Changing My Life in 6 Months

Introduction

• Set out on a journey to become the best version of myself.
• Goals:
  • Switch careers
  • Build personal brand
  • Make new friends
  • Build unshakable confidence
  • Become fit and run a half marathon

Key Achievements

• Switched career paths by starting a master's program.
• Grew YouTube channel threefold.
• Landed a new job.
• Completed a half marathon.
• Decided to bet on myself.

Overcoming Fear

• Types of Fear:
  • Fear of failure, especially publicly.
• Battled with the fear of not reaching goals.
• Realized that fear held me back for too long.
  • Constantly told myself I wasn't enough.

Embracing Failure

• Shifted perspective:
  • Fear of not trying should be greater than fear of failing.
  • Started seeing failures as lessons and stepping stones.
• Increased YouTube video posting despite performance concerns.
• Applied to many jobs despite rejections.
• Pushed myself to make friends and network despite being introverted.

Embracing the Cringe

• First YouTube videos were awkward but authentic.
• Importance of starting somewhere, even if it's cringy.
• Growth comes from moving through awkward moments.
• Encouraged others to take that first step in their endeavors.

Accepting Uncertainty in Life

• Life is messy and unpredictable; it’s okay to not have a clear roadmap.
• Impulsively signed up for a half marathon without training.
• Stuck to a training schedule despite challenges, showing perseverance.

Life Lessons from the Journey

• Focus on progress rather than perfection.
• Importance of discipline as a form of self-love.
• Realized discipline requires consistent effort, even when not motivated.

Continuous Learning

• Growth as a continuous process; never stop learning.
• Surrounding oneself with smarter people inspires growth.
• Focus on asking questions and seeking new knowledge.

Internal Fulfillment vs. External Achievements

• External achievements do not fill internal gaps.
• Importance of mental and emotional well-being.
• Engaged in therapy, journaling, and self-reflection to understand self-worth.

Conclusion

• Achieved goals, but the journey and self-discovery were most important.
• Key themes: fear, discipline, learning, and self-love are interconnected.
• Embrace the journey and discover your potential.