Creating a family-focused dining journey

Oct 7, 2024

Lecture Notes: A Personal Journey to Building a Unique Restaurant

Introduction

  • The speaker is the owner of a place called Han Oak in northeast Portland.
  • Unconventional entrance and layout, with a hidden backyard and garage space serving as dining and kitchen areas.

Blending Family and Business

  • The business is run from home, intertwining family life with work.
  • Initially struggled with the concept of a traditional restaurant.
  • The initial staff included friends and family.
  • Emphasis on community and space over conventional business models.

The "Place First" Concept

  • Focus on creating an environment rather than following a traditional business model.
  • Contrast with traditional business approaches that focus on the product first.

Speaker's Background

  • Graduated from the University of Oregon in 2001.
  • Moved to New York and incidentally started cooking in a high-end restaurant.
  • Progressed over ten years from tray chef to head chef, including being an executive chef at a Michelin-starred restaurant.
  • Experienced the repetition of "Groundhog Day" in high-stress environments.

Realization and Transition

  • Witnessed chefs apologizing for neglecting family at a major culinary awards ceremony.
  • Personal guilt and awareness of missing family time.
  • Mother's stage 4 breast cancer diagnosis prompted a return to Portland.
  • Decision to prioritize family over career.

New Vision and Business Model

  • Desire to open a restaurant integrated with family life.
  • His wife suggested combining workspace with the family home.
  • Aimed to avoid traditional restaurant pitfalls and create a family-centric environment.
  • Found a place through Craigslist with the help of an understanding real estate developer.

Building Han Oak

  • Converted space into a restaurant with limited initial resources.
  • Focus on organic growth and family capability.
  • Created a family-focused restaurant providing time for family and special occasions.
  • Ongoing evolution with new projects like a ceramics studio.

Reflections and Advice

  • Focus on environment more than business model.
  • Four key points for budding entrepreneurs:
    1. Dedicate time and work for a strong foundation.
    2. Learn from a variety of environments, good and bad.
    3. Create a place where you want to be.
    4. Aim to build a place that feels like home.
  • Success achieved by prioritizing a supportive and inclusive space over a standard restaurant model.

Conclusion

  • Emphasis on gratitude rather than apology.
  • The journey and space created with family values at the center have been more valuable than traditional accolades.