I have a few girlfriends this is one of them five welcome to God mode my name is Tristan tapate now if you bought this course you already know who I am I assume but who am I to be teaching anyone how to get and retain beautiful women well let me tell you something everybody who has ever met me who has ever visited me certainly in the last five or six years has commented on how many beautiful girls I have so before before we get into the course material let me tell you my credentials I used to run one of Europe's largest webcam Studios I had 75 women employed by me working to me working for me and following every single order I gave them let me explain something to you there's no trick there's no life hack there's no being in a position where all the women you meet or come into contact with want to have sex with you that doesn't exist for any man on the planet besides Brad Pit and a few others if you want to be an elite level player an elite level Playboy like me you have to work at it this is what I explain to everybody why is Floyd Mayweather the best boxer in the world why is Roger federa the best tennis player in the world because they train and worked and perfect their skills and that's why they are the best in their field I am exactly the same I'm not some guy who women just all want and they chase me and message me on Instagram and want to come over to my house no I make a conscious effort every single day I wake up I plan I make my moves like I'm on a chessboard and I keep not only my six relationships going but I have plenty of time to meet new women so that brings me into module one in this course we're going to talk about meeting women and dating now guys what I'm not going to go into in this course is how to dress how to behave generally you know the answer to the question how to dress I don't know what's your style are you a rugged guy with a lumberjack t-shirt and a big beard good look that way are you a black guy with dreadlocks good look that way I can't tell you how to dress how to style style yourself or how to act and behave that's all individual to you so you be yourself and play the game the best way that you can and you know how to how to behave don't be a woman hater don't be sour don't be bitter don't be unpleasant don't be rude these are very basic things and I'm not even going to bother covering these if you can't get a single girl to talk to you this is probably the wrong course for you I'm teaching you how to up your game from a guy with one or two girlfriends to five or six like me and a harem of side chicks a question I'm asked a lot is how do you meet women so before we get into the digital side of things we're going to talk about how to meet women in the real world now the best way to meet women in the real world is not what a lot of people on the internet will tell you a approaches now the guys who do approaches number their approaches they Count Their statistics oh I had sex with 10% of them I did 100 approaches today are you a nerd are you a geek what kind of person are you where you have all day to walk around trying to talk to women on the off chance that one might have sex with you approaches my way is completely completely different you see I don't March around trying to get women to have sex with me by talking to them I have built a lifestyle I have built a life which puts me in contact with beautiful women I'm around them I'm in I'm in the best clubs I'm in the best restaurants I'm in the best bars I'm in the best spots in the world I'm flying all over the place the highest level women in the world are not in your local mall gentlemen they're in some bar in Ken or Monte Carlo and if you're not there you're not going to get them so the key to approaches is to keep your number of approaches very very low aim like a sniper not a flamethrower if you see a beautiful girl you're in a high-end spot you want to add her to your Harem you want to add her to your collection even if you're in your local bar you could be a beautiful barate you make your one approach you try to get her contact details and you then work on that lead Mass approaching every woman who you could talk to is the enemy of an elite Playboy like myself because you need the hours of the day you need your hours in the day to work to do business to do other things that are important that add to the lifestyle that attracts beautiful women you can't afford to waste all your day walking around walking up to girls asking for their Facebooks asking for their Instagrams asking for their numbers it's pathetic you need to make your approaches when it's approaching time you're out with your friends you're a nice restaurant you see a group of girls you're out at a nice bar you see a girl by the bar she catches your eye then you go over and you make your approach I make no more than two or three approaches a week if that and I'm a very social guy and I get more women than all the people you see on the internet every single one of them so meeting women in the real world is very possible and relatively easy be confident I'm not going to teach you how to approach women because every guy has their own methodology I'll usually walk up and I'll start with a compliment I'll open with something as cheesy as you're really pretty or you're beautiful because if she says oh thank you then she's interested if she looks at you funny or says I have a boyfriend or says anything negative you say okay no problem I just wanted to say You're beautiful have a nice day goodbye and you leave them whereas any kind of positive response to the compliment you have your foot in the door and you can make your clothes in you can get the telephone details the WhatsApp number which you then later work on So speaking of WhatsApp we're going to go into the online dating game now let me tell you the world has changed the world has shifted from many years ago when all Playboys made their approaches person to person there was no other way of doing it the internet didn't exist Instagram didn't exist and the best dating app that exists right now is Instagram match.com Tinder this is where the ugly girls hang out girls who can't get a boyfriend they might download Tinder a hot girl might download Tinder and mess around with it for 5 minutes but dating apps are nowhere near as powerful as Instagram everyone who's anyone every attractive girl in the world is on Instagram and every guy who's an elite elite level guy every guy with some clout some presents uh some money some Talent some skill something to offer is on Instagram too Instagram is the most powerful dating app in the world now if you've ever had a girlfriend what you should do next time you do is get access to her Instagram inbox I have Instagram inbox um passwords to all of my girlfriends all six of them so I can see the messages they get every single day 20 or 30 people are messaging them hi babe hi you look good now they don't read the messages this is the problem and this is why Instagram is important if you understand Instagram game and you understand how it works you could be the most handsome guy in the world you could be uh Ferrari driver you can be in super yachts and all your pictures and private jets if you have a boring profile picture and 200 people following you it's not that the girl likes you for the number number of followers it's you are not going to be seen you're going to send a message to this beautiful girl she's going to scroll down her messages oh who's this this guy has 20,000 followers let me read this guy's messages she's going to skip right past you the importance of building up a nice Instagram page when it comes to game is exceptionally important in today's world right now I'm 40 something thousand followers I have a verified tick now I'm uglier I'm sure than lots of guys who are messaging these models and these girls who I do meet on Instagram however when I send a message it could be something as mundane as hello or a love heart reaction to one of her stories she's scrolling down her page guy more handsome than me guy more handsome than me billionaire ugly guy and then there's me there's a little blue tick next to my name it says I have 40 something thousand followers oh who's this guy she'll then click on my page and look at my page she doesn't look at anyone else she'll look at my page and think oh this guy decided to send me a message you know what I'm going to message back or I won't message back but my messages are getting opened and that is the key to Instagram game you need to have a powerful profile you know if you need to post photos of cars do it you need to post photos with other girls do whatever it takes to build up your likes to build up your online presence because it's almost as important when meeting women as your real life presence which we're going to get into later in this course so Instagram is the most powerful dating app in the world I made uh headlines National headlines um by stealing one of the most famous women in my country Romania from her husband over a million followers verified on Instagram this girl how did I meet her I sent her an Instagram message now she gets thousands of messages every day but very few from guys of my caliber very few from guys with that many followers a blue check mark she obviously was curious to see who I am I made a n Nationwide Scandal by stealing this women from her husband so if Instagram you have to treat it like a job as I said in introduction to this why are why is Floyd Mayweather the best boxer in the world because he trains if you want to be one of the best Playboys in the world and operate on my level you have to think daily you have to make a conscious effort to be more attractive more out there more in the face of of the women around you so every day if you see a cool scene you see a cool restaurant you're in a cool place get someone to take a picture of you yeah it's narcissistic I hate pictures I'm not even photogenic I'm ugly in pictures but I take these cool pictures and I put them online because I know it's money in the bank it's going to grow with interest and it's going to pay off in the long run so absolutely you have to apply yourself to your online presence and nothing is more important than Instagram there is a time and a place for dating apps dating apps really do work I'm filming this on April the 11th 2020 in the middle of a quarantine which sucks however one country is is not quarantined Stockholm Sweden the capital of Sweden was open for business so I decided to head over to Sweden with my brother and have a bit of fun play The Playboy game over in Stockholm see how it goes now if I had showed up in Stockholm which was a lot quieter than usual where would I meet the beautiful girls I wouldn't really know where to hang out I wouldn't know where to go or what to do so I set my Tinder location yeah I pay for Tinder I pay for the premium Tinder I set my location to Sweden I don't bother swiping I pay for those boost things and I have the Tinder gold to see who swipes me first I run three or four boosts then I take my pick again like with Instagram my Tinder pictures are me next to my supercars me by the pool me looking good having trained hard I try to get all the attention I can from the social media and my Tinder pictures are my Instagram pictures I then look at the best girls I have swiped me I picked one her name was Philippa absolutely beautiful girl absolutely beautiful girl in fact here's a picture I'm including a picture of Philipa right now this is her now Tinder is great for one thing and one thing only finding the best places in the city to go now years ago if you were a Playboy and you were to land in a new city land in Singapore it's 1988 what you do is you get in a taxi and you tell the taxi driver hey brother you know where's the coolest spot in town where's where's the where's the hot joint where's the where's the cool restaurants the cool bars where the pretty girls hang out and the taxi driver would give you all the information you needed maybe a hotel concierge today taxi drivers don't know [ __ ] they're bitter they're upset they the world has changed the rich poor divide is wider than ever taxi drivers aren't going to the expensive places but you know who knows the best places in every city beautiful girls that's what Tinder is for if you use Tinder trying to get your PP sucked you're doing it wrong you need to use Tinder to find the places to go match with a really beautiful girl and say hey what's the best place to go in Stockholm on a Friday night oh uh what was the name of the place now can't remember the name but this girl philippo replies to me oh it's here I said okay we're going I'm going to take you out bring your friends cuz I was with my friends I'm going to take you out let's have fun now she said yes and if she had said no who cares I now know the best place in town I know where girls like her hang out so stockhom all walked out exceptionally well I end up sleeping with this girl Philippa she's still messaging me now I've been home for weeks and weeks that's what Tinder is good for finding the best places to hang out in town and when you get to these places make sure you check in on Instagram take a picture tag yourself on Instagram cuz if you do that I tagged myself at the Stockholm Grand Hotel the best hotel in the city that's where I was staying I had three or four girls messag me simply because I tagged myself at that hotel girls from Sweden they all are obsessed with Instagram hot girls are obsessed with Instagram and how did I find out that the Stockholm Grand Hotel was the best place in town to stay from a chick on Tinder who I never even met I said oh yeah I'm thinking I don't know where to stay she goes oh the best hotel is a Stockholm Grand Hotel I Googled it it was boom booked it then at the end of the night when I was done in that club or whatever with Philipa oh where are you staying the Stockholm Grand Hotel of course it's the best hotel in the city like I knew and I didn't oh wow yeah is the best hotel in the city you know I've got a killer mini bar let's go and have some drinks come on it's not late I know everything here closes at 3: that's weird you know in my in in my country the party goes on till 5: true or not I would have used that line let's go back to the hotel that's what dating apps are useful for if you're there trying to get laid trying to talk trying to make your girlfriend and stuff forget about it man forget about it these girls get every dude they swipe is a match after a day or two of talking to them you they're going to stop replying irregardless of who you are if you think she's really hot and you met her on Tinder get her off Tinder ASAP get her onto Instagram get her on to Whatsapp cuz at least if you get her on to Instagram and you send messages back and forth hey it's me you are now out of her other inbox and in her main inbox you're a guy she knows a guy she swiped and said she's attracted to and she will always read your messages that's a good lead forget about Tinder terrible that's its only use now depending on the culture of the country you're in another way you can meet women is by having a group of women with you now I know this sounds insane guys I know this sounds crazy but if you know two or three girls and you're heading over to a nightclub or a bar and you invite them with you having a group of women with you in a town or city where these women are from it acts like a magnet this is Elite level stuff that you will not hear anywhere else if you have three or four girls from New York with you while you are in New York and you're taking to the best clubs and the best bars and the best spots the girls they know congregate around you they come to talk to their friends you can make your brief introduction hello my name is Tristan oh really nice to meet you yeah I'm just out uh with these girls right now blah tell what have you got Instagram yeah no you come out with us next time why you know stay here stay at our table screw those guys having girls with you acts like a magnet now when I was much younger if I went out trying to look for women it was a different world but I'd go out by myself to crappy bars and clubs and try to talk to girls you know I learned things the hard way however now I do not go out with just men I go out with women every single time I don't care if they're my friends my girlfriends girls I'm sleeping with I bring women when I go out because their friends their girlfriends their mates they all want to come over and talk oh hi oh you're at Tristan's table or maybe they don't even know me maybe I can make an introduction and that is a way that I meet a lot of women the friends of the women who I [ __ ] you better believe I've been through a lot of them especially my side chicks when it comes to keeping my girlfriends I don't really [ __ ] their friends that's a bit of a a line I tend not to cross cuz I'm spoiled for choice but yeah having women with you attracts women don't let anyone tell you that it doesn't because I know better than anyone else another way to meet women is reputation especially in your home City I don't care you if you live in South Africa Johannesburg I don't care if you live in mzm Beek I don't care if you live in uh Sydney La wherever you're from your reputation matters especially in the city you live especially in the city you live in now this is when being a gentleman comes in kissing and telling bragging about girls you [ __ ] showing their nudes to people it's just not cool now guys who do this when I meet a guy and he's oh I [ __ ] this girl I [ __ ] this girl it's a bunch of naked titty pictures I'm like okay yeah cool yeah I do all right myself I don't brag that's an amateur tactic cuz what they're doing is they're ruining their reputation now I can meet a girl and she be like yeah you actually met my friend before and I was said who's your friend and it's a girl I used to sleep with for a little while but I was nice I was polite I was kind I took her to nice places you know I I bought her some nice cocktails I was always a good host we had sex a few times I let her know that it wasn't anything serious and her friends want a piece of the action her friends will hear this and and actually want to date me or want the same kind of setup with me that she had so reputation is another way to meet women don't let anyone tell you that it doesn't work as I said these guys on the internet who pretend to be Playboys they don't know what they're talking about they won't believe in a million years you could meet a woman because you met their friend yeah that's because they're butt hurt they're losers when a girl breaks up with them they throw insults at them and cry and scream and threaten to kill themselves cuz they're nerds when I break up with a woman or she breaks up with me God forbid especially side chicks side Chicks leave me CU they find out about my girlfriends and say you know what well I had a lot of fun with you you're an awesome girl I wish you all the best yeah cool that's the way to do it reputation is another way of meeting women and so is being scouted out being actively searched out so when I talk about Instagram game from a man's perspective actually approaching women and trying to talk to them I very briefly mentioned tagging myself at the Grand Hotel in stockhom women will seek you out not just in the real world but in the online World more so than ever before young women who uh have never lived a life without Instagram who are 18 19 20 21 if you take a very good picture as of this day I recently uploaded one of me sitting in a hot tub which is full of money with a girl in a bikini lighting my cigar while I'm drinking a glass of whiskey that picture went viral thousands and thousands of likes people who didn't know know who I was people who had never interacted with my profile saw it on their Newsfeed because I planned out the good picture and I took it I had lots of women message me haha I'd never light your cigar for you but she messaged me that means she would you actively get searched out when you're an elite level guy and this is what I mean one more time when I say you have to train and you have to work at being an elite play boy that's the key that way you do get searched out if you're a normal guy marching around around the mall trying to collect phone numbers no girl in the universe is ever going to say to her friend hey that guy who marches around the mall asking every girl's number yeah he's hot do you know his name or no one is going to message you on Instagram aren't you that guy who marches around the mall asking girls for her number wow you know what why don't you take me on a date no you get searched out and you get scouted and hunted when you're a top 1% man so if you're not being scouted out if you're not being hunted if you're not being searched for what exactly are you missing guys stand up look down can you see your dick no then you're too fat lose some weight women care about looks too I'm not the best looking guy in the world sure but I make an effort I try I work out I get into shape all these women wouldn't like me as much if I was 20 lb heavier or 30 lb heavier of course they wouldn't so you do get searched out when you're a top level guy so absolutely invest your time in that get a gym membership obviously make make some money drive a nice car do something productive maybe you play the guitar very well I don't play the guitar maybe you're an amazing Surfer these things get women too I myself was a kickboxer didn't attract as many women as many women as you think but when I was young and I didn't have any money and I couldn't do fun things and I couldn't go to nice bars or nice clubs the fact that I was a kickboxer got a lot of attention I could beat another man up sure I was broke girls like that I always had pretty girlfriends so what are you doing right now if you are just a normal with a normal job doing nothing you don't produce any content you're not talented you can't do gymnastics or or play the guitar do something because every man in the world has a dick that he wants to get sucked every dude on Earth and you're just another one of them unless you make yourself different in some way you will never get scouted out but it certainly is a way to meet women believe me happens to me all the time that's how top level guys meet women so essentially all the same ways most other guys do but there are little twists and little spins on everything I'm going to very briefly cover what not to do obviously I've gone into Day game don't do that you need your time you need your time to work out you need your time to make money you need your hours of your day you can't go marching around malls and marching around Parks trying to go up to every woman who you speak to do not send pictures of your dick if you're watching this if you're watching this and you send pictures of your dick what are you doing women don't want to see your dick bro don't send random [ __ ] dick pictures to girls that's obviously a [ __ ] red line that's more women see my dick than the guys who send their dick to all the women on the internet and you know why because women actually want to have sex with me don't send pictures of your dick guys that's an obviously uh a big thing not to do do not spam messages if you message a girl once and she does not reply do not send her another message even if you have her number and you message her once twice three times no reply give up quit delete her number move on to the next Target message spamming isn't cool these are the basic things of what not to do but that is in essence how I meet my women now I'm going to go on to dating cuz dating is the important part dating is how I add women to my collection the most important part of dating when you are an elite Playboy is something that you guys probably wouldn't guess if you vot this course it is time management when do you go on dates in the evening what do you do dinner after dinner drinks after drinks you try to have sex with her maybe she goes home maybe she comes back to your place wrong wrong you don't do that how are you going to have six girlfriends and 10 side chicks if you commit an entire evening of dinner and drinks ignoring your other girls on your phone to try to have sex with a single girl that is not possible if that is your method you're going to have two girls or three girls on the go maximum that is it six girlfriends I see them all more than once a week how does that work out well it's not magic I can't add hours of the day and I can't make time but time management is the key to dating multiple women to having an a harem of women you have to manage your time so I'm going to give you an example you need to turn things that you have to do anyway into dates you can't commit a whole evening to a new girl so I've met a new girl at a club I have her phone number all of my girlfriends want to see me let's say I've picked one of them for tonight I know which girlfriend is coming over to my house and which girl I'm having sex with tonight I meet my new girl when I do something mundane that I have to do anyway I'm running errands in the city I'll say you know baby I'll tell you what I'll pick you up we'll go for a little drive we'll go for coffee I'll pick her up at 3:00 or 400 p.m. I'll do my errands drop the things off I have to drop off you know have a coffee with the girl for 20 minutes make her laugh make her smile 2 hours only then I'll take her home now something different has happened to this girl when she's been with me than she's been with the typical guy made her laugh made her smile she had a wonderful time but there was no drinking there was no getting her drunk there was no me trying to have sex with her there was no me leaning in for a kiss she's back at home at 5:00 p.m. like ah okay that was fun and she's alone in the evening who's she thinking about me I can then commit my evening to my girlfriend I can finish my work around 9:00 spend a few hours watching a movie with my girl [ __ ] her I could text on my phone my girlfriends don't look at my phone and the girl who I went on a date with was mine all day she was mine in the afternoon after I left her home she was mine in the evening she was mine at night when I said good night to her and she went to sleep thinking about me I didn't try to [ __ ] her but I spent enough time with her to implant myself into her mind I owned her thoughts for 12 hours by investing a little bit of time in the afternoon and still had my evening free to have sex with my girlfriend keep her happy that's how you do dates that's how you time manage [ __ ] this evening go out for drinks go out for dinner try and bang them cool you want to get a girlfriend do that that's that's all all you but if you want to play the game On My Level you cannot afford to waste your evenings you have to manage your time now this was money well spent I'm going to let you guys in on the most exclusive Elite player tactic that exists in the world I have never seen another man Even do it I've never heard of another man doing it I've never heard of another man attempting it and that is having two dates or three at the exact same time in the exact same place a system my brother and I call double booking what is double booking how is this possible I'm going to tell you how only the elitist of the elite can pull this off but once again I can date three or four women in a night in the same place have them all thinking about me go home to one of my girlfriends and spend the next 2 or 3 days cleaning up the mess and [ __ ] the girls who I went on the date with how does one do this now I'm going to tell you double booking does not work in certain settings you cannot double book at the cinema you cannot invite three girls to the cinema all to meet you in the same place and take them all out for a movie who when they don't know each other that doesn't work double booking works when there's a vibe when there's a party atmosphere and you have to understand that in parties and clubs and bars women will put on their makeup put on their dress do their hair come out and see you they haven't got any money they're hanging out at my table your table drinking your drinks they're not going to storm off and go home because there are some other girls around especially when you're out with a crew of your friends yeah you know everyone they're all your friends it relies on a poker face these girls do not say to each other oh hi I I came here for a date with Tristan so when I go to a club on a Friday this is an example of double booking I'll bring one of my girlfriends why not I love my girlfriends are wonderful people maybe two but let's let's say one one of my girlfriends and then I'll take three of the women I've been texting who I have yet to meet I I'll say you know baby I'm going out to the club tonight I'm hitting this club you know why don't you come with me bring your friends yeah it's a group Vibe I'm out with some people I know I repeat that times three three women get done up they shave their legs they wax their [ __ ] eyebrows they do their makeup they do their hair they paint their fingernails they put on their lipstick they put on their high heels and they come to the club to meet me to impress me I give each one of them maximum 20 minutes of my time oh hey baby kiss on the cheek kiss on the cheek really glad you can make it yeah you know have a drink it's way too loud for anyone to hear any conversation that isn't one-on-one you buy champagne you keep the party going everyone's doing shots everyone's yelling shouting celebrating having a good time you're all on a big group and the party atmosphere drowns out the room for difficult conversation these girls then don't say to each other hi why are you here did you come here to see which one of the guys Tristan yeah I came here to see Tristan that doesn't happen they literally introduce themselves to each other hi my name's Andrea oh hi my name's Christine hi they kiss each other on the cheek hey girls would you like col some champagne I hand them both a glass and the party continues I call it double booking now you'll see these guys on the internet Playboys um so-called who have tables full of girls these girls are either not interested in them not [ __ ] them or their escorts prostitutes girls who are being paid girls who are being hired to uh hang out that's not how I do it at all I don't think Elite level Playboys ever play that game so I have women all coming for a date with me they've all bought one or two friends my friends talk to their friends in a huge mixed group and if I want one at the end of the night if one's made it clear she wants to stay with me I could sneak off with her leave 20 minutes before my friends my friends will give me covering fire if not then I'll go home with one of my girlfriends I'll go home to one of my girlfriends I'll go home to two of my girlfriends but all of these women as far as they're concerned I went to the club and I took them with me they were my date for that evening the evening when all the champagne comes over ones looking at the party that's being had they were my date so yeah double booking Elite Playboy tactic nobody I know does this only me and my brother and we have a good saying the only thing better than double booking is triple booking which sounds stupid but now you understand how the tactic works the more there are the less room there is for any difficult conversation to happen or any mistakes to be made you couldn't pull this off at the cinema you couldn't pull this off at the the restaurant but next time you're going to a club and taking a date invite more girls double book yourself try it out and then message me on Instagram and tell me Tristan thank you because it [ __ ] works so you know when I go to clubs and when I go to bars I'm usually double booked or triple booked my table has lots of women on it now I'm going to talk to you about Club game how I run game inside of the club now of course I'm spending some money I have some bottles of vodka some bottles of champagne depending on what your budget is as long as you have enough alcohol to get everyone at the table drunk and partying that's enough you don't need to be a millionaire to pull off these this double booking technique any club any bar restaurant that has a party atmosphere you could do with that but when I'm there as I said if you want to be elite you have to make the effort I can't go out there with three or four women and a girlfriend and think you know what wow this is wonderful I can have any of these girls I choose this is great that's enough It's never enough so when you're in that position the winning position you're the man in the club with the women how do you capitalize on it to meet more women this is when you do your approaches gentlemen you're the guy you're dressed nicely you're looking your best you're surrounded by women you're on the table you're drinking your champagne if you think that other women in in the club don't notice this you are wrong you need to expand your horizons you don't just look at your table what you have there look further look deeper into the crowd look at the bar who are the two girls standing on the bar they're looking at you of course they are you're the guy with all the girls in the club now they're looking at you who in their right mind if they were with their girlfriends and on dates would walk over and approach the two girls at the bar surely nobody that's why you do it you walk over to the girls and say hey girls hey I saw you looking you look familiar have I met you before Oh no maybe you just have one of those faces I tell you what look me and my friends are all having a drink don't stand over here by the bar it's lame all these dorks trying to talk to you come over with me come have a drink with me let's go maybe it's a yes maybe it's a no but you have to make your approaches it doesn't matter what crowd you're in they may say yes they come over they'll introduce themselves to the other girls they won't say oh are you on a date with Tristan are you not they are blinded by how fun the party situation is and you've added two more to your triple booked girl friend date situation that is Club game also as I said if you're out with women from a certain city their friends come over when they come over they're like magnets the more of them congregate in one area the more float in make your approaches in talk to their friends introduce yourself tell them your name if nothing else oh hey no hi my name is Tristan really nice to meet you would you like a drink cool have whatever you like bye you'd be surprised you do that with every single single girl a few times a year you're going to get an Instagram follow the very next day oh hi it's it's Cynthia no hi Tristan yeah we we met in the club it's that simple you need to run game on top of game there's no Universe where you try to get 10 women and you get all 10 to get as many women as me you have to try with hundreds you have to make yourself available and out there for hundreds of women to know and hundreds of women to see so when you're in the club you can get into the mind a 15 you can have 15 or 20 women thinking about you and you can get six or seven of their details on top of your own situation which you're already running that is why nerds who do Day game are never Elite level Playboys I do not approach women all day long I've built a beautiful life and put myself in a wonderful situation where my situation attracts the women they are they come to me for me then to attack I'm a Trapper I'm not a hunter that's the way to do it and that's why I have so many women but yeah Club game don't just look at what's on your table maybe maybe your girlfriend will break up with you tomorrow and none of those four girls will want to [ __ ] maybe they just wanted to drink some champagne maybe they don't like it in the maybe they don't like you they just want to hang out at the club cool what you going to do then go home and jerk off no no you're going to talk you're going to get one of the girls you went and approached the bar always overstretch and always be thinking on how to capitalize your situation and add more women to the harim that's the end of module one how to meet women if you apply all these things the way that I've taught you you should meet women and be ready for the next stage which is dating module two nobody covers this topic nobody but I'm going to talk to you about how to have sex with virgins virgins now Elite level Playboys these DS who take these pictures with all these girls they are usually paid their models their actresses they're they're sent there by their agency I do not pay for sex I've never hired a prostitute in my life and I won't I don't need to but when you don't pay for sex there are advantages to that you get the women no one else gets any Shake in Dubai can hire the hottest Dubai escort and bang her I can go to Dubai and bang the exact same escort why would I want to that's disgusting however in my situation you get access to girls that no one else has access to when you run game like me and meet the women who I meet and roll in the circles I meet you meet beautiful virgins sometimes me I'll do two or three virgins a year now how do you date a virgin when you're a when you're a ice cold player there is a tactic which I'm going to share with you on how to date a virgin and how to take a girl's virginity typically the first girl's virginity I took I was 16 years old she was a virgin I was a virgin it was rubbish and what I did was this I dated her she was my girlfriend for 3 months then we had very boring sex that's how I had sex with my first virgin Now the recipe hasn't changed but the tactics and the implementation has certainly changed be their boyfriend for 3 months and be in a nice relationship with them that is the recipe I'm sorry guys you want to run into a virgin and [ __ ] her the next day don't ask me how I don't know I don't think anyone knows I don't even think it's possible you have to be their boyfriend for an extended period of time you then have to take her virginity on the second month anniversary or something along those lines and I'm going to teach you how to do it while still being in a Playboy lifestyle scenario what you do with your virgin is you turn everything into a date I need to go have a business lunch with my brother or my friends I make sure she's there I Uber her in I Uber her out if I have to go for a drive I make sure she's with me I go and pick her up do my drive drop her off go back home if I have to go to a a club she's part of my double booking scenario she's always with me at least three or four times a week IR regardless of what I'm doing I I go to a lot of lunches and a lot of dinners I eat at restaurants a lot I take her to the restaurant nothing about my life has changed I'm not going out of my way I'm not making specific time for her I'm not trying my best to take her on dates and show her a good time what I'm doing is I'm adding her into my normal everyday life now to me I'm [ __ ] my girls I have my girlfriends my relationships I'm getting my sex I'm having my drinks hanging out with my friends nothing has changed in my life from there's some quiet girl next to me half the time when I'm out and I would otherwise be alone but to her in her mindset Tristan is my boyfriend he took me to lunch today and he dropped me home he took me to the bar today he was with his friends and he took me with him and then he sent me home Tristan is my boyfriend in her mind we've been dating and then one day that day will come when she's ready and you'll know you'll know because she'll make it obvious to you no matter what you do with virgins don't get pushy don't take them to your bed and try and sleep with them and get your dick card and no matter what do not violate my Golden Rule with the virgins if she won't [ __ ] you do not let her touch you oh you're a virgin maybe you can suck my dick no no no no it's desperate uh maybe you can wank me off it's it smells of desperation do not do this baby you're not ready I understand let's go to sleep go to sleep like a [ __ ] man without sex for one day if she stays with you for [ __ ] sake sake have some dignity while some virgin giving you the worst [ __ ] in the world trying to explain her how to guys grow the [ __ ] up if you're with a virgin in bed she's not ready Cool go to sleep nothing will make her want you more than this so I've come into situations where I've been seeing these virgins for a month two months nothing about my life has changed and then they'll come to me and say oh maybe we can do something special this weekend boom I book a hotel we have a few drinks at the hotel bar upstairs virginity gone as far as she's concerned I've been her boyfriend for 3 months she's in a long-term committed relationship and all it's taken is me to order some Ubers when I'm having my free time with my friends that is how I have added virgins to my list two of the girls of my six were virgins when I met them they're not anymore but now they're mine now when it comes to dating I know what some of you think women love money no [ __ ] Love Money women love fun and fun costs money if you're broke you're not going to get as many women why you don't pay the women I don't give women money women very rarely see my money think o maybe I can get some money from him only if they're real [ __ ] or real [ __ ] or prostitutes good girls don't care if you have money they're not going to ask you for money but if you don't have any money all you can do is invite them to your apartment money is important because money facilitates takes fun you can take a girl out in your nice car that's fun for her you want to take her out in my house I have a Jacuzzi that's nice I have a fully stocked bar in my cigar lounge in my house they can come here they can have some drinks money facilitates fun so when it comes to dating yes you need money now I meet the type of women all the time who are no good and I just know that men would fall in love with them because men are weak and men are stupid you have to be better than most men to have a collection like mine you have to be better than most men because the good girls are the ones who are willing to share you this is what people don't understand and this is what people don't teach like huh my wife would uh never tolerate me talking to other women yeah great great your wife's a [ __ ] let me tell you something I know women who are so invested in my happiness that they know when they're not around there may be another woman in my bed I don't know if they know the true extent of it but they love me so much that they allow me to have other women when you meet a horrible nasty vindictive jealous [ __ ] and she's like oh you better not go out with your friends you better not oh you think that's the woman who really loves you cuz she wouldn't tolerate you with another woman no the woman who really loves you is like look I know you have another girl tears streaming down her face but I really love you please don't leave me just tell me I'm different from the rest that's the woman who loves you so you have to differentiate which girls you [ __ ] and which girls you want to love simple as that a good way of doing this is testing their loyalty now now I'm not a obsessive stalker I'm not a jealous guy I know my girlfriends don't sh sure do I sleep with some side hes that may have a boyfriend I may be their side guy do I sleep with side hose who may do that every weekend maybe maybe but my girlfriends certainly don't cheat on me but you have to test their loyalty now don't even look through their phone don't even look through their phone hey baby give me your phone unlock it I want to do something on it unlocks hands it over don't do [ __ ] take a selfie give it back to her if she'll hand you her unlocked phone she ain't cheating because believe me these girls get hundreds and hundreds of messages every day on Instagram on Facebook if they're replying in a way that they know you won't like they will not unlock their phone so if they won't unlock your phone and hand it to you then that is a very good loyalty test she's probably not girlfriend material by all means get her to suck your dick have your fun with her but she's probably not the girl you want to be with and I hear a lot about har about how to have multiple women let me tell you something I don't enjoy group sex I don't enjoy threesome I don't enjoy foursims I don't think they're enjoyable sex is a lot more intimate and a lot more fun one-on one you only have one dick that's it so you can only it's taking turns one way or the other so I don't enjoy group group sex so my heren game is different um than a lot of guys now on the internet there are very few people people who have multiple women uh I know one I'm not going to name him and shame him in my course but he's a Muslim guy black guy American lives in Germany a very smart guy he legitimately has a harim he has multiple wives uh respect respect to him and he's a good friend of mine almost no one you see talk about having multiple women has multiple women besides my brother and myself now how do I run my harem game it's different than most people you see women behave better and take take this from an elite level guy women behave better when they know you have other options if you have one girl one girl only she'll try to stop you talking to other women stop you meeting other women and she'll aggressively try to interject in your life but when you have other women and she knows that you have other women maybe she turns a blind eye maybe she doesn't want to hear about it but she knows maybe she's seen you tagged on your fa Instagram with them maybe she's seen them in the background of your Instagram story when she knows you have other women women up their game I'm telling you the truth good women don't leave they try to make you happier now when you have a harem all living together I've lived with two or three women maximum at any any one point very unpleasant experience uh because sleeping Arrangements were always difficult sex I didn't enjoy that much because there was always too many girls however the women behaved very well one woman didn't want to be the one who [ __ ] up out of three because she knows that she's sleeping on the couch and you're [ __ ] those two that night it was always a game of oneup and [ __ ] the women try to up their game to out compete one another now my harim game is very similar to this however the women are never in the same place at the same time they know each other's names they know who they are they know that these girls are around me even one of my girlfriends isn't quite sure if I'm sleeping with these women but she heavily suspects that I am and she checks their stories all the time she knows they're at my house and that does not make her flip out in Cole's arguments because she knows she'll get blocked and she knows when she's blocked I'm going to be around these other women it makes her up her game so my women are not in the same place but they're fully aware of each other's presence they're fully aware that the other ones exist and they up their behavior and they check themselves so I don't have to check them and end up with these other women so my harim game is is what I call distance game they're they're far away from each other but they know each other exist and that's what makes them behave I'm going to be honest with you this is a refreshing moment of honesty it is hard to have six girlfriends I have six I didn't know the exact number I had until I started filming this course I had to actually count I didn't know I think it was 5 six s it could have been one of those numbers it's difficult cuz time management is a problem luckily for me I live a lifestyle and you need to set your lifestyle up in the same way where you are busy all hours of the day but no hours of the day I can be busy anytime I like I have a very busy hectic work schedule which is usually my excuse but you do have to see your girlfriends now I'll take a girlfriend on a date I'll date a new girl and I'll see a second girlfriend in the evening I'll usually wake up with that girlfriend Uber and a girl for lunch and see another girlfriend that the second evening I see my girls about two times a week maybe three times a week each but instead of having one relationship you can have six relationships where the girl thinks you're a busier man than you are it is possible but you have to manage your time very very closely which makes meeting new girls difficult now whatever you do when you're in a relationship never ever concede to having enough women never think you know what I've got my three girlfriends that's wonderful I'm not going I'm going to delete Tinder I'm going to stop posting on Instagram I'm going to stop going to clubs I'm going to stop doing my approaches I've got three girlfriends are all smoking hot you know why cuz I've lived it I've been in that situation and I've been content one girl has an argument with another girl they find out about each other they both break up with you maybe you only get one back boom you're down to two same thing happens again boom you're down to one [ __ ] suddenly you're the guy who's happily married you got one Gina you're stuck there with one chick now you've done no leg work you've put in zero hours in terms of getting new women so you have to start from scratch build up your collection again it's months before you have three again then four then five then six never ever be content but in relationships it's very important to be kind people think players especially guys who worked in the industry that I have are horrible people that I'm rude to women that my house is a revolving door with women in okay that bit is a bit true but you think they leave unhappy no they do not be polite buy them flowers sometimes buy them chocolates you don't have to go out of your way to make a woman smile I stop at the gas station all the time look at my cars every time I stop at the gas station I'll buy a box of chocolates it's the thought that will make a woman's day if you have lunch with a woman and you've bought her a teddy bear and a bouquet of flowers girlfriends only obviously she'll go home in the evening and she won't think about what I'm doing who my dicks in she's like oh Tristan loves me he bought me flowers and a teddy bear and she'll be posting photos to her Instagram of the flower and the teddy bears I bought her which makes my other girls see they suspect that I bought them they up their game hey Tristan when am I seeing you it's a beautiful system but be nice to your girlfriends in your relationships but being nice also includes not engaging in [ __ ] arguments if a girl wants to argue with you all the time she's not a girl that's cohesive with the elite player lifestyle you need to stay away from those women engaging ing in needless arguments is a tactic women use that are smarter than you think to eat away the hours of your day and the hours of time you could be using to pursue other women I recently had to let a girlfriend of mine go beautiful I'm not going to show her a picture here she's long gone I don't reminisce over old news however absolutely stunning but every moment I wasn't with her you're with other girls blah blah blah staring arguments with me complaining moaning I was engaging on WhatsApp for an extra 30 40 minutes a day that I didn't have stay away from women who make arguments so be nice be kind but don't take [ __ ] if they want to start arguments stop talking to them if you can't say something nice don't say anything at all so if they're arguing with you you have no nice response to them cut them off do not invest hours in that [ __ ] in relationships a good way to keep your relationship fresh and a good way to keep your relationship happy is to make demands of women women love to serve men they really do if a Woman Cooks you a meal and it's good she's going to be happy she can spend an hour in the kitchen sweating toiling she can burn her hand if she brings you a plate of food and you eat it and you're satisfied she is happy believe me women are servile good women are servile and a good way to keep your relationship happy is to make demands of your women I have a ritual every morning I drink a Black Coffee in Bed I never make it myself myself whichever girl I wake up next to goes downstairs makes my coffee she knows how I like it she brings it upstairs I sip it now I don't just sip it I'll add something in you know I love when you make me coffee your coffee is the best cuz I can tell it's made with love it's a joke we'll laugh it's cheesy it's corny but that will set the mood for the day that will set the pace for the day it's a wonderful thing women are very servile creatures so do not be afraid to make demands of them so if you hang around me or you know people who have hung around me you'll know how it goes I'm sitting with the boys I'm drinking some whiskies hey baby uh Bobby wants a refill hey Iggy wants another few ice cubes uh darling excuse me a Jonathan's beer is out and you're in the house like I get get him a lighter as well cigars out come on they love it they really do if you have a good woman so that is certainly an important part of having a relationship make demands be the man be assertive be Alpha be dominant it helps when you're maintaining relationships like I am and your time is limited you have to be sure not to burn your time I call it burning time you're with your girlfriend for 3 hours all you have is 3 hours Netflix no not [ __ ] Netflix why would you sit there and burn three hours away on Netflix you have other girls to see and other things to do now admission I am a guy I [ __ ] every day I do not masturbate I do not watch porn Elite level Playboys do not do these things because you can so I'm going to have sex with three different women a day and I still need to jerk off no I'm fine I haven't jerked off in a year and a half I was in India last time cuz there were no girls around I remember the exact [ __ ] day so I'm telling you porn masturbation throw them out the window you want to be an elite level Playboy be a [ __ ] man you don't get sex for one day cool you'll live do few press UPS before you go to sleep go out the next day hungrier I'm going to tell you women need sex just like men do now it's very easy for me if I wanted to to not have sex with my women for a week two weeks for an individual girl because say I only see her three times in a week and it's all during the afternoon I've already had sex that morning I know I have another girl to see in the evening it's easy for me to just spend time burn the hours watching Netflix but she will not be as is Happy guys Tiger Woods isn't the best golf player in the world because he sits on his couch watching Netflix Floyd Muhammad Ali was not the best heavyweight boxer of all time because he sat on his couch watching TV you want to be an elite level Playboy you want to collect these women then you have to keep them happy you know what it's the middle of the afternoon I've already had sex 3 hours ago or 4 hours ago a girl sucked my dick cuz I woke up in the morning ah my girlfriend's over you know what grab her by the [ __ ] fing tits till your dick gets hard and make sure you're [ __ ] her make sure you do there is no maintaining a relationship without sex maintaining a healthy relationship and never having sex with your woman is not real doesn't matter who she is doesn't matter how loyal she is if she's really loyal she'll bring it up to you uh why aren't we having sex oh you never want to have sex with me and she'll get mad if she's disloyal she'll seem fine and she she's [ __ ] someone else if you're going to collect these women they're not cars you can't park them all on your driveway for months and sit there triumphantly and say ah look at my collection of cars aren't they beautiful you've got to drive them if you don't drive them they'll disappear someone else will take them off your driveway that's the way women are so you absolutely have to keep your woman happy man up I'm not going to tell you how to [ __ ] your girl you know how to [ __ ] your girl I'm not going to go into sex tactics that's not what this course is about but if you have multiple women make sure you [ __ ] them you got to keep them happy what women really crave is attention they love the attention because they love feeling in demand they love feeling desired now if you hang out with a girl three times in a week and you don't [ __ ] her once now you can brag to your friends I was tired I [ __ ] too many other girls that's cool but she doesn't feel desired and she's going to be unfulfilled in your relationship when your hours are scarce you have to invest your hours doing things that make her feel wanted take some pictures together say you know baby here take get in your underwear I'm going to take some photos of you take some photos of her what do you do with them nothing make her feel special then get your dick out make sure you [ __ ] it right there's no excuse for women leaving you even if you have six or seven I have more girlfriends and less time than most guys who get dumped and I don't get dumped why cuz even when I'm not in the mood I'm man up and I understand what I have to do to keep my women happy I'm often not in the mood often I've been training often I've been [ __ ] other women but you got to get it done now I've covered how to maintain a healthy relationship when you have multiple girls but I'm going to touch on what not to do the basics of what not to do never admit that you're wrong for doing something that you wanted to do I'll give you an example another girl sucks your dick another girl you [ __ ] her your girlfriend finds out two of your girlfriend girlfriends find out don't even say sorry you you're not sorry one why are you not sorry because you wanted to do it at the time so you're sorry you got caught you're not really sorry and she knows it you know you have to hold the line the moment you start apologizing you're making a concession oh I'm sorry I'm sorry means I shouldn't have done it it means I won't do it again many things are implied by your sorry I never engage in this kind of behavior this girl was at your house this girl was at your house hey the [ __ ] haven't you got a life stay off Instagram what you watching this girl's story for anyway it's really embarrassing what you're going to stalk everyone who comes into my house don't look through my phone why are you looking through my phone now you know what I was having a really really nice day with you and now we're arguing because you wanted to look to my phone this is so stupid how old are you 16 you're obsessed with with with social media quit [ __ ] looking at Instagram never admit you're wrong Hold the Line say whatever it is you can but never concede and never admit mistakes because they're not mistakes you are on your way to being an elite level Playboy I am an elite level player I don't make mistakes I [ __ ] them because I want to [ __ ] them it isn't a mistake no I'm not sorry now this isn't an act I mean it I don't apologize and I [ __ ] mean it I'm really not sorry so Jesus they can't break me down they can't squeeze an apology out of me because I really really mean it when I say that I'm not sorry never conceive in a relationship another thing not to do I've covered this basically but do not engage in pointless arguments and do not engage in pointless conversation um if you have a relationship if you're going to get caught cheating don't let it be with some girl who lives in California that you're flirting with online for no reason makes you look like a Sim makes you look like a fan makes you look like a customer makes you look like a nerd if you're going to get caught get caught [ __ ] something do not burn your hours cheating on your girlfriend emotionally with girls far away with girls you haven't got a chance with with girls with boyfriends who don't take you seriously don't waste your time with this stuff man you only have 24 hours in the day and you need to see three or four women minimum if you want to operate on my level so do not not waste your time with girls that are far away because there's nothing worse than getting caught and having your girlfriend all strung up on some nonsense with some girl Who's hotter than her but she's in Singapore anyway what are you doing so absolutely do not do that one of the most fundamental mistakes when you get attention like I do as a man make sure it's localized make sure you have an opportunity to [ __ ] her an opportunity to see her and don't get caught by your girlfriend doing nonsense [ __ ] don't get caught watching porn it makes women feel undesirable cut porn out of your life you you want to operate on my level do not get caught masturbating that's super embarrassing these are very basic things but I think if you if you are on your way to being an elite level guy you should know these things already those are the Dos in relationships no Elite Playboy lives without girlfriends or the respected women relationships are essentially important to every single man it's not enough to just have sex relationships are intensely important so use everything I taught you and maintain your relationships the way that I do it believe me some of these things may not seem like they work test them and hit me backwards some feedback because I know from personal experience they do