Baby number 3 Not this year please After 6 months Do you feel the movement? That is here Wet towel I always ask her to keep it outside I didnt buy it as a deco piece Are we fighting now? Yes I should bend and take that with my big stomach He made me a cup of tea She is telling me it is not hot My hand was burning You do as you like. Hello guys. Welcome to Pearle Maaney Show Pearle Maaney's You Tube channel. Now it is not mine. Welcome to your You Tube channel Srini, what are we going to do today? We are here to answer your questions after many months Q & A session. Are you going to talk in Tamil or mix it with Malayalam? We can speak anyways But the answer should be correct. That's all. Tell us your opinion about this question and answer Dont ask us difficult questions They have already asked us the questions Yes, but our team has selected some questions They have selected only tough questions I am ready. Are you ready? Ok guys. We are going to start our Q & A session Once again welcome to Pearle Maaney Show So let us go to the first question Could you continue your podcast? I would like to know how do you maintain your good vibration frequency I know about manifestation. But I cannot maintain the same frequency Doubts, fear and sadness always replace my good thoughts. Let me tell you a fact I am ready to do a podcast right now. Do you want to do one. I am ready I am ready for it. But nobody should disturb me for 1-1.5hrs Half and hour will do If Nitara cries or needs to be feeded in that half and hour? He will take care of the baby I was waiting for this confidence I will start soon. I have written some good topics I had stopped saying we shall talk on paradime shift 21 days challenge We have not reached there First we will come to a para dime shift After that we will do lot of good things Positive energy and vibe doesnt come into me daily If you take Sreeni aside and ask him, he will tell you I am full time on vibration Sreeni is going through different kinds of vibration You are seeing the middle of a sea But the shore would have lot of waves That is life. Though we have inner peace in us.. I think I am talking too much But outside we are hit with waves But here, the waves are hitting Srini He is the sea shore I am calm inside me Whenever I happen to have mood swings, he turns out to be the victim of the century But it is ok. This time I didnt have much of mood swings This time I escaped. What does that mean During Nilu's time, I had lot of mood swings actually Do you know what mood swing is What do you think about mood swing She says, come let us go for a movie I tell her ok and we get ready. Suddenly she says she is not in a mood to go I tell her then it is ok. We shall sit here Immediately she will say, Oh you cannot take me for a movie That is how she will start If I tell her, come lets go She keeps changing Then we understood that this is mood swing. We should learn to deal with it. This time I dont have that much mood swing Since Nilu is there, we dont have the time for that. Otherwise I would have had fun There is no point in sitting positive all the time We have lot of emotions in our life We should explore all the emotions We should know what happiness is, little of sadness, anger too We should have all. But understand that it is our thoughts that control our mind. I have started to understand that When I begin to get sad, I tell Srini let us talk something happy She even says Srini, stay away from me. I never said that I feel sad when he is not with me. I tell him let us sit together, talk or watch something funny Or have food or do anything When your thoughts pull you to negativity, pull yourself away from it Do you know why has God given us thoughts? Animals dont have the capacity to think Humans are given it like a pen We have been given a pen to hold Yesterday we had gone to my parents place to pick up Nilu We had dropped her there for 2 days and went to pick her up tomorrow She had taken a pen to play with All were sleeping at that time They couldnt hear her sound for sometime She was sitting at the corner of a room and had drawn all over her face Mustache and what not. They asked her what was she doing. She said she was drawing. She was busy drawing What is the use of a pen? You can draw in a book or write lot of things Dont ask me what it is and insult me. I shall tell you later There are people who have created history with a pen Some even draw on their faces with that pen. Same way, our thoughts can be used anyways We are learning to use it the good way. That is what I am trying in a podcast That is what we are going to try together too We shall do how to make your thoughts your best friend through podcast So that your best friend will make you the best version of yourself Will start a podcast for sure. Next question please. Let it come. Summaya Suhail. How do you manage breast feeding while traveling. Do you use formula milk for Nitara baby? During Nilu's time, it was exclusively only breast feeding. We didnt have time to pump milk and she was with me all the time Same with Nitara. She has completed six months Slowly we are trying to start feeding her so that we can start raagi too So we are slowly starting too. But more of breast milk only Wear comfortable clothes when you travel. Hold an extra cloth with you When we went to Thailand too, I found the time for it. We know that when you feed them, they wont feel hungry for the next 1hr Mothers would know when they will feel hungry Before going out, if you feed them for 30mts, they would be full They wont be cranky When you get a gap too. Like when traveling in a car, I used to feed her But she didnt like pumped milk So I used to feed her directly only It wasnt a difficulty for me I had stitched dresses just for that. Dresses with zips. You would have seen that vlog I went fully prepared Once you begin to enjoy it, then its awesome. Even if she doesnt cry, Pearle used to feed. Yes. When I sit bored, I feed her It was not a problem for me. I used to manage it. Nahala Faizal. Are you planning baby number 3? You can ask Srini that question As k Pearle Srini.. How dare you? Dont consider that as a question I dont understand why are thinking so deep hearing that question All that lies in God's hands Not in our hands? No chance. What Srini said is right. Actually it is not in our hands God plans and gives it to us If one more person is coming, we will happily welcome them. We wont say a no or yes for that. YesNo You meant you want to go where there is snow, right? Next question please Ambili R Would have said that her name is Ambilia Hi Pearlechechi. You cried when Nila went to school for the first time. Yes. I became very emotional seeing the video That day I understood how a mother loves her children unconditionally Thank you for that lovely vlog Nila has started going to school and in a few years, Nitara too Have you ever felt insecured when you think that how my children would manage without me Srini can answer this. Srini is the person who witnesses it as a spectator You saw it in the video I am seeing this for the last 2 weeks After Pearle said that, I extended paying the fees too I didnt pay the last day too. We had a confusion on that. I began saying we shall do homeschool too I was asking her, you yourself arent educated I kept asking her shall I pay I told her once we pay, I will send her to school Pearle said ok, let her go. We paid her fees just before sending her to school We have to pay and take an admission earlier We were at the last process thinking should we send her or not. My mother asked cant you send her directly to LKG, why playschool That made me confusing again This time when we went to Thailand too, I kept thinking should I send her or not It was more the thought of her staying without me that made me cry Second thing was that this is a one way road You cannot rewind here Once you start school, it goes on upto college The day they have classes, they will wake up in the morning and go As they grow up, they will have classes upto 3pm They will be back home only after that All that was what was disturbing for me I was like is this part of her age over? I told her Nitara is there with us now. Enjoy the next 3yrs with her That is Nitara. Nila is my first baby She is my first emotion When Nitara goes to school, the concept of school would be normal for me We didnt have plans to shoot that video actually I told him not to take video that morning Then I told him he can shoot but just for our memory I told him I am not in a good mood. I am not in a mood to smile too When vlogging, I should say something funny too Not even comedy or could I sit properly too We cannot act beyond something I told him that I dont want a vlog today So we didnt do a vlog But Srini took bits and pieces from here and there That wasnt a vlog It was some moments together I could feel a heaviness in my throat while bathing and dressing her up I thought you wouldnt cry You had finished crying daily I thought you were done When I was shooting, you began crying all of a sudden I think every parent could relate to this. They would have experienced it Comments below the video were also the same Lot of beautiful messages More than the video, I cried reading the messages that came Many mothers posted their stories Many youngsters appreciated their mothers They said this is what my mother too would have faced then It was related to children too. I am so happy that the vlog was relatable to you I am sure all the mothers in the world would have the same feeling First day of school! Sree Gowri What do you wish to achieve in life You have a nice partner, two cute kids, family, parents etc What do you wish to achieve more I am already happy We are very contend when it comes to family There are different sides Each person who have different ideologies I feel we have over achieved as a family I am very happy with everything I have Regarding achieve, I have a vision board. Those who listen to our podcast would know that. We are not supposed to say that. But I shall explain what vision. We have stuck it in our room With some nice words, pictures and stuffs. I look at this daily. We come to a feel First when I used to look at it, I used to think, will it happen But now I realize that we have it in our life Moreover we have already got that in our life too Suddenly you feel, it is already with us. Many in that are like that. Achievement is a constant process. I see achieve as a growth here So, we should always keep growing. Keep learning new things. The world keeps moving forward Everyday is a new day. You should have a beautiful goal daily It should be based on that day Achieving wise I am really happy No idea where God will take us. Wherever it is, we will go. Is it achievement or wish meeting Oprah Winfrey I wrote that as a goal. I dont even know whether she knows If she lives near your house, please tell her. They will tag us in their post. Can say Pearle chechi wants to meet you No need. That is not right. It will happen when it's time for it. It is my big dream to meet Oprah Winfrey. I always see that as a dream. Recently I had put a post on that Another thing in my achievement is to keep all of you happy always As much as possible and in a strong platform. Let it be on You Tube or Instagram or any social media. I want this family to grow beautifully Maybe a diamond play button is where we reach to have such a big family That is our next goal when it comes to our work. Athulya K R Are you an overthinker? If yes, there what all are the things you do to overcome Sreeni is not an over thinker. I dont think what is happening now too. And then where can I do overthinking then. How is it like that? I have been seeing his for 5yrs now. He never thinks much Are men always like that? Sometimes I over think Do you what is meant by overthink Thinking of our future Thinking about our past We leave this moment at that time You can bring changes only if you live in this moment But not living in the present and living think of future is different. If you think good about your future, it is not bad overthinking There are 2 types of over thinking. One is a negative over thinking Will there be a potential threat in our future? Will he leave me and go? Watching 2012, Pearle thought like that I dont watch such movies just for that reason During lockdown I told her that all are sitting home like Zombies. She got scared He used to tell me something and all that time. Srini doesnt lie to me. During lockdown time, we didnt know the seriousness of it. We were at the flat He said pack up fast. Let us go to Aluva He said there are chances for Zombies to come He showed me a Zombie movie just few days before that I was like are you serious He said of course. Zombies will come. I believed it at that moment. I used to think will it come at night. I am talking about that time He is not an over thinker. I know when do I over think. I will change that myself It could be due to some mood swing issues I know that time when we have a mood swing period every month There are chances for us to over think at that time I try to read a book at that time I tell Srini that I have a book and I am going to read that Or I go out for a drive I keep myself occupied so that I dont have pulled away with thoughts It is best to distract We cannot change our thoughts with thoughts We should get that physical snap If we sit and think like this, it would be very difficult to escape from there We wont change from there You should count 5 4 3 2 1 Get up when you say 1 Wash your face with fresh water. Use cold water if possible. Pour water behind your neck. Your body temperature changes then. When you think negative, your body will heat up Have you noticed that when somebody shouts at your, or hurt you, your face turns hot When you get angry, your face becomes hot. When you have negative thoughts, your face would be hot You wont feel comfortable. Splash some water on your face Freshen up and do something random You can water plants if you want. Step out and go for a walk if you want Another thing is to do workout Not necessary you have to go to the gym. You can do Yoga or any you like. It is very helpful for us Over come and over thinking I am telling you this because I am getting the result When I started doing cardio and workout, you feel you mind becoming calm Not addiction, but you feel odd if you dont go. You feel happy that day Able to sleep well at night We you go to bed without any physical activity, You may be working, but not doing any workout. You may be cooking or so. You dont move your hands or body If you sleep without doing any work outs, you may go over thinking. You will stay awake for a long time But if you are doing some cardio or work out, you will feel relaxed and go to bed There are many ways to go over thinking Snap out of it, find a physical activity At least take a bath or wash your face Do something entirely different Move from that position If you are sitting on the sofa, get up and run from there Lamashee Can you speak Kannada? Though I studied at Bangalore, I dont know Kannada I dont know Kannada To not end up starving, I learnt the Kannada for that Give me some food If you want ask someone if they had food, that too I have learnt. You had, ok. Then give me food. Then I dont know Kannada. That's it. I dont know anything else So it is ok Bismi Anil How many months is Srini? How many months? She is talking about my tummy Now he cannot hide anything You have a tummy Just for fun Srinichetta Please mention my name. Nandita.. Nandita.. what all you could have asked? I made a tummy for myself just for Pearle I had reached 70kg during body building I was fully fit after my training When Pearle became pregnant, it wasnt fine when only I dieted I used to eat all kinds of food. Srini used to join me. I kept eating like that If only I lost weight, Pearle would feel sad I was very sad when I saw Srini after delivery. I told him we shall do a transformation together. Wait and see us in December. I will be having a 6 pack here She will have 1-2 Yes. Not sure about a pack. But will have a shape You still havent replied how many months are you now. 6 months Are you knowing the movement? All the movement is here Next Api pottan Kuttan Api pota kuttan? Kuttan who shat Is that the name? It was raining today We can put this on our thumbnail, question by appi pottan kuttan Appiettan Might be a question from Jasir's fake id Isn't it? I think nobody has seen Jasir You can see his reels on our Pearle Production page He is in our content team. You can see his creativity It is raining heavily here today We got wet in the rain before coming here Good question. I liked it. How is it there? Rains and thunder ? Comment below The beauty chass I am 6 months pregnant Even Srini How are you able to stay so positive? I love your positive vibes Please suggest any 2 points You can reply to the first question She is asking about when I was carrying Srini should say that. You took the main responsibility Buy them what they want Not big big things, When they ask for idly, dosa or pani puri, buy it for them If you stay with them and make them happy, they wont have any mood swings After 3 months they will be ok and energetic Till 3 months they would have nausea and be tired After that they will be active You can take them out and buy the food they like Travel Go for a movie Be with them and make them happy Some may ask what will working people do Be with them after you are back home It is not about the quantity of time It is the quality time Let is be 30mts also There is no point if Srini is home all the time but we dont speak. If we are not discussing anything good, the whole day would be a waste We cannot call that a quality time Quantity doesnt matter There would be couples working outside They may be getting to meet each other once a year But that bonding time or phone call time would be with lot of attention They would keep aside their phone and rest of their responsibilities They would spend time dedicated for each other That is when the bonding becomes beautiful For such people, not being together or being together They will always have a strong bonding When a woman is pregnant at such a bond relation time, She will be extremely relaxed Do you know why do these mood swings come out? That is because we have the freedom for that here If I was not so close with Srini, I would have to control all that within me. That love and freedom plays a very important role You have someone to burst out crying to or speak out to When you know that you have someone to listen to you, That is a big relief for us If I am not able to sleep properly at night, When you see your husband sleeping, There is a freedom that you have to wake him up Some would think is it ok to wake him up or will he be ok for it Some may have that formality there. Pearle doesnt have anything like that. I wake up Srini at 3am too saying my legs are aching He will be happy to wake up and help me out. I have never seen a crunchy face on him She sometimes tells me my mood isnt good. Let us sit in the balcony He will come and sit with me in the balcony. He has come and sat with me at 3am like that He would be falling off to sleep But I was a bit scared to go to the balcony all alone at the at time So I call Srini with me. Whenever I want to vomit too, I call Srini with me He pats my back for me. It is his baby that we have in us. He says he feels the same pampering me and the baby I say, you can pamper me. I shall enjoy that All that is rare for us. Our life partner is the person who keeps us maximum happy We too are responsible for that We have their baby in us In case this is not your situation, you have the responsibility to keep your baby happy Your thoughts and your feelings affects your baby too, You should remember that. Stay happy Put in some effort for that and listen to good songs Sleep well and rest well If you are working, have good food Take breaks in between Stand in between, do some exercises That's it Just be happy when you are pregnant It is not easy sometimes But still, do your best You are doing all these for your baby I have to tell all the husbands, Most of it lies in your hand A woman is on a roller coaster ride at that time They themselves dont know what is happening then A women would be going under a drastic shift in her body after delivery A hormonal change or a dip like It is a biggest shift in a woman's body It is said to be a big hormonal shift We dont know how would they react at that time You have to be their rock at that time Stand as a pillar for them A rock whom they can hold on to strongly Sometimes dont reply, but just listen to what they have to say Just nod your head and give them a pat They may want a person to hold a hand or listen to them Just be there for her. That's all I am Ardra Will there be more of Avastha series? Will there be? Many have been asking this question Guys, how do I match that days and today's me? An AI app will have to be released for that We are planning for it What to say for it? Indian 2 got released after 25years gap Same way, Avastha will also come after 25yrs. You dont have to go that long Let's have it this year itself. Not this year. Can act with 6 pack 6 pack will only come next year Ok. The shoot will be from Goa Yes. All that is set. We have 2-3 new people for content making They said they are going to bring some amazing ones. You can hears some sounds that they are making Vency. Many girls these days are afraid of getting married And getting into new commitments It could be because of past commitments, fear, post marriage loneliness Uncomfortable delivery and so on. What do you think about this? What is the actual point of view from a successful girlfriend, wife and mom? I dont have anything to say in this. If I advice them now and they then get married, I will have to hear a lot from them in the next Q & A session. I shall tell you openly from my side Like hitting a bumper lottery, I got Srini as my husband. Nothing like that. Half of the boys sitting here are like me I meant if you find the right person I wouldnt say all should get married I didnt mean like that. If you find the right person and if you have a mutual respect with them, It should be both ways. You shouldnt expect it always from one side We should also respect them. It is like have a bridge for both ways There is nothing called a perfect life partner I can write and sign and give you that I am not perfect Srini is also not perfect I wear the same pants for 2-3 days I am the one who takes and puts it to wash You would have understood what I meant When you begin to love and accept these small imperfections, That is when you life turns out to be beautiful If you wait for him to change his nature or some behaviours to love him, Then another thing you dont like in him will pop out. You should understand that he is your life partner. Moreover you are different people You should adjust You are from different families, backgrounds and upbringings. They have come from different situations and environment. Suddenly you begin to live in one room and use one bathroom. Even today.. I dont like water on the bathroom floor. When you take a bath, wont there be water on the ground? Will it fly away? I have bought a bathroom water wiper for that. I didnt buy that as a decor in the bathroom. I shall take a photo of how it is after you take a bath My bathing photo? No How it would be after you take a bath For you he will take a photo Water would be all over like Periyar river Imagine how much water I would use to wash my hair At the end, you have to dry that area I always do that. Are we fighting? Guys, think well and proceed. This is how it is. Hope you have understood. It is not easy to adjust. We have crossed 5yrs and Srini has still not learnt it I buy tissue papers. I dont like water on the commode too I tell Pearle the same He is smart. His true face can be seen soon. Let us continue talking like this We shall continue. You have to see his true face Water will be on the ground after everybody takes a bath. Forget about bathing Should I bend again? You want me to bend with that tummy and take it At that time ok. But now why do you have to say that I am used to it. I shall recover Another thing is a wet towel. I always tell her to put it outside. You can go home and check today. The towel is wet. Am I the one who puts it on the bed? I never put it on the bed Where do you put it then? I put it on the holders in the bathroom So this is what life is. Yesterday Srini made me a cup of tea She is telling me it is not hot. Who will drink a tea that is not hot It was really hot. I burnt my hand I told him that you spoilt my day She is asking me where are the boiling bubbles He then heated it in a microwave and gave me. But he at least gave me a cup of tea So what was the question? The question was whether to marry or not It is your wish. You and your life. How is that? Dont ask us such questions. We are nobody to answer that We are still figuring out our life It is ultimately fun. We have someone to bear us. I just want to say that Sreeni and I are so happy Whenever we put a post, we get very good comments. You saw that now. We are very happy to answer your questions We will be back with a beautiful video What do you have to say regarding the Q & A? I didnt know time go. All the questions were very good. We shall do such a Q & A session like this every month Do send us your questions. We are winding this episode here I will be starting a podcast soon. Stay tuned. I will be back with all the tools for the podcast Tools? Tools. Let the fight begin, ya! Adichu keri va So all of you should share, subscribe, like and comment. I have brought Nitara here Take a look at her dress In the beginning she was crying. Let me see if I can bring he We shall do the windup with her Bye. Say bye to all. See you.