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Scorpio: Heartbroken, hurt & HATE missing Scorpio. Determined to persuade Scorpio for a 2nd chance

Hey, hey. Hi, guys. Welcome back, Scorpios.

So I'm just giving this deck one more shuffle here. Scorpios, let's get into this. So I don't usually change my backdrops except on Monday. That's Hallmark been my typical, but I couldn't take it anymore. I had to change it.

I was done with the compass. I was just, I didn't want to look at it anymore. So I'm going to keep that in mind.

Maybe somebody needs to change up what they're doing. It's time to shake, shake, shake. I don't know why that's in my head now too.

But we got the eight of cups in the reverse. Scorpio was somebody on their way back. By the way, shout out.

Oh gosh, who just requested this? Please forgive me. I think it was Kitty Purdy. Please forgive me if I mispronounced your name, but I had a special request when I was over there on my other channel, Tarot Dog, doing a kind of a collective love message. And I had a request to...

kind of bump Scorpio up if we could get to it today and a special request for, um, from EM also for Pisces. So I will do Pisces right after this as well. Anyway, I just wanted you guys to know, I always try really hard to honor the requests.

If I hear them, thank you guys for letting me know in the comment section, if you do enjoy these videos and want more of them, that is actually, it makes a big difference. It's, it determines how many videos I put out for each Zodiac is the more interaction I get, the more the views go up, the more the comments and the thumbs up I get, the more I do for each Zodiac. So. Just so you know, I do two for every Zodiac each week, but I will try to squeeze in a third for those where the watch group is bigger.

So anyway, shout out to you guys. So what might be changing? Eight of cups in the reverse. Somebody wants to return.

Somebody's got a big old, big old decision here that they're not happy. And I think lack of joy is one of the strongest motivators for change in my thoughts, at least the way the storyline goes, is definitely. the big motivator for change. We've got a page of cups in the reverse and we've got that seven of wands. This is somebody who wants to come back and fix it.

This is somebody who says, I want to come back because I'm freaking miserable. I don't like the way things are. I don't like the lack of love, the lack of connection.

I don't like the fact that nobody is able to get the words, I'm sorry, or the other person's ears can't even hear it because this is a problem. And I am hearing that song by Jillian Michaels, I Got Issues, but you got them too. Because something about like, because we got the kind of love it takes to solve them.

So I got issues, but one of them is How Bad I Need Ya. Love, love, love that song. We've got the three of swords sideways.

There's been hurt feelings. There's been, and either this hurt can just sit there and exist and everybody feels crummy, or the hurt feelings can be addressed. Yes, it's an obstacle because it's really hard to talk and feel connected when it's like, well, you hurt me.

Will you hurt me? You know, that kind of energy. Oh, it sucks.

It stings. It's bad. It's hard to find a way to talk, but it's even worse when this rock sits in both people's hearts. At least that is the way this character feels.

They could be a Leo who's obviously had a pretty, I don't want to say raucous, but certainly some kind of significant blowout with Scorpio and they can't stand it. I feel like I freaking hate fighting with Scorpio and I feel like they want to come back, even though they also don't want to, because it's going to be so hard. But on the other hand, they have to. We have a three of wands.

We have a three of cups. This is still like they already know what they want to do, what they need to do. It is still a little bit in the in the distant future, but they are envisioning it.

They're picturing it. I feel like they might be asking for wisdom. Maybe they're praying to whatever gods they pray to, or maybe they're going to talk to whatever wise individuals they know that can give good advice.

But they want to know, how would you approach? I need to talk to my Scorpio. What energy should I return in? I am returning. because I'm freaking miserable without him.

This hurts. I can't deal with this, this conflict between me and Scorpio. It hurts. Let me ask this because we know that in the future, maybe in the next three days, um, I usually look at this as up to three months for the three of wands.

It's just the way I see it. It's not, that's not like that's the way it's supposed to be. It's just in my fictional storytelling, I go with however I think about things. Um, What is the message for Scorpio on this?

Let's ask that. What's the message for Scorpio? We have got the queen of coins upright and the eight of coins sideways.

Anything in life that we care about that we want to give our energy to and is awesome, but asking what things are giving their energy back to me because it should be fair, it should be equal, it should be balanced. That's kind of the measuring stick to use for Scorpio to determine, do I let this person back in or do I not? And I actually think that that's really great.

It's a really great message because it looks like the saying, you know what I really am starting to consider here is. If I want to give to this person, if they are still important to me, if I would like to share with them, great, but my criteria is, are they showing me that they have something to offer? Do they want to work on things as well?

This just feels like this person coming in to say, I can't stand it when we're upset. I just want you back, but I'm not offering to have changed anything. I just don't want to fight with you, but I want things to be just the way they were. That might not be enough.

This says for Scorpio to not deny themselves what they want, but to also be wise about it and ask themselves that tough question of, is the person or the situation that is trying to come back to me, not only do I want it, but is it giving me something? Because it should share with me. It should, the person, the situation should be giving me something as well.

Strength card upright, Empress upright, three of wands. To me, this looks very much like the Scorpio. is of the opinion that only time will tell but I have the strength to give somebody a second chance if I want to only if Scorpio wants to I have the strength to say yes I want to give to you again but if I don't like it I got no problem given the tough love also that says nope if if in a few days or a few weeks I see that things are going right backwards then I can still leave my future will not be eaten up by someone who doesn't really give to me or that we still can't collaborate.

But I'm also not going to resist somebody entering into my life that it feels like there's a mutual heartbreak, honestly. And I think that this storyline is definitely not over in this story. Neither person wants it to be over.

But the one thing here is that Scorpio seems to have a little higher standards on this or should have the higher standards on this to make sure that This is the other person needs to put more effort in to the connection for the amount that Scorpio is giving. Or let's change the wording here and say Scorpio might need to ask that person and ask themselves, for as much as I want to give, can this person keep up? Or are they coming back because they loved what I gave to them? They don't like a fight with me because they want to come back and get some more of my good, good, my yum, yum. All the stuff that I gave and gave and gave to them.

Yeah, sure. Who wouldn't? I mean, I can get a freeloader anywhere. I'm awesome.

I have a ton to give. I could drive around and, you know, offer anybody, Hey, would you like to come to my house? I'll take good care of you.

I'll give you everything you want. All you have to do is not fight with me. I don't expect you to give me anything in return. That's not, that's not equitable, but anybody would say, well, hell yeah, that sounds amazing.

So I think for Scorpio to weed out, you know, by thinking clearly, you know, I'm offering all of this. Does this person want to give me the same amount back? Do they care about this for the same reasons that I do?

Are we on the same page? Are they wanting to work on things because we're a good match? Or do they just want to make me happy so they can come back in and keep eating at my trough?

I'm sorry to say it that way, but sometimes characters can be piggish with the energy. They're like, yum, yum, yum. Oh, I miss it.

I'm so upset when I don't have Scorpios. delicious trough and their sweet, sweet nectar. So I want to come back in and make up with them.

But the critical piece of information is why do you want back? We know you care about Scorpio, but do you want to give to Scorpio? Do you want to build a life with Scorpio or do you just want good times with Scorpio that Scorpio provides to you?

So I think as long as Scorpio is really wise to that and uses that, that measuring stick, this storyline says that would be very helpful. And then it also... Using that measuring stick and realizing they might just be coming back in to, you know, pork out on all my goodness.

That doesn't insult me. That just means, yeah, I do got it going on. But I can also tell you, you're not allowed to have it because you didn't bring me anything of equal value.

And I can bounce. I think Scorpio walking into this with eyes wide open is what this message is. This is not to say that this person doesn't have a ton to give to. to Scorpio and they're just coming in to be a user and a taker.

It's more the message to Scorpio is to evaluate that so that they don't have to get frustrated or get irritated or get surprised or hoodwinked by somebody who's like, oh my God, why am I hurting all over again? Scorpio should not have a heartbreak. If they got to kick somebody to the curb again, because that person just isn't on the same page, it shouldn't actually hurt. Because it's like, well, the reality of it is we might just not be compatible.

They don't have the same vision of what a relationship is made up of, you know, two people giving and building and growing and finding solutions and wanting to collaborate and wanting to make more together. If they're just here to partake of my amazingness, that's not a relationship. That's me. kind of being a host. And I think that's going to put things into like a really clearly defined, non-painful way to walk back into this. Because I do think that there's a reconciliation here, but to ask the right question so that then Scorpio can determine, yeah, we actually are both on the same page.

I can see that they want to give to this. They really want us to us to be successful because of what they're contributing. if that is true, but Scorpio's gonna have to be discerning.

May I ask about them, character? We know you want Scorpio back, but what is it that you want from Scorpio? Three of Ashes, so three of Wands. They want a future. We've got the Queen of Wands in the reverse, but we have the Eight of Pentacles in the reverse.

I think that they want to change their pres-their, like, I think they think Scorpio doesn't look at them with very awesome eyes. This is like super selfish, not working on anything. I mean, unless we could say, well, what they want is a future of, I want the life of luxury.

I want Scorpio to make my life amazing, and I never want to work again, and I want them to tell me I'm amazing. If that is the case, I think Scorpio will have no problem sniffing that out. Let me get one more to see if we can define that a little bit. Character, how do I interpret that?

Six of Swords, I think that they want, if they did come across as somebody that was just, like I say, somebody gobbling down. And the reason I'm using a pig trough as an example is not because I'm saying Scorpio is a pig, you know, or is offering swine and that they're a pig. I don't mean it that way. I'm saying, you know, sloppily gobbling up.

all the goodness just for the single-minded purpose of I want nourishment. That's the way I mean it. Somebody got so mad at me. I think there was a Pisces video where I used an analogy.

I'm big on analogies in case you haven't noticed. And I said something about like a symbiotic relationship between like the fungi that grow on trees and all the symbiotic relationships that exist. in the world and they just got banana pants mad at me and started screaming at me in the comments that how horrible I was and that Pisces is not a fungus and I was like oh you missed the point you missed the point this is I'm a storyteller I use metaphor I use poetry I use whatever pops into my limited brain but I try to use other terms to describe things is one of the things that sets my channel apart from everybody else's out there. I'm not a psychic and I'm not really reading tarot. I'm trying to tell a story by using the artwork and some of the archetypes.

But anyway, sorry about that little side note, but I just, I feel like I could be headed for some more wrathful comments about pigs and swine and I thought maybe I could nip it. Anyway, um, Interpretation is important and that comes up in this story also. This character is really hoping that Scorpio can move on from the memory of whatever was said in the past, whatever image, because this might have been why Scorpio and this person ended up breaking up because Scorpio might have said you're so freaking selfish, you're not lifting a finger, you're not doing anything what you think I'm just gonna give to you, you think you're the you know God's gift to the universe.

This could be a same-sex couple. It doesn't have to be, but we do have what appeared to be a very selfish queen of wands here who wasn't lifting a finger to help. And what they are hoping is that, oh, God, Scorpio viewed me in such an unfavorable light, and I really want them to move on from that perspective.

Maybe they did come across as selfish. Maybe they did do something that came across as lazy or uncaring or selfish. And we all have moments where we may look like that or even moments where we might be that for a fraction of a second. And we're like, oh, my God, I'm so sorry.

That was so selfish. This comes across like that is not who this character wants to be seen as. They want Scorpio to to move on from that perspective by actually coming in.

And and they don't like Scorpio thinking badly of them. They don't like it at all. Hopefully that isn't who they are.

Hopefully that was just that. one-off, that mistaken thing, but it certainly led to a big old breakdown. If they have realized that's how they came across, and they definitely know that, then this is their hope that they can change Scorpio's opinion. I'm hearing that sung by the killers.

And if your answer is no, can I change your mind? All right, I'm going to leave that there. Thank you so much for hanging out with me, guys. Thanks for giving it a thumbs up and subscribing. Lots of love.

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