Sexual desire or attraction is triggered by
various stimuli, such as visual, auditory, emotional, tactile (touch), fantasies, thoughts,
or memory cues. When these stimuli are received, the body
begins to respond and cause physiological changes in the body. In response to the stimuli, the brain releases
neurotransmitters like dopamine and nitric oxide. These chemicals act as messengers that help
to dilate the blood vessels in the pelvic region, including those in the penis. The dilation of blood vessels allows more
blood to flow into the penile tissues. The penis has three cylindrical chambers made
up of a sponge-like material. When these chambers fill with blood, the penis
becomes rigid and erect. At this stage, the male body is prepared for
sexual activity. Nerve endings become more sensitive, and touch
or friction is met with heightened sensation. To maintain the erection, the veins that usually
allow blood to flow out of the penis become compressed. This helps to keep the blood in the penile
chambers, sustaining the erection. As sexual activity or stimulation continues,
tension builds within the pelvic region. The bulbourethral glands, also known as Cowper's
glands, are pair of small exocrine glands located at the base of the penis They produce
a clear, alkaline fluid called Cowper's fluid, which is secreted during sexual arousal and
help to lubricate the urethra and neutralize any acidic urine that may be present. This secretion often precedes ejaculation
and is sometimes noticed as "pre-ejaculate." It may also help to flush out any sperm that
may be remaining in the urethra from previous ejaculations. The sperm travels from the testes through
the vas deferens. The
seminal vesicles and prostate gland secrete fluids that mix with sperm to form semen. Eventually, the man reaches a point commonly
called the "point of no return," where ejaculation becomes inevitable. This leads to the moment of orgasm, characterized
by rhythmic contractions of the pelvic muscles and the release of semen through the urethra. The semen is expelled from the penis in a
series of spurts, usually coinciding with the sensations of orgasm. These physical sensations are usually accompanied
by a feeling of intense pleasure and release; these sensations are the result of both the
physical expulsion of semen and the release of neurochemicals like endorphins in the brain,
leading to feelings of pleasure and relaxation. After ejaculation or when sexual stimulation
ceases, the release of the neurotransmitters is halted. Another enzyme called phosphodiesterase-5
(PDE5) helps to break down the chemicals that cause the dilation of blood vessels. As a result, the blood vessels constrict,
and the blood drains out of the penile tissues, returning the penis to its flaccid state. After orgasm, men often experience a refractory
period, during which it is difficult to achieve another erection or orgasm. The length of this period can vary widely
among individuals and may also be affected by age, health, and other factors. During this time, feelings of relaxation and
emotional well-being are common, thanks to the release of oxytocin and endorphins. While physical acts are one component of male
orgasm, emotional well-being and mental state are crucial in sexual satisfaction and function. Worrying about one's performance,
stress, emotional disconnection and unresolved relationship
issues, depression,
a negative self-perception, past traumatic experiences, including sexual
abuse or assault and cultural or personal beliefs about how men
"should" perform sexually can have a significant impact on male orgasm. If a man is having difficulty achieving orgasm
or has concerns about his sexual health, it's essential to consult with a healthcare professional
or therapist specializing in sexual health.