Good morning parents, good morning students. So this will be your speaker for today. I will be Sir Ruben Aliduya and I will be discussing the need for netiquette for parents and students and why is it that manners matter when it comes to online learning.
So in today's world, we know that especially in education, We have shifted into online whether it would be we are attending virtual classes, submitting assignments through Google classroom or messaging our teachers and classmates. We are constantly interacting in digital spaces and we know that. At LyCU, we are using our LMS which is called Microsoft Teams and there's a question here As we or are we as mindful of our behavior online as we are in person? Do we still consider our manners even though we are the online classes?
Do we say please and thank you in a Zoom class? Or do we think before we comment on someone's posts? Do we really do that? Do we still think when we are commenting?
Or we just really comment our hearts out? without really considering others and also do we post everything online and all of those that is where netiquette comes in netiquette short for internet etiquette is the set of rules that governs how we behave respectfully and responsibly in the digital world and just like how we teach our children to say po and opo or to raise their hands in class and follow rules wherever they go, we as parents must also teach them how to show respect, kindness, and integrity online. This presentation that I will be presenting you today is a reminder that good manners does not really stop at the classroom doors, but they must also extend to the virtual classroom group chats and social media today we will explore why netiquette matters in online learning really matters and what are the respectful online behaviors looks like for both students and parents because as we know both of us really has this responsibility and what are the philippine laws other policies says about the digital responsibility that we have in a time when screens connects us more than ever teaching netiquette is not optional but it is really essential and important to all of us now let us begin okay so let us begin by defining a very important term netiquette netiquette is a short for internet plus etiquette this refers to the code of good manners and respectful behavior when we are online just like we are taught to say please and thank you in the face-to-face conversations engaging engagements and such netiquette teaches us how to behave properly in digital spaces whether it's in microsoft teams and other digital platforms, a group chat with classmates, or even posting on social media. The etiquette involves how we speak and interact online. So communication online is very important, how we speak, how we interact.
It is very important that we keep that positive tone and also prevent from using inappropriate words when it comes to online. another thing is do not communicate with uh all cops do not do not interact with your teachers and other classmates with uh all cops no so it it just uh shows you that uh you are mad no so it is very important that in communication we know how to speak to not use judge language when you are speaking with your teachers. while in online class it is very important that we know how to use words properly next another element or another important area that is involved in etiquette is privacy and safety it is on how we protect ourselves and others from harm so uh in the ebcb hand that we are facing our computer is we cannot harm others on our computer but We should always remember that the words that we are typing, the way that we react to their messages and all can harm others.
Some messages could leave them overthinking of what is the meaning of that particular message. Please be careful when it comes to messaging. It is very important that when you want to say something, say it politely. directly to you to your classmates without using any words the Hindi middle name yeah okay and then next is ethics no make we make sure that we do the right thing even though no one is watching so even though we are alone with our gadgets no we still make sure that the websites that we are browsing the content that we are watching are still um are still appropriate according to your ages so there are some studies that as early as young as seven eight years old most of those students on that particular bracket are exposed on uh inappropriate materials online because and I'm not in in empty our CB in free TV there is what we call this filtering or censorship the said government agency are telling us that this particular this particular film or movie is censored according to its content but on the internet it's on the other it is not the same on the internet there is no limit filter when it comes to the content no so depending on the houses or depending on the internet provider or the setup of your internet netiquette really is very essential for students for parents and teachers in online learning when we all follow netiquette we help create a safe Respectful and effective virtual classroom for everyone. Moving on to the next.
On this slide, we have why netiquette matters online. Now that we have already known what netiquette is, let's talk about why it matters. What really is important about learning this, especially in online learning. when students and parents practice good digital manners we create a positive online learning environment where everyone feels respected and heard now let us take a look at some of the key reasons why netiquette is so important first it promotes respectful digital classroom so even though we are in the digital space we need to still have this respect online even if it is just for saying good morning while listening or not opening your microphone while others are while others are speaking that is very important so listening to others speak and avoiding rude comments can go a long way in making the class a more comfortable and engaging for everyone hindi sila mahihiyang magsalita kasi walang bumabara sa mga sinasabi nila so respect in the physical classroom and respect in the digital classroom are the same okay let us not forget that next it prevents misunderstandings and conflict remember that we are in front of our computer and most of the time, we don't see it. yung mga mukha ng mga kausap natin online.
Remember that messaging through your computer is prone to misunderstanding and conflict. Without the tone or voice of that particular speaker, messages can easily be understood. So it is very important that we have to learn netiquette.
It teaches us to choose our words carefully and communicate clearly. Just like I have said earlier, it is very important that when we message someone online, huwag natin lagyan ng caps lock. Huwag din natin lagyan ng maraming exclamation point. Bakit?
Kasi it will be misunderstood by that someone. Especially kung tiktok yung kausap mo, diba? Do not use yung mga judge language.
Do not use, do not shorten words. but instead type the type the words in its full format for your teachers to understand your message swear third netiquette is important it is because it encourages safe and responsible use of technology no by following netiquette of course we became more aware of how to protect our data we can avoid harmful content and use technology for learning, not for distraction. So, responsible use of technology is very important. Kasi kung hindi naman ninyo gagamitin ng tama yung mga cellphone ninyo or gadgets, instead of your phones and gadgets being an asset to all of you, it could become a liability wherein there are so many consequences of irresponsible use of technology like computer addiction no so it could uh it could have an effect fourth it helps develop digital citizenship digital citizenship what do you mean by that it means using the internet in a way that is ethical respectful and productive so it is one of the key 24th century skills that our learners must have in them it is very important that we need to develop this digital citizenship kailangan nga natin ng manners sa labas. So, what more sa online?
No, we really need that. And lastly, it builds trust between teachers, students, and parents. So, having this netiquette really builds rapport between these three key elements when it comes to education. When everyone behaves respectfully and responsibly online, mas mapapadali sa atin ng collaboration. it will be also easy for us to support each other and focus on learning so use this technology very wisely as as a tool just like others said the technology is just like a two-edged sword wherein we can use it we can use that we can use the sword to fight others but also it can wound us as well so my backlash lahat ng mga sobra, lahat ng sobrang paggamit lahat naman ng sobra meron yun talaga silang consequences so here we need to learn etiquette, not just because we need to learn it it is not about rules it's about creating a better online experience not only for the students and teacher but also together with their parents okay so i hope that you are still following okay moving on to our next slide so what happens when etiquette is not practiced unfortunately we can see a lot of com a lot of conflicts and problems in this especially in the online spaces where there are no clear guidelines or when people forget to be respectful and responsible let's let's have this some common issues that may arise that may arise without netiquette first Bullying or toxic behavior, this is very, very, very common when it comes to the usage of technology, especially messaging apps and social media.
So without digital manners, some students may engage in hurtful comments, teasing, or even anonymous bullying. In the internet, it is very easy for you to hide your identity and even to steal. an identity from another people so for example there is no netiquette no or netiquette is not being applied no some people might use this for uh bullying others no so uh it may some people may engage in hurtful comments mga bagay na hindi mga bagay na nakakasakit lalala sa mga ibang learners natin so kaya one thing talaga na aking laging sinasabi sa mga students ko is that do not create a particular group chat na walang teacher lalala kulang teacher kasi ang nangyayari talaga is that a group chat without a teacher really creates chaos when it comes lalo na lang sa mga bata kasi malaya sila malaya sila makapag-usap walang sasaway sa kanila, walang pipigil sa lahat ng mga pinagsasabi nila. And this creates fear and anxiety for others, lalo na na yung mga young learners natin. Lalo na na na yung ibang learners natin na medyo sensitive when it comes to teasing, at saka nakakariling sila ng mga hurtful words, o nakakabasa sila ng ganun.
baka kapek din sa mental health ng ating mga learners next is sharing inappropriate content no so just like I said earlier in the coping up a good new master dance novel long well I'm well I'm teacher no why it is because some of this some of these students may use this group chats to share inappropriate content so some users may post things that are offensive What are the different offensive content? For example, the classmate, he pictured his classmate without the content. Then, he will give to the GC, then he will laugh at what he will say.
So, that is one example of that. Violent or simply not suitable for school environment. All of the things you think are not good content.
ay pwede nilang isend sa mga group chat na yan. So, let us be mindful of all those group chats lang na lang ng mga bata natin kasi kung hindi natin sila i-monitor, dyan magkakaroon ng bullying and sharing of inappropriate content. And this can distract others and sometimes even break the school rules and some of the policies of the school.
So, we have to be very careful lang na lang sa ating... mga batang hindi na ma-manage ang mga group chats okay next disrespect in online classes so for example uh siguro na experience naman natin yan nag-online class ng inyong mga anak nagtatanong si teacher walang sumasabot no so that is one form of this disrespect no so some some students may be chatting during lectures no using inappropriate language or even slang or even turning off the camera and not participating i am really encouraging our teachers to uh to tell our students that when in online class do not turn off their camera because when their cameras are off they can do everything that they want to do they can do ML, the ones who turned off the mic, turned off the camera so if that's gone, if no one is following them, they will do it again and again so with all of this, this shows a lack of engagement and respect for the learning space so it means when we do this, when we always allow to do this This shows lack of engagement and respect for the learning space. So just like we give importance to our physical classroom, it is very important also that we respect the online classes. okay next is invasion of privacy so uh in online in the digital space no the very easy nalang ang pag-invade ng ating mga privacy for example yung bilang ditong kanina taking pictures of your classmate without without their permission no and taking lalo lalo na ang isa pang problema dyan is taking screenshots of conversations ng mga studyante ng walang paalam. It is very important, guys, that first sa mga teachers, sabihin po natin sa mga bata na this online class is being recorded and also taking screenshots are prohibited.
Sabihin nyo na agad yung mga rules ninyo sa pagpasok pa lang ng mga bata sa online class. There are others who video their classmates when the camera is open and laugh beside the group chat. So those are some of the challenges that we sometimes see in the online space. Sharing private messages are all violations of personal boundaries and trust.
our end, they say our rights end the tip of the nose of the other people so it be sebeen Kapag one other time permits from that person in the nothing dapat Pinupost or she share your panel among our pictures. Okay, so also taking pictures of your important documents I know you my report cards Documents no are really really it is very it is also prohibited don't get it anymore, don't share your cards, your IDs on the internet, and all. Okay? So, next, always remember, before I go to that, always remember that you set your boundaries.
Next, overposting or sharing thing by parents. Parents, I know that you are very proud of your children. nino and i know also that ah if your child gets an award like certificates medals we tend to take a picture of them online especially certificates we don't know if we can take a picture of the certificates of our children there are permits from our school officials on our certificates and it's very important that you don't share as much as possible, the certificates, cards, and other important details of your children. So there are some cases where the mother oversharing what happened, even all the pictures of the child, sometimes, what is it called, sometimes even though there are other content creators, their children, the clothes, they are still filming their children sometimes, they are the ones who are filming them. while doing something without their children's consent.
Tandaan po natin, parents, that we need also our children's consent. Bago natin sila i-post, bago natin, alam mo yun, tanungin niyo yung mga anak ninyo anak. Okay lang ba, i-share ko to.
Okay lang ba, i-share ko yan. So baka mamaya, ma-i-share mo yung isang picture ng anak mo na alam mo yun. na hindi appropriate yung suot and all. And also, there are some AIs na pwede nang kopyahin yung mga mukha ng mga anak ninyo and attach sa ibang bodies that is being seen online. So it is very important for your parents na kayo din, tulungan nyo din po yung mga anak ninyo na protectahan ng mga sarili nila by not sharing things or oversharing ng lahat ng mga tungkol sa mga anak ninyo.
Okay? So, oftentimes, good naman ang intention natin. Pero, di ba, isipin din natin yung mararamdaman ng mga anak natin.
Mapapahiya sila. Ma-expose sila. At malalaki ang risk ng identity theft sa ating mga anak. And with all of this, all of this, these are some of the effects now well I will I'm well I'm not a cat and they apply sonosa is some they apply in a digital space right so all of this can harm the learning experience in damage relationships okay so that's why teaching and practicing netiquette is not optional it is necessary so remember all of that parents and kids okay moving on okay moving on now let us talk about what good netiquette looks like for students so students take a listen with this no so it is very important that we think to take notes on this and also so boy nothing okay number one let us be respectful so always meet your teacher in classmates no use the raise hand button before speaking in class and also avoid interrupting others while they are speaking so don't want nothing ugly in um Let's ask our classmates.
or we will make a side comment always be respectful clear let's open our cameras and let's open our microphones if needed next be mindful of the tone online just like I said earlier in online, other people will not hear your voice not loud, there's a huge you difference between face-to-face conversation and conversation online so we need to be mindful of the tone you need also to understand that you know typing in all cups no me lead to conflicts and misunderstanding also use your real name and clear photo to win nothing to meet in your momma pahala no momma be the lick that name of Allah not in one in time I'm gonna give them pictures nah he need a man that in Mocha okay now don't know nothing Microsoft teams it's very important that you use your real name and your picture as a part of my killer and I'm a teacher in your home I keep a agency teddy bear What you see here is anime. It is very important that you get to know your teachers. So, your pictures should be beautiful, you should be in uniform, your face should be in front of the camera, not side-viewed like an emo and like that.
Use your real name and clear photo. And this will help you, this will help your teachers recognize you and as well as, if all of you are wearing naka-picture ng maayos, you know, yung kita yung mga mukha ninyo and all. It could be, it is also for security reasons.
Kasi may kita ninyo, there is someone na habang nagli-lesson kayo, diba? Kapag may pumasok na iba, yung iba naman kasi hindi naglalagay ng picture and all, diba? So, pagpasok nung ibang intruder sa loob ng klase ninyo, agad nyo makaklassify yung intruder. Bakit? Kasi walang picture, hindi nyo kilala yung mukha, no?
so be mindful that you use your clear photo all right next mute when not speaking so hindi ka naman tinawag ni teacher or wala naman siyang tinatanong sayo and all pwede ka naman mag mute no ah ito pa pala special one one additional reminder also kung kayo ay pupunta sa cr no pag paalam kayo sa teacher ninyo open mag raise hand kayo then open your microphone say ma'am i go to the comfort room no and also when you go to the comfort room uh do not bring your devices with you okay so why it is for your own purposes or for your own safety also back at the seat when the cr cup my name my pin dot my own camera or not on the heat on na lahat ng mga hindi dapat makita. O diba? So, um, always remember napalm CR will the hidden among a phones solo of Nancy are no but but but because we see our Bumalik Nalansa oh sorry Nila Pagnyon in your devices safe yeah and policy in you and all okay so you're not speaking so keeping your mic off unless you're cold helps everyone focus no teacher long in the religion the account okay so next dress and behave properly so when you dress properly it is very important that we have to dress properly because Some of you, when you're in online class, the clothes, the ones with sandals, like some of you, they're still wearing a shirt, especially some men, they don't have any top-on clothes, they're wearing sandals and all, they'll take pictures, they don't have any clothes, they'll just show half of their faces.
So, behave properly also. So, avoid, avoid first the other things inabang nasa online class because the teacher will see it especially if you are an open cam submit work honestly so you need to submit your work especially the quizzes there are some teachers who forget to set their microsoft teams they forget to set that they should yung sagot hindi nila makikita right away dapat mag-check muna si teacher bago nila makita yung sagot okay, so gamitin ninyo, lalo na kids gamitin ninyo ang inyong mga isipan lalo na sa pagdating alam nyo, daw dyan challenge naman yung, alam nyo yun hindi na nakaka-challenge yung paongopya kasi lago nyo ng ginagawa, so ano yung challenge ngayon, so you have to challenge yourself to answer honestly kasi mas mahirap yan, no? you have to depend on yourself and your skills para makasagot kayo sa lahat na mga kailangan ninyong sagutin okay po so pwede naman kayo gumamit ng ai so pwede naman gumamit ng ai di naman pinagbabawal yan pero syempre limitahan nyo lang no use ai for checking but do not depend on answers ng ai okay so kasi kung mag-ai na lang din kayo ano pang matututunan ninyo okay so so Use your own prowess. Gamitin ninyo yung inyong own thinking skills because it is an integral part of learning.
Okay? So next, moving on. Now, let us move on with the netiquettes for parents.
So, parents, it is very important kasama kayo ng school at ng mga teachers. in molding and shaping your children. Napakalaki ng inyong role.
Kasi bakit? Sabi nga nila, di ba? Family is the place wherein dyan unang lumaki o dyan mas matagal mag-stay ang inyong mga anak. So whatever the values that they have, it is a reflection still on the way that the parents raise their children and a reflection also of their family. okay first be a role model parents let us be a role model to our children Sabi nga ng kasabihan, lahat daw ng ginagawa ng matatanda ay tama sa paningin ng mga bata so ang tendency is that children will imitate our actions so show respect when we post online create a safe environment pag tayo ay gumagamit online especially in social media kung ano yung mga pinagpo-po-post nyo po dyan what kind of content ang mga pinagpo-post ninyo online more likely gagayahin po yan ng inyong mga anak okay next limit oversharing no so dapat nga alam na natin to okay so posting too many updates about your child's online learning or achievements might embarrass them gaya na sabi ko kanina you need to remember also that our children, we also need to ask them if it's okay for them to post their pictures and certificates because there are those that are signed there, so let's not post those and also let's not post their cards, I know I said earlier that you are very proud with your children because they are able to do things that they are already good at Napakabilis lumaki ng mga bata ngayon.
Di ba? Nangigindihan naman po natin yan. Pero, kung isishare na natin lahat tungkol sa anak natin, mawawalan ng privacy yung ating mga anak. Next is support without hovering. Subisubihin, we support our child.
Pero, digyan din naman natin sila ng space para ma-develop silang maging independent. And with their digital confidence. First of all, let's trust our children.
It is very important that you guide your child. But let's not be O.A. So, we've already told them everything they need to know.
We don't need to keep them on the side when we're going to post on Facebook. Of course, how can we chat with them? How can we message them? Because you'll tell your children, even if you type, Oh, wrong, wrong, wrong. So, support without hovering.
Let's not tell them, like, You know, let's not surveillance them in all their actions because it will lose their confidence. So communicate with teachers respectfully. Use if you have a group chat, don't use that. Parents, if you have a group chat with the advisors and other parents, don't use that to sell, promote.
So let's use that. so that we can monitor the academic performance of our children communicate with the teachers respectfully don't message our teachers beyond office hours you can email your teacher you can go to your teachers personally but do not or avoid publicly calling out teachers or other parents online don't call them tawagan every now and then. So, siya teacher, meron din silang personal space, may pamilya din yan.
So, let us be mindful of all the things na kailangan ating sabihin kay teacher. And also, avoid intervening during live classes. I know, I know parents na alam mo yun, gustong gusto nyo samahan ng inyong mga anak sa lahat ng mga gagawin nila sa buhay kahit na pag-aaral, gusto nyo makita na nag-aaral talaga ang inyong mga anak. Pero mga mommy and daddy, let us remember that kapag nagkaklasi yung anak ninyo, huwag naman po kayong sasagot in behalf of your children.
Bakit? Kasi paano nyo pong malalaman kung natututo ang inyong mga anak kung kayo na po ang sasagot ng mga tanong ni teacher. Okay? So, baka po mamaya ang mangyari yan.
You will be the one who will be given the teacher's grade. Why? Because you are the one who likes to answer.
Right? So, it means, let's let our children answer when they are called. If they don't answer, it's okay. Okay? So, parents, that's all.
Avoid intervening during live class hours. Let's not let our children be embarrassed online. Okay? Later. Tina one young an acne new tapas indina Sagot no, I don't know.
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I'm you to some on a new a NASA online class so Just help your children. Don't shout, Hi! This is how it is!
Buy this! Buy that! Buy this! Classmates will hear you.
Teachers will hear you. You are also the one who embarrassed your children. Pedro, buy some vinegar. Pedro, buy yourself some vinegar. Your mom is angry.
So, let's limit, mami and daddy, our intervention while they're in online classes. If you have an order or if you're angry, control your feelings and finish the online class. Because why? You're the one who will be embarrassed. You're the one who will be embarrassed.
Your child will be more embarrassed. control in the opponent you know you must really know while my classify my nothing okay okay moving on to the next okay so next and then in the here in this next slide here the Philippines promoting netiquette is not just a suggestion it is supported by the Department of Education and some of the national laws now so here are some memos and loss that has been in the Philippines not to support net ticket not first we have the DepEd memo 005 series of 2021 so this memo This DepEd Memo outlines the responsible use of social media among DepEd personnel, encouraging professionalism and online decorum. And also, we have also the DepEd Memo 005 Series of 2023, which states the Safer Internet Day for Children, which promotes digital citizenship, safety, and respectful internet use among learners and family. Next, we also have the Anti-Bullying Act, part of the cybercrime.
Cyberbullying is now recognized and penalized in schools. So, to parents and students, if you have read your handbook, you know that bullying is not only on the personal or the face-to-face side, but we also have what we call the Anti-Bullying Act, which covers the... sending you the message no capital demand on bottom and bullish in all parts in the new message but but the house a union and about the bank power no pang the down second yeah mama yeah all of those are examples at Pasok's a cyberbullying so this law reminds us that bullying online is just as serious as face-to-face next man amount I own RA 10175 or the Cybercrime Prevention Act. So this law covers cyber libel. Cyber libel is the saying of anything online.
Identity theft. When someone steals the identity of another person. For example, when using his name, when using his picture, when using his ID online. I told you earlier.
report cards, ID, don't take pictures because they can be taken online next, hacking, child exploitation, there are news about it parents who are taking their children online so it's very important that we know the boundaries students and parents should know that harmful online behavior has legal consequences hindi lang yung mga personal crimes ang or yung mga face the crimes committed uh on the face to face ang merong punishment but also crimes that committed using your computers your digital devices those are also uh regulated by the law no and these laws and policies reminds us that digital behavior matters because all of these are regulated by our laws okay next let's have the next one okay so in this slide I will be giving you an acronym no which is think before you post no though the the acronym here is the word think no for students okay so I guess you know or hindi na din natin. to apply through posting but also through giving comments on how we communicate with others and all no so i i hope that this simple tool help you students in practicing your netiquette online so before you send a message to someone before you post Ita no more monas a saline mo it on think okay first is it true to Toba it on Post mo next is it helpful no no Patulumba young post na yan, okay, no, I told him what could be the purpose of that post Are you going to help someone are you going to give information or? It's just a part of vanity now gusto mong gawin next is it inspiring no so most of the time diba sabi nga nila social media also is one source of depression to some individuals no bakit kasi nakikita nila na nakikita nila na lahat ng mga mga gandang bagay pinopost natin online diba and that arouses our jealousy bakit tayo hindi ganyan we compare ourselves to them no So, is it really inspiring? Will it inspire others?
And next, letter M, is it necessary? Kailangan mo ba? Anong kailangan mo bang i-post yan? Like, talagang kailangan-kailangan? We need to determine if that post or comment is necessary.
And is it kind? Is your post kind? Will it uplift other person's spirit? If the answer to all of these questions are no, then it's better not to post. okay so think before you share your message someone and all so applying this habit protects both you and others from misunderstanding and harmful con uh harmful content okay next on the next side we have safe for digital parenting this is now for the side of the parents okay So for parents, ito ang pinakamadali nating tandaan, yung acronym na SAFE.
Number one, you set boundaries. So kayo ang parents sa loob ng bahay na yan. So you have all the authorities over your children. Kayo ang magbigay ng boundary on your children, gano'ng katagal niyo siya. Tawag dito, gano'ng katagal siyang gagamit ng cellphone.
Kailan lang siya gagamit ng cellphone. what are the applications that you can use what are the websites that you can visit it's in your hands parents so you can also fix your routers wherein you can limit the access to some of the websites all the power is in your hands inside the house but of course if you're going to set boundaries you need to remember na yung alam yun, huwag niyong masyadong higpitan yung mga anak ninyo. Kasi syempre, baka isipin ang mga anak ninyo, la unfair, yung ibang mga ano ko, yung ibang classmate ko, nagagamit nila yung cellphone nila hanggang alas 12 ng madaling araw, tapos ako hindi. So, when you set boundaries, you need to explain to them bakit niyo ginagawa yung pagsiset ng boundaries.
kasi baka sabihin nila bakit si ganito, bakit si Pedro, bakit si Juan bakit pwede silang mag-ML kahit may pasok, bakit ako hindi okay, so explain nyo sa kanila bakit nyo yung nagsiset ng boundaries ano ang dahilan and what will be your goal so kailangan may agreement kayo with your children na ganito lang, ganito lang and syempre Don't use it as punishment to get their gadgets in all because there are other kids there who got their gadgets like it's disappearing in all So, assess your children because you are the ones who know them Next, ask your children regularly about their online experiences Ask them what are your favorite websites, right? Just like a survey. Because if our child feels that they're already being investigated, that's going to be hidden. So, tell your child, what are your favorite websites to go to? I also, those are the ones I go to.
So, for example, Facebook, what are the things you like to watch, son? Are you politically inclined like Papa? That's it. Ask your children. Make them comfortable to tell you about their online experiences.
And if ever we have people that our children say that it's not good, explain to them. Explain to them. We're just here, son. We can't go straight to that website because of this.
Because of that. explain, laging explain sa mga bata kasi hindi pa nila naintindihan yung iba dyan. Follow up. Follow up on their online activity with open and honest communication. Pwede natin silang tanungin about their online activities by opening an honest conversation.
Anak, ano ba? Kamusta? Meron ka namang mga ganito? Meron ka namang mga ganyan?
Sino-sino mga kinakausap mo? So try to ask them that question. question and also make them comfortable na makipag-usap sa inyo. Like yung konting sasabihin pa lang ng anak ninyo, pinapagalitan nyo na kagad.
Or the other parent, we know that they also have their child's Facebook. They also open it. So remember, mommies, I know that your children are important to you.
But you should remember that our children also need privacy. Not all things should be there. that parents know about so let's just limit the things that we are authorized to take from our children or what is it to our children and also let us educate by example so you have to practice what you preach If for example, this is the set that you made, this is the rules that you made, you need to practice what you preach. You need to see that you are firm when it comes to the rules that you give.
And also, your child will see it and say, don't post things on TikTok online. And you, share it, like it. So, how can your child believe you? Try to practice what you preach.
Kung ano yung mga content na gusto mong i-share ng anak mo, gawin mo muna. Okay? So, safe parenting, I say this to all of you, parents, safe parenting is not about spying. No?
It's about guiding your child to grow into a responsible, digital citizen. No? Hindi natin kailangan bantayan.
to the point na ini-spia na natin sila. Hindi natin minsan namamalayan na ispia na pala natin sila, na aapakan na natin yung boundaries, na nag-overstep na tayo sa mga boundaries. So it is all about your guiding your child.
It is all about guiding them, telling them na hindi to tama, and raising them up to become a responsible digital citizen. So we will be moving on to the next. Sana po naiintindihan natin. So moving on, parents, what schools and families can do together?
So it is very important. Schools, families, and parents, stakeholders, and communities around us need to work together for our learners. Sabi nga nila, it takes a village to raise a child. no so uh also in this part no what are the things that our school our school community and families can do together in promoting netiquette no as a team between home and school first we have to create a family agreement or family online agreement with rules everyone agree agrees to follow so sa loob ng inyong mga kabahayan, dapat meron kayong online rules and regulations.
Okay? Parents, I remind you na, kayo na po ang magbigay ng lahat, kayo na mag-set ng rules niyan. No? Pero, syempre, you have to still consult your children. Kasi, minsan, ano, diba?
Case-to-case basis naman yan. For example, they don't have a day off. Maybe they can play for half a day. Right? To reduce their stress.
Right? We know our children, right? They just play their avenue to release their stress.
Okay? Next, attend cyber safety or digital literacy programs offered by schools or deaf ed. So, if there are digital literacy programs, cyber safety... program na ilalabas ang school, pwede po kayong umaten together with your children.
Kasi bakit? This will be a good opportunity for both student and parent para matutunan kung ano-ano nga ba ang mga digital literacy programs na pwede nilang salihan together. Okay?
Also, designate a tech-free zones or hours like during meals or bedtime. So, Very important po ito. Mag-designate po tayo ng mga tech-free zones or mga oras na hindi talaga sila pwedeng humawak ng kanilang mga gadgets. For example, bago sila habang kumakain sila. So, why do we need to regulate the gadgets while they are eating?
It is because they can't eat properly. They can't eat their food anymore. Or even worse, they will eat for a long time on their table.
And it will become their habit while they are eating. So, some of us are like that. They can't eat without a mobile phone.
Why? Mama's the Caliban cousin kumain kapag meron nakikita or the really legal sound for example so Bago matulog no mama me can Mommy and Daddy no no no yet. I'm at a man.
I'm not back it it is because How about the name of a cell phone in a bag of matulong no so it's very important that before they sleep Manana my gadget in a medium Malaya. No you know you're in second. I'm okay So it is very important also na, kasi importante ba, dapat tabunat yung mga charger kasi dagdag kuryente pa yan, diba? So maglagay kayo ng mga hour na wala talaga kayong hahawakan gadget and all.
Mamasyal kayo sa napas, no? Go to church together, mamasyal, no? Sabihin nyo sa mga bata ninyo na wala muna tayong gadget this day. Maglalaro tayo, magsisimba, mamasyal.
Kasi ang nangyayari kapag for example kasama natin yung lahat ng members of the family natin tapos saharap tayo sa lamesa. Diba ano nangyayari? Kumakain lang din tayo pero nakatingin din tayo sa mga cellphone natin.
So this is very important. Dapat tech free. yung mga family bonding natin. Next, encourage open communication so children can share online problems without fear. So, ibig sabihin, encourage natin yung mga anak natin na maging open sa inyo.
So, kayo din naman talaga ang parents na tatakbuhan ng mga anak natin, lalo na kung may problema sila. So, report kung meron agad, kung merong mga problems, i-report nyo agad sa OSA, i-report ninyo sa mga advisors and all. And lastly, teach children how to report harmful content or behavior online safely. So, ibig sabihin kapag may mga problema sila online, sabihin mo sa kanila, parents, sabihin mo sa mga anak ninyo kung sino yung dapat kontakhin.
Pwede kayong mag-contact sa mga advisors, sa strandhead, o sa vice principals and other key persons inside the campus. Okay? So, let us remember that when parents... In schools, work together, students are safer, more responsible, and better equipped to thrive online.
We can also boost their confidence when using the online platforms that they prefer to use. So, moving on, on our next slide. Okay, parents, teachers, and students. To wrap everything up, on this last slide, netiquette teaches us that manners matter even online.
I emphasize that because we might forget that a good way of speaking is not just face-to-face. But we also need to have that online. Why?
Because it helps us build respectful digital spaces. Just like the saying goes, respect begets respect. At huwag natin gawin sa iba yung ayaw natin naggawin nila sa atin. So when we respect others, we consider their boundaries, we consider and set boundaries, mas maiintindihan natin sila.
And magkakaroon tayo ng much safer and more conducive learning environment. online next netiquette also teaches us to avoid conflicts and bullying so alam natin kung saan i-apply or kung paano i-apply ang netiquette no conflicts and bullying can be managed so ang bullying and conflict hindi yan mawawala 100% no hindi yan mawawala no alcohol nga hindi nakaka 100% diba so We will not lose it, but by starting to educate your children, that is a big help. So that conflicts and bullying can be avoided.
Next, encourage safe and smart use of technology. Help them, guide them with the safe and smart use of technology. Tell them that they don't have to click any links.
Don't give information to people you don't know. If someone adds to you, don't add or accept. Especially if you don't know them. no remove friends online and you know my telegraph personally personally no no and also be careful with linking your phones online saying you monga facebook accounts okay and most important importantly i mean develop digital citizens no so um one aim or the the aim of netiquette really is to develop digital citizens who are ready for the future okay So parents, students, and teachers must or needs to work together to make our online classroom not just productive but also positive and respectful places to learn.
Remember that how we value our personal or physical classrooms, we don't write it down. We don't leave it dirty. Pinapatayin natin ng aircon pag aalis tayo.
Inaayos natin ng upuan. We greet the teacher when they come in. Hindi natin sinasaktan yung mga kaklase natin online. We also do that on the digital space. Hindi natin sila sasaktan through words.
Hindi na natin sila lolokohin by stealing their identities. Hindi na natin sila paglalaruan. hindi natin sinakukuha ng picture at isi-send sa GC hindi tayo sasagot kapag hindi tayo tinatanong mag-open tayo ng camera ibibigay natin yung totoong maglalagay tayo ng picture na maayos on our LMS gaya ng Microsoft Teams okay? so with all of that I thank everyone for the opportunity thank you for letting me speak and share this guide and netiquette to students and parents as well now so I hope that after this talk you will be more responsible when it comes to your usage of devices so my website's upon timing you you will be more careful of that and And I really hope that through this.
talk no I was I will be able to share to you that netiquette and the value the importance of netiquette in our daily life important to see our own put a nagee engage online our own put a new magamit now cell phone and with all of this I think all of you for taking time in listening to this small talk and I do hope that you learned a lot from this thank you And let's all be alive.