you trying to be hot in life with hot I do not mean beautiful I mean hot as in your aura your mindset your charisma you can attract people like no tomorrow you can close business deals like no tomorrow because you just have that aura and people want to do things for you I think we all know like for example let's say guys okay is very attractive guy but you feel like you know what they don't have they're not hot like I'm not attracted to them and then you think like why because it's their Aura being hot is a mindset being hot is charisma it's an aura you cannot it's not mostly physical and I've known people in my life that were not crazy good-looking but the way they acted like literally you wanted to be on the floor bowing down and being like I want to do anything for you cuz literally you are this video I will show you how to be your hottest version of yourself hi guys my name is this and welcome back to my channel okay let's get into it first things first a hot person does not Chase they attract why is this a hot person knows that they are whole by themselves and that they are abundant beings in every aspect they will always attract money they will always attract love they'll always attract attention adoration it doesn't matter because that is what they give to themselves a hot person when they are broke they don't sit around and be like oh my God I'm broke oh my God so sad no they go out and find a way to make money because they will provide that for themselves and it's easy and it will come to them a hot person when they feel don't feel good about themselves they don't sit there rotting in their bed all day thinking like oh my God I'm such a loser oh no they go and do something about it they think like okay how can I figure this out what can I do blah blah so they're constantly in this mindset of like how can I make myself better and I'm good right now but if I don't feel good how can I make it better nothing in this world or in this universe is too much for you and you know that so when you know that you don't have to be desperate for things and that's why a hot person is not desperate now a non-hot person yeah they will be desperate and they will be chasing for example if someone doesn't want them they like chase them even more because they think that if this person doesn't want me that means I'm not good enough no if this person doesn't want you you let them go because someone else will come and someone better will come because you aren't abundant being and that's what a hot person believes about themselves a hot person knows that this is my world this is my life and it's going to be the best one I have it's I'm going to enjoy this life I'm going to live my best life and God is going to help me with that another things a hot person knows what they want and they do not settle for anything less so they have a very clear mind of okay this is what I want in life this is what I want to go and this is what I want to achieve any person or or any job or any opportunity that doesn't match that goal gets rejected by the hot person why because they will be a hassle for the hot person to get to their goal and they don't want that we don't want to waste time for example me I want a certain lifestyle okay I want a certain lifestyle so I will not date people or I will not be with people that cannot provide me with that lifestyle does that mean I'm crazy or I'm a gold digger or whatever no because I provide myself with money I have literally everything I want and if a man cannot give me more than I already have or he can add to what I have why is he there why am I dating someone it doesn't it doesn't make sense to me if a person does not make you happier uh more loved or even wealthier why are you there I I don't I don't get it like if it if it's not growing you then why are you there a lot of people they go into relationships or they get into situations and then they settle for something and then they end up their whole life complaining about that they settled but why did you settle though if you knew that you were abundant and you can have anything you want in this life then why did you settle cuz at this point you have to blame yourself you have to be like damn girl like I got to get out of here this not what I want why do people settle for things that they don't want like why do you guys always act like oh my God this life we need to compromise constantly this and that let the people that want to compromise let them compromise but if you want something in life if you want even the biggest things what does it matter God gave us abundance what does it matter H person is authentically themselves authenticity is the highest vibration there it's even higher than love okay when you are vibrating on an authentic level you attract everything because you're not afraid to be who you are and you're unapologetically yourself that's the highest form of confidence and people will be drawn to you like no tomorrow when you are doing something whether it's following a trend whether putting some content out there whatever you're doing when you are doing that ask yourself does this feel comfortable am I comfortable with what I'm doing when when that's a yes then you know that you're acting authentically when that's a no it's not for you that's not good don't do that because the more you do things that don't align with who you are other people will feel that vibration and you come across very insecure see I've done very cringey things online offline I've done very cringey things do I feel embarrassed for them no because that is authentic myself do I think it's cringy and funny yes but it's not embarrassing another thing is comments cannot shake you a hot person is like this comments come in bye comment go bye you should never care a hot person is very confident and grounded within themselves they know who they are they know how they behave they know what they did and why they did that okay so whenever you say something to them to insult them to Humble them to bring them down it's it's like a compliment it cannot do anything like for me for example when I get like pure hate you know not even critian like pure hate like this like you're stupid whatever I'm like oh my God like you're obsessed with me that's what I think like you're obsessed with me I don't think like you're you're like hate me or whatever I think like oh you're so obsessed that you really wanted to bring me down cuz you saw something in me didn't you you know like I feel like insulting me doesn't work cuz I have such a high self image of myself that I literally think that I'm a walking goddess so whenever someone says something even like about my looks and stuff I think like oh my God that's so sad that like you're projecting literally because there's no way that I'm not literally a walking goddess a hot person is busy with self-care listen if you care about yourself and about your appearance other people will treat you the same way if you don't care and you walk around sluggish literally looking like you just came out of bed rotting there for 10 days yeah people will treat you the same way who would respect someone that looks like they don't respect themselves tell me tell me right now who you have to see Life as a game and the way you step out in this world or in this video game is how you will be treated by the rest it's honestly fun to do it's like fun to do like change up your looks change up your style from time to time whatever you want to do that person listens to their feelings first so they always think like let's say for example someone invites you somewhere and you think do I want to go yes or no if you don't want to go you don't go that's it plain simple and you decline the invitation why do you do that because if you say yes when you want to say no you will go and you'll feel miserable there then you'll start to hate yourself for saying yes then you'll start to be angry at yourself and that way you become disconnected from yourself and you can't act out of authenticity anymore because you saying yes when you wanted to say no was already not being authentic people people respect people that know what they want in life and that act on it they respect people like that they admire them even because everyone wishes that they could be like that another thing is a hot person is not a hater it's like if you're a hater you have a lack mindset so you get jealous uh for other people's stuff you get jealous for the way they look for what they have whatever but if you had an abundant mindset you would know that you can get that too you can have that too and that's why they're not haters because a hot person knows you know what I have everything and if I see something that I want that another person has I can get that too I get inspired I'm like okay let me get that as well you know it's not bad to feel like jealous or feel like oh my God like I wish I was as pretty as her I wish I had as much money as her but then that's good you know that's motivation so think about yourself okay how can I get more beautiful what can I change about myself or okay how can I get more money what can I I do to make more money use it as inspiration don't demonize yourself for it and don't be a hater get what they have if they could get it if I could do what I did right and if I could accomplish what I did then you can too if another person on this Earth has done it then you can do it too so easy like literally what person knows that they deserve the best treatment um I deserve the best treatment in life because I treat people very well the same things I require I also give okay so I in my whole life even when I had nothing I always thought you know what I'm going to be treated the best I'm going to be treated like a queen and that's always what I attracted because that's just what I deserve why would I think to myself life is meant to struggle or I want to struggle with people I don't want to struggle not on my own not with people and if God made this Earth so abundant and if God made billionaires trillionaires then why am I asking for too much I'm not asking for too much whatever I am asking for is not even enough like a lot of times even when we ask God for things we don't ask for big enough things we ask for such small things when the universe is so abundant like look around you H person knows that they don't need anyone okay you don't need them but you want them like for example me I don't need a partner to be honest I could live my whole life now and I can just be on my own and I would be honestly fine I think even having a partner is a bigger hassle than not having having want okay cuz I have everything already but do I want it yeah I do want it why not because it might be fun and because maybe you know I can learn some things about relationships and love so it's nice it's nice to have do I need it am I desperate for it no because I'm not desperate I always attract people very easily when I want it because it's like oh yeah okay let's have it oh yeah okay let's have this I'm like this okay like a butterfly M okay okay this goes back to the desperation thing if you're desperate for anything in life honey honey everything will run away from you stop being desperate they don't text you back okay bye someone else will text me uh they don't give you this okay bye someone else will give you like you guys need to start thinking there's so many people on this Earth that you will find the connection with people people are literally amazing and you can find so many that you connect with but you have to change though if you don't like your situation what you're in right now then the only thing that is not changing is you because if you were changing your situation would change your surroundings would change but the reason why nothing is changing is because of you and it's okay to look yourself in the mirror and be like you know what my life is because I'm allowing these people to be around me like one and a half month ago I was literally at Rock Bottom again and why because I was allowing people in my life that I did not like that I was like constantly just allowing in my life because I felt bad for them or I felt like they need to go but I didn't know how to do that that right but guys the minute the minute I let go of this person I swear I've never I'm shocked by how my life is changing if you guys thought that my life the way I changed it around up until now was impressive what I'm about to have now is like crazier even and I'm shocked and that just shows me like God is constantly blessing me but if I don't listen to God and when he tells me Let Go L and I'm not letting go then my life goes to so start listening start looking at the signs you don't need to settle the minute you let go of that thing that is holding you down of that person of that job that is holding you down you will get something so much more beautiful every single time in life this is what happened with me every time I let go of something that I was really scared of letting go of when I let it go I swear not even a week later I get a whole new life in front of me but that's because you show God like I trust you I trust you and when you have faith in the Divine when you have faith in the universe your life will flow like this you won't even have to do anything literally your life will Flow by itself you'll open your eyes and you'll back down like whoo how did this even happen you won't even realize also you do not give more than you receive if people cannot reciprocate the effort that you give or even give you more out of appreciation then that's not your people okay I am done going above and beyond for people I am never doing that again okay I'm and I'm talking like energy wise because I give a lot of energy time spent all these things but whilst I was doing that giving away all my energy I was being left depleted and I was going downhill why because these people are getting better they're getting all of their success but I'm getting worse because I am putting them ahead of myself but I'm meant to shine I was meant to shine the whole time that's why that's my energy but because I kind of want to push other people to the Forefront I get punished for it know a lot of times you guys also create karma for yourself by basically coming in between people's lessons and I needed to learn this massively okay so basically I had this thing for example let's say someone does something to you yeah they do something to you very abusive or whatever and when you don't let go of that person they cannot learn the lesson that they were meant to learn from what they did to you so because you feel bad for them and you hold on what happens is the lesson that they were meant to learn and the karma that they were meant to have comes to you because now you're standing in between their lessons and you cannot do that from an energetic sense you need to let people go through their suffering through their lesson so they can learn when you come in between you will be the one suffering you know when to stand up for yourself see a hot person always knows when they need to speak up for themselves and they are not quiet if something hurts hurt you if someone did something offensive to you call them out on it be like hey I didn't like that hey why did you say that hey what what did that joke mean huh what were you trying to say with that joke tell me cuz you think it you think it's so funny right to make fun of me but explain why why is it funny why is it funny to you put people on the spot in the moment the more you do this the less people will play with you also the less resentment you will have for people and for yourself when you don't speak up for yourself your inner child doesn't feel safe with you so when your inner child doesn't feel safe the more this goes on it will start to act up and you will almost feel like I'm fighting against myself then it builds up it builds up and then you just explode because there's so much resentment at this point right no speak up in the moment hey I didn't like that hey don't tell me that hey don't call me that no you will never speak to me like that again in the moment doesn't matter who it is doesn't matter who it is never ever let anyone talk down on you you don't have to be rooted about it you don't have to be aggressive about it but in the moment make sure that when someone disrespects you you call them out on it hot person always keeps growing and keeps working on themselves see I see myself as a lifelong project I will learn throughout this life always and I will take if I can people on my journey with me I don't know all the answers and I will never have all the answers okay but what I can do is just keep growing and stop stagnating in a way if I'm stagnant and if I feel like this is just not growing me anymore then I'm not meant to be there that's my sign that I'm not meant to be there cuz as Souls we're constantly meant to evolve that's how the universe works right like the leaves on the tree they constantly change the seasons they change we also constantly need to keep moving keep changing keep growing it's when people feel like they are not going anywhere anymore or they don't have any goals anymore that's when they feel the most stuck and depressed and anxious everything because the soul is not growing anymore you are a lifelong project you will never arrive there will always be something more and something more beautiful that will open up in your life but be ready to receive it and be open to receive it don't fear change change is the only way you grow also a hot person accepts when they receive something they accept it okay this is one of the biggest ways that God and the universe can bless you by giving you stuff whether it's true people whether in whatever way okay I for example I just had this something with like a waitress I really love this woman okay and I always give tips and stuff and then today her like uh money and she came out crying and she's like I cannot accept this money she's like that's way too much and I was like I also started crying because I'm literally I cry when people cry but then I was like you have to receive I was like maybe God or whoever sent me to help you because that was your prayer that you needed help so when you don't accept that from me you're denying what you asked for a lot of times God and universe works in very mysterious ways people come up to you people give you something I had it in my life people like weird things that people would come up and give me money if I had asked for money but had I not accepted that mean that I was denying God and I was denying the the blessing and privilege that I got so I explained that to her I said whenever someone gives something to you just they give it to you because they want to help you always accept it because that's also how you're showing God and the universe that you're willing to be abundant that you're willing to get in life also a hot person appreciates their beauty I feel like the minute I turned 25 I just turned 25 um a couple months ago and when I just turned 25 that's the first time in my life that I actually recognize my beauty now and I can actually look at myself and be like wo I'm really beautiful and I mean it okay all the years before I kind of felt like I kind of knew I was beautiful but not extremely beautiful or not like it wasn't really in my mind okay and then I would look back like a year later on pictures that I took a year before and I would think like oh why did I not appr appreciate my beauty I used to be so beautiful back then but then I started feeling sad for my younger self cuz I was like I never really appreciated the way that I look or I never really believed it fully that I looked good people used to always say like when you're 30 as a woman that's the age where you're like the most confident and beautiful as well and I used to always never think that I I would really fear like aging and growing up but I can honestly say the minute I turned 25 I feel like my this through the roof like through the roof and I just now am excited to like get older get wiser because I feel like it's only up from here like it's only going to get better and the same goes for you anything you set your mind to will happen but you have to set your mind to it you have to have a goal you have to fall in love with yourself that's the most important thing liking your own energy liking yourself and truly truly loving yourself is the most beautiful energy anyways guys I hope you learned something from this video and yeah I hope you like this video and yeah I love you guys so much this is what I learned it's a heart love you guys I see you the next video bye-bye