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Religion and Politics Discussion: Influencer Divorce and Gender Roles

[Music] welcome to another episode of ha show where we discuss religion and politics the two least controversial subjects I'm your host Daniel hayu and today we have an excellent episode for you very spicy actually and we're going to be discussing some very critical topics some very juicy topics that really need to be discussed as always I encourage you to subscribe to our newsletter so that uh if for any reason we're banned from social media you will be able to keep in contact with us so given the controversial nature of the topics that we discuss it's always possible that we get banned we want to make sure to keep in touch with you so subscribe to our newsletter and also we'll be sending a lot of goodies inshallah in coming months through that newsletter exclusively also subscribe to the channel you can also follow us on our Rumble channel on X Twitter and Facebook as well so what is the topic for today's discussion we're going to get into the uh divorce of two very influential popular influencers the Muslim couple influencer of khed and uh Sal or Sal or Salamon however you want to pronounce it uh this is an issue that we really have to address and I'll tell you exactly why we have to address it in a second the second topic which I hope that you'll stay to watch all the people who came just for and Sal I hope you stay for the second part of the show where we're going to analyze a debate between Ben Shapiro and an atheist name named Alex ok' Conor Alex oconor is an Oxford graduate or Cambridge I'm not sure but he is an upand cominging atheist uh online and he follows kind of in the new atheist mold uh he has some unique qualities though uh he has debated Ben Shapiro recently and he also has debated denesh duza who's a uh Christian apologist and he's brought up this issue of slavery within Christianity and Judaism as it's found in the Old and New Testament or the Hebrew Bible and we're going to look at the responses from the two religionists the two theists V Shapiro and dases tza how do they respond to this issue of slavery and we're going to learn a lot about how religion is reformed uh through the kinds of approaches that they share and present as a resp responds to The Atheist who's challenging them on slavery in the Bible this is very relevant to Muslims as you will see so make sure to stay for the second half of the episode inshallah where we're going to discuss that and react to those clips um so now why should we getting into the first topic of today oh and by the way we're we are going to look at Super chats in sh so if you have a comment if you have a uh suggestion question if it's related to the topic of the episode you're going to get priority but even if it's not as long as it's appropriate we're going to address your super chat so make sure to contribute and support the show we rely on your generous donations we don't have any kind of institutional funding um that can sustain the work on H show on Muslim skeptic.com Etc it's all through generous donations from uh followers such as yourself so uh super chats will be discussed so why why oh why do we need to talk about khid and Sal is this really something that's necessary it seems kind of tabloid is you know to talk about these couples uh the reality is that the Muslim umah unfortunately in the millions is influenced by these couples these couples are followed by millions of Muslims and they portray a certain image of Islam if that image of Islam and that model of Islam is problematic then that is going to affect the understanding of Islam of potentially millions of Muslims and if they are teaching and preaching things that will destroy your marriage and destroy your family then that has the potential to destroy millions of Muslim families this is what we see with a lot of these couples where they combine a kind of uh entertainment aspect a comedy aspect and they try to be very relatable and you have many Muslims who will fall into that trap of taking them as role models and EM bibing those liberal values and feminist values that they espouse or that they express through their relationship and we did an episode a few episodes back on Yasmin and dud these uh influencers they're not as influential as KH and Sal but nonetheless they get millions of views and we looked at some of the themes over and over again with these influencer couples and I said at in that episode that Yasmin and dud are really not that bad they're bad don't get me wrong but they're not the worst and I don't think that they're a scop I don't think that they're uh trying to manipulate the Muslim Community for a specific agenda and I said in that episode I think that there are influencer couples that do have a kind of agenda that's coming from on high that's coming from above from governmental sources and that are trying to scop the Muslim Community I didn't say specifically any names but today I'm going to tell you that and Sal are this type of couple I do believe that they're a up I do believe that there is an agenda very clear agenda I'm going to show you the evidence of this inshallah so the big news back in February of this year is that KH and Sal after years of marriage supposedly a very beautiful happy marriage they had two children together they're so deeply in love they got divorced it was heartbreaking to many of their followers who are some of them who are literally crying oh no you know these couples got this couple got divorced they were my goal couple goals # couple goals and they're literally crying about this influencer couple and they got divorced they got divorced and in the months since a lot has happened Sal has actually gone online and has done different podcast interviews and she's been dishing some dirt on khed and we're going to talk about some of this inshallah uh the dirt that she's been kind of spreading and what she's been saying oh why why did you divorce what happened she kind of has been hinting and spilling some dirt on the marriage on the other side you have Khaled and Khaled has been involved with apparently uh getting engaged and this was the news that came out it was reported on in the Hindustan times uh Times of India as well I believe so it's something that uh is not just a rumor uh he's posted like engagement ring on his Instagram uh so it's who is this that he's engaged to well it's this Indian actress from all appearances and a Hindu a Hindu woman named sunani sunana I don't know exactly what her name is but uh I don't follow Bollywood so sunana something like that and they're engaged now is she going to convert to Islam has she converted to Islam allaham but from all appearances this is a Hindu so not you know barely four months has passed since the divorce the ink on the divorce papers have not dried yet and Khaled is engaged to get married again to some other woman not in his same country uh not in the Gulf in a different different part of the world uh so how did this happen I'm sure they'll be sharing those details in the future but for now it's been uh released or announced that he is engaged it is this uh Hindu Indian actress and and this is very interesting why because you have this model of marriage that you've been portraying the ideal Muslim marriage uh to uh a Muslim man and a Muslim woman modern uh they are romantic they have this picture perfect wedding picture perfect life they live in the lap of luxury she's an independent businesswoman as well he is financially successful they're loving life enjoying travel enjoying food enjoying all of the luxuries of dun and then the shock they've gotten divorced and not only have they gotten divorced it seems like they're even you know maybe getting further and further away from religion so this is very relevant uh why because we have to analyze this we have to expose this we have to teach or reteach the Muslim Community and the um at large that what you were watching on your screen on your smartphone these Tik toks that you thought was this beautiful wonderful model of marriage is actually a deception this is a deception this is a cruel deception that not only contradicts religion as we'll see but it also contradicts uh a duni happiness even if you restrict what you care about I don't care about the I don't care about the afterlife I don't care about Allah I don't care about the Quran and I just care about being happy and living a comfortable pleasurable life well even on the basis of that standard khed and Sal are going to uh disappoint you and their their model of marriage is going to lead to disaster this is what we're going to talk about today and I'm going to bring you the evidence we're going to watch some of their Tik toks we're going to watch some of those their videos and I'm going to react to that and you'll be able to see it for yourself and I want you to start you know don't just watch this as mindless entertainment we're trying to learn you know that's the purpose of H show like I want you to be a empowered educated viewer where you come and you dedicate two hours a week or four hours a week if we have two episodes a week and you take away from these episodes some actionable uh knowledge that you can apply to better understand the world as a Muslim on the basis of Islamic values that's what I want you to come away with so that it's not a waste of 2 hours it's not a waste of 4 hours a week you're actually learning something valuable and important and inshallah you're going to be an empowered Muslim consumer in a sense you'll be able to see other couples and realize the same patterns notice the same problems notice the same violations of Islam because the whole goal of a scop the whole goal is to manipulate you to so that you think you're watching something is Islamic but it's not Islamic you think that you are watching something that is halal and that is actually a model of Islam Islamic marriage Islamic family Islamic manhood Islamic femininity but it's actually a liberalized secularized deception to secularize and liberalize you and that's the entire Rand agenda that's the entire battle for hearts and Minds that's the entire objective of a lot of this media that you're assuming through social media so you have to be educated and you have to be empowered inshallah and that's the that's the intention one of the big aims of this kind of show and definitely in this episode we're going to talk a lot about this effort to reform the umah and religious mindset uh so let's get into the actual material okay okay see this let's try this out this is a new format and I want to make sure let me make sure the sound the volume is good enough because I don't want you to not hear what I'm saying obviously and get my headphones okay now we're going to look at the big question are they actually a scop like that's a big accusation that Daniel is making is it true well the first thing that I really have posted about Khaled and Sal was way back you can see this screenshot let me just minimize myself from 2021 and this was um a year where Israel had attacked Palestine they do it periodically is the IDF terrorists will attack Palestine and I pointed out like Naas da as I'm sure many of you know and khid al- Amiri of KH and Sal they have 30 million followers at that time and they have said nothing at that time about this offensive attack against Palestine they had zero to say isn't that strange isn't that weird that they have nothing to say um and this has been a pattern they will not speak out for causes that is very relevant very important to the entire umah the entire world but they will not comment they will not say anything now this what happened this year has has khed said anything for Palestinians he did he did say something actually um this was posted on October 19th uh basically right after the war broke out in October of last year and he you know makes this generic statement you know we want to be there to help them heal you know imagine you're talking about a military occupation and a genocide and you're talking about you know we're there to help the Palestinians heal like this is just a PR statement probably cooked up in a consulting firm or cooked up in some kind of PR lab you know public relations and then he you know makes some updates all our videos will be on hold indefinitely all our projects are on hold in order to raise awareness and keep focus on what is going on so we're going to we're going to stop you know posting videos we're going to stop put putting content we need to keep focus on Palestine we need to keep the focus on where it's important right he doesn't mention Israel he doesn't mention War he doesn't mention all the death and destruction by that point October 19th Israel was on a full-blown assault you know and this is his Facebook fullblown assault on on Palestine on Gaza he has nothing to say except oh you know thoughts and prayers this is shameful this is shameful so [Music] then he's saying that it's on hold indefinitely but then that was October 19th then on October 31st this is the next video he posted we go behind the scene with uae's Best Budget Airline so it's a video that's just a commercial uh like one of his quote unquote comedy uh episodes or shows or whatever uh so that was in our content is on hold indefinitely for two weeks or a week and a half and then we're back to normal normally scheduled programming and again you don't see anything he doesn't make any content specifically on Palestine he doesn't even mention the country of Israel and it's not just Israel he will have he has tons of content especially recently on India but he'll mention nothing about the uh oppression of Muslims by the Hindu extremists like the BJP he'll say absolutely nothing he'll say absolutely nothing about Kashmir no no no words of support no thoughts and prayers even for Kashmir like at least for Palestine he'll say thoughts and prayers he won't say anything anything like that for Kashmir anything like that for Indian Muslims and you know now that we see that he is engaged to an Indian actress maybe we know why maybe we know why and even in the chat right now uh and then in some of the comment section we see so many uh Hindu extremist Bots Hindu extremist trolls specifically on this issue why are Hindus so concerned about defending and fighting for KH you know he's not even the same race he's not the same religion why is it is it because of some kind of agenda you know some kind of maybe Hindu Norm alization agenda in the Middle East is could there be something like that going on uh and then also uh yeah so that's with when it comes to Hindus but also these medalis these medalis if you don't know what a medali is go and watch you know the virus of metalism video the medali virus video that we have on the channel and that'll be a good use of your time to understand who the medis are but they're the these bootlickers basically there stes working for Gulf countries for the governments literally to push uh this kind of distortion deviant in Islam that you have to support the gulf Ru rulers no matter what and you can't criticize them otherwise you're a terrorist you're a terrorist KY and the government is Justified in detaining you or assassinating you you know this kind of deviance they're pushing that we have not seen anywhere in the history of Islam found nowhere in the Quran and and Sunnah these medis are pushing it to stifle criticism of the kinds of things that their Gulf rulers are doing so why are they these people coming out of the woodwork to defend khed you know in the in the chat in the comment sections it's bizarre you know we can't really understand we can't figure out well maybe this will clarify look at this so this is an article from 2017 how is the UAE fighting violent extremists online and who is the author oh look it's our hero khid Amiri who's writing about his battle to fight extremists so this is the cve agenda countering violent extremist agenda that we've covered in over the years and basically it's a conflation they want to say that well you have the terrorist s like Isis and you have the uh extremist Muslims and these are all you know bad extremists that we have to shut down the thing is yeah you know Isis AQ these groups we condemn them they have nothing to do with Islam that's known but then you're conflating the conservative Muslims the Muslims that believe in the Quran and Sunnah the Muslims who believe in Tradition Islamic values the Muslims who disagree with feminism they disagree with secularism they disagree with liberalizing the Muslim World they disagree with LGBT those are all according to the cve narrative they are all extremists so how do we fight extremism how do we fight oh and by the way extremists criticize Israel and extremists don't like the occupation and they criticize Israel as an occupying Force they're anti-semitic extremists right so all of these things are related all of these things are connected in one Fell Swoop you want to associate Muslims who believe that Islam is the only true religion they believe that we need to uphold traditional Islamic values we need to strive for Islamic sovereignty and Islamic governance througha and implementing Islamic laws they believe in Islamic government they believe in traditional Family Values they're against feminism they're against sexual immorality well all of those are extremists all of those people are extremists and their ideology can potentially lead to violence therefore we have to crack down that's the whole ideology of countering violent extremism is a program that has been in place for about uh 12 years but really it goes back to the war on terror started in 2001 and the whole goal is to reform Islam to clamp down on religious conservatism that's what it is and khed Amiri is a part of that and he was talking about how in this article this is published on his LinkedIn by the way this is published on his LinkedIn you can go right now and read the full article and he is talking about his contribution to fighting extremism and what is that so look at this the key to good or influential media is getting someone who is watching or listening to imagine themselves in that situation to make it relatable to connect with the audience in a way that makes them want to be there extremists and terrorist organizations on social media have found a great deal of success in this regard and recruit young people from all over the world based on that strategy alone there was never a strong and focused narrative until now this week I took part in a workshop set out by hia an Abu Dhabi based International Organization tasked with countering extremists through a number of programs and activities the main focus of the workshop title creative minds for soci social good was to bring artists filmmakers writers actors PR Executives and students together in one room for one goal to create content that counters The Narrative developed and used by extremists to recruit young people and paint a picture of our religion so there you have it straight from the horse's mouth his whole objective and his whole mission is to counter extremism you know to counter the religious extremism Islamic extremism as as he as a liberal Muslim and his handlers have defined it in the goal of what secularizing the Muslim world liberalizing the Muslim moral that's what countering extremism really is because if you want to counter Isis Isis is militarily defeated and at that time the main way to counter Isis is through the military that's what the US and the West uh and the West overall the US and the West overall did now what is the origin of Isis you know who is really Isis uh is it actually Muslims you know this is a question and for on YouTube you can't really talk about it openly but go to Twitter go to my Telegram and it's clear that they're a big question mark about whether Isis is a legitimate or not legitimate but an authentic group of people of True Believers or is it a uh intelligence operation I won't say more than that on YouTube but uh the way that you you counter it is you just defeat that small group what percentage of the umah the Muslim umah is Isis or agrees with Isis not even a percent of a percent the entire Muslim world has condemned them so if you want to counter them why are you expending all these resources why do you have to have festivals and you have these International organizations dedicated and you have all these countries getting together to combat this problem well it's obvious because their goal is not just this one crazy group of terrorists their their aim the target is the entire Umma to secularize the entire Muslim world that's the actual agenda and khid and Sal have been a part of that have been a part of that and for those of you who have just been enjoying their content and thinking oh this is you know harmless entertainment no you're you're part of the scop youve you're being scoped that is the problem so let's continue first things first in the temple no shoes are allowed when you're walking around any of their sacred ground as well as inside the temple so okay so here's a video where he's going to a Hindu temple and the whole video is about his time in in this this Temple shoe racks are here familiar with being a Muslim we do the same at a what I noticed when I was uh sitting observing uh the prayer um is that people had the food and then they came here and offered prayers I want to find out a little bit more about that the first portion of the the meal we offer to the Lord Buddha yes that's the purify the first meal and the second second portion of the meal we offer to theam no okay yeah thank you thank you there we are a look inside the Buddhist temple in Dubai this year in the UAE is the year of Tolerance a year of bringing all these stories to light and connecting everybody in ways that highlights the similarities between us not the differences and it is only when we open ourselves up and take a look highlight the O the similarities forget about the differences we all basically the same all religions are basically does this sound familiar remember the Naas daily reactions that we've put up this the same message and interestingly it's the same country that is connecting both Naas daily and khed Amiri is this a coincidence is this a coincidence and this is like many videos that he's putting out on this same inside these special places special places the the Buddhist temple the Hindu temple the mosque they're all special places they're all amazing truly understand that much love and God bless you all we are now in the Hindu temple where the worshippers are conducting the arti prayer which is the now he's in the H final prayer of the day the very height of everything this is the prayer they do then they give their offerings and then they go home so we get to see this at the very end I try and understand the similarities between us and in our religion Islam Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him has said that heaven for us lies at the feet of our mother so the most important things in all our religions all tie us together never forget never forget that all the most important things you know forget about worshiping Allah you know should we worship Allah or should we worship this statue should we make offerings to to the gods or should we understand that Allah is not in need of food so like these things are not important you know this this is not important what's important is having liberal values you know being nice to people that's what's important you know this mosque or Temple what difference does it make really come on what difference does it make it's all the same thing we we take our shoes off we take our shoes off at both places so wow so many similarities it's amazing see see terrorists see you you filthy terrorists we're all the same you know this is this is kind of message that he's putting out here is a PO post where he is saying happy holy so he's celebrating holy I guess he did a video on it as well but this is just a screenshot so he's just celebrating all these holidays Hindu holidays Buddhist holidays Christian holidays alaykum everyone satri today we are at harand sah or globally known as the golden temple today we're going to take a look inside this Temple what it means to the seek community and explore the world's largest Community kitchen so we have just sik Temple so the even the siks are included Christmas Merry Christmas from the United Arab Emirates is this working yeah had a cist to everyone a lot of energy goes into dividing people rather than uniting them and focusing on what makes people different rather than celebrating what makes us the same and that is why I make these videos I have have to believe that the world is better than the news that we hear every day that by sharing messages of unity and love that we Inspire others to reach out and share their own stories of the beautiful things that they see in this world so to everyone around the world celebrating I wish you a merry Merry Christmas much love and God bless you all yeah so this when you're have so many videos dedicated to the same thing and you have that connection to cve that we saw like this is the context of KH and Sal like this is the context like that's their whole goal is to present this liberalized Islam uh that is not Islam Islam doesn't celebrate Christmas Muslims don't go and celebrate Christmas or go to temples and you know stand with Hindus praying and this is not Islam like this is a distortion of Islam now does Islam and and then also by the way this is all happening happening in the Gulf like this is a Muslim country and this is part of the reform that's happening in Gulf countries Saudi UAE other countries in the Gulf that are trying to push you know the year of Tolerance acceptance of all religions this is a liberalizing secularizing agenda it's part of like the abrahamic uh Accords the abrahamic house the new abrahamic religion that's being pushed uh that you can have like a Imam go and preach like this kind of b or sometimes even outright sh like oh yeah we can accept all religions we can accept you know we can participate in these rituals no problem we can build these Hindu temples right you know within miles of the Haram miles of Mecca and Medina no problem you can have an Imam go and preach that message but it's a lot more effective if you have this celebrity influencer who can make a fun video and bounce around and smile on camera and present that to his millions of followers that's going to be more effective and that was the whole point of that LinkedIn article where he says that well we have to be relatable we have to sh uh show images where people can put themselves in that position like imagine yourself in the Hindu temple imagine yourself as a Muslim in the Buddhist temple having fun eating and dancing and celebrating imagine your it's relatable content it's fun it's funny that's how you create effective counter narrative and that's what an effective scop is what we are in Kerala for onam kerala's biggest Festival all right so we're going to go into a family's home to show you what so he even has the dot on his forehead want is like within the house and the love of a family let's go thank you boy we're right up close this is where they are dancing as you can see there's levels the the tummy so the tummy at the bottom is very small and then it goes really big and Stu that's where the champion [Music] is yeah I don't know if this is like his future in-laws that he's like going and dancing with with like maybe this is his fiance's [Music] family imagine I win this thing a good yeah just enjoying the Pagan Festival you know that's no problem just and then you'll have commenters Muslim commenters oh that's so beautiful oh that's amazing wow you're an inspiration this is the true face of Islam may Allah Grant you J like this is what you see in his comment section is a place of worship for the seek Community to come together and pray but today this seek Temple behind me in the middle of Dubai transforms into a mosque let me show you how so this s temple in the middle of Dubai transforms into a mosque so how much more obvious can you get with the mixing of religion trying to say that well there's just one unified [Music] religion since the G's establishment in 2012 it is hosted Anar evening every single year but this year in 2019 it is hosting Anar every single day open to all members of the community to come and break their F and for me there is no greater sign of comp passion there is no greater sign of acceptance than a community that takes somewhere that is so holy to them that is so sacred to them and opens it up to the world much love and God bless you all so the same message over and over again it's not very creative it's not a he's not a very creative person so it's just you religious universalism all religions are basically the same focus on the similarity [Music] okay so now let's get to the relationship and divorce right um some people have been saying that well the divorce is because of Nazar it's because of the evil eye you know if you show yourself your beautiful happy marriage online then this is what's going to happen you're going to get the evil eye and that's what's causing the divorce they have this Nazar is real should not show off your relationship on social media too much of exposure is dangerous privacy is everything yes I agree that is true in in uh for sure you know and you expose yourself to hassad to jealousy that is going to uh potentially cause problems uh and we have to uh ask Allah for protection against the evil eye we have to read Quran such asah very important and make Dua that Allah protects us against hassad but is that really you know is that re the only thing that was problematic about this marriage was that really was it really a beautiful healthy marriage in you know by the standards of Islam obviously not when you look at the video content that they put out it's completely dysfunctional uh and the model of marriage that they are portraying is obviously going to end in divorce and a lot of pain and suffering and this should have been obvious to anyone that understands Islam or understands the way even if you're not Muslim you just understand human nature you understand the difference between men and women and the difference in creation how men and women are created differently if you understand that you'll understand the importance of gender roles you'll understand the import that men are the head of the household you'll understand the importance of The Obedience of the wife to her husband and that's part of her commitment to her husband to be an agreeable and obedient wife the importance of the husband to be a man to be a leader and not to be dominated not to be made into this kind of fool not to debase himself not to S and be a s like you people understand this more and more because alhamdulillah people have woken up from this degenerate liberal feminist fist programming and they've realized that this is just empty promises uh feminism is actually going to lead to D destruction but it should have been very clear from the beginning anyone who watches their videos that this is really a garbage trash marriage it was from apparently the beginning and it's not just because of Nazar like May I'm sure that didn't help but they had much deeper systematic problems at the core of their relationship and that's what we're going to look at you know so even put aside the scop component the countering violent extremism component the religious perennialism universalism component like all of that trash that was all context let's look at their actual relationship and see oh maybe you know maybe there was something good about their marriage and and we just missed it she made him into a chicken to cluck like a chicken and dance like a chicken you know already You Can Tell She's just making a fool out of him and this is like you know when you do this enough in the marriage and the husband is just this clown then that has an effect on her perception of you as a man you are debasing yourself you are being humiliated and even if they were just doing this for the purpose of their Tik Tok and Instagram for the views it's still going to have a psychological effect on their marriage itself not to mention the viewers who are thinking that this is kind of healthy Behavior like if you're a husband just make a fool of yourself you know just cluck and dance like a chicken you whatever she tells you to do you do it you know you're basically a doormat this is the model that is being presented it's good so what's interesting this clucking like a chicken corresponds very interestingly to what uh uh a certain very popular Muti has said about this subject for us it's done out of love I I really wouldn't mind I really wouldn't mind if my wife were to phone me now and tell me move to the left I'd move to the left even if there's no place out of love that's it so what if that makes her happy it makes her happy you know people might say this guy is a chicken I don't mind being called a chicken I'll even quack quack for you a little bit so long as she's happy masah yeah so just like KH and Sal did if she says quack like a chicken or duck then you know as long as it makes her happy just be a doormat just do whatever she says so who's the boss you know who's the boss and that's the kind of message that is being given religiously by simp imams basically these compassionate imams are religiously justifying this kind of inversion of the correct dynamic in marriage and I went through all of the proofs in episode seven that Yas and D episode so if you want to see all of the ayat and the Hadith that show that the man is the head of the household the man is in charge he's the leader he is he deserves respect and he deserves obedience he's the one who ultimately will call the shots if you want to see all of those evidences go back to episode 7 I'm not going to repeat them uh for this episode and you can see all the proof of that but you have religious Scholars who are inverting this by appeasing to a feminist mentality and these simp imams are being rewarded by all of these women followers the vast majority of the followers of these imams are actually women you know it might be something like 70 or 80% women that are following these simp imams because they're constantly appealing to the desires of women the desires of women and this feminist narrative that's how they become so popular uh and if you contradict that like me and others if you contradict that then you are seen as a misogynist you are seen as lacking adab you're a bully you don't have wisdom you don't have the hikma you know uh the hikma to constantly appeal to women so that is uh this is the simp Imam side and then you have the influencer side the Celeb couple side that are acting out this inversion of gender roles uh and this is not only something that contradicts Islam it contradicts the fitra it contradicts how men and women have been created and it will create resentment and lack of Attraction on the part of the women woman the wife to her husband to her uh dominated husband this kind of s cuck husband so this is a a recurring theme yeah if that's what makes your marriage Let It Be he's going to do some cleaning she's the supervisor see this is pretty much the majority of their Tik toks are under this theme of inversion of gender roles uh she's the boss she's the boss babe and he is the servant the obedient puppy who does exactly what she wants do you think that you're going to have a happy marriage as a man like this is what I want Muslim men to understand do you think that this is the path to a happy marriage just giving your wife whatever she wants I'm telling you now this is the way for your wife to become dissatisfied with you and to start hating you she'll start hating you resenting you why because there's a kind of psychology that women have that if you are going to look you it's important to be kind to your wife it's import important to provide it's important to be gentle with your wife those that's part of Islam the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam was very kind and gentle with his wives but this is not that this is something completely different this is where you are a puppy like you're a dog and she is like kicking you and telling you what to do that kind of attitude or behavior when she sees that she's going to think well this is natural by the way it might not even be conscious she's going to start feeling that why am I with this loser I can find someone better than him I can find someone who is going to be a real man's man who is not if he is this weak that I'm able to push him around then that means he's not really much of a man so I need I need to find a better man that again is not necessarily the conscious thought process it may very well be conscious but most likely it's going to be subconscious that's just how she's going to feel and when she feels that she's not going to be attracted to you she's not want to want to have anything to do with you over time she's going to start being dissatisfied with you and she's going to start thinking that well you're not you're not providing for me emotionally you're actually emotionally abusing me that's how she's going to think you're are emotionally abusing me because you don't satisfy me and I need to be satisfied and I need to be loved the way I deserve to be loved that's the irony you're here giving her everything you're here providing so much love and attention you're buying her chocolates you're buying her flowers you're taking her to travel to all of these expensive locations around the world and she thinks and she feels that you don't love me how is that possible it's possible because you're a s it's possible because you're too much of a s you're like a puppy and she is that is not what the female uh nature wants the female nature doesn't want a man to do be dominated that's that's the psychology and we can see the result from their actual marriage okay here here's more dominating or portraying the Muslim man as this simp as this weak useless uh you know just think about the media how the media portrays men the father and the husband is always portrayed as this loser this kind of Homer Simpson bumbling idiot who thinks he's so good and so strong but he's actually a loser and the wife or the mother she's always portrayed as this wise patient woman who tolerates this idiot Mar that she's married to this bumbling idiot that's the model that's always portrayed on television and movies and especially in these comedic type of scenarios now look at this when my husband thinks he's the strongest man on Earth he can't even open a pickle jar I mean I can't really relate because there hasn't been a pickle jar that I haven't been able to open alhamdulillah but uh you know even if you can't open a pickle jar there's no shame in that but to portray it like this like in this kind of way on Tik Tok for views and laughs what is the message that's being sent what is the image of mus Muslim masculinity uh and Muslim marriage that's being sent to millions of viewers when your husband gets the credit card bill oh [Music] baby he's the baby crying oh poor baby let let me Comfort you oh pickle again yeah look at this come to M mama will take care of you my [Music] baby crying like a baby so I mean this kind of attitude actually is unfortunately you see some Muslim men who have been raised by single mothers and they become uh you know they kind of keep this mentality that they're the little baby and they need Mommy because they haven't had a strong uh Father Figure in their lives they haven't had that strong masculine role model and so they don't know how to be a strong leader or a strong Muslim man and they fall into this pattern of oh I'm just a baby I need Mommy to take care of me when they get married their wife becomes their mommy their wife becomes the mother to you know protect them and com Fort them and this becomes a very bad habit so a lot of these Muslim simps that you see it's U part of the reason for some of them is that they've been raised by a single mother now I'm not saying that just because you're raised as a uh raised by a single mother that that means that you're going to be a s that's not what I'm saying at all uh I'm saying that there are because of feminism uh because of this attitude of the strong independent woman uh the strong independent woman as a single mother this kind of attitude becomes reinforced especially when that single mother because of the influence of feminism is constantly bashing men is constantly portraying men as being abusers as being men are selfish men don't care about anyone except themselves I'm never going to go to another man this kind of toxic feminist uh narrative sometime is being uh passed to the Next Generation by some of these single mothers again I'm not trying to shame all single mothers I'm not saying that if you're a single mother you do this but we do see uh this phenomenon we do this do see this kind of pattern when it comes to some men and their mothers so but that's encapsulated by this cringe uh Tik Tok so this Ramadan my wife said that she's going to be doing all the cooking and I have to wash all the dishes how about no how about you do both oh looks like he found a backbone he's ready to put her in her place you do both because I'm sick of taking orders from you I'm sick of taking orders from you this is where I draw the line no more boss babe I'm the man of the house and you acting like you're the boss of everything I have dishes did you I'm not going to ask you again do the dishes is there any fairy liquid any fairy liquid so this is the same kind of pattern that we saw with ym and dud like the threat of violence she's going to beat me if I don't wash the dishes she's standing menacingly in the back ready to beat me like a disobedient dog you know this is the kind of uh this is the joke you know this is what's supposed to be funny this is what we're supposed to laugh at this but but the less comedic implication is that you know this is how wives should be this is how you as a Muslim wife should be and your husband you know he he if he ever dreams of talking back to you you set them straight you know you be you have to be the boss you're the queen morning good morning I'm not talking to you today okay you want to know why no because I trust and respect your decisions see what I did there ladies and gentlemen I used my brain to avoid the pain all right so she threw a h sandal or a ship ship as you can call it at him and hit him now in Arab culture and in many cultures but in part particularly in Arab culture to be hit with a shoe is like the ultimate form of disrespect and there was that famous Iraqi uh where George W Bush was in Baghdad and he was giving this kind of press conference at the podium and there was this Iraqi journalist who took a shoe and threw it at George Bush unfortunately it didn't smack him in the face unfortunately but you know that gesture showed like this George Bush terrorist destroyed our country killed hundreds of thousands if not a million Iraqi Muslims led to the displacement of millions more and he's coming here and talking and here eat my shoe you know that's the least you deserve a shoe to the face and it it missed but still that's the idea like the shoe is the ultimate form of disrespect and she is you know using the shoe to uh smack her husband you know so this is really she's making into a t that's another maybe it's an Egyptian expression maybe it's wider Arabic uh this is my wife was mentioning this concept to me or has for mentioned it before that making your husband or your father into a tortur tortur means like tartur specifically is kind of like a party hat like do you know in birthday parties they have these kinds of hats not that you're celebrating birthday parties but it's shown like in you know popular culture it's like a little H paper hat hat and it has a little strap around your chin and it it's like what you put on little kids so if you put a tortur on an adult on a man then it's like you're mocking him like you're belittling him like he's a child he's like this insignificant little child or or puppy uh it's making your husband or your father into a tortur that's the behavior like you you're belittling him and that's what she's constantly doing she's making him into a tartour and I'm sure that he's you know maybe he's coming up with these skid ideas but not her bossing him into it she's probably not the one who's making this stuff up but making yourself into a tortur is even worse this is like such a dysfunctional disgusting image or model of marriage that they're portraying even if it's for comedic purposes like this is the kind of couple goals that you'll see in the comments couple goals couple goals a lot of Muslims love this stuff this is what they think is the ideal marriage when she said she didn't want food but now she does so look he's like screaming because he has to meet all of her demands instantly as soon as she wants them he's like he's running away from the monster and there there's the monster Godzilla Godzilla is there to destroy him asking my husband to make an impression of me hey can you make an impression of me yeah hey mhm there you go this is universal you have to have your husband dress as a woman and dressed in hijab like this is a this is waj for the influencer couples the Muslim influencer influencer couples they have to have their husband dress up in hijab it's required right and why is that it's to inverse the gender role it's to feminize him to make it explicit you know if it wasn't explicit enough if it wasn't obvious enough here it is you know there on your screen he is dressed as a woman he is the woman now he is the woman and she is the man yes my name is Sama and uh when I get mad I do this and when I type on my phone I do this so Salama said I'm not romantic enough so it's it's quite disgusting quite uh cringe no no say it again I want to document this I said that you should be more romantic like movies and stuff they guys some movies all right I got you I got you you want some no no I'm going to get to work so I've decided to spend the whole day being the most romantic man on this planet yeah her her wish is my command whatever she wants whatever she wants immediately even the most frivolous things that she wants I'm there to dedicate an entire day to being romantic as she as she needs watch and learn s I'm going to call the police why cuz it should be illegal to look that beautiful you see was two front of you hey Sama I'm going to change your name to Google why cuz you're everything I've been searching for a so so sweet so cute let me help you with that I must be exhausted why did they come exhausted because you've been running through my mind all day oh wow is this one yeah that's another one yeah you enjoying it oh wow you're doing really well well done lot of vomit emojis you got something in your eye where oh it's just a sparkle hey Sama here's a rose but I'm not going to give it to you I just wanted to show it how beautiful you are hey Sama can I borrow your Google Map why cuz I'm getting lost in your eyes give it back yeah so it's showing that he's being this s and she's just getting nauseated she hates this and yeah that I mean that's the point that's what's supposed to be funny like he's debasing himself and she doesn't really appreciate it and it's actually annoying her but you know this is not what they intended like the intended mess the that's their intended message but the message that we should really get is that when you act like a s in general then you're going to generate this kind of animosity and hatred from your wife she's going to be literally disgusted with you that's really even if you don't spend a full day giving these cheesy pickup lines these cheesy lines to your wife even if you don't do that something much less than that in terms of sing will still cause her to be disgruntled and angry and disgusted with you give what and then what happen give it back give what back come on I know you took it just give it to me is that sure my heart so she beats him yeah so am I saying don't be romantic with your wife no you should be romantic with your wife uh you should um sometimes treat your wife give gifts to your wife and again this is coming from the example of the Prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam who would give gifts to his wife he would make gestures to his wife he would hold and make his wife feel loved that is the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alaih wasallam but taking it to the extent where you are debasing yourself or your whole life is about her your whole life every wake waking minute is just about her oh where would I be without you and like that kind of s over exaggerated sentiment that is what is a problem that is that is the turnoff that is what's going to make her think that you are are a lesser man and she deserves better um and I remember when I first got my first pay was was the greatest feeling bro like that first email I'm just like thank youd and the rest is history so you know like I said you know Sama has been a source of pretty much everything good in my life including the career that I have today uh she is the source of everything good in my life including my career and Allah Kim bro Allah Kim can I remember like then after a few weeks man I was out with Sama and I tell the story because you know she's my angel man my guardian angel she's my guardian angel we were out just me and her shopping and I was she could see I was visibly anxious I was telling her you know I don't know what I'm going to do I'm trying to figure it out and stuff she looked at me in the classic C I'm look she's like enough of your you know BS I can picture it now yeah enough yeah see he's uh freaking out depressed doesn't know what to do and she's the man who has to say enough you know get yourself together hold yourself together so this is actually very revealing of the type of relationship that they had like she is the man of the house basically and he is this emotional sentimental woman um who can't control his emotions cries and you know but she saved him she's his savior isn't there like any bigger re role reversal or gender role reversal than that where was this show that you did that did well I'm like on Facebook then do it on Facebook you don't have yeah so that's his whole career is because of her suggestion basically like that's and like his cuz he wouldn't have been as famous if he didn't engage in this tab like putting his wife in front of the camera and her like being all made up with this kind of makeup uh and sometimes in inappropriate clothing as well dancing and showing herself on camera like yeah your whole career is true it is because of her like she's the eye candy that you put out there for other men to stare at your wife and other people to like enjoy like that's she is responsible so in the divorce I hope you give all of your all of your money to her because from what you're revealing she's the one who's responsible for it both you know literally and also effectually given that she's the eye candy she's the one that's bringing all the views if it weren't for her you're just a cringe Arab uh who is putting out this kind of nauseating content like what is so special about that our Dream w I love it I'm nervous what do you think I'm nervous too I love it okay dream wedding another grand romantic gesture our Dream wedding surprise you with it you look beautiful thank you you look gorgeous I don't know why the volume is low on this one but whatever you can read the text I don't prepare anything to say but I just want you to know I just want you to know I fall deeper in love with you every single day I fall deeper in love with you every single day I love the person that I've become because of you I love the person I've become because of you yeah this is that this the what is actually signal to your wife if you say this is that I have no independent existence outside of you I am completely dependent on you that is not what a woman wants to hear that's not what your wife wants to hear you know this is a tip for you married husbands out there you have to be the backbone you have to be the Rock and the whole gender role of the marriage is that you are independent and she is dependent on you she relies on you if she didn't have you she would be lost she would be in a very difficult spot if she didn't have you but you are the rock you are the man who's charging forward you're pursuing what needs to be done and uh you exude that in how you act how you behave uh in your life in your life so you can't be like this bum you can't be a deadbeat you can't be lazy you can't be just sitting on the couch on your phone all day and you're not taking responsibility for your responsibilities as a man you have to be the man you have to take responsibility and not be a deadbeat but you know that's your job her job is to depend on you her job is to support you but to feel that sense that she owes you not the other way around this is this is the problem uh one of the Super Chat says bring back and normalized arranged marriage marriages yeah arranged marriage marriages are good but their their marriage wasn't arranged marriage their their marriage marriage was an arranged marriage actually so that's not the problem you can have an arranged marriage and it still be like a s Fest I love watching you grow I love watching you grow you know she's she's growing so fast becoming this uh businesswoman this uh entrepreneur you know he's supporting her in that until she's more successful than him and then she dumps him you know that's becoming the best wife the best mother the best person in this world the best the you're the best person in this world like can you imagine saying that to your wife you're the best person in the world this is not like it's just too much it's just too much exaggeration you're going to turn her off completely I love every day that we spend together I love the adventures we go on together I love it when we just sit and watch that fcks together I love every moment that we've been together I love you so so much and I can't wait to spend the rest of my life with you like she's probably internally just cringing like in disgust like but she's putting on a smiley face like that's the other thing like all of this what makes it 10 times worse is that you're doing this on camera like you don't even have the decency to s in private like you want you want to document meant this for the whole world that's what really makes it pathetic is that it's he's saying this knowing that it's being recorded and that people Millions potentially millions are going to watch this thanks for your Super Chat health is wealth this is pajit Bollywood level cringe yeah this is this is Bollywood no wonder he's getting married to engaged to this uh Sunan or sunaya or whatever her name is Bollywood actress like he's he thinks his whole life is Bollywood so what would you say to so then what's ironic is that he he just said his whole life is thanks to her you know everything he saved her uh she saved him she's his Guardian Angel his whole life is dedicated is you know possible because of her Etc now look at what she says uh the interviewer is asking her to what would you say to your 18-year-old self okay let's see what she say your 18-year-old self right now what would I say to my 18 self right now you have no idea what's coming you have no idea all the places you're going to visit you have no idea that your life is going to be blessed with two beautiful children you have no idea that you're actually actually going to do something and you're going to be proud you have no you're going to be blessed with traveling and you're blessed that's the first thing that she said traveling and then oh yeah I also have two kids I'm blessed with them but did she mention Khaled is Khaled is your husband a blessing IA it was tough 18 but it gets tougher trust me but in a very very amazing productive way life is so tough you know when when he's talking about her it's like oh you're amazing you're my guardian angel you've done everything for me all good all the good in my life is because of you when she's talking she's like depressed she's like oh life gets tougher I'm blessed to have my kids and travel I guess you know she doesn't even he's not even like a footnote for him she's like the entire book she's the entire novel for her he is not even a footnote so this is really encapsulate so if you want to be a s and you want to you know treat your wife like a queen and a boss babe this is what she's going to think of you she's not even going to appreciate it she's not even going to think that oh you did so much for me I should at least show some appreciation no she's going to be like you abused me you abused me abuse as as that other uh lady from Tik Tok was saying abuse like that's that's the result of your sing so okay so that's they get divorced and this is the uh interviews that she's now doing and look at you know look at what she is saying and implying in these interviews I can't change people I can change people you can but I can change people I can't change people but I can change people does this make any sense change people but I can change people how remove them remove them cut that cancer out of your life cut that tumor out of your life you can't change people but you can change people out by dumping them to the curb replace them my replace them replace that baggage this is a post divorce this is what she saying energy I have to protect it that's why I'm isolated 24/7 people think I have social life people can't sit with themselves because they're scared thank you I have so much love to give oh you know look at this simp interviewer like oh you had so much happiness like you're radiating so much happiness and joy and love and she's like yeah I have so much love to give if you don't have love you can't give it but that's a lie she says why because I didn't have any love but I give so much love I have so much love to give then I never received it so much love to give I never received it she saying she's never received any love we just saw the videos that wasn't love was that just all a show like it sounded pretty sincere it sounded pretty sincere when that poor puppy was saying that you're his Guardian Angel and your whole life your whole his whole life is dedicated to you and it was not possible because without you that wasn't love it's like the what the prophet saam said about y for like the ungrateful wife when he said that most of the Denis of the Hellfire are women why because of like you are ungrateful women are ungrateful and they'll see one bad thing and they'll say I've never seen a good day from you I've never seen a good day this is from of the Prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam we've covered it on previous episode uh but this is a good encapsulation like I never received any love I never received any love so this is the this is the result of sing so that's the end of of the clips there's another interview that she did as well and I wanted to show it but we don't really have time where she reveals that she has been seeing a psychologist for about a decade like cons con continuously seeing a psychologist be why why because she suffers from clinical depression she suffers from clinical depression and is suffering from all kinds of mental illness so I'm sure she's actually taking some of these uh anti-anxiety or anti-depressants she's probably been taking it for years and so imagine that so that's a very revealing interview and maybe we'll have a separate episode to look at this kind of and she goes on and on about how she's never seen any happiness in her life her life is basically this Chasm of depression and sadness and no one has ever loved me you know this is the kind of thing that she says and you know the interviewer who is talking to her another s not this guy but another guy is like oh wow yeah you need to self-love you need more self-love like this is what a lot lot of the modern psychology is doing to women it's turning them into these you know these hyper narcissists hyper entitled like she was living in the top 1% the top 00 1% of women everything provided for every you know I'm sure Maids servants waiting on her hand and foot she's taking you know these trips vacationing the whole nine yards and she's clinically depressed you know this is what clear evidence is there that dun is not going to bring happiness dun is not going to bring you happiness when you go and turn your back against Allah you turn your back against what Allah says that is the message that all of you who watched Sal or Sal or Salamon uh you thought that you're watching something happy and beautiful couple goals these are my couple goals that's the reality is clinical depression clinical depression years of seeing a psychologist like how do you even see a a psychologist for 10 years like that's like I would think that hey you haven't cured me in 10 years I'm I'm going to quit you know this is a waste of money but no 10 years of going Salamon is going to this therapist and she's still clinically depressed and no one has loved her she hasn't seen a good day in her whole life so she's going on this like soab Story Tour like doing all these podcasts and you get the impression like that she is a victim she's been abused like khed has been taking advantage of her and he has been mistreating her that's the impression that is is given what is the reality allam I don't know maybe he is a jerk maybe he was you know as soon as the the smartphone is clicked off the camera is clicked off he's like beating her and he's is you know making her sleep in the garage and you know maybe that's maybe that's the reality and we just didn't know it but I think what's more likely is that he was just a s uh a very cringe s and she got disgusted with that and wanted a divorce demanded a divorce and nothing he could do could satisfy her and he didn't probably didn't know why like why am I not meeting her expectations I thought I'm giving her everything that I possibly can in terms of wealth and luxury and and happiness terms of the dun and and it's still not enough we see this we see like the richest men with the highest social status the you know the movie stars literally people like Brad Pit Tom Cruz or uh who is that football player the Quarterback Tom Brady their wives leave them because of what because they're just not satisfied so if you are Tom Brady and you're like the greatest athlete in football you're the greatest actor you're like literally a billionaire like Bill Gates or Jeff Bezos you're still not able to satisfy these women that's how high the expectations and the entitlement is so this is khed and Sal so what is Khaled doing now uh let me sh share some of these Tik toks hold on a second because it's actually shocking let me see if I can share this let me see hold on give me one second so you go to his Tik talk now and this is what you're seeing that's for later let me share this screen okay hold on a second there we go bring this down so you can see this okay so this is a skit that he's doing let's watch this uh actually let me make sure the sound is there too Supermarket I'm excited to work here sir can you hear this what do you know about us I know that Adel is the home of all Indian food stuff it says you can speak Hindi very fluently AA you know a lot of people lie about this on their CV yeah you can start right away thank you [Music] sirali okay anyway that one let me I haven't blurred it so so I'm not going to show this one but hold on a second everyone could hear that right he's like doing all these Tik toks in India I don't know why hold on everyone could hear okay you can hear okay so then look at this one [Music] doctor stomach infection sorry doctor what was that you have stomach infection I haven't told you what's wrong with me what's wrong with you I hurt my leg yesterday stomach infection my stomach is fine it's my leg that's the problem lie down on the bed what I think happened to my knee is Doctor why you touching my stomach how is your sto my what o Kaka how is it my poo is fine but what's that got to do with anything we'll have to do anoscopy what is that checking the rect are what doctor I swear there's nothing wrong with my stomach it's my leg oh your leg yes come take it to the [Music] pharmacy yeah okay so you can like do one of these 10 10hour challenges like can khid make me laugh you know the the can khid make me laugh challenge and just watch for 10 hours of this nonsense and you won't crack a smile like it's so cringe and disgusting um and I don't know why it's all in India so I guess this is where he maybe this is his father-in-law I don't know his future father-in-law look at look at this one like this is a advertisement good evening everyone welcome to PF CH what can I get for you do you have swedena chicken we do sir of course they have swedena chicken honey it's a Chinese restaurant uh ma'am we're actually Pan Asian what's a panasian restaurant oh we sell a variety of foods from across Asia but you do have sweet and sour chicken right yeah do you have chicken nuggets no sir but we have stupid sound effects are they the same as chicken nuggets they're better but are they the same he'll have the chicken sticks excellent choice man I was in the mood for Japanese today yes sir we have Japanese we're Pan Asia I was in Japan once oh that's nice I even had sushi great I went to Tokyo in 1962 to a small restaurant no no no it was actually 1963 was it Japan enough Nani this has got to be a Mongolian restaurant there's Mongolian spicy beef here are you sure it's not this is it like there's no punchline there's no like the skit is just an Indian family at this Chinese restaurant and they don't understand the concept of a of a Pan Asian restaurant that's that's it that's all it is this is what let's see 1.1 million views 1.1 the other one that we saw with the stomach doctor wanting to check his rectum was 2 million views the first one we saw was almost 3 million views just on Tik Tok I don't even know maybe Instagram has another million or two million views and this one was really cringe excuse me can I ask you to come outside please who's there I'm inside in my private space sir the smoke alarm is currently going off may I ask you to come outside now sir what happened the smoke alarm went off what do you think that I was smoking inside I never said anything sir if you just give me the chance to check then we can deal with this thank you so much [Music] sir it's not mine sir there's a cigarette in there you were in there when the smoke alarm went off you are putting allegations on me that I was smoking inside telling you facts I'm not putting allegations I care about the safety like why is he wearing a wig like is that supposed to add to the comedic effect of the passengers and the fellow crew and yourself sir so do you know who I am sir it's not about that it's about what about my reputation that you are spoiling each and everyone is looking at me what is this please go back to your seat sir okay thank you sir ladies and gentlemen I apologize for the minor disturbance a passenger has been caught in the laboratory like that's his life now is being bered by pajits that's his whole life um that's what's become of khed just that's what so far that's what all of these these uh Tik toks are about right he's just being braided by Indians and it's supposed to be funny I guess it is funny like in a sad pathetic way smoking AIG it's okay why you are putting fake allegations on me do you know who I am here's the evidence the passenger is over there so you here to come with us for what because of the disturbance you cause it's against the AirLand I was not smoking he was smoking there in the lab you smoking no sir please please remain calm it'll be okay if you just you know who I am you fool you have to face lot of consequences because of this you know excuse me can I yeah like what the heck is that what the heck was that it's just shocking that this uh a video like this has over a million views so that's what's become of poor khid I mean I'm not that sad for him but he's going to be spending a lot more time in India apparently like all of his CL all of these Tik Tok skits are in India with Indians so I don't know if like maybe the government in his country is telling him like we need to increase relations with India you know go to India and do all of these skits and we're trying to improve relations between India and the Middle East maybe he's on contract like that or maybe it's just like he's trying to appeal to that audience trying to grow his audience by you know getting more Indian viewers I don't know what's the logic of this but it's shocking tell me what you think in the Super Chat I'm going to read some super chats now inshallah before we get to the second part of our episode which is looking at Ben Shapiro and analyzing the debate that he has had with atheists and this issue of slavery how do we address the issue of slavery so quite a different topic but it's related the overall topic is religious reform different ways to do religious reform one is through TI talk videos where you have Indians yelling at you and berading you or your wife treating you like a dog or you know debates with human rights activists so go ahead and put in your super chats right now Samir get more mod mods hopefully there should be some mods in the chat let's see Mir and Selma were no more than cringey couples they provided nothing but unexpected expectations and flashy lifestyle their home Wreckers I agree arsalon says thoughts on Kashmir dispute yeah my thought is that India is occupying Muslim Kashmir and they need to get out that's my thought on that [Music] um disqualified dad says love the studio give us a shout bro dad's rights in the UK I don't know what the organization is but shout out to men's rights let's see any anything else related J Abdullah coward khed Amiri is a coward brother andraws thank you so much for your Super Chat really appreciate all your support brother I don't understand this can you Google operation magic operation Magic Carpet Yemen they made Arab King sell the Jews don't worry though Yemen got blessed blessed with great Imam don't know what that means I for your super chat I keep calling out the simp imams it's time appreciate it Daniel have you heard of ESG and how zionists have a Chokehold grip over all North American Business businesses since Co this has never covered at all it's even crazier than APAC I'm not sure what that is referring to uh ESG is it's like the um equality Equity uh requirements that businesses have to meet I believe the ESG requirements um and they have choke hold yes I agree um so this is the whole woke phenomenon affecting businesses so that's something that maybe we'll cover in a future episode but but yeah I I'm familiar with it is it more powerful than APAC or is it overlapping with APAC I'm not sure uh bring back arranged marriages as I said like H and uh seon's marriage is arranged Drew Max says if men stop sing the women would fall in line yes I agree the sing is a big part of it like Fe if men um just stopped endorsing feminism and stopped agreeing with feminism then things would return uh in a lot of ways but I mean you have government support of this agenda as well so that's part of it Beyond just the sing okay say it says the media s up on Muslim men and women can't be stopped without kicking out secular government good point uh she thinks she is khi Kim Kardashian yes uh Abdul Malik jaak for your Super Chat uh macho man asks is sexual coercion of wives and slaves allowed um sexual coercion if you mean that women have a duty uh to provide sexual access to their husbands then yes they do have that responsibility and obviously slavery is coercive so what a question is that this is what happens when you have money without working and you don't know what to do with it people wreck their marriages watching them yes uh where the to find obedient and humble Muslim wife I don't know if you figure it out let us all know this is the big question of the day unfortunately this is the cancer of feminism is it's has infected so many so many Muslim women are looking up to Sal and their understanding of how to be wives is affected by that uh there still might be some Muslim men with one 1,000th of his wealth and would still believe they can keep their wife happy withed simp attitude MIM m is divorced too I think yeah it doesn't matter how much wealth you have uh if you're going to be um this kind of puppy you're going to face the same problems show proof of his wife being Hindu don't assume well fact check he's not married they're just engaged so uh and is she Hindu I don't know she's uh from a Hindu background she's from you know h a Hindu part of the world she has this Hindu family so is she secretly Muslim in her heart maybe yeah I don't know I gave that caveat at the beginning of the episode like maybe she's converting but if she doesn't convert and she hasn't become Muslim then a Muslim man can't marry a Hindu you can't in Islam marry Pagan women that's a fact uh Halal Zoomer says I've been clipping your content on my Twitter keep of the great work I appreciate that Hal Zoomer I'll try to retweet you and follow back inshallah but that's a good point that uh for anyone watching you're free to clip all this content anything on my channels you can use you can translate it you can clip it you can publish it and you can monetize it you can monetize my content okay try to make money just clip it post on your channels you can make money people have been able to translate my book even they've translated the book and they've published it and they make money off of off of transla material you're free to do that you're free to make money off of any of the content that we publish on Muslim skeptic the only thing is don't change the content don't change it but you can clip it you can spread it you can translate it you can make money off of it you're 100% welcome to do so and let other people know because if you want to help daa like you want to help the daa this is the best way um or one of the best ways that you can help and support those of us online that are doing daa is by making clips and spreading those clips creating shorts and if you want to incentive yourself to do that you can even monetize it bro is marrying a Hindu considered as Zena in Islam yeah so since the marriage is invalid then it would be considered Zena between a Muslim and a pagan parz appreciate the Super Chat zad appreciate it Samir makes a good point romance becomes sing when itself deprecating very good point what's the ruling on investing in stocks um as long as the business is halal and most of the business is halal and there's a certain percentage that the um that muftis will give that the business because most of the businesses that we see in the world today they engage in they might take out loans for example Haram loans but if the purpose of the business is halal and majority of it the vast majority of the business is halal then um my understanding from what I've seen mu give fatwa on is that it's permissible to invest in that business if it's a impermissible business like they're selling alcohol or it's like a pork wrench then no you cannot buy stock in that um that would be impermissible as an example brother how do we guide our sisters well one of the things that's relevant to the U episode today is make sure that they're not following these cringe couples these Muslim influencers that are spreading the wrong message that's one thing that you can help guide the sisters in your family so you have your literal sister your daughters your wife uh your mother your aunts any of these relatives that you can influence tell them not to be following this stuff many women avoid accountability is this because of feminism or is it an inherent weakness I think it's just not in a woman's nature to be to have that kind of ultimate accountability that men are supposed to have so yes women have accountability but is it the same level as men no so there is something inherent to their nature but feminism makes it a thousand times worse because in feminism says that if you face any difficulty if you face any problems ultimately it's because of a man and even if you know some of these women that engage in mass murder like you have serial killers who are women and they make documentaries about these women and most of the documentaries or most of the uh research that's done on these women is how were they abused that's the first thing that comes up like oh this woman she killed five men she slaughtered five men and like ripped their intestines out with a knife who abused her you know I bet she was abused by her father I bet she was abused by her husband you know that's the way that women are coddled and even a lot of people who are commenting on this divorce of khed and Salon they're saying that oh khed must have abused her khed was must have been some kind of abusive man like they just assume that there's just no accountability Arabic El plate thank you for your Super Chat mbul says I highly appreciate your work keep it up just will I collab with sneo yes inshah uh I already had a discussion with him and then inshah in the future I'll have more uh let's see okay before coming across your content I used to identify as a liberal Muslim and thanks to you my eyes have opened up may Allah bless you immensely alhamdulillah that's great news I'm very happy to hear that for your super chat okay none of the other chats are immediately relevant if she converts for the sake of marriage not for all law isn't she a mush and marrying mushrik is also not allowed so is he doing Zena in both cases well if she says she converts we can't really judge that we can't you know break open her heart and see what she actually believes so that's irrelevant but okay so those are the super chats now I want to go into Ben Shapiro the second part of our show and we're already near two hours so this is going to be a long episode but I think you will enjoy it um let's see actually maybe we need to save Ben Shapiro for another episode because that is going to take maybe an hour and a half as well and I don't want to rush that because there's a lot of good stuff so hate to do this but I think we need to save that save the Ben Shapiro stuff uh for the next episode of hyad show later this week so we're still going to have it um but I want to do a deep dive in this kind of Christian SL Jewish apologetic and how they deal with the question of slavery and blasphemy punishment stoning in the Bible because the Bible Bible has this stuff how do these apologists deal with it and we want to be able to take a deep dive and see how this is how atheists and these human right human rights activists push reform of religions by focusing on slavery on the slavery issue so I'm going to save it I prepared the entire um that segment of the show but I don't want to rush through it and we're already getting close to two hours so let's just save it inshallah okay but I'll stay on for a little bit longer to address your super chat so if you have any other super chats or just chats in general I'll look at the chat uh on khed and Sal uh sorry Joad I led you on my bad but I it it's just uh I think it'll be good for its own episode let me just put it like that sorry guys a lot of people are saying no we want we want Ben shampoo sorry Ben deserves a full episode yeah I agree Ben and it's not just Ben Shapiro it's also uh what's uh Desh denesh duza the this convert to Christianity Evangelical Christian apologist deserve they deserve their own episode thank you aan for the Super Chat save it for next time it's too late here as well where are you where are you located what do you think of Kevin Samuels A lot of entertaining content from Kevin Samuels but uh we had an article on Muslim skeptic if you go to Muslim skeptic.com and search Kevin Samuels brother Hood wrote an article uh giving a Muslim overview of Kevin Samuels so check that out I see you mocking khed and Salamon but not Y and D why is that uh I mock them too to a certain extent but like I said I don't put them on the same level I I think that khed and Salamon are a s up I really think that they push a lot of very problematic things because it extends beyond their marriage they're also promoting like Hinduism and holy and Diwali and these other religions Christmas they're going to Buddhist temples and like they're and and you have this countering violent extremism narrative so there's more going on that is not found with Yas and D but in terms of you know may Allah guide them yes that's what we want for everyone start a new episode right after this one right now I don't have that kind of stamina brother you should make dawa to Candice Owens yeah may Allah guide her and she's uh under a lot of heat right now I think she did an episode dedicated to Hitler so she's gonna she's gonna need a lot of help uh react to Yadi and she Ham's gender roles video inshallah that's we're doing the leg work for that as we speak your Super Chat [Music] Adam feminism among Muslims stems from AKA problems which sprung during colonization era rejecting clear texts matters like hijab developed due to feminism yeah it's ultimately is an a problem I agree with you brother did you you hear about brother Jake's diagnosis please keep him in your Daws yes we're making Daw four brother Jake if you haven't seen his video check out his channel um he has this diagnosis medical diagnosis so we're making Dua for him that Allah gives him shifa full and quick shifa so please make Dua for him Daniel can you refute Destiny recently he has been on a war path on behalf of the zionists and against Islam in general yeah inshah I want to analyze some of the debates that he's been in that's a episode that we're also planning a lot of Muslims admire Putin expose his hypocrisy yeah maybe we'll have an episode on that I met a girl who wants to quit her job to start a family she said she's financially independent but doesn't want a husband to force his ideas on her what do you think how is she going to start a family she has to have a husband and she'll be dependent on the husband if she quits her job so is she like just really wealthy she's really rich is that why she won't need him yeah but this is you should just explain that that dependence is necessary like dependence on a man is a big part of female attraction so even if she doesn't want to be dependent she's just shooting herself in the foot like her satisfaction as a in a marriage is going to be hindered by being independent she needs to be dependent on him and like force his ideas on her like are you planning on marrying a husband that you'll be you know at odds with like you won't align in terms of your beliefs I don't I don't get like how someone can have that kind of mentality but you want your husband to be a leader your hus do you want your husband to be led by you like you want to be this kind of puppy for your husb for um or your husband as a puppy for you like that's not going to be happy for you in any sense you want your husband to be a leader and part of being a leader is a leader in terms of ideas and beliefs as well you want your husband to be your Mentor you want your husband to be your Imam um if you put it in the this the worst kind of way like oh he's forcing his ideas on me then this is immature like don't think about it like that in this kind of liberal way come to India Daniel I look after you I don't know if this is a genuine offer is it's a threat I'll look after you come to India come straight we'll meet you at the airport Arab women don't realize feminism is becoming part of them via movies and dramas they're feminists without knowing the Islamic position on this Yep this entertainment it's social media that's like the biggest influence on U Muslims Unfortunately today and the powers know it the powers that being know it and that's why they're injecting uh this this kind of content and funding it with millions of dollars you know even the these relative ly small operations like a social media page like Tik Tok page being funded by millions of dollars uh any debate coming inshallah yeah there's a debate that is I'm finally able was able to contact UM this channel that is going to hopefully moderate a debate between me and that Sam shimun guy so it's going to be a shimun versus Daniel debate inshallah in September probably so we'll see we'll see if shimun will not chicken out or back out at the last minute but I'm not holding my breath France fenon wrote that when the French tried to corrupt Algerian women with feminism they reacted by covering even more with hijab and n but that's no longer the case sadly yeah okay so let's slowly come to a close episode 4 coming out hopefully within two months working on a lot don't know what that means okay so sorry if I didn't get to your chat there's a lot of chat stuff being put out people are giving me threats as well in the chat so let's uh let's call it a day hopefully you enjoyed this episode and you took away something from it you learned something Shah you understood why we have to like cover these influencers is because they influence they influence a lot of Muslims and they need to be responded to someone has to do it someone has to do the dirty work I'm here doing the Dirty Work you think I want to watch this trash you think I want to go through all this trash and uh you know create these reactions like this is not fun it's not fun but I do it so that you don't have to do it I'm going through this stuff so that you don't have to be subjected to going through this trash I'm like the garbage man like I'm the garbage man and inshallah you benefit and may Allah accept but I en enjoyed it enjoyed the episode hope you enjoyed it as well and inshallah we'll catch you on the next one which is looks like it's going to be Ben Shapiro and denesh tuuza on slavery their debate with Alex o'conor we're going to react to that and go into the history of religious reform and not as juicy as the celebrity couple divorce but some of you I think will appreciate it inshallah try it out you know if you just came here for KH Salama and uh you just want to get the juicy gossip stay watch our other episodes you know watch other episodes come back for the next one and I'll try to entertain you and try to educate you at the same time with with that so with that I will catch you on the next one inshallah he he he he he he [Music]