now what you're going to consistently find is that women will crush men who display intent love admiration and respect for them now there's going to be quite a few reasons why this is but what I'm going to be showing you in today's video is how you can actually take this information use it to your advantage and then start to gain The Leverage psychologically in your dating interactions and in your relationships with women this is going to be a full comprehensive guide and breakdown how to ensure that you can gain the attraction of the women that you want without showing your intent that causes her to lose desire and respect for you now all of you are going to be extremely happy because I also put together a little gift for you the gift is down below in the description and you can be sure to check that out after this video is over I'm very certain that you're going to be extremely excited for what I made for you okay so today I am going to be showing you some inside secrets that I would say majority of men are not aware of and keep keep in mind to figure this out took me years okay of multiple dating interactions relationships this is going to help shortcut that process for you to save you a lot of time and get you results a lot quicker so these are the reasons why women hate the men who show intent towards them when they're dating okay they don't like this and I'm going to explain why in a woman's brain or how women operate what you have to know when you're approaching or when you're having your interactions okay all forms of Seduction when first meeting a woman must be indirect to signal pre-election so what is pre-election that's showing that either other women are already interested in you or women potentially are going to be interested in you how do you do this if you're not a famous celebrity a famous musician a Hollywood actor a guy with millions and millions of Instagram followers and girls constantly talking to you or direct messaging you how do you do this you do this through vocal tone you do this through sub commmunication you do this through words that's that's going to be your biggest strength that you can leverage okay like outside of the physical qualities such as like looks money status right how you how you dress right your uh your your physique things like that the overall Improvement the next layer for deeper communication to show that you are selected is going to be through what you say the words coming out of your mouth and vocal tone okay okay so here's what you have to know all forms of Seduction when first meeting a woman must be indirect to signal pre-election that means any direct intent hey I like you hey I think you're so cute I want to take you out on date hey you're so gorgeous oh my gosh I've had a crush on you for the past two months will you please go out with me any direct intent potentially shows her he's low value is going to Signal potential clinginess right he's clingy he needs her approval he needs her and it's going to signal that he has zero options now this also goes a step deeper but we're going to get to this in a second now here's all of the ways that men show intent that backfires the first is through an emotional or a needy tone what's a needy tone a needy tone would would signal any sort of like passiveness in your voice in your vocal communication any hesitancy okay that neediness they're going to pick up on that that passive tone they're going to signal that that's going to signal to the woman hey he's not he he has not done this a whole lot he doesn't have a lot of options he doesn't have a lot of experience he's probably lacking confidence he lacks the internal personality strength that turns a woman on she's going to disregard him okay so emotional or a needy tone another thing is communication consistency if you're text messaging back all the time within 45 minutes if you're constantly returning the phone calls promptly right there's never you know any any days or any weeks that you're more distant or you're taking time off this is also going to subconsciously show her intent this is going to turn her off another thing is expressing love or admiration for her beauty when you express love or admiration for a woman's Beauty this shows he's one over easily he doesn't really have a standard outside of physical attraction and he is sold on who I am as an individual just through how I look this is going to Signal massive low value this is why majority of all of the most attractive women are all single they're all single because the only qualification standard that a man looks at is how she looks okay this is polar opposite to how women judge attraction when women are judging attraction or when women are looking at the attractiveness of a man they're looking at everything they're looking at him as an individual him as a whole so they're looking at personality they're looking at how you talk they're looking at how your voice sounds they're looking at what shirt did you pick that day what shoes did you pick that day all of those things make up a woman's desire level for a man they look at the the whole individual so what's going to happen is they naturally like since they don't know the exact lens that you see life through just like you don't know the lens that she sees life through when women see that all men are like looking at or the only qualification standards that he has is beauty this turns her off okay so she sees your one over easy expressing love or admiration for her beauty is one of the fastest ways to like turn a woman off or lose her now here's where guys go wrong they go wrong because their logical brain takes over when your logical brain takes over as a guy you become direct it's like you solve your problems in life like a math equation okay you're like 1+ 1 is 2 that's not not how a woman's brain works so guys will tell themselves you know I'm going to just go into this interaction and I'm going to be bold you know I'm going to show a lot of action and be courageous okay and when you do that when you when you show all your cards when you when you lay it all out on the table that you want the woman and you want to take her out if she's extremely attracted to you it might work but what you have to know is it is not the best method and it's not the like it's being direct is not going to be your best option because it's too much too soon and it shows her that you're sold on beauty you are sold on her beauty this is not necessarily good you may be able to attract some of the women if they have high attraction towards you but what I'm going to tell you is you're going to leave a lot of options you're going to let go of a lot of options there's going to be a lot of women that you could have taken out or that you could have potentially gotten to know that you lost for coming on too strong or demonstrating too much too soon so un Advanced way that I could demonstrate this the only way that a guy can really get away with being bold and being direct is if you have the vocal tone or the communication level of the I don't give a mentality if you say what you want and you're direct with it but she also can tell through your vocal tone that you don't really care if you get the number or not or you don't really care if that date goes anywhere or you're a guy who just speaks his mind yeah that might be a way that you can get away with this but very few men are able to do this because they don't have the internal skills yet or they haven't developed the Charisma or the seduction to know how to get away with that so there's certain things that you can do at certain levels when you first start approaching women or when you first start going out with women or when you first start dating and this is true for guys at any age okay when you want to maximize your dating life all forms of Seduction when first meeting a woman must be indirect to Signal pre-selection now here's how the game works with the dating Dynamics I I laid this out for you as easy to understand as humanly possible this is the entire dynamic in a nutshell when I say this is the game okay I'm not talking about front end game and back end game like I have in the past this is the game as far as the dating Dynamics here's what has to happen masculine communication overall like if you have a friend named Frank or a friend named John masculine Comm communication is overt and direct that means hey do you want to go out and get drinks Tuesday yes sure period Send okay that's overt and that's direct this is masculine communication the reason why I'm telling you that all forms of Seduction when meeting a woman must be indirect is because to attract a woman okay to attract a girl you have to dabble in the language of the feminine so this is all of the terms that guys use to demonstrate if a guy has good seductive skills or not you're going to hear things like Wheels he's got wheels you're going to hear Riz okay like you're also going to hear game okay so game RZ Wheels what that encompasses is swag overall personality conviction okay this makes up your front-end game but what you have to understand about your front-end game is that it's covert and it's indirect if you can do this congratulations you've now attracted the girl and she's going to say hey he has me in a playful state I'm having fun with him he makes me laugh everything he said you're going to notice when a when a girl is hot for you it's like everything that you say she just laughs at it may or may not even be funny if it's not funny and she still laughs you're going to notice like your personality and your vocal tone is starting to have influence over her emotions this is a good sign this is how you you close more dates so this is important to understand because men who are not able to do this lose a lot of women and they also lose the women specifically that they wanted to take out but they were never able to get that date so this helps you okay in the beginning you dabble in the language of the feminine that means you're covert and you're indirect right the things that you're saying when you're doing things like teasing her or you're playing games or you're having fun or it's like you're delivering like specific lines and jokes and you're the leader of the social interaction that's getting a positive reaction out of everybody attraction goes up if you can do this congrats you've now attracted the girl now the biggest emphasis I want to put here is you're going to notice there's a layer of work okay so you're going to notice if you go out to a bar or you go to a house party or something and you you you won her over meaning she's like hey let's switch numbers or you're so funny can I get your number or you say let's switch numbers and she says yes with excitement you smile on the inside cuz you know everything you had to do personality wise right with your personal skills to get there now let me explain this you've attracted the girl maybe you guys have slept together maybe you haven't regardless maybe you guys are seeing each other okay feminine communication is polar opposite from masculine communication okay feminine communication is covert and indirect so masculine communication is overt and direct notice the polarity notice The Duality notice the differences this is important to comprehend and here's why the woman is sitting there wondering how do I keep this man that I want okay she's sitting there wondering how do I keep this man that I want now notice this to keep the guy she now has to dabble in the language of the masculine just like you had to dabble in the language of the feminine okay and what I mean by that is you had to you had to use your game you had to use your sex appeal your seduction to get her in a state where she looks at you and goes I really like him she now has to dabble in the communication of the masculine so she has to switch over just like you had to switch over in the beginning you had to work for it she now has to work for it she has to switch over to the language of the masculine and she has to say hey will you be my boyfriend is this going anywhere I really would like you to be my man do you see a future with me I would like this when she starts becoming direct like that that is the equivalent to you in the beginning having to use Game and seduction to win her over she's now demonstrating the feminine qualities in herself okay to understand the awareness that now it's her turn okay to win you over or to potentially get a relationship out of you I hope I explained that well but you understand what what I'm saying it it's polar opposite now she switches over to that sort of direct communication will you be my boyfriend what you have to know is this is why if a man brings up a relationship first she gets turned off because now she had nothing to work for she had nothing to work for with that guy see when when you communicated in the beginning to attract that woman in in a way that is indirect and in a way that is covert to demonstrate pre-election and seduction what's happened is you had to work for it so when you get that number you walk away and you're like damn look at me like this this was solid like look at the dynamic and the chemistry that's how she wants to feel too so when the man brings this up first it demonstrates low value this is why the woman has to bring up the relationship okay because her entire idea of fantasy or love is how do I keep the man that I want and she wants to feel like she had to put some effort in outside of beauty to win you over this is what she wants to feel most men are sold on beauty alone even if you are one of the guys who is sold on beauty alone a lot of us are most men look at physical qualities as very important you have to start to train yourself not to be because that's going to help you win over the women that you really want you have to be able to look at a beautiful woman and say like you know some of her attitude or some of her behavior just doesn't align well with me I'm going to go on to the next one because that's what women do so this is how women often gain The Leverage over men is they have deeper level qualification standards as soon as you as a man tell yourself it's your job to have standards too The Leverage starts to become reversed and you're going to notice that a lot of these methods now work in your favor so let's take this a step further okay women want to have to figure you out say this again women want to have to figure you out this means they want a mystery you need to think it you every single time you go into a dating interaction with with a woman with a woman I want you to think if I had to maintain this girl's interest level for 10 years and I know that's a long time but just use this as an analogy if I had to operate on a 10-year time Horizon how slow would I uncover myself Page by Page a saying that I've used in the past is the hotter the flame the shorter the burn say that with me the hotter the flame the shorter the burn you're going to notice the hotter the flame meaning in the beginning it seems like the chemistry is amazing and everything's organic and it's happening you're going to notice that those are the interactions that fizzle out the fastest okay these are the interactions that fizzle out the fastest so when I'm sitting here telling you women want to have to figure you out what does that mean that means women move dating interactions and women move the relationships at a slower Pace than men what that means is they are naturally not urgent they move at their own pace they move at their own time now the reason why they're naturally not urgent is because they are often sometimes more passive they're more indirect so if you're wanting to maintain the mystery in a relationship what are the keys to this what are what is all of the keys to keeping your mystery the first thing that you got to understand is that patience being a patient individual is your friend which means you need to extend the time delays all of the time delays I don't care if it's Communication phone calls text messages replies responses men often times operate hour for hour or day by day you need to stop doing this okay so instead of operating on hours or operating on days you now need to operate your time Horizon on weeks and months this is how you maintain a woman's interest this is how women fall in love there's that extended time Horizon of them needing to figure you out okay so you need to turn off your your your male driven logical brain of being urgent and getting stuff done quickly a lot of guys do that right if there's a problem they Solve IT women don't op operate like that you need to let this move at her Pace because women are women will women want that time Horizon stretched out so what you need to do in order to shift your mindset from hours and days to weeks and months is the first thing is you need to occupy yourself with work and goals a woman wants to see that you're on your on your purpose and on your passions anyway she wants to see that you're building something okay that means this signals pre-selection when you're not focusing on her she wonders a couple things she wers am I not important enough does he have other things going on besides me is he seeing a different girl right is he doing something in his personal life all of this triggers attraction because she's now not the focus she wants a world she can come into patience is one of the biggest tools you can use to increase seduction in order to be indirect when you move slow and you're patient this heightens seduction this makes it easier for you to be a seductive IND individual this makes it easier for you to be a guy who can get the dates and get the relationships that he wants and on top of that this is going to make it easier to for her to look at you as a man that she wants to respect and that she adors it's like you understand the communication differences this is moving at her pace and what will happen is she'll naturally start to fall in love with you so when it comes to intent and showing desire towards a woman intent is the opposite of indifference say that with me intent is the opposite of indifference everything with women comes down to Safety and Security when you show intent to a woman this shows he's emotionally invested in me emotions are his main focus this relationship is his main focus look at the intent he's putting towards this that means if he's putting energy and emphasis towards this he's not putting energy and emphasis in all of the things that triggers Safety and Security such as survival such as building something such as safety right such as like going somewhere in life and this turns her off it all comes down to Safety and Security so Safety and Security is only achieved through polarity masculine to feminine polarity okay intent is the opposite of indifference it's masculine indifference coupled with feminine intent so what that means is masculine indifference is going to be the way that you're operating that means that is strong the it like the individual the man is stable he's non-reactive he's emotionally resilient okay and on top of that now you couple that you couple that with her feminine intent masculine indifference on your side coupled with her feminine intent feminine intent would be the care the emotional support right the nurturing the love all of the good things that you're Desiring out of a woman when men show intent they've now entered their feminine energy and this is why it turns her off intent is the opposite of indifference when you operate out of masculine indifference it demonstrates that you're strong stable non-reactive and emotionally resilient now she wants to bring the feminine intent of emotion love and care to that relationship or to that dating interaction this is almost like the science of it I'm going to tell you this too if you understand this I want you to understand like how how high level this type of information is you're going to be able to really stand out in your dating life if you understand this stuff and and I'm not just saying that I really mean that you're going to be able to really be a captivating man you're going to be able to get get the girls that you want and you're even going to be able to like you will now look like that guy and it's like when when she views you as that guy and you're demonstrating the things that women look for you got to understand that majority of you you're going to be operating out of abundance you know there's going to be women who are wanting to enter your life or to talk to you this is very good stuff to understand okay so if you like this video hit the like button comment and subscribe and we'll see you in the next one