Lecture Notes

Growing Up in Detroit

• Detroit in the 70s: vibrant, bustling, competitive with major cities like Chicago, NYC, LA.
• Cultural hub: Motown records, notable individuals such as Smokey Robinson, Stevie Wonder, Michael Jackson.
• Economic prosperity: booming car industry (Ford, GM, Chrysler), middle-class lifestyle for African-Americans.
• Political: African-American mayor, Coleman Young.
• Social life: busy streets, dancing, fun, community engagement.

Personal Aspirations and Struggles

• Passion for American football from a young age.
  • Played neighborhood football, dreamt of NFL.
  • School was secondary to football passion.
• Early relationship with mother: strong emotional bond, best friends.

Life-Changing Discovery

• At age 12, discovered his real dad was not who he thought.
  • Initially afraid to question, then confronted his mother.
  • News led to behavioral changes: rebellious, disengaged from school, strained relationship with parents.
  • Began associating with a rougher crowd, negative outlook.

Downfall and Homelessness

• Left home after confrontation with parents.
• Experienced homelessness: lived in abandoned buildings, ate from trash cans, shoplifted to survive.
• Wake-up call: realization of personal responsibility.
  • Decided to change and not let current situation define him.
• Turn to faith: prayed for help and started taking responsibility for his actions.

Turning Point: College and Ministry

• Freshman year: joined a college ministry group.
  • Started as a participant for positive involvement.
  • Unexpectedly discovered talent for public speaking.
  • Initial speech success: positive feedback, newfound passion.
• Transitioned focus from football to public speaking.

Public Speaking and Message

• Shifted life goals to become a motivational speaker.
• Key principles: dedication to success, overcoming adversity, dealing with failures and fears.
• Notable quote: "When you want to succeed as bad as you want to breathe, then you'll be successful."
• Unique style: heartfelt, transparent, shares personal journey and struggles.

Conclusion

• Emphasis on speaking from personal experience and transparency.
• Encouragement for others to pursue success with determination and openness.