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Medieval Courtly Love and Chivalry

Jul 31, 2025

Overview

This lecture covers the concept of courtly love in medieval romance, its relationship with marriage, chivalry, and its portrayal in Arthurian legends.

Courtly Love in Medieval Romance

  • Courtly love was a romantic system practiced during the Middle Ages, separate from marriage.
  • Marriages in medieval times were typically arranged for political or economic reasons, not love.
  • Courtly love did not involve sexual contact and was entirely outside of marriage.
  • Lovers in courtly love relationships shared affection, conversation, dancing, and emotional intimacy, but not sex.
  • Sexual acts between courtly lovers were forbidden, though not always adhered to.
  • Courtly love allowed nobles to experience romance apart from their marital duties.

Chivalry and Social Structure

  • Courtly love was closely linked to chivalry, a medieval knightly code of conduct.
  • Chivalry required knights to be generous, brave, pious, and honest.
  • The modern idea of chivalry as courtesy toward women comes from how knights treated noble ladies.
  • Courtly love often involved a noble lady and a knight, exemplifying these ideals.

Medieval Romance Literature & Arthurian Legend

  • Medieval romances were tales of adventure, noble love, chivalry, and heroism.
  • Stories like those of King Arthur, Merlin, and the Knights of the Round Table reflected medieval ideals, not historical reality.
  • Lady Guinevere and Sir Lancelot are famous examples of courtly love in literature.
  • The real King Arthur was a British leader called Artorius, not a medieval king.
  • Around 1135, a monk recorded legendary histories of Arthur, which inspired future Arthurian legends.

Key Terms & Definitions

  • Courtly Love — Medieval practice of romantic, non-marital affection often without sexual contact.
  • Chivalry — The knightly code of conduct emphasizing bravery, generosity, piety, and honesty.
  • Medieval Romance — Stories focused on adventure, love, chivalry, and heroic deeds.
  • Arthurian Legend — Tales about King Arthur and his knights, based on legend rather than historical fact.

Action Items / Next Steps

  • Review the Arthurian legends and their connection to courtly love.
  • Read examples of medieval romance literature for further understanding.