Transcript for:
Understanding Love and the World in 1 John

BAUCHAM: Well, good morning! It is a delight to  be back at Ligonier. It has been far too long.   If you have your Bibles with you,  open them to the book of 1 John,   1 John and chapter 2, 1 John chatper 2.   And we find here, what is in many  ways, a very controversial text,   but I think it is a text critical  for our day. And I will explain why. First, let us look at it beginning in verse 15.   "Do not love the world or the things in  the world. If anyone loves the world,   the love of the Father is not in him. For all that  is in the world—the desires of the flesh and the   desires of the eyes and the pride of life—is  not from the Father but is from the world. And   the world is passing away along with its desires,  but whoever does the will of God abides forever." In one way, this passage seems like it ought  to collapse under the weight of other texts.   It appears to be completely out of place and  almost contradictory in light of the fact that   we as Christians are not just lovers, we are  profligate lovers. We are called to love like   nobody's business. We love because God is love.  We love because God first loved us. We love the   Lord our God with all our heart, soul, mind, and  strength, and we love our neighbor as ourselves.   There are myriad commands to love  one another. In fact, that is how   the world knows that we are Christians,  by our love and our love for one another,   but not only our love for one  another, we love our enemies.   By love we fulfill the law. The Apostle Paul says  in Romans 13:8 to 10, "Owe no one anything, except   to love each other. The one who loves another  has fulfilled the law. For the commandments,   'You shall not commit adultery, You shall not  murder, You shall not steal, You shall not covet,'   and any other commandment, are summed up in this  word: 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself.'   Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore  love is the fulfilling of the law." And then there is the issue of the world.   This seems to contradict our most beloved verse in  the Bible, John 3:16, "For God so loved the world,   that He gave His only Son, so that whoever  believes in Him should not perish but have   eternal life." So, it can make this text of  ours so confusing. In light of all of this,   it comes as a shock to the system  when we read the words, "Do not love,"   and yet there they are, "Do not love."   Even when I just let that sit there, you don't  like it. You are like, "Finish the sentence."   No, I want you to hear those words,  "Do not love." It is a command,   which means that if we violate it that we are  in sin. In other words, love can be sinful. Remember, I told you this is an important  word for our day, "Love can be sinful."   We live in the midst of a culture that needs  to hear that. It needs to hear that from us,   because it is coming at us with  this whole "Love is love" mentality,   and how can you be against love?  Nobody can be against love. Certainly,   Christians can't be against love, because God  is love and we are called to love. Therefore,   how can you stand in the way of any  two people who love one another?   But our text today makes it very clear that  there are instances when love can be sinful.   In other words, this is more than just a  theoretical theological discussion for us to have.   This is a very practical rubber  meets the road issue, this issue of   love being sinful. The question is what makes  love sinful? What could possibly make love   sinful? Under what circumstances  would love be considered sinful? Well, first of all, love becomes sinful  when it is directed at the wrong object.   Love becomes sinful when it is directed  at the wrong object. Look at verse 15,   "Do not love the world or the things in the world.  If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father   is not in him." Do not love the world. Now, it  is very important to note that this word "world,"   especially in Johannine literature is used in  at least three different ways. First of all,   the "world" can refer to all creation.  You see this in John 1, John 3, John 4,   John 6, John 7, John 8, over and over again.  This word "cosmos" refers to all the world,   to all the created universe. John is not saying  here that we should not love this universe,   this world, this earth that God created.  That is not what is being said here. Secondly, the term "world" refers to the people  that inhabit this world that God created.   And God is not saying, "Do not  love people. Do not love mankind."   Absolutely not! We know that it doesn't mean that,   because the love that we are called to give,  even to our enemies, the great commandment:   "Love the Lord your God with all your heart  and love your neighbor as yourself." So,   John can't be talking about that first "world"  here, and he can't be talking about that second   "world" here. That would be a contradiction.  However, there is a third use of the term "world"   and that third use refers to the spiritual  realm that is in opposition to God   and in rebellion against His kingdom.  It is that third sense of "world"   that is being discussed here. So, when John says,  "Do not love the world," he says your love becomes   sinful when it is directed at that system that  is anti-God, that system that is anti-kingdom,   that system that is satanic.   And he makes it obvious it is satanic because  he uses it several times here even in 1 John.   John writes that by faith the Christian is able  to overcome the world in 1 John 5:4 and 5. In our   text he says the world passes away. In chapter  3 verse 1 he says the world is ignorant of God.   In 3:13 he says the world hates believers. In  4:1 he says it is the abode of false prophets.   In 4:3 it is the abode of the antichrist  and in 4:5 it is the abode of unbelievers,   and last, the whole world is  controlled by the evil one. It is obvious here that  when John refers to "world"   in this text he is referring to that world that  is under the control of our adversary, the devil,   that world that is spiritual and ideological  and at war with our King and His kingdom.   And we are told, "Do not love that world."   Not at all! Listen to Calvin. He had said before  that the only rule for living religiously is to   love God, but as when we are occupied with the  vain love of the world we turn away all our   thoughts and affections another way. This vanity  must first be torn away from us in order that   the love of God may reign within us. Until our  minds are cleansed, the former doctrine may be   iterated a hundred times but with no effect.  It will be like pouring water on a ball;   you can gather, no, not a drop, because  there is no empty place to retain the water.   Like pouring water on a ball, when your  affections, when your love is pointed   toward the world, there is no room for the  love of God, because when your love and your   affections are pointed toward the world they  are pointed toward that which opposes God;   thus, love can become sinful when  it is directed at the wrong object.   James says something similar in James  4 in verse 4, "You adulterous people!   Do you not know that friendship with  the world is enmity with God? Therefore   whoever wishes to be a friend of the  world makes himself an enemy of God." "No man can serve two masters. He will love the  one and hate the other." This is an either/or   situation. You cannot love the world and love  God simultaneously. In fact, in our regeneration,   in our salvation, we are taken out of the world.  We are taken out of that system. We are brought   out of darkness and into His marvelous light.  We transfer kingdoms. We transfer allegiances,   but if our love is still for the world our  allegiance has not legitimately been transferred,   which is why in 2:19, just after our passage,  John says, "They went out from among us,   because they were not of us. If they had  been of us, they would have remained.   But they left, so that it might be  known," so that it might be obvious,   "that we might see that they were  never ours." They were never His,   because their love, their affections were  pointed at the system that is opposed to God. 1 John 5:4, "For everyone who has  been born of God overcomes the world.   And this is the victory that  overcomes the world—our faith."   John 15:19, "If you were of the world, the  world would love you as its own; but because   you are not of the world, but I chose you out  of the world, therefore the world hates you."   John 17:16, "They are not of the world, just as  I am not of the world." John 17:18, "As You sent   me into the world, so I have sent them into the  world." Again, we've been sent into the world   to proclaim the gospel, but we are not  of this world. We are in this world,   but not of this world, and we are  most assuredly not to love this world. A great way to see this picture is to think about  the love that a man is commanded to have for   his wife. "Husbands, love your wives as Christ  loved the church and gave Himself up for her."   There is a love that husbands are called  to give exclusively to their wives,   and the moment you turn that love onto  another you are guilty of idolatry.   It is the same point here. The moment you turn  that love that we are called to have for God,   that love that has been shed abroad in our hearts,  the minute you turn that to the world out of which   you were saved, that minute you are communicating  the fact that you do not have the love of God   or love for God.   Beloved, we must constantly examine our hearts  for the presence of this love of the world. Now, be careful here, because there is a  tendency to take this in very wrong directions.   We have got to fight worldliness, and so  what that means is you don't drink, smoke,   cuss, or chew or date the girls that do, right?   That is not what this is. That  is the enemy's sleight of hand,   because I can love alcohol and not drink it.   Amen. I can love drugs and not take them. I can  love these things. My passions and my affections   can be pointed in these directions, and yet  my legalism and my moralism say, "I'm better,   not just than I was, but  I'm better than you," amen,   because I fight the urge,   because I don't participate. I still  love it with every fiber of my being.   John is not saying here, "Don't  participate in the world."   He says, "Don't love the world." We must develop  discernment in order to determine the difference,   but not only that. Love becomes sinful  when it arises from the wrong source,   not only when it is pointed in the wrong  direction, pointed toward the wrong object,   but when it arises from the wrong source. Verse 16, "For all that is in the world—the  desires of the flesh, the desires of the eyes,   the pride of life—is not from the  Father but is from the world."   So there is a problem first with the object, and  now here, there is a problem with the source.   This love for the world arises from the  world just like our love for God and for   the things of God arises from God. It is  God who gives us the capacity to love God,   but here we have a love that is  arising from a different source.   The first two categories that are mentioned here,   cravings and lust are sinful desires;  boasting, however, is sinful behavior:   from internal to external. The first  two are internal and hidden sins.   The last one is revealed. The first  two pertain to the individual person.   The last one pertains to this person in  community with others, Kistemaker says.   Three categories: cravings, lust, and boasting.   These things arise from the world; cravings,  inordinate desires for things. And, again,   we have to separate these. When we say cravings  and lust and boastings, we have to recognize   that we are talking about this third "world"  and not the first two. For example, in that   first "world" I can love the beauty of a sunset,  I can love the beauty of a perfectly cooked steak.   Sorry.   I can love the beauty of music, art; again,  those things in this world that God has made.   I can and I must love the people  whom God has created in this world,   but the kind of love that I have for those  things is a love that arises from God Himself   but even those loves can be perverted, and  so now, instead of me loving the beauty   of a sunset or a beauty of God's created  order, now I worship God's created order.   I worship the creature rather than the Creator.   Rather than loving the beauty of those things  that God has given us, now, all of a sudden,   those things become means to an end to  satisfying myself, to gratifying my flesh,   to quenching my lustful desires. That  is when they have crossed a boundary. And then there are these boastings.   That is when it gets outward. My  cravings, my lust, and then my pride.   True love can lead me to share my testimony  and pride can make me exaggerated.   True love can cause me to use my voice  to proclaim the truth of the gospel.   Pride makes me love the sound of my  voice so that I just talk too much.   True love can lead me to share my story,   but my pride causes me to make myself  the hero of every story I tell. It   can make me one of those people who  constantly gives you their résumé.   That is what it looks like  when it becomes outward.   True love can show gratitude for the things  with which God has blessed me, but my pride   can make me constantly give you the price tag  of those things so that you can be impressed.   Are you smelling what I'm stepping in?   So, our love can become sinful based on  its direction and based on its source. But, finally, and ultimately, and most  importantly, our love becomes sinful   when it produces the wrong fruit,   when it leads to the wrong ends. Look at verse 17.   "And the world is passing away along with  its desires, but whoever does the will   of God abides forever." Here you have these  two opposite ends. On the one hand you have   this world that is passing away, and on the  other hand you have our God who abides forever.   Love becomes sinful when it leads to  wrong ends and produces wrong fruit.   Our passions become sinful when they are pointed  in directions that lead to death and destruction   as opposed to leading to life. 1 Corinthians  7:29 to 31: "This is what I mean, brothers:   the appointed time has grown very short. From now  on, let those who have wives live as though they   had none, and those who mourn as though they were  not mourning, and those who rejoice as though they   were not rejoicing, and those who buy as though  they had no goods, and those who deal with the   world as though they had no dealings with it. For  the present form of this world is passing away."   There is no life there. And this leads us back to  what I was mentioning earlier,   the poignant way in which this is so pertinent to  our times, because of the "love is love" crowd,   particularly in the area of same-sex marriage.  How can you be opposed to same-sex marriage when   same-sex marriage is just about people who love  each other, being allowed to express that love?   But that is a love that is  pointed at the wrong object.   That is not a love that comes from God.  Whether it brings glory and honor to God,   it is pointed at the wrong object.   It is a love that arises from the wrong source.  Look with me if you will at Romans chapter 1,   beginning at verse 18, familiar  passage, but I want us to look at it:   "For the wrath of God is revealed  from heaven against all ungodliness   and the unrighteousness of men, who by  their unrighteousness suppress the truth.   For what can be known about God is plain to  them, because God has shown it to them. For His   invisible attributes, namely, His eternal power  and divine nature, have been clearly perceived,   ever since the creation of the world,  in the things that have been made.   So they are without excuse. For although they  knew God, they did not honor Him as God or   give thanks to Him, but they became futile in  their thinking, and their foolish hearts were   darkened. Claiming to be wise, they became fools,  and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for   images resembling mortal man and birds and animals  and creeping things. Therefore God gave them up   to the lusts of their hearts to impurity."  Here we are, these lusts, these desires,   "to the dishonoring of their bodies among  themselves, because they exchanged the   truth about God for a lie and worshiped and  served the creature rather than the Creator,   who is blessed forever! Amen. For this reason  God gave them up to dishonorable passions." Dishonorable passions; the desires  themselves are dishonorable.   Enough already with this gay Christian stuff!   And I don't just say enough already; I  don't mean this in the sense of, you know,   "They're over there and I'm over here." I mean  this in the pastoral sense. How cruel is that!   If a man comes to me talking about a  desire for a woman who is not his wife,   I am not one to tell him to just  go ahead and embrace the desire,   because the desire in and  of itself is okay. It's not!   "God gave them up to dishonorable passions. For  their women exchanged the natural relations for   those that are contrary to nature; and the  men likewise gave up natural relations with   women and were consumed with passion for one  another, men committing shameful acts with men   and receiving in themselves the due penalty  of their error." There is the bad fruit.   It is pointed in the wrong direction.  It is arising from the wrong source,   and it is producing bad fruit. Therefore, it  falls into the category of love that is sinful.   It falls into the category of love that does not  glorify God. It falls into the category of love   for that third version of the word "world;" not  the first, "God's created order," not the second,   "people in the world," but that third, that  system that is openly opposed to all that God is   and that rebels against the  reign of God and His kingdom. And that is precisely where we are,  brothers and sisters. And not only that,   this rebellion is no longer covert, but  it has become overt. It is out there and   it is in our faces and, unfortunately, it is  being urged along by people within the church,   who are essentially arguing that love is  always righteous, love is always godly,   love is always appropriate, because God loves  everyone and God loves everything; and right here,   the Bible says, "Do not love."   There are some loves that are out of bounds.   There are some loves that aren't acceptable.   In other words, there are some  loves that are not truly love.   And if you are here today and you  wrestle with that, let me say to you   that the last thing you need to do is to give  into that love and define yourself by it,   because that is love of the world.   Do not love the world. Do not love  based on your passions and your desires.   But love the Lord your God with all your  heart, all your soul, all your mind,   and all your strength, which means your passions  are to be turned in His direction and no other.   We must reject the lie that says there is no love  that is out of bounds, because ultimately that lie   that says there is no love that is out of bounds  is a lie that says there is no truth in God. I am a father nine times over, and   what that means is I am very  well acquainted with the fact   that love is not defined by  allowing those whom you love   to have what they want, when they  want it, just because they want it.   Some of the most loving moments between me and  my children have been moments when I have said   authoritatively and unequivocally, "No." Amen.   And we see that here in this text. Why?  We'll end with this. Look at it again.   "The world is passing away along with its desires,  but whoever does the will of God abides forever."   Do you see what is happening here? This, "Do  not love the world," is not God saying, "Listen,   there is good stuff out there that I want to  keep from you." That is the lie of the serpent.   This "Do not love" says, "That looks good  to you and may even feel good to you,   but in the end you will perish. I am calling  you away from it because I actually do love   you and in loving you I want you to abide in  God, to remain in God, and to not perish."   Because our desire is that Christ indeed may have  the fullness of the reward for which He died.   So, do not love the world. Let us pray:   Our Gracious God and our Heavenly Father,   God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the  God who created this world and everything in it,   the God who is the King and ruler overall, God,  we bow before You as a humble and grateful people,   and we bow before You recognizing that  we have a tendency to love the world.   Ironically, we have to fight to love that  first world and fight to love that second   world and fight not to love that third one,  because we are fallen and frail human beings.   Grant by Your grace that we might have not only  the wisdom to see the difference and the faith   to trust You to transform us, but  that we might also have the will   to deny our flesh and to not love the world.   Father, I pray that this would not  cause us to flee out of the world,   but that we would be wise enough  to be in the world and not of it,   and that in doing so we would be distinct   and continue to be those who are  known by and marked by our love;   love for God, love for the brethren,   love for mankind, love for the  lost, even love for our enemies,   but not love for the world.   Grant by Your grace that this may be true of us.   For we ask it in Christ's  name and for His sake. Amen.