hey guys CS josephus es Joseph dot life doing another episode of type comparisons because that's what people are asking me to do these days of course these requests for these particular lectures came about two months ago and I have a gigantic backlog of over 500 different lectures to do still so it just keeps growing and growing and growing and guess what I'm gonna keep providing and providing and providing and filming and doing even anymore or doing more than that Wow the lighting is absolutely atrocious maybe that'll help a bit better don't know we'll find out so anyway this particular lecture is how do s f JS compare to es fps I'm doing it because we had someone ask okay well I can't tell the difference between a fine es F J or es FP and I get so confused with the letters and I don't know the cognitive functions so please educate me so that I know exactly which of these two types I am Amaya P or the J variant etc so okay sure we can definitely we could definitely look at that so anyway es f JS vs. es fps so what's the difference well let's let's look at their temperament their temperament is different the es f j is a traditional past focus to Duty based protector or focused on safety or anything very dutiful takes orders really great for male es f JS to be fireman for example police officers soldiers all those traditional istic SJ careers etc whereas the ESF P is an SP also known as an artisan according to Plato not curacy because screw QC I'm tired of QC i like Plato Plato came up with the temperaments for anyone else not that people knew that but just laying that out there you know for those of you that are like cite your sources and then I'm just like Plato so anyway the artisan temperament freedom based creators lives in the moment has mechanical mastery is able to manipulate the physical surroundings around them they also store their memories in physical objects known as totems etc and are able to by it in that way so anyway let's dive in and today I am featuring blue ink because blacking kind of like ran out ish maybe I think it did so anyway let's dive in shall we what is the differences in similarities between ESF J's and D SFPs so if you live in the moment chances are you're an es F P because they live in the moment they have se here oh gosh cannot see that no oh well we'll just have to deal with it so anyway SE hero lives in the moment all about giving experiences other people storing memories and the physical objects when they pick up an object their trigger their mind is triggered with all of the things that they've done before the object or things that other people have done with the object etc it's kind of like that cool mutant power on x-men or heroes if you like heroes etc yeah I do kind of look like Zachary Quinto am I like literally his you know celebrity look-alike I mean except I don't have a celebrity but imma look like who knows we'll probably ask them one day they're also fi parents so they're very moral they're focused on morals all about moral behavior what they believe is a good or bad thing yes fj's however do not do that they don't do that they care about how others feel it's all about ethics remember the difference between an ethic and a moral take abortion because we love going after sacred cows on this channel with abortion it is ethical because the collective work group of people believe it's a good or bad thing but it is immoral because an individual decides that it is a bad thing see the difference it just depends on the perspective the feeling judgment fe vs fi just basically it's the source of the feeling is it an individual or is the feeling derived from a crowd of people or a group of people or three or more people because three's a crowd and that's technically an extroverted situation one person or one on one is an introverted situation so it's technically ethical so they're all about ethics all about other people feel very supportive of other people is FPS not really so supportive about others they're very supportive of themselves because of FI parent with how they feel and make decisions based on how they feel and that is a priority for them now they have te child which is what other people think they're like oh I need people to think really highly of me and sometimes you know I just need to save face and and make a phone call you know I know I did something wrong but I need to call people and make them think well of me so that I could save face and it's kind of manipulative and yes I know I do it because te child is kind of like a thought manipulator because it's a thought vampire and it can rearrange the thoughts of other people's because if I could just you know in the absence of communication or explanation it's you know perceptions become reality so I'm just going to kind of fudge it a little bit to adjust people's view of me so that I don't feel bad because I may have screwed up in the social situation but I need to save face right so I can feel good about myself sometimes I feel like a bad mother or maybe a bad daughter or a bad a bad wife so I just I see the goal a little extra mile to save some face yes fps yes that J's don't do that because they are so self sacrificing to the point of being a doormat that they are so supportive and so caring and so in other people to the point they'll do the dishes because they're very dutiful and in fact they'll get angry at you if you do the dishes before they do taking away their opportunity to be supportive to you yeah do not compete on the sink within the SF jey my grandmother's new stuff Jane the fastest way if I if I was ever really really upset with her if I was upset with my grandmother do you know what I would do I'd do the dishes I'd take out the trash I would literally do her chores basically I would vacuum just to piss her off because she deserved it you know maybe she had a covert contract she was trying to do and it was manipulative and I didn't appreciate how she did it so I just decided to do all the chores in the house and take away her opportunity for being supportive because I knew because she's trying to be so supportive for other people that she worries about her own self-worth and because I took away her opportunity to to others I made her feel worthless yes but she deserved it and maybe she shouldn't have been so disrespectful to me you know what I mean so that's what I'm gonna do like I knowing that means I know people paying points and I know is MJ's really hate it when I start doing their duties for them right and it's like okay come on two can play that game you're really going try to force me into going to this social situation for this family thing so that we can like save face because saving face is also important for you sub J's not for themselves but helping other people especially ESF piece because they're like second highest compatibility helping those es FPS or those s FPS save face because s FPS gotta save face because they have to feel good about themselves they have to know that other people think highly of them because how others think of them is literally how they are deriving their sense of self worth believe it or not oh no mr. Joseph it's all about values and our values are actually based on other people's thinking don't think that your values actually like necessarily come from you per se I mean you can't you have a moral compass and then you can rise above what other people think but do not tell me that your values are not impacted based on the thoughts of others the true/false judgments of others but statistics of others because people could show you the sad statistic about this this poor this poor family you know who emigrated from Poland or whatever and then your your your your you feel bad because you're reading the statistic that this makes you want to pull out your money and give that to this organization who supposedly helps families emigrating from Poland when in reality they're just trying to get your money they don't really care yeah that's not a good situation try to make sure that your values are not as attached to the thoughts of others and how do you do this by not being a busybody by not paying attention to the thoughts of others and paying attention to what you feel and make sure that your feelings are based on you and not based on the thoughts of other people because then you start turning into a gossip and then you start getting into other people's business and then you turn into a busybody and then it just turns into crazy and the ESF Jay gets on youssef bo2 because he is F J is trying to save face for the ESF P well the SF is trying to save face for themselves be careful do not allow this to happen guys realize people actually do care about you ahead of time and you don't have to save face with them and you actually end up saving more face if you come clean and just admit to them that yeah I feel bad because I did these things I'm sorry and that endears you them to you es FPS and ease up J's okay I mean it dear zs f p to the e SF jey when they're honest like that don't you think he is f days if he s FPS would be honest in that way instead of trying to like play a little social games to try to save face that is more endearing right so why wouldn't they want to do that huh food for thought something to consider so yes they have their fi parent their own compass we talk about te child what other people think about them and anti inferior es FPS are insecure with what they want if you don't even know what you want this is where people get really confused between es f peas and es f J's why well because and I trickster yes I J's never ever know what they want but yes if these are afraid of what they want so how do people really tell the difference well the ESF J's incapable with aspiring with what they want whereas the es FP is capable of aspiring etc well that's because they are trying to become the INTJ trying to become strategic and be very good at planning and organization and finances and the ACEF be good at finances haha actually can happen and it happens when they aspire if an es FB is getting over their insecurity and they are no longer afraid of what they want and they're no longer afraid of failure especially social failure for afraid of having low performance because we always talk about SD inferior having performance anxiety the thing is is that the es FP knows that there are very good performer but they just don't know what they just don't know what they want to perform right and because they don't know what they want to perform they're afraid of performing the wrong thing if they just choose different things and realize that they're just good at performing in general they don't feel so insecure about performing anymore so then they can perform almost anything and then making it to the INTJ and be really strategic about it and start choosing the right things to perform on right which makes them even better than able to craft the ultimate strategic experience and provide it to their audience to the point where it's like wow that es FP is brilliant even though es f bees have the stereotype of being an airhead right that's because of Ti trickster everyone believes that es f bees are airheads because it's like wow they don't even think for themselves because they can't finish a logical thought they do not have logos there is no logos in here there is only pathos or ethos so you have Heath those right here you got pathos right here those but logos is down here and it's like yeah this is like a black hole sucking that you know that goes away but we got that ethos you know everything's all about the ethos but ethos does not necessarily mean it's true you have to have the proof provided by logos in order to actually affirm ethos because if the logos does not match the ethos that means the ethos is technically a lie because ethos aka te child is actually beliefs about the truth instead of actually arriving to a true conclusion a provable true conclusion that is ethos so be careful whereas the ESF J actually has logos but they lack ethos ethos is way down here in fact they don't care about ethos they only care about what's true or false and you'd better give them their day in court now luckily the es Fe does that for the sub J because the ascites very aware of what the ESF J thinks in fact the ESF B can attack their feelings and their sense of self-worth on to the ESF J's thoughts of them because they're like t child's logging in the ti inferior and I hope ti you figure things really good about me because if it does then I can feel good about myself and my feelings are attached to what you think of me J and these subjects like oh I'm so thoughtful and I would be really thoughtful about everything and remember everything that you like forever and support you in every possible way so that you always feel good and then you always give me my day in court and always willing to listen to what I think and then you give me a really good experience and then I could do they give you what you want they're just terms of this amazing synergistic relationship these two you could be best friends these two could be awesome lovers for example this is a fantastic relationship that I recommend second-highest according to social compatibility second highest aquarium sexual compatibility second highest for professional oh wait second highest for every potential compatibility is this one for these two types I recommend it it is fantastic for both any child is all about giving what everyone else wants to other people and making the desires of others come true you never asked any SF jey what they want yeah because they're just gonna look at you the blank stare well the es FBI said what they want to be like not sure and then you just say a few options and they're like okay I want to do that one it's okay but the ESF J will never even do that and that's one of the biggest differences right so how do you get around that well any child always tell the ESF J what you want and you not expect an ESS J to know what they want it's not about what they want it's about what you want and you have to state it for them and if you do that then they'll be like I'll thank God you just told me what you want now I have a boundary with which to work on and adjust my duty around your willpower because that's what they are they're all about duty almost like being a robot but not robot is their goodwill is their good fortune to make sure that you have everything that you want you have everything you need it cetera is their duty to do so and they are insecure about what they think sometimes they are afraid that they're done this is you know TI inferiors where we get women who have the dumb blonde stereotype ENFJ Zandi SF jey women have to deal with the dumb blonde stereotype because of TI inferior everyone believes is stupid but it's actually not CI inferior is actually subtly brilliant why why else do they have int P which is an intellectual as you know the end your type as their subconscious it's because of ti inferior ti inferior can process anything it can process everything just like TI hero can that differences is just takes longer so all you have to do is be more patient with the ESF J and they will eventually think the proper conclusions don't overwhelm them with constantly new thinking and whatnot but all you have to do is just be like hey you should think about this you know or or or or think aloud with them they're they're constantly thinking it's like well okay let's think of loud let's put it on paper let's put on a whiteboard let's actually have an audible conversation about it it really helps the ESF J think and come to conclusions right so very helpful and that's what es FPS do the SF use of those thought vampire that draw the thoughts out of the ESF J's and they have the conversations and then the ESF J it feels better because they're worried that they're a bad person and they're afraid that they're dumb so they need to have a day in court to stay their thoughts so that they see how the ESF PE or others feel about it and if they feel good about it they're no longer worried that they're a bad person and no longer afraid that they're wrong right very healthy for ESF kids and they're very critical about the outward appearance of others they'll tell anyone if your shoes untied or if you're wearing dirty clothes or they will always notice it and it will always annoy them you'll always want to make sure you have a good first impression for SF day's unlikely as a hero of ES FPS are all about providing good experience and looking nice in front of people and having a great wardrobe and very fashionable so that es FB is always able to give a good experience to the e SF jey at all times thusly the critic is not as concerned and not as critical towards the SSP because the critics like ah the ESF pete's already got it all figured out awesome you know and we already talked about the trickster of anti trickster they just don't know what they want at all they have no idea what they want and then obviously te demon which is you think this about me and you do this and you and they can turning this huge nag and as ENTJ just takes charge and then they'll start taking absolute total control over their partner's life if their partner did not give their TI inferior its day in court you have to listen to TI inferior i don't care how much you believe it's stupid I don't care how much you believe it's wrong I don't care it doesn't matter and you have to realize it's not technically wrong it's just slower and reaching to the point where it reaches the truth right or it's missing details and where it's or it's looking at too big of a picture or too small of a picture with its perceptions because yes I hear big picture people because they have any child although es FPS are small picture people because they die inferior they are very more focused really in the moment and they have like a smaller range of you know a view but whereas the ENFJ is a big peripheral vision but their thinking is based on that peripheral vision and they're looking at this big ominous picture getting afraid when the reality is if they would just zoom in a little bit they realize that this the the solution their problem is like right in front of them it's because they're not able to zoom in it's a lack of experience sensing they can't sometimes to their credit but even a critic is on that but thank God ESF peace exists for es fj's to help es fj's figure that out with their SE hero and can reveal what is hidden to the es FJ in the same way that eeeh is such J's can do that by saying here's a bunch of options I had good experiences with these things you could do these things with any child and then that takes away the insecurities of Ni inferior oh now I know what I want to do because I see that you've already done it you've already had success that makes me feel secure that makes me feel safe to make that decision why because es FPS are worried that they're not safe they are worried that things are not safe in fact they are worried about why not they're loyal to other people and they see that the es FJ is super loyal to them Annette and there se here absorbs that was and they become loyal themselves thus the relationship is able to continue right and then also they're very critical about how other people feel when they're being obligated the things especially social things that credit can activate criticise the ESF J for being manipulative ESF bees keep es f J's from having covert contracts and manipulating other people which is fantastic they also force the idea of freedom to the ESF J so the ESF J allows freedom to take place because there is no freedom for the SFPD the es Fe is going to turn into a raging juggernaut and freak out and start plotting the demise or plotting with their entp the end of their relationship and then they will execute it with their INTJ subconscious and and their relationship not recommended so be aware of that and then obviously there's a TI trickster they are not able to finish their thoughts they're amusing a K without thought we already talked about that is the black hole of logos and their extraverted intuition demon if you do not give them the freedom to do what they want they will be committed to destroying your future together they will destroy your relationship they will destroy your reputation they will be vengeful in that regard because it's like you've been controlling me my whole life you've never gave me any freedom and then they will lie lie lie to it no mat and tell you anything in order to get what they want because you are taking away their freedom and if your parenting an es FB you recognize that I don't care how much you believe it's on wise given es FP freedom because usually they have the they look like they're being irresponsible and because their fi parent or they may seem selfish but the reality of the situation is that's not necessarily the case they are responsible to how they feel what are good or bad things and their as a hero needs to like try everything that other people are doing before they them so that they themselves can decide whether this is a good or bad thing right they have to have the freedom to make those two mistakes if you do not give any SFP freedom to make mistakes they will not grow they will stagnate and they will become worthless in their adulthood do not do this to these people if you are raising an es FP also don't put them on Ritalin that's dumb I mean seriously parents es FPS they're supposed to be hyperactive they're supposed to be hyper do not put them on ritalin that's how about you respect them for what type that they actually are and understand how they work and how they live in society that'd be nice you need to protect their SFP remember they're already struggling with how safe things are anyway don't prove them right come on don't do that to ESF bees think dot ESF J's will protect them from ESF from ESP beers you know you know they kind of have fears like they're fearful about different things but they cover for each other in that regard so I don't do that don't put them on Ritalin like seriously they don't need it they're supposed to be hyper let them be hyper let them enjoy I don't care if that means they can't sit down still in school school is the problem not the child wake up guys anyway so I'm TJ subconscious you know we already talked about that we talked about the entp super-ego and it's plotting we talked about the ENTJ super-ego and how controlling it can get you don't give the TI and figures day in court es f janice can be really brilliant I've even known a few es f trade physicists because they're INTJs or they're int P subconscious was built and they're very aspirational through logic and they got to that point because I have a huge amount of abuse in their life which was really sad to hear but they became amazing people for it because of how adaptable they are as AI parent means they can endure a lot of hardship and come out on top es fj's also have the second highest life span amongst all the types and there is a reason for that they have that endurance especially sfj women it's like they live forever so anyway that ends this particular episode for this lecture if you have any questions about es f J's or es f please leave in the comments section below here on the YouTube channel and I'll do my best to answer your questions if you found this lecture useful helpful insightful educational please subscribe and like subscribe to the YouTube channel and to the podcast and leave a like for this particular lecture that would be dope so yeah awesome I got a lot more of these to do so I'll see you guys tonight