Joining a Sorority or Fraternity on the Graduate Level

Introduction

• Importance of understanding the process and challenges.
• No clear route to joining; tips to help you achieve your goal.

Key Steps & Advice

Research

• Know the organization: Have a clear understanding of the sorority/fraternity you're interested in.
• Costs: Be aware that joining graduate chapters is expensive compared to undergraduate.
• Business nature: Graduate chapters function as businesses; different from undergrad experiences.

Meeting Requirements

• Check requirements: Visit the national website to understand degree, GPA, and community service prerequisites.
• Attend public events: Use chapter websites to find events and make your presence known.

Visibility and Networking

• Build connections: Attend events and establish genuine relationships with members.
• Avoid over-eager social media outreach: Don’t approach members you don’t know with requests.

Service Resume

• Show service commitment: Ensure you have a strong service background to support your application.
• Volunteer locally: Engage in community work to build your service resume.

Managing Expectations

• No guarantees: Building relationships doesn't ensure invitation; some get in without visible involvement.
• Reputation matters: Your personal and social media reputation can influence your acceptance.

Why Do You Want to Join?

• Know your 'Why': Be clear on why you want to join and what you bring to the organization.

Challenges (Cons)

Graduate vs. Undergraduate Experience

• Different experience: Not reliving undergrad; focus on organization's business and values.

Cost

• Financial planning: Anticipate expenses including annual dues and event fees. Consider a dedicated savings account for membership-related costs.

Age Diversity

• Varied ages on lines: Expect diversity in age among your peers.

Facing Criticism

• Perceptions of grad members: Some may view grad crossing less favorably; be prepared for possible criticism.

Social Dynamics

• Possible conflicts: Petty issues and conflicts are not uncommon, even at the graduate level.

Benefits (Pros)

Networking Opportunities

• Vast network: Gain access to a worldwide network of members, leading to friendships and professional opportunities.

Group Chats

• Engage with peers: Participate in various group chats for support and social connections.

Social Events

• Greek picnics and parties: Fun experiences and new friendships through events like Greek picnics.

Achieving Dreams

• Membership pride: Fulfillment of joining your dream organization.

Conclusion

• Commitment: Membership is a lifelong commitment; the journey begins after joining.
• Preparation: Be ready financially, mentally, physically, and spiritually.
• Encouragement: Best wishes to all prospective members in achieving their goals.