all right girls good morning it is a new day and I'm so excited because I am starting to believe that I am a girly who can do hard things all right did you say we're going to Chamberlain coffee here's a thing we have a problem oh my gosh it's going to be 6 hours of you going I don't know what about over here I don't know he wears a thong have you talked about it on your Vlog oh my God you seem really tired I mean I'm defeated a little bit are we done I mean I'm done with you here yeah [Music] hello you guys good morning today's Vlog is so graciously sponsored by rocket money I'm a huge fan before I had kids I was Loosey Goosey with my finances and that is a stressful place to be just spending and paying your bills and hoping for the best I do not recommend it for anyone but once I had kids I thought you know what this is the time for me to get serious in walks rocket money the all-in-one personal f app that helps you manage your money better lower your bills and cancel your unwanted 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when wow this is hold on let me just open the bottom too so you can get the full effect last night we had no dessert and Shane was like we shouldn't get dessert right and I said well it depends on if you got a dessert for Valentine's Day or not did you get a dessert for Valentine's Day and he wouldn't answer so the answer is yes he did look at this oh my God the heart framing the cake it is cute but I'm angry cuz it's supposed to be white frosting that would have been cuter but whatever it's fine it's fine I bet it tastes delicious well we know it tastes delicious we get one of these every week I know but oh there's also ponus I was going to show you my flowers here they are wow incredible okay there's also a buus what do you mean oh my gosh you got a bunch of cupcakes I got some cookies some the whole store well we got some for the boys so they can split one we got one for you one for Spencer one for Spencer thank you so much these are the best they're so I love this type of cookie oh my God they're the best these dogs are farting up a storm are you going to try it which color do you think the colors taste any different I need a picture of wowow the wrapping look how Suzy that's so good what the hell you shouldn't have showed me this suie knows what she's doing the and the problem with Susie once you discover she sells individual slices of cake it's over her cake flavor is honestly topnotch Top Notch ow topnotch so what are we doing today did you say we're going to Chamberlain coffee here's a thing I need to edit right that's what I need to be doing I literally have it like I actually have to I literally did but it's Valentine's Day so I don't want to and I was thinking like what if instead we tried the Chamberlain Coffee coffee shop which is Iconic that she has one and also that's in the same Center as Javier's which makes the best nachos off menu ever but I should edit spener should I edit no okay were we going to try one of these what color gosh I'm assuming they taste like their Christmas that never made the Vlog hey ad welcome to my Christmas so I love to get lots of cakes suie cakes specifically follow me now I know what you're thinking oh my god that's way too much but for Susie love love Merry Christmas Max and J if that isn't the most gorgeous thing you've ever seen look it say it with me everyone love no it's just love oh just love love the B love love it's when I talk about my tequila brand it's like love love okay love when we show you the plates on the dining table that just sit there but we don't actually use love when celebrities start to get rich rich they start using less words and I've noticed that and then like they stop speaking they start using W look at these little cookies love thank you and then look at the tree here hold on really rock and roll her oh yeah oh oh it's a scene oh it's a whole thing look at them it's a movie it's a film we got evacuated and got the flu so I never turned it around and then Christmas was over oh I know oh I know it's perfectly soft I know but not too soft I like it better than crumble crumble does too much for me yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah crumble is overthinking it yeah yeah I can appreciate what they are like one little bite and you're good but Suzie oh Susie happy valentine day Cheeto oh my God what about our other animals gorgeous cat Happy Valentine's Day everyone okay we figured out our lives and we're headed to the centry city mall Shane has made reservations for Javier which can I just say that you how are you not going to address Spencer's joining us on our Valentine's third Wheeling he was already oh is it weird that I just assumed he'd come I was like oh yeah it's Valentine's Day SP will come yeah and then I started thinking well what if he has Valentine's Day plans like are you in the middle of the day and he was like well if it's Valentine's Day maybe you guys should just go alone and I said well no this isn't like really Valentine's Day which it is it is exactly what are you talking about it's literally Valentine's Day I'm wearing my new Valentine's Day jacket okay so I tried on this jacket you can't really tell in the light but it's like like tiger print oh they can tell that's pretty cool thank you and I went in the store I was trying it on and I was like oh ry's going to hate this so I made a joke about it I'm like wouldn't it be so stupid if I ever wore this and then you were like like I like it I was like what but it was too small and I was like okay so then we get in the car and I order it on the way home cuz I'm like okay he approves of it so I'm going to get it cuz it's tacky and I love it and I told you I ordered it and then you got mad because you were going to give it to me for Valentine's Day that's the problem with Shane every time I ever have wanted to get him a gift he already either has it sent to the house or he's like telling me that he just purchased it and I'm like you're impossible to shop for because I was ready to go to the mall before Valentine's Day with you to get a feel for what you might like because I don't love executing on clothing products without knowing that you might like it whatever so Spencer's here because it's Valentine's Day and we're not going reason because we're not going out for like a Valentine's Day dinner it's always just like so packed and annoying and I too much no it doesn't work I'd much rather just go out like a random Tuesday night and have a wonderful night as opposed to sharing it with the whole world we're going it's happening Happy vday w w w okay okay I almost just killed myself on the escalator trying to get this beautiful shot horrifying dang the music is at volume 10,000 over here okay woo wow it is like a club in here and the table is leather that is interesting wow what a day it is busy very busy and very loud and a lot of IG girls I can feel it oh yeah Spencer said lingerie is very trendy right now you know honey bad it's weird that I know that Spencer was like I feel like I'm in a honey bagette what is it yeah that's it we good we're also back but oh look at that wow the environment is so pretty even behind me is like I want to know who their landscaper is you know what I'm saying Papas Pras what Papas Pras what about them that's priz right let's do it a good drag Pap [Music] fras Susie does it right wow we have dessert here I hope he comes well he's like you guys want desser he's like no we have Su Susie products [Music] that Liv up to the he I mean I don't know how you could mess up that much melted cheese on a chip I'm not ready for this is that a fry or like a potato chunk it looks like thick this is specific but it tastes like red roben [Music] I kind of know what you mean actually it's not bad no it's not my favorite type of fry but keep it in the green sauce o interesting maybe not the right that steak okay I do I very curious about see how I cook my steak yeah how did you do that far away well I want be able to E I just got a steak salad let's see if they did it right if they didn't I'll scream oh my oh oh I'm usually not somebody who dips it in sauce like this but let's [Music] see couple bites everything good it's good it's not it's not as tender as I thought it would be but the waiter was walking over and he's so nice so I couldn't stay in front of him let me take a bite but it's good oh I it's pretty good yeah I think you guys kind of nailed it right it's good it's not like oh my God but it's good I mean it's it's an impressive offering to be honest okay what's the plan guys what are we going to do for our event we're going to chamberling Coffee I it for the year that's a New Year's thing what's one thing you love about me and Spencer oh I mean I love everything about you I wouldn't be married to you if I didn't you're very funny I like that you're tall H I'm just saying I like that you're tall okay all of things relate to Spencer as well what's your favorite thing about Spencer a Spencer is so emotionally intelligent that's I said that very he finishes my thoughts like if something Happ so it's a compliment to yourself he's so smart he can finish my thoughts he's so smart no like if something weird happens and I'm trying to explain it to him before I even start he says it he's like that was word that day happened I'm like wow you are like a Dophin okay I keep generously offering my salad and they keep saying no I'm like Shane just take a bite and he's like I'm good it's a salad I get it I can look at it and I know what it is I said this is better than the salads we ordered at our house and there's lots of stick I think you're going to like it just take a bite and he won't I don't want it it's like cornbread somebody showed me cornbread said taste it I'd be like I know exactly what that tastes like feels like everything I don't need and then he goes and didn't you get that last time and keep getting me to try to eat it and I was like yeah because it's good I like it and then I said Spencer do you want a bite and he goes I think I'm in the same boat you ever is somebody ever ordered a salad to a table and you're like oh my God I got to have a bite of that it's like it's like the steak is usually like wow can I have a little piece not like this salad's full of steak with a great dressing you guys whatever take it you're I you made it oh I wish I could share with you guys you can head on over to patreon I haven't promoted that on the Vlog Channel actually you guys there's a patreon for the Sip go check it out I'm posting these Vlogs early hold on I won't sell it right here right now with this music sell it like you're selling that salad you get 20 minutes extra of this tip every week an extra Vlog a month that's exclusive to patreon you get these Vlogs early and we're going to go live four times a year and we're going to do merch and you get the chugger chat when I saw that pop up in the chugger chat that is actually the most fun part I didn't realize uh the thing that I love the most about having a patreon is really the community aspect there's the chugger chat people on the patreon are chuggers cuz they gulp the zip credit I came up with that did you yeah the Sip but what's better than taking a sip chugging there a chugger we're all chuggers see what I'm saying and the signups cuz you're gulping okay whatever we'll see you soon okay Shane says he sees the sign I don't see it yeah well oh actually oh there it is wow it's very cute the blue tiles are gorgeous we have a problem I guess Emma's very popular well no I mean to translate into a I mean I know Emma's very popular but to translate into like a huge line at a physical store I'm so happy for her we're not waiting in it but I got chambering coffee home but I'm so proud of you Chamberlain day Emma we drove 45 minutes to come to Chamberlain coffee but that line girl that's good good for no seriously wow maybe it's not that long is she there there's a line it is Friday maybe she's doing angry at her store all right girls good morning it is a new day and I'm so excited because I am starting to believe that I am a girly who can do hard things all right I will say this you do that things you do all of it things I do watch it I watch it and I make notes and I give ideas and then I orchestrate and then that's what you do do you know what I mean huh so I finally decided on a little outdoor playground for the boys previously we showed you down below where I thought it was going to go I've pivoted we're going to do it in the big dirt area in front of the sheds out back that I'll show you in a second but the playground finally came wow look at my kids's playset oh [ __ ] I should probably put this in the back of the car right now oh my God that is so much water oh my god oh no I'm going to have to come back for that I'm going to have to come back for that now though oh [Music] [ __ ] why on the rainiest day of the year can we talk about why you asked me for more pants this morning too real no so I texted him I woke up which by the here's how I know I love my children obviously I love my children but it's moments like this I was up till like 4 in the morning editing right so I was planning on sleeping in a little bit 8:00 a.m. rolls around and Jet starts screaming cuz that's his new thing his new thing is whistle notes that used to be Max's thing now they're they're they're a team what they're doing right now is when they're both very excited one does it and then the other does it and that's how they're playing with each other well they're M they're it's like the boys and they're competing for you know who's going to get the chair just roll turn around they stand this close to each other and do the whistle notes back and forth in each other's face I mean they're having a good time and I don't want to shut down their good time but I have to like go like this they were screaming uh their heads off and and I go shh dad's asleep but they don't care and this is how I know I love them I woke up smiling cuz I was like that is so cute they're screaming at each other it's so cute when they do that that's when I know I love them because if the dogs were doing that shelter if the dogs were straight to the pound bye like woke that up so that's how you know I for so long was trying to figure out what the title of the job was for the person that could prepare the ground beneath the playet I think it's sight I'm still unclear I did a lot of research I ordered the products online help me with the site build it first place the playground I'm going to build the playground myself today I left I know I was going to hire someone for this and then I thought I could do this I don't know where I am I passed on you're now the cameraman and we're going to go outside and we're going to talk about some things outside I'm not prepared for that Valentine's Day flowers are so pretty see that's things I do you know what I mean things I don't do help you figure out what kind of uh little gravel is going to go underneath the playground I know I said okay do you want the rubber mats because the rubber mats are a little more ideal but rubber mat three times the price told you want the fake grass because I've contemplating it for three months F gr no I've I've exed the fake grass because it gets too hot and it's just like I whatever I'm doing the rubber mulch because it has the most reviews I've read why are you running cuz I'm excited girl let's just enjoy each other's company oh I reached back and grabbed his Hur here it is I mean how hard could it be this I'm doing this oh great things you did things you're going to do okay you're the camera woman I do a lot of things for this family don't make it seem like like I don't you do a lot of things for this family I'm just the man in a lot of ways you're the camera woman you're not just like if you're not going to do any of the hard lifting or helping Bild I'm performing here you go hold this no I really don't want to do this right now you're not doing anything except for looking at the placement of where we're putting this no it's going to be 6 hours of you going I don't know what about over here I don't know I've already done this with the gardener we didn't include oh I hope you paid him well or are you having second regret should we go look in the space I oh my God so this do you see my 20x 20ft play area that's framed in by the rock uh-huh this is where it's going to go I'm going to build it right outside of that for now all right do you like this placement yep stupid sorry yes so the playground is going to go here all right good luck and don't [ __ ] it up you are Rupa I'm like one of the contestants doing all the hard work pit crew oh pit crew pit crew do you want me to be pit crew s in my thong you're you're my husband oh sorry he wears a thong have you talked about it on your Vlogs I haven't talked about my thong on the Vlogs podcast channel for supp cuz he's been having ball issues but it's a thong no because the briefs okay they're classic briefs they're not boxer briefs and they hold up directly and now I've come to love them because there's no extra fabric that bunches all all day long it's just better it's not like a string thong it looks like a thong oh my gosh um here's what I'm good for ideas this is what he's good for is I finally decide on something after years of debating and then once I finally made peace with my decision he'll throw in a new idea that I then have to spiral about because it is better but I had already come to terms with the decision I had made is that not me yeah that's exactly you okay what's your idea picnic table so cute that we can sit out here with the boys they can play can sit and watch them little dinosaur Little Rock back and forth oh I got one I got a really good one this one's going to be a little more work for you to figure out but you know like at Universal Studios they have like the water features for kids oh you're so stupid a water pad I'm not going to be able to figure that out are you kidding me you calling me stupid that's genius like for summer that's so cute it is cute but we can take them to a water pad and they can have some socialization um are we done I mean I'm done with you here yes okay let's just look one more more time at the grass if we put it on the grass I wouldn't have to go through the process of leveling the ground and putting in s it stinks he stinks and I'm not kidding he stinks right now because he's editing so much he's walking like 50,000 steps a day and I walk into the room and I'm like because you're sweating cuz you're walking so much it really takes over the entire room and then he like walks into the nursery and I'm just like oo you might want to change those shorts why did you have to change your shorts this morning you never told us that's for the patreon oh okay the golfers have it stinks over here I hate this the golfers like oops can I go in yet I have so much at working to do okay the golfers did ruin this space you're calling them like golfers what hell what do you think they are golfers you don't think this is a really cute playground area golfers are you kidding me this is cute right here in it you don't think this area is cuter no I don't seriously with all the greenery okay here's my problem with here there's snakes it stinks and there's a lot of flies and ants and bugs okay all right I'm going to start building this place up good night as always if you can't love yourself how the hell you going to love somebody else can I get an am man you can't love yourself how in the hell you going to love somebody else can I get an am man in here now let the music play sh that dog [Music] so the one I'm starting with is a little smaller like it's cuz and I'm I'm building oh my gosh the base is going to be 20x 20 so there's room to grow but this play set is more for toddlers because I wanted them to really be able to conquer it instead of be afraid of it so this one's just like an ease into a place set but it also has swings oh my gosh it's going to be so cute do we think I'm capable of this I hope to God that I [Music] am which way up for this [Music] one oh my God I'm starting to think maybe I'm not a girl who can do everything look at the amount of pieces like 480 pieces of wood okay I've basically got the two bases done I feel like there's so much more I'm going to have to do and I'm definitely going to run out of [Music] daylight for the Moment of Truth can I do this by myself oh [ __ ] she really is one of those girls hell yeah I mean now I've got to secure them [Music] all of course as luck would have it the sun is starting to set my freaking drill ran out of battery so I've laid out what's going to go on this wall and what's going to go on that wall and I have all the screws ready to go so I'm trying to make it so when that thing charges I can just but it's looking like this is going to be a tomorrow morning job as well the more I sit here and torture myself putting this together I'm thinking should I have just hired somebody to do this who probably could have done this five times faster than I can myself but I'm just like you know what you're spending quality time with yourself outside the kids are going to love it you're an amazing dad oh my gosh it's just so tedious like every sing single thing is a nightmare it's like none of it can just be chill or easy you got this [Music] girl okay hours later look who decides to make an appearance I'm so sweaty oh I should be the sweat want so far it's looking pretty gorgeous boom see there's going to be like a rock wall to climb in a slide to go out this is tedious mama and I'm trying to find a park that I don't know where it disappeared to I'm so excited for them to have swings you seem really tired oh I mean I'm defeated a little bit guess we should go get Wendy's frosties you don't even like mint the flavor's mint it's thin mint and I know I just like new things I'm such a consumer shoot where is the other piece I will die if it's not here [ __ ] okay well that's all for now okay wow this was not smart I should just ask Shane to help me move this oh my god oh my god wow I'm about to break this after I just spent building why did I think I could move that by myself God I'm so bummed that I don't already have this leveled and ready to go cuz I don't want to attach everything cuz then I have to take it off to put it back on once the land's prepared all right I'm at my stopping point for tonight like I'm in a good spot I really could attach the slide right now I haven't attached this yet and then what comes out is the swing pole but we'll be back tomorrow oh my gosh I also got baby swings because I think it would just be easier for them to figure out for now but oh my gosh I'm so close and I'm so excited how rewarding to do this on my own you know adorable okay Shane's seeing it now it's so cute it's so cute I'm just obset I want them to be able to play on it now well why don't we move it to like the little grass in front of our house or something it's really small yeah it is really small it's so cute okay day two and I have made some decisions I'm going to put on the swings and attach the slide before the soft ground gets installed because I want them to be able to enjoy the swings let my kids live how hard would it be for me to just execute on something fun for them until this is complete does anybody have another hand because I need these three things as well you don't you guys are all just going to sit there and watch me struggle now I can't hit stop recording because I'm holding [Music] everything wow and just like that my babies have a playground I am so excited although there is a little bit of drama you know what I mean I thought I had ordered two baby swings and in fact there's there's only one but I don't know maybe they're getting big enough and this is low enough to the ground that they'll figure this out we're going to test it out and see but it is gorgeous I'm going to let him play on it for a while before the soft ground comes out I'm just going to have to like really monitor you know but oh my God it's so cute [Music] oh they love it [Music] [Music] [Music]