you already do these and you don't know how attractive they are maybe you have all these beautiful women flocking to you and you have no idea why it could be because of your body language women are very observant and attentive to detail and we notice the way that you carry yourself the way that you interact with us but also the way that you interact with other people if you're someone that struggles with body language maybe you're very nervous or insecure this will be a great video for you to just start to be more mindful of the way that you're moving your body the way that you're interacting with people and the things that you're doing that subconscious might make you come across in a way that you don't want to so stick around with me till the very end because some of these might surprise you so number one we have good posture and this is one of the first things we notice here I am not really sitting up that straight as I'm speaking to you and you probably noticed I have said this so many times it's ingrained in my brain and it should be ingrained in all of your brains by now women love a confident man a very easy way to show confidence is just by simply sitting up straight you really want to avoid slouching or hunching over I mean even look how different eye look sitting like this versus sitting like this don't I just look more confident and ready to talk about something in a video I think I look so much better when I set up straight this way so think about just looking at me and how much of a difference that made and the way that someone might view you in public and I know this can be tough so just try to be mindful of it going forward this is something that I struggle with too and often have to remind myself Courtney sit up straight you're slouching and you're going to have a hunchback when you're 80 years old sit up straight roll your shoulders back try not to be all slinged over it's really going to make a big difference and also it's a lot better for your back and your body if you work on your posture as well number two I have open body language so it's very obvious that facing and turning towards someone can show interest interest in the conversation and really just interest in what they're saying in general but more than just facing towards them and giving them your attention you want to keep your body open so closed body poses like crossing your arms can make you sometimes look a little bit insecure or intimidated so we want to avoid those and I've seen a lot of women hate on and talk about the term manspreading which is really just taking up too much room when there's no room available so think of a New York Subway that is jam-packed and there's a guy sitting there with his legs wide open taking up like three seats that's annoying so we want to avoid that that is an open body pose that maybe isn't appropriate for the situation so definitely keep where you're at and how much room you have in mind so that's not what I'm talking about here it's actually been studied that if you have the space open body poses and being a little bit more open with your body language is more attractive to women because it makes you look more confident makes you look more relaxed and calm which women love and let me tell you this and it's funny because I've seen a couple videos on Tik Tok about this if you are driving with a girl that you like maybe you guys are talking and you put your arm on the seat behind her and then have one arm on the steering wheel she will melt she will melt and she will make a Tik Tok video about how sexy it is I promise girls love this it's just that like one arm thing and like the fact that you're open you're just creating open body which women love putting your arm on the chair next to you while you're talking to her keep keeping your arms open just really being inviting and open with your body language seems like something that nobody would notice but women do number three is one that is very cliche but it is very true and that is eye contact eye contact is actually one of the things that can build the most initial attraction and even sexual attraction between men and women in the beginning stages of a relationship so you want to make sure that you're making eye contact it shows interest in what the other person is saying to you if you're in a conversation with them it can also be incredibly flirty even if you're not in a conversation say you're at a bar and you see a girl across the bar that you think is attractive and you're both making eye contact and kind of just flirting with your eyes it's been said that the eyes are a window into the soul so they make a huge difference when it comes to initial attraction and building sexual attraction too now you don't want to be staring at her so creepily that it looks like you guys are having a staring contest or seeing who cannot blink the longest you want to make sure you look away every now and then as well um so that it doesn't become so like obsessive of staring so make sure you keep that in mind too I believe I read somewhere that it's like every 2 to 3 seconds or something like that you can kind of look away a little bit and another bonus here that I'm including with eyes because it's very close to your eyes is your eyebrow so lifting your eyebrow a little bit when you're in a conversation can also show a little bit more interest and expressiveness um which women love so not too much though you don't want to look like a deer in headlights the entire time you're talking to her look how crazy I look right now staring at all of you like this you want to just make it natural and lift your eyebrow when it's seems a little bit more appropriate you don't want to be going crazy with this again but lifting that eyebrow or doing the one eyebrow raise if she says something interesting can be a great way to get her attention number four is making small adjustments so doing this one too much can actually have the opposite effect so listen closely here so making small adjustments like pushing back your hair fixing your tie adjusting your jacket a little bit can show that you care and you want to look your best so it's going to Signal interest in the other person because you wouldn't do those things if you didn't care what you looked like or didn't want to make a good first impression so think about when a woman does this with you if she fixes her hair she puts on a little bit of lip gloss if she adjusts her blouse a little bit I guarantee you guys subconsciously like this without even realizing it so the same thing goes for women it just shows that you're interested and want to make a good first impression which is a nice feeling when you're out on a date with someone so number five and one that you might not have heard of before is to let loose with an emphasis here on your shoulders and I know that sounds weird so stick with me so you want to look relaxed and calm and often when we get get a little bit nervous or anxious the first thing on our body that tenses up is our shoulders as I mentioned earlier women notice your build and surprisingly pay close attention to your shoulders so women notice your shoulders because it looks masculine it looks like you could protect her if something was going on um and women just are naturally drawn to that but more specifically here is also looking like you are in control of the situation looking relaxed and calm so again like I mentioned one of the first thing that tenses up is your shoulders so being able to let loose a little bit and keep them relaxed makes a huge difference so there's actually a study done that showed that men who kind of swayed their shoulders a little bit when they were walking and kept them a little bit more loose rather than being so tense um were more attractive to women so it's like a little bit of Swag and the reason for this is because it makes you look cool calm and collected it makes you look like you are in control of the situation like you've got it going on um and you're not going to look really tense or stiff now it should be a slight sway you don't want to get all crazy here and like knock people over with your shoulders cuz you're moving Every Which Way But when I thought about movies I've seen where the attractive guy is like walking down the hallway or something he always has a little bit of sway in his shoulders and it made a lot of sense then when I read that study about it being attractive to women so keep this in mind again the main takeaway I want you guys to know from this video is not to go out of your way to do these things to manipulate someone or trick someone by body language into liking you it's really about utilizing what you already have to make yourself just come come across as a better version of you so you're going to look more powerful more confident and if you look that way you're going to feel that way too look good Feelgood is definitely true for me and my life so I have a feeling it will be for a lot of you as well so again you don't have to change who you are or be someone completely different it really is just about utilizing what you've already got um to make yourself look more confident more powerful more attractive outwardly which then will make you feel that way on the inside as well and it will just be a win-win for everybody so body language communicates how you're feeling without actually saying anything so it's incredibly powerful and I think a lot of times we get caught up in a routine or doing the same things or just really not being mindful of this unless we're in you know a special situation where we want to try extra hard and we forget to do these things on a daily basis but they can actually make a very big difference if you start to implement them into your life and utilize the tools that you already have AKA your body it's very easy to do all of these things if you're someone who doesn't already do them you should try to start and see how it helps you so I hope this video was helpful if it was be sure to give it a thumbs up and subscribe to my channel to be in the loop for when I release new content let me know in the comments down below if any of you guys have tried these and if you've been successful would love to hear your personal success stories down below if 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