Finding Balance: From Chasing to Chilling

Sep 6, 2024

Self-Obsessed Season 2 Episode 1: How to Stop Chasing and Start Chilling

Introduction

  • Welcome to Season 2 of Self-Obsessed.
  • Excitement about new episodes and engaging with the audience.
  • Announcement of first book, available for pre-order on Amazon, releasing on August 15th.

Main Topic: Stop Chasing Others

  • Key to becoming self-obsessed.
  • Discussing the concept of chasing: not just people but accomplishments, jobs, ideas, emotions, and self-concepts.
  • Chasing is ingrained but damaging, lowers vibration, and pushes manifestations away.
  • Aims to reset mindset from chasing to chilling.

Chapter 1: The Dangers of Chasing

  • Interference with Manifestation: Chasing shows desperation, influences the Law of Assumption negatively.
  • Lowers Vibration: Brings you to low emotional states like fear, shame, guilt.
  • Loss of Living in the Moment: Leads to attachment to future happiness, damaging mental health.
  • Conditions Self-Beliefs: Affects confidence and sense of worth.
  • Law of Attraction: Detachment is attractive; chasing shows neediness and insecurity.

Chapter 2: Mindset Shifts from Chasing to Chilling

  • Aligning Energy: Embody energy of already having what you desire.
  • Internal Source of Fulfillment: Confidence, love, success come from within, not externally.
  • Gratitude and Relaxation: Focus on the present and abundance.
  • Trust in the Universe: Belief that what is meant for you will find you.
  • Following the Heart vs. Head: Avoid fixating on dopamine highs and ego-driven pursuits.

Chapter 3: Lifestyle Shifts to Implement New Mindset

  • Rewire Subconscious Beliefs: Through repetition of thoughts and behaviors, affirmations.
  • Become the Energy: Align actions with desired state, eliminate scarcity mindset.
  • Eliminate Fear: Attempt new things to build confidence and eliminate fear.
  • Celebrate Small Wins: Match frequency of success by appreciating current achievements.
  • Journaling: Identify triggers, understand root causes, reframe beliefs.
  • Identify and Replace Triggers: Redirect attention from chasing to productive, fulfilling activities.

Conclusion

  • Encouragement to remain self-obsessed.
  • Appreciation for audience support.
  • Promotion of additional content on YouTube and social media.
  • Reminder to preorder the book.
  • Sign-off with a promise for the next episode.