Lecture Notes: Stop Trying to Figure Out Life

Key Concepts

• Life's Complexity:

  • Life is inherently confusing and complex.
  • People of all ages, even elders, often have not "figured it out."
  • No one has all the answers; claiming otherwise indicates self-deception.

• Living Life Fully:

  • The purpose of life is to live it and gain experiences.
  • Wisdom is acquired through lived experiences over time.
  • Embrace living rather than attempting to solve life like a formula.

• Relaxation and Patience:

  • It's okay not to have life figured out at any specific age.
  • More experiences lead to understanding that there is still much to learn.
  • Slow down, relax, and enjoy the process of life.

Practical Advice

• Define Your Ideal Life:

  • Visualize and write down what your ideal life looks like.
  • Consider aspects like career, relationships, lifestyle, etc.

• Taking Action:

  • Show up and take small steps towards your goals daily.
  • Build skills necessary for achieving your ideal life.
  • If you want a specific career, like becoming a pilot, pursue relevant education.

• Financial Wisdom:

  • Prioritize savings over unnecessary purchases if you aim to buy a house.

• Pursuing Passions:

  • Invest in resources (like instruments for musicians) and practice.
  • For those unsure of their passions, experiencing new things is key.

Personal Philosophy

• Letting Go of Pressure:

  • Don’t pressure yourself to have everything figured out.
  • Drop societal and media expectations about where you should be at certain ages.
  • Take life at your own pace; there’s no universal timeline.

• Embodying Your Ideal Life:

  • Believe in your vision and work towards it every day.
  • Hold your dream life sacred in your heart and actions.

Conclusion

• Life's True Purpose:
  • Life was meant to be lived, not figured out.
  • Embrace being, rather than constantly seeking to solve life’s puzzles.

Personal Reflection

• Sometimes attempting to "figure out" life complicates it more.
• Let things happen naturally and live in the moment.

Remember, life is more about the journey and experiences rather than solving a puzzle or adhering to a strict plan. Embrace each moment and live authentically.