so it seemed that my prom date and stood me up so Ross selflessly offered to take me what a nice story so Ross was in college and decided to jump at the chance to take a young girl to her high school prom Wow I definitely did not see that one backfire yeah take your time no I was a freshman and she was a senior so it wasn't it as bad as look I know I've been giving you a lot of jabs and it's partly because I'm very protective of Lizzy and finally because well it just keeps coming to me I have to admit that after all the wonderful things Lizzy has told me and many many many stories that rachel has told me that well you're not all bad not all bad I'm sorry I was so harsh before but you have to understand I still looked at Lizzy like she's a 12 year old girl yeah you know what I know what you mean I do that too I beg your pardon I have a son who's six and I still think of him as a baby you're his son yeah well my ex-wife and I share custody of Ben and just you know Carol and I are on excellent terms as I'm sure you are with your life I'm sorry don't worry about I just didn't realize you were married oh we were but that was just I mean that was just a big drunkenness you're back you two were married oh whoops I'm sorry you're talking about Emily