so chances are you clicked on this video because you want to become more attractive and more confident well you've made it to the right place I'm going to give you seven ways you can do that boys we have the suit on today let's get down to business these seven things aren't going to be your regular go to the gym yeah get a haircut treat you know your skin right so you glow like everybody knows this these seven things are going to be from my own experiences I haven't leared them anywhere yeah I've just learned them from my own experience to attract you know more attractive women and also gain respect from men whether I'm out in an event that you know requires a suit or it's just out in public in a just randomly now these things are going to go from the least to the most important in my opinion again to increase your attractiveness increase your confidence all right because confidence is attractiveness they go hand in hand first thing I want you to analyze the reason why you clicked on this video why did you click ask yourself that right now and the reason I say this because it's so important to understand you know who you actually are who what you actually desire okay you want to attract more women why do you want to attract more women you've always been lonely and that's why you want attention from women okay why have you always been lonely is that inside your control is that outside your control why do you want respect from men get to the root deep cause on why you clicked on this video because once you have a clear honest intention when you go out in public you're going to be much more confident because you know why you're there if you don't know what you want out of a girl then there's no point in even attracting women in the first place and this is where we get into the actual steps of this video all right the second thing I want you to do to become more attractive and more confident is to get off social media or at least stop comparing yourself to the people on social media now the reason I say this is because you scrolling on social media all the time looking at people in there in the prime time of their day with prime lighting like 10 minutes ago bro I haven't really done much day haven't even gotten outside I've just been working I look like a [ __ ] junkie bro just before like honestly I had a quick cold show put this on now I'm looking pretty good stop comparing yourself to people on social media because there's so many filters out there nowadays you'd be surprised at how many people you know put filters on their face to make them look better all right compare yourself to people in the real world people in the real world probably aren't as attractive to people on social media you are more attractive than you think you are you're just comparing your low lights you know when you wake up in the morning you like [ __ ] to compared to people who look the best at the end of the day when they're out in public when the lighting is perfect because confidence and attractiveness comes from within I'm not going to teach you how to be physically more attractive cuz there's so many things out there I'm going to teach you how to become internally attractive and confident so you reflect that on the external okay third thing simple just small that's it just be outgoing I know that sounds very very simple but when you're talking to someone when you're in a party when you're in event right when you're at your your prom I I I don't know what you care about just smile man just go out to people smile s of conversation don't smile too much don't be like a creep but especially when you're getting deep into a conversation with somebody's smile let them know that you're enjoying their company that goes a very very long way I don't know if it's just me but especially with women and when I'm talking to someone if she is smiling while I'm maybe talking about myself I'm talking about something you know in my life if I Can Tell She's genuinely listening to me with a complete smile she is interested man so if you can get you know into a deep conversation with somebody and genuinely enjoy it or even if it's just first glance first impression just give him a good smile man and if you're looking at him across the room yeah it goes the Long Way number four this is extremely underrated and it is the key to keeping conversations flowing and coming up with conversational ideas and it is to become an expert listener and the reason I say that is because if you're a very very good communicator but you have nothing to talk about then you're not a good communicator are you listening skills are the foundation to the house this must be built to a tea this must be strong before you build a good you know a good house then it which is your communication you must have a good foundation you must be able to listen good communicators can talk about themselves all day but nobody gives a [ __ ] yeah you need to be able to listen to people and have the ability to ask the right questions this is a skill you can watch videos and how to become a better listener you can you know learn more about psychology you can learn about you know human nature what people actually care about people love talking about themselves people love their names yeah learn what people care about and if you know a person and you want to you know talk better with them you want to communicate better with them understand what they like do some research ask them what they like talk more about these things ask questions listen I know you want to talk about yourself I know you want to boast I know you want to you know up your ego a little bit but that comes later number five you have to realize that nobody actually gives a [ __ ] about you and the reason I say this is because I would say the number one reason why you aren't being your most confident authentic self around other people is because you are scared of what people are thinking about you if you go out to a party or an event everybody is thinking about themsel you have to realize that everybody has the same [ __ ] mindset as you now I say that I get a bit aggressive there cuz I want you to understand it everybody has the spotlight they think all the attention is on them which is not true however it is human nature to think like that because it is a survival mechanism if you are in public and there's heat to people around you you're going to think more about yourself just in case of dangers okay but we've adapted Our Lives aren't really like that anymore unless you go to a dangerous place don't always trust your mind take a step back take a deep breath all right your an your anxiety is not always correct nobody's thinking about you everybody's thinking about thems number six the second most important thing I can tell you to become more attractive is to understand that you are that guy so act like him now I know this sounds just like an ego boost you know you're just boasting you just think you're that dude you think you're better than everybody else no however if you want to call it pride you have to have a little bit of Pride at the back of your mind but if you know at the back of your mind you ain't that dude and you have nothing to prove it then go out there and become that dude right if you've made progress in your life that you're very very proud of you should walk into rooms you should walk into events thinking you all that do not you're not that you're better than anybody else but just have that inner confidence within you okay just because you've achieved something with me I would say I'm a very disciplined individual I get up every single morning and I do what I need to do regardless I have strong values I have strong morals which I stick to each and every single day and that says a lot about my character if you've made the progress act like the progress you've made if you haven't made the progress make the progress and in the meantime be confident within yourself that you're making the progress but don't let your ego get in the way and start being arrogant yeah this is not arrogance this is confidence there a difference number seven brother you have to learn when to let go you got to let go man and just have fun that's it that is it this is what life's about you're going to die one day none of this [ __ ] is going to matter most of the times you are anxious 99% of the time the [ __ ] you're worrying about is not going to matter in a couple of weeks time oh this girl might think I'm weird she's probably not going to think about you again stop putting so much pressure on yourself go out there do you nobody's perfect yeah stutter who gives a [ __ ] honestly go into a conversation not caring about anything and just see how it goes I can guarantee you if you have expectations before a conversation you're not going to live up to those expectations you're going to feel [ __ ] about yourself and then you're just going to stop everything up you're going to feel low in confidence but if you go in with very low or no expectations you're going to live up to those expectations you're going to feel good about yourself just let go bro this is like similar to number five I think it was or number six like the spotlight effect but it's a little bit different you need to let go of your desires be yourself do you that's all you can do people don't respect you for that that's their problem not yours yeah these aren't going to make you physically more attractive but they're going to make you internally more attractive which is going to show your aura is going to increase yeah that's that's what it's all about it's all about the internal yeah much love bro and I'll catch you in the next video peace